3ABN Homecoming

Love Languages

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00:01 Three Angels Broadcasting Network
00:02 is pleased to bring you something better,
00:05 a faith inspiring picture of a loving God
00:08 from the Book of Hebrews.
00:11 Welcome to 3ABN's
00:13 Virtual Homecoming Camp Meeting.
00:16 Hello, friends, welcome back
00:18 to 3ABN Fall Camp Meeting, 2021.
00:21 As you have found out, we are here, you are there,
00:25 we are having a virtual event,
00:27 but we've discovered that the Lord can work
00:29 through any kind of connection.
00:31 Because as Greg Morikone,
00:33 our president talked about in the first hour,
00:34 nothing can separate us from the love of God
00:38 which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
00:40 That's why you need to stay tuned for the second hour
00:43 because Pastor James Rafferty
00:44 is our main speaker for this Fall Camp Meeting,
00:46 and he's going to be talking about relationships,
00:48 something better.
00:50 And his message for this hour is about love languages.
00:54 What is your love language?
00:55 Well, you'll find out
00:57 how significant it is to have a love language.
00:59 But we thank you for tuning in.
01:00 Also, it's not too late to invite
01:02 your friends to tune in, give them a call either through
01:04 internet or radio or television.
01:07 We have a lot more coming up for our Fall
01:09 Camp Meeting, 2021.
01:11 But before we invite Pastor James Rafferty,
01:13 who's going to come and speak and he's also going to begin
01:16 and pray before he speaks,
01:18 I want to invite Ryan Day and Tim Parton,
01:22 and we're going to begin this hour with a song
01:24 entitled Daystar.
01:26 You know what's so significant about that song is,
01:29 everything we do, if you notice there's a theme we sing
01:32 Shine on Us, now we're going to sing about Daystar.
01:35 When we allow the Daystar to shine through our lives,
01:38 only then can the love languages become a blessing.
01:42 Listen to the song.
02:01 Lily of the valley
02:06 Let your sweet aroma fill
02:09 My life
02:18 Rose of Sharon show me
02:22 How to grow in beauty in God's sight
02:34 Fairest of ten thousand
02:39 Make me a reflection
02:41 Of your light
02:46 Of your light
02:50 Daystar shine down on me
02:54 Let your love shine
02:56 Through me in the night
03:06 Lead me Lord I'll follow
03:11 Anywhere you open up
03:14 The door
03:23 Let your word speak to me
03:27 Show me what I've
03:29 Never seen before
03:39 'Cause Lord I want to be your witness
03:44 You can take what's wrong and make it right
03:56 Daystar shine down on me
04:00 Let your love shine
04:02 Through me in the night
04:13 Lord I want to see you witness
04:18 Wounded by the master
04:20 Of deceit
04:29 Groping in the darkness
04:34 Haunted by the years of past
04:38 Defeat
04:44 Oh, but when I see you standing near me
04:49 Lord Shining with
04:52 Compassion in your eyes
05:02 Jesus shine down on me
05:06 Oh, let your love shine
05:09 Through me in the night
05:19 Lead me Lord I'll follow
05:23 Anywhere you open up
05:26 The door
05:35 Let your word speak to me Show me
05:40 What I've never seen before
05:50 Oh, Lord I want to be your witness
05:56 You can take what's wrong
05:59 And make it right
06:08 Daystar shine down on me
06:12 Let your love shine through me
06:16 In the night
06:24 Daystar shine down on me
06:29 Let your love shine through me
06:33 In the night
06:43 Amen. Amen.
06:46 Amen. Amen.
06:48 That was beautiful, powerful.
06:50 I love that.
06:52 Well, good evening and welcome to Three Angels Broadcasting
06:58 Fall Camp Meeting.
07:00 What a blessing it is to be in the Word
07:04 of God in the spring and in the fall.
07:06 And we here at 3ABN are so thankful that you've joined us.
07:12 We were thinking about a theme for camp meeting,
07:16 and, you know, the last two years have been very difficult,
07:18 very difficult years,
07:20 you know, for our country, for our world.
07:23 And, you know, 3ABN here,
07:25 we all felt really impressed that something better
07:29 would be a great theme.
07:31 And that theme is found in the Book of Hebrews.
07:35 So that's going to be the focus
07:37 of our camp meeting because of all that we've been
07:40 going through in the last year or so.
07:43 You know, for the next few days,
07:44 we're just going to really hone in on something better,
07:47 something different than all of the...
07:52 I guess trials and difficulties
07:55 that we've been facing in our world today.
07:57 We need a fresh boost of hope, and faith and love.
08:03 And that's what we're going to find here
08:05 in the Book of Hebrews.
08:06 You know, we believe that God is leading His people to study
08:08 the Book of Hebrews in this present
08:10 time in history.
08:12 In fact, this book is going to be the focus
08:14 of our Sabbath School quarter, for the first quarter,
08:18 the first three months of 2022.
08:20 So it's kind of providential there, and just a little plug
08:23 here for Salvation in Symbols and Signs.
08:25 We also had decided a few months ago to let
08:29 this book be our next study on the Salvation in Symbols
08:32 and Signs series.
08:34 So we're really excited because this book
08:37 has for us something better.
08:38 The theme is all through the book,
08:40 and we're going to see that as we jump in
08:42 and study it this evening.
08:44 But before we do that, let's pray
08:45 and ask for a special anointing of the Holy Spirit.
08:49 Father in heaven, I just want to thank You again,
08:51 that You are the one
08:53 who has every human being in Your hands,
08:56 that You know the end from the beginning
08:57 and You long to deliver us from the struggles,
09:00 from the trials,
09:02 from the difficulties that we face.
09:03 Father, this world is turned upside down just in the last
09:07 couple of years, we see a completely different
09:09 picture than what we've experienced before this,
09:12 prior to this, and we need Your Holy Spirit,
09:16 we need the special blessing of the Holy Spirit,
09:20 not just to anoint us tonight and to speak to us tonight,
09:22 but to move through the hearts and the minds
09:26 of people in this nation and all over the world.
09:30 We're giving You that time right now,
09:32 that opportunity to speak to us through Your Word.
09:34 And we're especially focusing,
09:37 as our camp meeting theme on the Book of Hebrews
09:39 and the theme of something better,
09:42 something nobler, something stronger
09:45 than what this world has to offer.
09:46 So we're just giving you this time right now,
09:47 we ask that you would fill us, guide us that You would speak
09:51 through me tonight, that I would be laid aside
09:53 and Your Spirit would talk and communicate
09:56 of Your great love to us on this theme,
09:59 something better on this subject tonight
10:01 of Love Languages, do this we pray in Jesus' name.
10:05 Amen.
10:07 Well, the languages of love
10:09 is so powerful in relationship to how we communicate.
10:14 Now, I believe that this is a theme
10:17 through the Book of Hebrews that is based on the idea
10:21 of something better.
10:22 When we look at something better in the Book of Hebrews,
10:24 which by the way, the word means something that is nobler,
10:27 something that is stronger.
10:29 We find that the Book of Hebrews uses this word
10:31 better 13 times.
10:33 Now there are 13 chapters in the Book of Hebrews.
10:35 So I think that's really interesting that 13
10:37 times that word is used in the 13 chapters.
10:40 It's not used in every chapter, but it is used throughout
10:44 the Book of Hebrews.
10:45 Something better, better, better, better,
10:47 better, better, better.
10:48 In fact, in Hebrews 1:4,
10:50 we're told that our God is a better God.
10:53 In Hebrews 6:9,
10:55 we have better salvation.
10:58 In Hebrews 7:7, we have a better priesthood.
11:00 Verse 19 of Chapter 7, a better hope.
11:03 And verse 22 of Chapter 7, a better covenant.
11:07 In Hebrews 8:6, we have again,
11:08 the emphasis on a better covenant,
11:10 which is really significant,
11:12 and that they are based on better promises,
11:14 or that covenant is based on better promises.
11:16 And then in Hebrews 9:23, we have a better sacrifice.
11:20 In Hebrews 11, excuse me, 10:34,
11:23 we have a better substance.
11:25 In Hebrews 11:16, we have a better country.
11:28 In verse 35, we have a better resurrection.
11:30 And in verse 40, we have a better experience.
11:33 And then in Hebrews 12:24, we have better things,
11:38 just better things.
11:39 The Book of Hebrews is just about better things.
11:41 It's about something better.
11:43 A better God, better salvation, a better priesthood,
11:46 a better hope, better covenant, better promises,
11:48 better sacrifice, substance, country, resurrection,
11:51 experience, just better things.
11:54 Hallelujah and amen.
11:56 God wants to get us on to a completely
11:59 different way of navigating through this world.
12:03 He wants to get us focused on something better.
12:06 So let's apply this principle that we find in Hebrews,
12:10 this better theme of salvation and resurrection,
12:13 hope and experience in covenant.
12:15 Let's apply this to each one of the chapters.
12:18 I just like us to break down the chapters,
12:22 chapter by chapter,
12:23 and go through the 13 to connect this theme
12:26 with the focus of the chapter.
12:28 Chapter 1 of Hebrews is a focus on God.
12:32 God who takes the nature of humanity
12:35 upon Himself in order to legally
12:38 and righteously take personal responsibility for the sins
12:41 of humanity.
12:42 A God who does not sacrifice a third party,
12:47 but gives Himself for us.
12:49 Hebrews Chapter 1 describes a better God.
12:51 Hebrews Chapter 2 describes this God
12:55 manifest in the flesh in the person of Jesus Christ.
12:58 So we have Hebrews Chapter 1, describing a better God,
13:01 Hebrews Chapter 2, describing a better man, Jesus.
13:04 Hebrews Chapter 2, excuse me, Hebrews Chapter 3,
13:09 we find God here has built us a better home,
13:12 a better family, a better community.
13:14 The emphasis here is that it is community,
13:17 a house, a home that is free from condemnation and guilt.
13:20 So Hebrews Chapter 3 focuses on a better house,
13:23 a better God, a better man, a better house.
13:25 Hebrews 4, Hebrews 4, you know,
13:28 we are led to this home that's free of guilt.
13:32 And in being led there, we find ourselves
13:34 coming into or stepping into a better rest.
13:36 So Hebrews Chapter 3, excuse me, Chapter 4,
13:39 describes a better rest.
13:40 A salvation rest in Jesus Christ, if you will.
13:43 Hebrews Chapter 5,
13:46 we find here Hebrews Chapter 5
13:49 provides us with a better obedience.
13:51 Jesus Christ comes as a human
13:52 and He obeys God as no other human ever has.
13:56 So Christ becomes the author of our salvation,
14:00 a better obedience.
14:02 Hebrews Chapter 6, we find better promises,
14:04 promises that are made by God and fulfilled by God in us,
14:09 in spite of us.
14:10 Hebrews Chapter 7,
14:12 our attention there is directed to a better priest,
14:13 and that is the priesthood of Jesus Christ
14:16 who works incessantly on our behalf,
14:18 who is filled with the ability to completely save us from sin.
14:21 Hebrews Chapter 8, well, we naturally flow into,
14:25 from better promises to a better covenant.
14:27 Hebrews Chapter 8 is all about this better covenant
14:29 based on God's power
14:31 rather than man's faulty promises.
14:32 Hebrews Chapter 9 directs us to a better sanctuary,
14:36 a heavenly sanctuary,
14:37 where Christ stands in the presence of God for us.
14:40 Hebrews Chapter 10, better sacrifice,
14:42 not the sacrifices of animals,
14:44 not the sacrifices of bulls and goats, but the sacrifice
14:47 of God Himself in the person of Jesus Christ.
14:50 And that gives away in Hebrews Chapter 11, to a better faith.
14:53 That's what we call the faith chapter,
14:55 or the hall of faith chapter.
14:57 Hebrews Chapter 11 focuses on a people
15:00 whose failures and imperfections have been
15:03 completely blotted out by their faith in Jesus Christ.
15:06 And it reveals in there a better experience.
15:09 You know, when we are relieved of the guilt
15:12 and the shame of our sin,
15:13 we live in the light of God's love.
15:16 We live in obedience to God.
15:18 We have a completely different experience
15:19 when we're, when that guilt
15:21 and that weight of sin is lifted off us.
15:24 And then, of course, Hebrews Chapter 12
15:27 takes us to a faith picture that points us to Jesus
15:31 as the author and the finisher of our faith.
15:34 You know, sometimes we think,
15:35 "Well, Jesus does the beginning,
15:36 and we need to do the rest."
15:38 No, the Bible says, He's the author,
15:39 He's the finisher, and that's the better way.
15:41 That's the better way of Hebrews to let Jesus finish
15:44 what Jesus began.
15:46 And then finally, we close in Hebrews Chapter 13.
15:48 It's pretty powerful. It's pretty simple.
15:50 It's pretty basic.
15:51 But it's something that's kind of changed my devotional life.
15:54 Hebrews 13, specifically, verse 15, tells us that
15:58 out of all of these better things
16:00 that God has provided for us,
16:02 it's going to lead us to a better praise.
16:05 We're going to give praise and thanksgiving to God.
16:07 When I wake up in the morning, I go to the Word of God,
16:10 I read a Bible verse, and I just start praising
16:11 God for everything that's in that Bible verse.
16:14 I just start thanking Him for every little
16:16 bit that He has put in that Word,
16:18 in that verse for me.
16:20 And sometimes I praise Him for everyone.
16:22 I just include the whole world in the things that God
16:24 has done, because God so loved the world,
16:26 that He gave His only begotten Son.
16:28 Amen?
16:29 Now, COVID-19, you know,
16:32 has brought upon this world a huge increase,
16:36 you know, of sorrow, of loss, of conflict, I mean, depression
16:40 is soaring, suicide has shot up.
16:43 And so we need something better.
16:45 We need something better to focus on.
16:46 You know, than this present world
16:48 has to offer.
16:49 We need a huge dose of God's love
16:52 to get through all this.
16:53 And at the same time, we need to remember that,
16:55 that what's happening in this world
16:57 reminds us that this world is not our home.
16:59 It never has been. It never will be.
17:02 God has some better thing for us than all of this,
17:06 as we see it now.
17:07 He always has had something better.
17:09 When we look at the creation that God started within this,
17:14 in this world, we know that when He created this earth,
17:16 He created it without pain and sin and sorrow.
17:18 And we know that when God created this world,
17:20 in Genesis 1 and Genesis 2, He said it was good,
17:23 even very good.
17:25 And then all of a sudden, we saw, well,
17:28 we saw a pause, we saw an interruption in God's plan.
17:31 And that's when sin came in.
17:33 Sin is what brought the pain
17:34 and the sorrow and the evil, not God.
17:36 And we know that God's working to restore us to the original
17:39 plan, so that by the time we get through
17:41 the Old Testament and the New Testament,
17:43 we get to the Book of Revelation,
17:44 Chapters 21 and 22.
17:46 Guess what happens?
17:47 There's no more death, there's no more pain,
17:50 there's no more sorrow.
17:51 And that picture is what keeps us.
17:54 That's what makes me a believer,
17:56 because between those bookends of Genesis 1 and 2,
18:00 and in Revelation Chapter 21 and 22,
18:02 there's a whole bunch of evil and a whole bunch of pain.
18:04 And sometimes you want to say is,
18:06 "God, why are You letting all this stuff happen?"
18:09 And what God is saying back to us is,
18:10 "It was never My will from the beginning,
18:12 and is not going to be My plan in the end."
18:14 So keep your focus on the author
18:16 and keep your focus on the finisher,
18:18 all of this stuff in between,
18:19 we're just going to have to navigate it,
18:21 but God's going to help us.
18:22 God is going to help us to navigate all of this,
18:25 because God loves us,
18:26 and He wants something better for us
18:28 yet it's not always easy for us to understand God's love.
18:32 In fact, we misunderstand God's love
18:35 more than we understand it.
18:37 And many of us don't actually think
18:38 God loves us at all.
18:40 You know, when my wife and I were married,
18:41 now we just celebrated our 32nd wedding anniversary.
18:45 So 32 years ago, September 3, we were married.
18:50 And we experienced a lot of insecurity.
18:53 You know, both of us came from dysfunctional families.
18:55 Both of us came from dysfunctional backgrounds.
18:57 I was raised in a single parent home,
18:59 Rise was raised in a single parent home.
19:01 So it wasn't easy for us.
19:03 We did everything right as far as we knew.
19:06 We followed the biblical principles
19:08 and we figured that we were going,
19:09 we were stepping into something it was going to be far
19:11 better than what a lot of people did.
19:14 But it was within one year that we were in marriage
19:20 counseling, which was very hard for me because you know,
19:22 I'm a pastor, like, I'm a preacher, like,
19:23 a year into my marriage, I need marriage counseling?
19:25 No, I don't think so.
19:27 I'm not going there.
19:28 But I had to admit that I myself was exasperated
19:32 with our situation.
19:33 You see, when I married Rise and when Rise married me,
19:35 I determined that I was going to make
19:38 her know that she was loved.
19:40 I was going to provide her like a husband should,
19:42 I was going to work, I was going to bring,
19:44 you know, bring home the money,
19:46 take care of all the bills, take care of her,
19:48 give her security, and not only that,
19:50 but I was going to help her in the home.
19:52 I decided that I was going to help with the housework.
19:54 I said, "Listen, honey, I'm going to vacuum.
19:56 I'm going to clean the bathroom."
19:58 It was kind of easy back then 'cause
20:00 we lived in a daylight basement and it had a living room,
20:01 kitchen, bathroom, bedroom.
20:03 So I thought I'm going to vacuum, you know,
20:05 I'm going to clean the bathroom,
20:06 you know, we got a couple bathrooms now,
20:08 and there's three bedrooms, and well anyway,
20:10 I won't tell you the rest of that story, maybe Rise can.
20:12 So the deal was that I was going to be working 40 hours
20:16 a week plus, you know how it is pastors,
20:19 and that I was going to be helping in the home,
20:21 and I even volunteered to cook a meal once a week.
20:25 Not going to tell you how that turned out.
20:27 But in within one year,
20:31 my wife was insecure.
20:32 Now, for me, I was loving her to my utmost.
20:35 I was communicating love to her,
20:37 I was really letting her know that I loved her.
20:40 But she was insecure.
20:42 She didn't feel loved at all.
20:46 And one of the things that made a huge difference in our lives
20:50 was a little book called The Five Love Languages.
20:55 And we started counseling with a pastor,
20:57 and he shared with us this book and some of the principles,
21:01 and it literally changed the whole direction
21:03 of our marriage.
21:05 I cannot tell you how much that helped me.
21:07 And you know, here I am, pastor,
21:08 doesn't want to go to counseling,
21:10 because you know, I don't, yeah.
21:11 No, every single one of us needs the counsel of others,
21:14 we need the help of one another.
21:16 We need to encourage one another.
21:18 Hebrews says we shouldn't forsake the assembling
21:20 of ourselves together as is the manner of such as,
21:21 especially as we see the day approaching.
21:23 And that's not just talking about church fellowship,
21:25 that's talking about the fellowship
21:27 of fellow brothers and sisters that can help us
21:29 with their experience and their wisdom, etc.
21:31 And I feel like God has given Rise and I some wisdom,
21:33 and we'd like to share it with you tonight in the context
21:36 of the Book of Hebrews.
21:38 And here it is.
21:39 I was loving Rise with everything I had.
21:43 I was communicating love to her as loud as possible,
21:47 and she couldn't hear a single word.
21:50 You know why?
21:51 Because I was loving her with acts of service.
21:55 That's how I was loving her. That's a love language.
21:57 There are five love languages, gifts, physical touch,
22:01 quality time, acts of service, and words of affirmation.
22:05 These are the five love languages.
22:07 And by the way,
22:09 I decided because these were in a book written by a doctor
22:12 that I wanted to find them in the Bible.
22:14 And I turned to the Book of Hebrews,
22:16 because Hebrews is a relational book.
22:18 And as I went to the Book of Hebrews,
22:19 to discover these love languages
22:21 which are here and we're going to find out
22:22 about that as we move through it tonight,
22:24 I discovered two more.
22:25 You know, God works in sevens, not fives, right?
22:29 God works in sevens.
22:30 So there's two more love languages that are clearly
22:31 outlined in the Book of Hebrews.
22:33 And we're going to look at those two.
22:34 So let's just go back to the five for now.
22:37 I was loving her with everything that I had.
22:39 I was communicating to her that I loved her,
22:42 but I was using the language of acts of service.
22:44 Well guess what?
22:46 That wasn't Rise's love language.
22:48 Rise's love language was quality time.
22:52 Now most people have a one and a two
22:54 and then the next three,
22:56 and I'm going to say four and five, or maybe lower.
22:58 So we have certain love languages
23:00 that communicate to us more strongly than the others.
23:02 Rise and I had these love
23:05 languages that communicate to us more than others,
23:07 simply because of our background.
23:09 I was raised in a single parent home,
23:10 I was raised in London, England.
23:11 And when I was a boy, we didn't have any
23:13 of the modern conveniences, you know, we didn't have a car,
23:16 we didn't really need one.
23:17 Because in England, in London, you just take buses and trains,
23:19 but we didn't have a car, we didn't have a refrigerator,
23:23 we didn't have a vacuum cleaner,
23:25 we didn't have a telephone,
23:27 we didn't have a washer and dryer,
23:29 I would brush the carpets,
23:31 you know, with a hand brush,
23:32 and we would go to the store almost every day to get
23:35 food because it had to be fresh.
23:37 And we had milkman back there that would deliver milk,
23:39 you know, in the mornings, and you put it in water
23:41 and tried to keep it cold and we would use
23:44 the bathtub to wash clothes,
23:46 and then we hang them up on the line.
23:48 Sometimes we go down to the laundromat,
23:49 you know if we had time or whatever.
23:51 And what else?
23:52 You know, telephones, well, you know,
23:54 we could yell pretty loud,
23:55 most of the neighbors could hear us,
23:57 we had four flats in our home
23:59 and there were 13 kids in all in the entire place.
24:01 So we didn't need to, you know, get on Twitter
24:04 or text message or anything.
24:05 We just, "Hey, time to go out and play now."
24:07 Away we go.
24:09 Even though I didn't have all those modern conveniences,
24:11 I had a pretty happy childhood in England.
24:14 Things didn't change much in that way
24:17 until I moved to America.
24:19 And that's a whole different story.
24:20 But the thing is I want to communicate to you
24:22 was my mom worked.
24:23 She was a teacher and she worked pretty hard
24:25 and she needed help in the house.
24:27 You can imagine all the things that need to be done.
24:28 We don't have a refrigerator, don't have the washer,
24:30 you don't have a phone, you know,
24:31 so I did a lot of the stuff, that acts of service,
24:34 I did a lot of that growing up.
24:36 I just had to as a young man, seven, eight, nine,
24:39 10 years old, I was, you know, doing a lot of those things.
24:41 And so that was an area where I grew,
24:44 I was strong in that area
24:46 and that to me was my natural go to.
24:49 My mom really appreciated that I helped her, you know.
24:52 She really felt that, you know,
24:53 here's a kid that loves his mom.
24:54 You know, he's helping her loves.
24:56 Yeah, so that was a strong love language for me.
25:00 Before I even knew what love languages were,
25:02 I'm saying, "I'm going to make sure my wife is loved the way
25:04 my mom was loved."
25:05 If you know what I'm saying, that was my natural go too.
25:08 Rise was raised in a home with a single parent mom,
25:10 and you know, her mom loved her and etc.
25:12 But her dad was gone.
25:13 Her dad wasn't around.
25:15 You know, I had issues that were more like,
25:20 you know, neglect.
25:21 My mom just wasn't there to take care of the things,
25:23 whatever, Rise had all those things,
25:24 but she felt more issues of abandonment,
25:27 like her dad wasn't there for her.
25:29 And so her love language,
25:31 I don't know if you could figure it out,
25:33 but her love language was quality time.
25:36 She wanted me to spend time with her
25:38 and we were talking about this with the pastor,
25:40 I'm thinking, "Oh, my, this is amazing."
25:42 You know, I am so busy working 40 hours a week
25:45 and doing the extra stuff that pastors have to do.
25:47 And I'm so busy, you know, cleaning the house
25:49 and cleaning the bathroom and doing the things that,
25:51 you know, I know my wife is going to make her feel
25:53 secure and make her know that she loves me
25:56 that I don't have time to sit down and just talk
25:58 I don't, I don't have time to just quality time.
26:00 That seems like a waste of time.
26:02 What do you mean?
26:03 Just sit around and just connect?
26:04 That's what you're saying I need to do.
26:06 It was such an eye-opener for me.
26:09 It just and it was phenomenal how it changed our lives,
26:12 our marriage.
26:14 So I started focusing on that quality time.
26:16 Because what I found out was,
26:17 because I was communicating in my love language,
26:20 I was really manifesting love for me.
26:24 I wasn't manifesting love for my wife.
26:25 And I was exasperated, so I thought
26:26 how can my wife be insecure,
26:28 and I'm doing all these things for her.
26:29 But I wasn't speaking her love language.
26:31 I'm going to give you a challenge tonight, okay?
26:34 Find out what the love language is of your spouse,
26:37 of your husband, of your kids, family members,
26:40 people in your community, see if you can find out
26:42 what their love language is and learn
26:44 how to speak to people in their love language.
26:48 Because, sometimes when we communicate with people,
26:51 we communicate in such a way that it doesn't really
26:54 help them or encourage them, because it's not,
26:57 they're not hearing us.
26:58 It's like we're speaking French,
27:00 and they're understanding only English.
27:03 And we want to get on the wavelength of others
27:05 when we communicate to them this language of love.
27:10 So, again, I was really eager to understand,
27:14 it was such a game changer for us.
27:15 And by the way, Rise and I share the same second
27:18 love language, which is physical touch.
27:20 So it was really nice.
27:22 It's nice when a husband and wife share at least
27:23 one love language.
27:25 I've met couples that don't share any.
27:26 I've met other couples,
27:27 'cause we do a lot of marriage counseling,
27:29 they'll share one but not the other.
27:30 And I see really, it's nice when you have
27:32 one that's compatible, even though the other
27:34 one might be different.
27:36 And it's hard for me because I'm a acts,
27:38 I'm a doer guy, and so to slow down
27:40 and just sit with my wife at 32 years now,
27:42 I've really gotten into it.
27:43 So sometimes I'll say to her, "Hey honey,
27:45 you want to spend some time together?
27:46 Hey, honey, you know, you're busy,
27:48 you want to do some things together?
27:49 You want to, you know, have some pillow talk or whatever?
27:50 And she'll, "Thinks have kind
27:52 of switched here, haven't they?
27:53 ""Yes."
27:54 So, the reason we have maybe stronger love languages than,
28:00 you know other do, maybe because of our past.
28:02 So we need to consider our past.
28:04 Why is it that we feel insecure in certain areas?
28:06 Why do we need maybe, you know, some father called us
28:10 a dummy all our lives.
28:11 You dummy, dummy, dummy,
28:13 you'll never get anywhere, you'll never have anything,
28:14 you'll never going to be any good.
28:15 Well, that person would be,
28:17 one of their love languages might be words of affirmation,
28:20 because they've always been criticized and put down.
28:22 They need to be spoken into. They need to be affirmed.
28:25 And by the way, that's my weakest love language.
28:26 Can I confess that publicly?
28:28 My weakest love language is words of affirmation,
28:30 I'm kind of a perfectionist, I'll come home
28:31 and the whole house is clean.
28:33 But there's one thing not done.
28:34 I'm like, "How come that didn't get done?"
28:37 You know, words of affirmation.
28:39 So we're going to have strong love languages,
28:41 we're going to have weaker love languages,
28:43 love languages that we need to focus on or we
28:45 need to build up, strengthen.
28:48 Well, guess what?
28:50 There are no dysfunctional languages with God.
28:55 God has no dysfunctional history.
28:58 So He speaks to us in all of the love languages.
29:01 And that's what we're going to see in the Book of Hebrews.
29:03 The Book of Hebrews is not just a theological book, in fact,
29:05 it's less of a theological book than it is a book
29:09 about relationship.
29:12 I believe Paul is the author
29:13 of this and got some controversy.
29:14 That's not major.
29:16 You know, some theologians believe he is,
29:17 some believe he isn't.
29:18 There's a lot of parallels with Hebrews
29:20 and other epistles that Paul wrote that tell us
29:22 that he's the author.
29:23 So I believe he's the author.
29:25 And he is, I think,
29:27 communicating to the Hebrews, to Israel,
29:29 to people who have really been almost
29:32 dogmatically legalistic about their relationship with God.
29:34 You know, got to do this, you got to do that,
29:36 you got to do this, you got to do that,
29:37 you got to make sure all your T's are crossed
29:39 and all your I's are dotted.
29:40 And Paul is moving away from that,
29:42 and he's transitioning them into a relationship
29:45 experience with God.
29:46 That's his primary goal in the Book of Hebrews.
29:49 And I believe that we need that today more than ever.
29:51 You know, legalism isn't just in religious circles.
29:54 Legalism is in, you can be an agnostic,
29:56 you can be a legalist, you can be an atheist,
29:57 you can be a legalist.
29:59 It's when you're really draconian really spiky,
30:03 really focused on rules and regulations
30:05 and you can't give any wiggle room,
30:07 no mercy to other people around you.
30:09 And I see that happening more and more in our society.
30:11 If you don't match up, if you don't,
30:13 you know, if your words aren't in harmony with,
30:16 if your actions aren't in harmony with,
30:17 if you're not supporting what everyone else is doing,
30:20 then we're going to cancel you.
30:21 And the Book of Hebrews is moving us away from that.
30:24 It's moving us into this relationship with God
30:26 where we don't see Him just
30:27 relating to us in this draconian way,
30:30 this legalistic way where we see Him
30:32 entering into relationship with us
30:34 and having an experience with us and walking with us.
30:37 And we see this right from the get go in Hebrews Chapter 1.
30:40 Let's just read these first verses
30:42 here in Hebrews Chapter 1.
30:43 We'll read Hebrews Chapter 1, beginning with verse 1.
30:47 It says, "God, who at sundry times
30:50 and in divers manners..."
30:52 I'm speaking, communicating from the KJV here,
30:53 I love the KJV, sundry times and divers manners,
30:56 what does that mean?
30:58 I don't know. But it's really beautiful.
30:59 It's really poetic.
31:00 It actually means, you know, different
31:02 times in various manners.
31:03 "Spoke in time past,
31:06 unto the fathers, by the prophets.
31:10 And has in these last days, verse 2,
31:12 spoken unto us by His Son,
31:14 whom He has appointed heir of all things,
31:17 by whom also He made the worlds."
31:20 Now verse 3,
31:22 "Who being the brightness of His glory
31:23 and the express image of His person,
31:25 and upholding all things by the word of His power,
31:28 when He had by Himself purged our sins,
31:31 sat down at the right hand of the Majesty on high."
31:35 This is relational language through and through.
31:40 Do you see it in here?
31:42 God spake, God communicated.
31:44 When Adam and Eve sinned, they were hiding,
31:46 they had broken relationship with God,
31:48 they were feeling guilty, they were feeling ashamed,
31:50 they went away from God, they were hiding,
31:51 they didn't want to talk to God,
31:53 they didn't want to come in contact with Him,
31:54 and God comes looking for them, "Adam, Eve, where are you?"
31:57 See, that's communication that invokes relation, right?
32:01 "Where are you? Where are you?
32:02 I want to talk to you, I want to see you,
32:03 I want to connect with you?" Right?
32:05 That's what God has been doing from the beginning.
32:08 And all the way now to the very end of time
32:10 He's been reaching out to us.
32:11 That's what Hebrews 1 says.
32:13 He's been speaking to us through the prophets.
32:14 And then eventually, He sent His own Son.
32:17 He Himself came in the person of Jesus Christ,
32:19 to communicate to us because communication is love.
32:25 You know, when my wife and I have,
32:27 you know, a disagreement, we don't fight,
32:29 we just have intense moments of fellowship, right?
32:32 When we have this disagreement, we have a king sized bed,
32:35 and we can go to sleep because I don't want to talk.
32:37 I'm just, the guys want to stuff it right?
32:39 Well, this is back now. This isn't after 32.
32:41 This is 20 years back, in 20 years of marriage,
32:45 not 32 years, 32 years now, I'm willing to talk.
32:48 But back in the day,
32:49 we had enough room between us at night for both
32:51 of our kids to move into the bed with us.
32:53 You know, I'm on one side, she's on the other side,
32:55 and no one's talking.
32:56 I'm laying there in quiet.
32:58 She's laying there in quiet.
32:59 I can't sleep, she can't sleep, and eventually say something
33:01 like she'll say, "James, are you awake?"
33:05 And I won't say anything, you know, because I'm asleep.
33:08 And she'll say, few minutes later,
33:11 "James, I know you're awake."
33:14 I'll say, "No, I'm not, I'm sleeping."
33:16 And we'll begin to communicate.
33:18 You see, that is what love does.
33:22 That's what relationship does. It communicates.
33:24 And so right from the get go in Hebrews 1:1-3,
33:28 God is communicating to us,
33:30 and that communication that He has with us
33:32 is an indication of His love.
33:34 Love speaks in different ways, in a variety
33:37 of ways at different times,
33:39 and it does it according to the need.
33:41 That's why it's different.
33:43 That's why it's in a variety of ways,
33:44 and it comes in different forms and shapes because God
33:46 speaks to us according to the need.
33:48 In Revelation 14:6, the everlasting gospel,
33:52 which is very, basically a distillation
33:55 of the languages of love.
33:56 God is communicating to every nation, kindred,
34:00 tongue, and people.
34:01 What does that mean? He's an inclusive God.
34:02 He's not leaving anyone out.
34:04 See, that's the kind of God we serve.
34:06 He's communicating to every nation,
34:07 kindred, tongue and people.
34:09 The everlasting gospel of His love.
34:10 In Revelation 18,
34:12 love communicates a call to come out of Babylon,
34:17 come out of confusion,
34:18 come out of this dependence on the world,
34:20 and its economy, that system because it's coming down
34:23 and depend on God in Revelation 18, Revelation 14.
34:28 Then in Matthew Chapter 24,
34:30 we have another communication from God
34:32 of the everlasting gospel,
34:33 the gospel that's going to go to all the world
34:35 and we're told there that love endures,
34:37 it perseveres, it keeps communicating, through war,
34:41 through pestilence, through famine, through earthquakes,
34:43 through natural disasters, through all of the afflictions
34:46 taking place on planet earth.
34:47 Love does not stop communicating.
34:49 It keeps on communicating, endures to the worst of times.
34:52 And by the way, all of those aspects
34:56 of God's love in Revelation 14, in Matthew 24,
34:59 in Revelation 18, that is the love that God
35:02 wants to put into us.
35:03 He wants to infuse us with that same love that He has.
35:06 He's the one doing this, but He wants us to be part
35:09 of doing this.
35:11 And that's what 3ABN is all about.
35:12 That's what Three Angels Broadcasting is all about.
35:14 That's what we're all about here at 3ABN
35:16 because we want to team up with God,
35:18 to communicate love to the world.
35:22 So love is a verb.
35:24 Love is action.
35:26 Love is not just an emotional feeling that's here today
35:30 and gone tomorrow.
35:32 As we read Matthew Chapter 24, we see that love endures.
35:36 That's what it says in verse 13.
35:38 It says He that endures to the end,
35:39 but He has to do with love,
35:42 a love that's waxing cold in others
35:43 that continues to endure in God's people.
35:46 And this is I think why love has languages, love speaks,
35:49 love communicates in practical ways.
35:54 So that's why it was so important for me
35:56 to understand why my wife was insecure,
35:59 because I wasn't speaking love to her.
36:02 I was speaking in French, and she's Hispanic,
36:05 she's Puerto Rican, Mexican.
36:07 Well, she doesn't speak Spanish,
36:09 but that's beside the point.
36:10 You get the illustration.
36:12 She was not hearing my love
36:14 coming to her because everything I was saying,
36:16 I was saying to myself, because I was
36:17 speaking in my love language.
36:18 So it was like I was talking to myself
36:20 and not talking to my wife.
36:22 So are we speaking the biblical language
36:27 of love when we tell people that God
36:30 is going to burn them in hell forever, for all eternity?
36:35 Are we speaking the biblical language of love
36:37 when we tell people that God has favorites,
36:39 who is predestined to be saved and others
36:42 who He's chosen to be lost?
36:44 Are we speaking the biblical language of love
36:47 when we communicate that God has tossed out
36:49 His law at Calvary?
36:51 So it doesn't matter how you live,
36:52 you can continue to lie
36:54 and cheat and steal, commit adultery.
36:56 It doesn't matter how you treat people
36:57 because you're saved by grace.
36:59 I don't think so.
37:01 You know, too often, the language we speak
37:02 about God as Christians,
37:04 doesn't really communicate love.
37:06 It doesn't communicate God's love.
37:08 Too often, religious people claim to follow a God of love,
37:12 but communicate a loveless, lawless exclusive God.
37:17 That's why we here at 3ABN, what you will understand
37:20 what the Bible says about hell and salvation
37:23 and God's Ten Commandment law.
37:24 And that's why we have these books Focus on Truth.
37:27 And you know, Greg and Jill shared this with you earlier,
37:30 so I don't have to say a lot about them.
37:31 But I, you know, God is love.
37:34 And so a God of love does not torture people in a burning
37:37 hell for all eternity.
37:39 Love does not exclude people from the opportunity
37:42 of salvation.
37:43 Love does not toss out the moral standard
37:47 of His Ten Commandments that impact how we treat people
37:50 and how we relate to our Creator.
37:53 So I want to encourage you again,
37:54 get these books because they really,
37:56 it's not just about doctrine, it's not just about
37:58 what the Bible teaches about hell,
38:00 what the Bible teaches about the commandments,
38:01 what the Bible teaches about salvation, this is about God.
38:05 It's about His character.
38:06 It's about what kind of God He is, and if indeed,
38:09 He is a God of love.
38:12 All right, Hebrews Chapter 1,
38:13 here's where we're going to look.
38:14 Now remember, I told you, I wanted to see if these love
38:16 languages were biblical, I wanted them from the Bible.
38:19 I didn't want them just to be in some
38:21 book that someone wrote, even if they were a Christian,
38:23 I want to be biblically based.
38:25 And so I was looking for the languages of love.
38:27 And I found the first one in Hebrews Chapter 1.
38:31 Hebrews Chapter 1 is all about God giving Himself
38:34 as a gift of salvation.
38:36 God takes care of the salvation we need Himself.
38:40 He's the one that gives us this gift,
38:42 you know, and sometimes when we think about Jesus
38:44 dying for us on Calvary, we think about Jesus
38:47 as a third party because of the use of the word Son.
38:50 You know, God so loved the world that He gave
38:52 His only begotten Son.
38:53 But that word son communicates relational closeness,
38:57 not physical origin.
38:59 The Father did not birth Jesus.
39:02 The use of this title, the Son of God indicates
39:04 a close personal connection,
39:07 such as experience between a healthy relationship
39:10 of a father and a son.
39:11 And that's what God is trying to tell us,
39:13 that God the Father, God the Son,
39:15 God the Holy Spirit, they are one.
39:18 They are one in character.
39:21 They are one in principle, they are one in purpose.
39:25 Their wills are one but they're three separate individuals,
39:28 but they're one and this is not anything like paganism,
39:32 or some kind of, you know, polytheism.
39:36 This is the oneness that the Bible teaches.
39:39 Of course, we did a whole
39:40 meeting on that at our last camp meeting.
39:43 If you'd like to look at that you can.
39:44 But Hebrews Chapter 1 emphasizes this again,
39:48 and again and again.
39:49 I mean, Jesus is God.
39:51 That's the whole point of Hebrews Chapter 1.
39:52 Jesus is God, Jesus is God.
39:54 Just in case you're thinking that this is some kind
39:56 of pagan deity that takes His Son
39:59 and makes Him pay a penalty for,
40:01 you know, for us,
40:03 this is a third party interaction, it's not.
40:05 It's God in us.
40:07 And God looks at us and He says,
40:08 "Okay, you've sinned.
40:09 Wages of sin is death, so you deserve to die.
40:12 And the only way that you can get out
40:15 of that is if I take the consequence of your sin,
40:18 if I actually experienced that, and so I'm going to do that.
40:21 I've got a plan, I'm going to do that.
40:23 And so God takes upon us.
40:24 He doesn't give to somebody else.
40:25 He takes it upon Himself, Jesus is God.
40:27 This is Paul's argument right here.
40:28 And he says it in almost every single verse of Hebrews 1.
40:31 I'm just going to highlight, let's just look verses 8
40:35 through 10 in Hebrews Chapter 1.
40:37 Just to highlight this point, it's found all over the Bible,
40:40 Philippians 2 are some of my favorite verses,
40:42 verses 5 through 8.
40:43 But let's just look here in Hebrews 1:8-10.
40:46 Here's what Paul says, "But unto the Son,
40:49 talking about Jesus, He the father says,
40:51 'Thy throne, O God, is forever and ever.
40:56 A scepter of righteousness is the scepter of thy kingdom."
40:58 Verse 9, "Thou, the Father talking about the Son,
41:02 has loved righteousness and hated iniquity,
41:04 therefore, God, even thy God, the Father,
41:08 had anointed thee with all of gladness above thy fellows.
41:12 And thou Lord, speaking of the son,
41:14 thou Lord, in the beginning has laid the foundations
41:18 of the earth and the heavens are the works of thy hands."
41:22 Over and over again, Hebrews Chapter 1
41:25 tells us that Jesus is better than the angels
41:28 that He is to be worshipped by the angels.
41:31 No one gets worshiped by the angels.
41:32 You know, Lucifer, wanting to be worshiped by the angels.
41:34 No one gets worshiped by the angels, unless it's God.
41:38 And so this focus is powerful, because this is the language
41:43 of gifts.
41:45 God has given a gift to us, He loves us.
41:48 And many times people are mostly
41:52 mainly impacted in the communication
41:56 of love through gifts.
41:57 They love to receive gifts, some people,
41:59 that's their number one language.
42:00 Like, if my daughter, that's big, a big thing for her,
42:03 if you know, words of affirmation and gifts.
42:05 And so God is communicating to us here
42:09 through the love language of gifts.
42:11 He's given us a gift, what kind of gift is it?
42:14 It's the greatest gift that was ever given.
42:17 It's the gift of Himself.
42:18 He's given, He's poured out all of heaven in this gift.
42:21 Why? Because He loves us.
42:23 That's why.
42:24 He absolutely and completely loves us.
42:26 So God is in the person of Jesus Christ,
42:28 He gives Himself for us and Jesus is God,
42:31 He's one with a Father, so this is the gift of love.
42:34 God gives Himself to us in Jesus Christ is the greatest
42:36 of all gifts.
42:38 And God's love is revealed in this gift,
42:41 just like it's going to reveal in every one
42:43 of the other languages of love,
42:44 just like it's going to reveal in every one of the other
42:47 gifts that God is communicating.
42:48 By the way, I just want to remind you,
42:51 it's going to be a fun experience for you to try
42:54 to figure out the love languages
42:56 of people that you're close to.
42:57 If you haven't figured it out already,
42:59 it's a great exercise because it really makes
43:01 a huge difference in relationships.
43:04 All right, what about the next chapter of Hebrews?
43:07 Hebrews Chapter 2?
43:09 Now Hebrews Chapter 2 is really powerful because it connects
43:12 with Hebrews Chapter 1.
43:13 It tells us how salvation was worked out
43:17 with the Father and the Son.
43:19 It tells us what had to happen in order for God to justly
43:24 and righteously receive the consequences
43:29 of our sins because you know, we sin, not God.
43:32 So how can He take our sins?
43:34 That doesn't seem right or fair.
43:36 And so Hebrews Chapter 2
43:39 describes basically goes back to Genesis,
43:42 if you want to look here with me in Hebrews Chapter 2,
43:43 beginning with verse 9, let's just look there.
43:45 Hebrews Chapter 2, and beginning with verse 9,
43:48 or if you excuse me, verse 3, we'll read through verse 9.
43:50 Hebrews 2:6-9, goes back to the creation,
43:53 but one in a certain place testifies saying,
43:55 what is man that thou art mindful of him?
43:58 Or the son of man that thou visits him?
44:01 Thou madest Him a little lower than the angels,
44:04 this is creation, thou crownedst Him with glory
44:08 and honor, You set Him over the works of your hands."
44:11 "You put," verse 8,
44:12 "all things in subjection unto Him," that means,
44:14 the whole world was given to us,
44:16 all things in subjection unto Him,
44:17 "for in that He put all in subjection unto Him,
44:20 He left nothing that is not put unto Him."
44:25 But, before we get to the but,
44:28 let's just think about this, God created us
44:30 and gave us dominion over all the earth and He said,
44:32 "This is good, this is very good, be fruitful,
44:34 and multiply and fill the earth.
44:36 Just have a great time.
44:38 And I'll connect with you every evening
44:39 and we'll spend a special day together on Sabbath," right?
44:42 But, this is verse 9 again or verse 8,
44:46 "Now we see not yet all things unto Him."
44:50 What happened?
44:51 Genesis Chapter 3, the fall.
44:53 Satan came in, to kill, to steal and to destroy.
44:57 That's what we're told in John 10:10.
45:00 So Satan came in, he deceived Eve at the tree,
45:04 and through Eve, he won Adam's disobedience,
45:09 both of them now, have in essence handed all
45:12 of the dominion over the earth to Satan.
45:14 That's why Jesus Christ called him the prince
45:15 of this world. But remember, God, the Creator
45:19 is still the ultimate owner of planet earth
45:22 and of each one of us.
45:23 And He has redeemed us. He's put a plan in place.
45:26 So we don't, but we don't see all things
45:28 under Him that notice the next but in verse 9,
45:30 "But we see Jesus..."
45:32 Praise God. Amen.
45:34 "But we see Jesus who was made
45:36 a little lower than the angels for the suffering of death,
45:39 crowned with glory and honor, that He by the grace of God
45:42 should taste death for every man."
45:45 That's just a mini three verses
45:47 whole plan of salvation right there.
45:49 You know, we were given dominion,
45:51 we were created to have this earth as ours,
45:54 it was good, it was a blessing,
45:55 it was very good, Satan came in, deceived us,
45:59 led us to disobedience,
46:00 he became the prince of this world,
46:02 but Jesus came in, Jesus came in,
46:04 and He redeemed us.
46:06 He tasted death for every man.
46:08 So the consequence of sin is death.
46:09 And that eternal separation from God is what we deserved.
46:15 That consequence carried out is a manifestation of justice.
46:19 Now, when we're talking about God's love,
46:21 we have to recognize that justice
46:23 is not contrary to love.
46:24 Justice is part of love. God is merciful.
46:27 He's gracious, and He's just, He's righteous, He's fair.
46:31 And those two components make up the foundation
46:33 of God's character.
46:35 They are equally a demonstration revelation
46:38 of God's love.
46:40 So another word for justice, we could say is righteousness,
46:42 doing what's right, doing what's just, doing what's fair.
46:45 You know, my kids were younger.
46:47 My daughter always, "That's not fair.
46:48 That's not fair."
46:50 How come he gets, my son was five years old,
46:51 "How come he gets to do that?"
46:53 Well, he's five years older. That's why he can drive a car.
46:55 You're, you know, you're 11, he's 16, right?
46:58 That's not fair.
46:59 But God always does what's fair.
47:01 Now, as parents, we don't always navigate
47:02 as well as we should, but God always navigates
47:05 and does what's right, what's just, and what is fair.
47:09 So what's right, what's just
47:12 and what is fair means that Adam and Eve
47:15 should have died in the Garden of Eden.
47:17 That would have been the end of that.
47:20 And it would have been just and right and fair,
47:21 no one could have faulted God for doing that,
47:23 for allowing that to happen.
47:25 However, the Bible tells us that God had a plan B.
47:27 Amen.
47:28 God had a plan B for the human race.
47:31 He had a backup plan, Revelation 13:8,
47:33 this is Shelley Quinn's favorite verse,
47:34 I can't help but mention that one
47:36 of her favorite verses, it says, that Jesus Christ
47:38 is the Lamb slain from the foundation
47:41 of the world right there in Revelation's final crisis.
47:44 You know, the mark of the beast,
47:45 can't buy or sell, you're going to die,
47:47 we have the cross, we have Calvary
47:48 right there to help us, to guide us
47:50 so that we don't follow the world.
47:53 And this points us to God's plan B,
47:54 you know, Jesus Christ is the Lamb
47:56 slain from earth's foundation.
47:58 So, you know, we've just shown that Jesus Christ is God,
48:02 that mankind sinned, that mankind only should
48:06 receive the consequences for that sin,
48:07 because that's what's right, that's what's just, right?
48:11 So in order for Jesus, to justly and righteously
48:14 take our consequences, He must become mankind.
48:20 Not just temporarily, but permanently,
48:25 not just for 33 years, but for all eternity.
48:28 Jesus must become a human.
48:30 He must become the human race, to receive the consequences
48:34 that belong to the human race.
48:36 And that's exactly what He did.
48:38 Jesus Christ became a human being.
48:40 And as a human being, Jesus Christ became for us sin.
48:45 2 Corinthians 5:21 tells us that Jesus became sin.
48:48 The human race had sinned, Adam and Eve had sinned,
48:51 but Jesus took sin's consequence,
48:53 legally, ethically by becoming the new Adam,
48:57 the new head of the human race,
49:00 the second Adam, the second Adam.
49:02 Now you can read about this in 2,
49:04 or 1 Corinthians 15:45-47.
49:08 He is the second Adam, the Bible tells us.
49:11 So in these verses, in 1 Corinthians 15:45-47,
49:14 we're running out of time, so I'm just going to give you
49:16 the references, otherwise, I'd read them.
49:18 These verses identify Jesus as the second Adam,
49:21 and show us that He started the whole human race again,
49:25 all over again in Himself.
49:27 As humans, we're born with a choice between
49:31 the destiny of the first Adam
49:32 and the legacy of the first Adam,
49:34 and the destiny of the second Adam
49:36 and the legacy of the second Adam.
49:37 And when we become Christians, when we accept Jesus Christ,
49:40 we say, I'm not going to receive
49:42 the legacy and the destiny
49:43 of this first Adam that I'm born into,
49:44 I'm going to receive, I wanna choose the legacy
49:47 and the destiny of the second Adam.
49:48 And the second Adam has paid the consequences for our sin.
49:52 The first Adam hasn't.
49:54 The consequence is still coming.
49:55 If you stay in the first Adam, you're going to receive
49:57 the consequences for your sins,
49:58 and that's going to be eternal death.
50:00 But if you step into the second Adam consequences
50:02 is taken care of.
50:04 And that's what the plan of salvation is really all about.
50:07 It's about stepping in to Jesus Christ.
50:10 It's about stepping into the person
50:11 who's received our consequences.
50:13 In Christ, justice was satisfied,
50:15 in Christ, believing in Christ,
50:18 we are safe from the death that sin brings.
50:20 And that's why the Bible says, "If we confess our sins,
50:24 He is faithful and merciful to forgive our sins."
50:29 Are you listening out there this evening?
50:31 What does it say?
50:33 He's faithful and just.
50:34 It's only just, it's only fair,
50:36 it's only righteous for God to forgive our sins
50:38 if we step into Jesus, because Jesus already paid
50:41 the consequences for our sins.
50:43 It wouldn't be fair, it wouldn't be righteous,
50:44 it wouldn't be just for us to receive those consequences
50:46 when we step into Jesus.
50:48 That's double jeopardy. It doesn't work that way.
50:50 We only receive the consequences
50:52 if we're outside of Jesus.
50:54 But we step into Jesus, He's faithful, and He's just.
50:58 Look at these verses, though, and see here
51:00 what it took for Jesus to step into the human race.
51:03 This is back in Hebrews 2:14-17.
51:07 I'm watching the clock there, so I'm making sure
51:08 we have time.
51:10 It says here, "For as much as the children are partakers
51:13 of flesh and blood," He's talking about us, right?
51:16 "He, Jesus also Himself likewise
51:19 took part of the same."
51:21 Any doubt about that? He was going to annihilate.
51:24 Jesus Christ became one with human race.
51:27 He took part of the same flesh and blood.
51:29 Then it goes on to say that, "Through death,
51:33 He might destroy him that had the power of death,"
51:35 that is the devil,
51:37 "and deliver them," that salvation right here
51:39 we're talking about, "who through fear of death
51:41 were all their lifetime subject to bondage."
51:43 Isn't that a powerful Bible verse that God
51:46 has given us here?
51:48 "For verily He took on not on Him the nature of angels,
51:51 but He took them on Him the seed of Abraham.
51:53 Wherefore in all things,"
51:55 verse 17, "it behooves Him to be made like
51:59 unto his brethren, that He might be a merciful
52:02 and faithful high priest, in things
52:04 pertaining to God to make
52:06 reconciliation for the sins of the people."
52:09 I love this. Jesus is the second Adam.
52:11 Yes, but He didn't start with
52:13 a second Adam started in a perfect, sinless garden.
52:16 That was gone when Jesus came to this earth.
52:18 He came to our fallen sin parched world 4,000 years
52:22 after sin, right?
52:23 So Jesus became part of the fallen human race.
52:26 He took our weaknesses.
52:28 He came in the likeness of sinful flesh.
52:31 That's what it says in Romans 8:3.
52:34 Matthew Chapter 26, says that Jesus had to surrender
52:38 His human will to God,
52:39 and it took Him three times to do it.
52:41 Have you ever struggled with straining your will to God?
52:43 Well, Jesus wrestled with it in the Garden of Gethsemane.
52:47 He had to say it once, not my will, but Thine be done.
52:50 God, I really don't want to do this,
52:51 but not My will but Thine be done.
52:53 God, I really don't want to do this, but not My will,
52:55 but Thine be done.
52:56 I don't want to move there,
52:57 I don't want to go to as a missionary there,
52:59 I don't want to go witness to that person,
53:00 I don't want to, you know, do that Bible study,
53:03 whatever it is in our lives that God
53:05 is calling us to do for His glory,
53:07 our natural human will sometimes shrink from them.
53:11 Jesus fought that battle.
53:12 He became one with us on the level of the will,
53:15 and He always, always surrendered that will to God.
53:19 Jesus never failed like Adam
53:21 and Eve failed in the Garden of Eden
53:23 with the surrender of the will.
53:24 He was holy, He was harmless. He was separate from sinners.
53:28 He was that holy thing.
53:30 Amen?
53:32 I mean, from His very inception to His death,
53:34 He consecrated Himself to God,
53:37 not My will but Thine be done was the battle cry of Jesus.
53:41 He never failed to do God's will,
53:42 and that's why we have salvation.
53:43 Our salvation is not only in the death of Jesus,
53:46 our salvation is in the life of Jesus,
53:48 because His life tells us that we too can surrender
53:51 our wills to God.
53:52 His life tells us that we too can live a victorious life.
53:55 And when we fail, and if we fail, if we sin,
53:57 we have an advocate with the Father,
53:59 Jesus Christ, the righteous.
54:01 He is a propitiation for our sins,
54:02 1 John 2:1 says.
54:04 So we have a perfect righteousness that backs us up.
54:09 But again, we don't want to just toss
54:10 the law of God and say, "Well, doesn't matter.
54:12 We're saved by grace."
54:13 No, we want to live for a God who loves us, like He loves us.
54:16 We want to live for God, who's given everything for us.
54:20 So this is how He became our Savior.
54:22 He worked out a perfect character,
54:24 and as a human being He,
54:25 as a new head of the human race,
54:28 He started humanity all over again
54:30 where Adam and Eve failed.
54:32 And this is how the God had loves us in the area
54:34 of physical touch.
54:36 You see, Jesus has become part of our human race permanently.
54:40 He's connected with us physically, for all eternity.
54:43 After His resurrection,
54:44 remember Jesus comes to the disciples
54:46 after His resurrection in a human body.
54:47 Thomas is really upset because Jesus has revealed
54:50 Himself to the other disciples, but not to Thomas.
54:53 Thomas is like, "Why couldn't you wait till I was with Him?"
54:55 Well, maybe Jesus just couldn't wait to show
54:57 Himself to the disciples.
54:59 Maybe Thomas, you should have been with them,
55:00 you know, you shouldn't miss prayer meeting, right?
55:02 You should have been in church that Sabbath.
55:03 You should have been there with the guys, but you weren't.
55:05 But He'll get to you, He's not going to leave
55:07 anyone out that wants to see Him that wants to know Him.
55:09 And when He comes to Thomas,
55:10 He says, "Touch me,
55:12 put your hand into My side and feel My wounds.
55:13 Put your hands and your fingers into My hands
55:16 and feel those wounds and believe."
55:18 He is in flesh and blood.
55:21 We know that because decades later,
55:24 He appears to John on the Isle of Patmos,
55:27 in human form, as the Son of God.
55:31 So the sacrifice of Jesus Christ is an eternal sacrifice,
55:35 an omnipresent God
55:37 becoming present in humanity for all eternity.
55:41 We can't even understand that sacrifice.
55:44 Can you imagine if you were omnipresent,
55:48 and someone said, hey, you know,
55:49 would you be willing to kind of give that up,
55:50 you know, Joe's in some trouble,
55:52 and in order for you to help him,
55:54 you know, if you could just give that up?
55:56 Because, you know, Jesus would have died for one.
55:57 He would have given that up for one.
56:00 He has physically touched us, He's become one with us,
56:03 and this is an amazing love.
56:05 You know, God loves us.
56:07 He loves us through gifts,
56:08 He loves us through physical touch,
56:10 and His love is tangible.
56:12 God loves us practically.
56:14 God speaks to us in love languages,
56:17 in the language of love.
56:18 Never doubt that.
56:19 God has given Himself for us in the person of Jesus Christ.
56:24 God does not require sacrifice for sin,
56:26 He provides the sacrifice for sin.
56:29 He is the sacrifice for sin.
56:30 That was always God's plan B, the gift of love.
56:34 God became one with the human race forever,
56:36 God did not become a man for 33 years and say,
56:38 "I'm going to go back to heaven.
56:39 And you know, all things will continue as they were."
56:41 No.
56:42 God, in Jesus Christ, became permanently part
56:47 of the human race.
56:49 And this is love.
56:51 And these are the languages of love.
56:53 And they're powerful.
56:54 And God wants us to hear them,
56:57 and then He wants us to communicate them.
57:00 And tonight, as we kick off our camp meeting,
57:02 we're going to be continuing to move through this theme
57:04 of something better, a better God,
57:06 and a better man,
57:08 and the plan of salvation that God has laid out for us.
57:11 And I'm praying that God will speak to each one of us
57:13 and help us to get our eyes on Him, on heaven,
57:16 and all the things of this world that have been
57:17 so discouraging.
57:19 Let's pray together.
57:20 Father in heaven, thank You this evening for Your love.
57:22 Thank You for Your grace.
57:23 Thank You for the gift
57:24 that You've given us in Jesus Christ.
57:26 Thank You for being a God that speaks to us
57:31 and communicates to us even to the very end that endures,
57:35 whose love endures, whose love calls us,
57:37 whose love isn't exclusive, but is inclusive.
57:42 Guide each one who is hearing this message,
57:44 touch their hearts with this everlasting gospel,
57:47 we pray in Jesus' name.
57:49 Amen.


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