A Sharper Focus

Fruit of the Spirit -part 2

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00:19 Hello, we just want to welcome you
00:20 to A Sharper Focus.
00:22 My name is Jill Morikone, and we are so glad
00:24 that you have tuned in tonight and that you are joining us.
00:27 We want to welcome our Thompsonville
00:29 Seventh-day Adventist Church, our family who is here,
00:32 and you are part of the 3ABN family,
00:34 so we just welcome you as well.
00:36 Our pastor, Pastor John Lomacang
00:38 is not here, so I am just stepping in tonight
00:41 to fill in for him,
00:42 and we want to encourage you to check out the website www...
00:47 I got that wrong, ASF.3ABN.org.
00:53 Thank you, the crew in there just put it up for me,
00:55 so that helps me a good deal.
00:57 ASF.3ABN.org.
01:00 You can download the videos, you can watch them
01:03 from previous A Sharper Focus's.
01:05 You can also download study guides to follow along.
01:08 So we want to encourage you to check that out.
01:10 Let's open up the Word of God, and we will go to a scripture,
01:15 and then we'll go to the Lord in prayer.
01:17 The scripture that we are going to be reading is John 15.
01:22 This is one of my favorite chapters
01:25 in the Bible.
01:26 John 15, we are gonna read the first few verses.
01:31 The true vine.
01:32 "I am the true vine,
01:34 and My Father is the vinedresser.
01:36 Every branch in Me that does not bear fruit
01:39 He takes away,
01:40 and every branch that bears fruit He prunes,
01:44 that it may bear more fruit.
01:46 You are already clean because of the word
01:49 which I have spoken to you.
01:51 Abide in Me, and I in you.
01:53 As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself,
01:56 unless it abides in the vine, neither can you,
01:59 unless you abide in Me.
02:01 I am the vine, you are the branches."
02:03 We are in verse 5,
02:05 "He who abides in Me, and I in him,
02:08 bears much fruit,
02:10 for without Me you can do nothing.
02:13 If anyone does not abide in Me,
02:15 he is cast out as a branch and is withered,
02:18 and they gather them and throw them
02:20 into the fire, and they are burned.
02:23 If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you,
02:26 you will ask what you desire, and it shall be done for you."
02:30 Verse 8, "By this My Father is glorified,
02:34 that you bear much fruit, so you will be My disciples."
02:40 Let's pray.
02:41 Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus,
02:43 and I pray right now that You would hide me
02:48 that Jesus could be lifted up.
02:50 You said, "If I am lifted up, I would draw all men unto me."
02:54 And I just pray right now that You would speak,
02:56 that You would give us open ears
02:58 and hearts to receive
03:00 what You have for us in Your Word.
03:03 And I thank You in the precious and holy name of Jesus, amen.
03:08 My sister has four boys.
03:10 Now you know Greg and I don't have any kids
03:12 but she has four boys
03:14 and right now they are 10, 8, 6, and 4,
03:18 and their house is extremely busy.
03:20 Every time Greg and I go there, I come and I say,
03:23 "Oh, I am a little tired.
03:24 I need to take a nap."
03:26 One of the people here tonight said
03:28 they got a nap today, that's a good thing.
03:29 So I need to take a nap, I am tired.
03:32 It's exhausting with four boys.
03:34 So one time, and I don't remember exactly
03:36 which boy it was and it's probably a good thing,
03:39 but one time I remember
03:41 one of them was having a hard day,
03:42 you've ever have a hard day, and they were having a hard day
03:46 and they threw a little temper tantrum.
03:50 So you know what boys do
03:51 when they throw a temper tantrum?
03:52 They might kick their feet.
03:54 I remember the little legs going
03:55 on the floor, kicking.
03:56 I remember squalling,
03:58 just the tears coming down the face
04:00 'cause they are so mad.
04:01 You know the face red?
04:03 But what I will never forget
04:06 is the words, just a little guy,
04:09 two, three years old, kicking on the floor,
04:12 tears pouring down his face saying,
04:15 "Help me Jesus.
04:16 I want to be good. Help me Jesus.
04:21 I want to be good."
04:22 It reminds me of the tug of war experience
04:25 that we all experience in the Christian walk.
04:29 I have here a rubber band.
04:31 So you imagine I wake up in the morning
04:35 and then I am going to work
04:37 and all of a sudden someone gets mad at me,
04:40 phew, and then I am pulled this way,
04:42 the flesh side, right, phew,
04:44 and I am saying, "Help me Jesus,"
04:47 and I am starting to pull back the spirit side, right?
04:50 The rubber band is starting to get stretched,
04:52 you are feeling that tension.
04:55 The Word of God talks about that.
04:57 Turn with me to Galatians 5. We are going to Galatians 5.
05:02 Our opening scripture was John 15 talking
05:04 about fruit and abiding in the vine.
05:08 The last time I did A Sharper Focus,
05:10 we talked about the first four fruits of the Spirit,
05:15 in Galatians 5 so this one, hopefully, if we have time,
05:18 we'll get all the way
05:20 through the rest of the fruit of the Spirit.
05:21 But before we discuss that,
05:23 I just want to lay a brief foundation.
05:25 We are in Galatians 5:16,
05:30 Galatians 5:16.
05:32 "I say then, walk in the spirit,
05:35 and you shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh.
05:38 For the flesh," remember on this side,
05:40 "lusts against the spirit,
05:43 and the spirit against the flesh,
05:46 and they are contrary to one another,
05:51 so that you do not do the things that you wish.
05:54 But if you are led by the spirit,
05:55 you are not under the law."
05:56 And then Paul lists the works of the flesh.
06:00 It's not a comprehensive list, just an illustrative list.
06:03 But there's a lot of works of the flesh here.
06:06 "Adultery, fornication, lewdness, idolatry, sorcery,
06:09 hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath,
06:14 selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, envy, murders,
06:17 drunkenness," the like.
06:19 A whole list of works of the flesh.
06:22 And then he contrasts that in verse 22.
06:25 "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace,
06:30 longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
06:36 gentleness, self-control.
06:38 Against such there is no law."
06:42 We see the contrast between the work of the flesh
06:46 and the work of the spirit.
06:48 We could say self-centered living is on this side
06:51 or we could have
06:52 Christ-centered living on this side.
06:56 On the self-centered side, we are controlled by passion.
07:01 Christ-centered side,
07:03 I am controlled by the Holy Spirit.
07:07 On the self-centered side, I am a slave to sin.
07:12 On the Christ-centered side,
07:14 I die to self and to sin.
07:19 On the self-centered side, it shows,
07:21 reveals the fruit of sin, we just read that list.
07:26 On the Christ-centered side,
07:28 it shows the fruit of the Spirit.
07:32 The self-centered side walks in lust.
07:36 The Christ-centered side walks in love.
07:40 Jesus from the manger to the cross gave the picture
07:44 of self-sacrificing love.
07:48 On the self-centered side, I live for self,
07:51 you could say I am an adulator because I live for myself.
07:55 On the Christ-centered side, I live for other people.
08:00 What a contrast between the work of the flesh
08:03 and the work of the spirit.
08:04 Now, if I were to stop there,
08:07 I think we would be discouraged 'cause I'd say,
08:10 "I know I have some of those works
08:12 of the flesh in my life.
08:15 But God, I don't want it. How can I change?
08:19 How can I get rid of the work of the flesh
08:21 and live or walk in the fruit of the Spirit?"
08:27 We know Jeremiah 13:23 says,
08:30 "Can an Ethiopian change the color of his skin?
08:33 Or the leopard change the spots on his back?"
08:35 Of course, we can't. Then what does it say?
08:38 "Then may we also do good,
08:41 who are accustomed to doing evil."
08:43 So God knows we can't do that ourselves.
08:46 We can't change from the flesh side
08:48 and jump over here to the spirit side.
08:51 That can't happen. Turn with me to Ezekiel.
08:54 We'll have just a couple of scriptures
08:55 for foundation here, for walking in the spirit,
08:59 and then we'll talk about the fruit of the Spirit.
09:01 Turn with me to Ezekiel.
09:04 Ezekiel 36.
09:10 Ezekiel, Isaiah, Jeremiah, Ezekiel, Ezekiel 36,
09:14 we'll start with verse 25.
09:17 "Then I will sprinkle clean water on you,
09:21 and you shall be clean," I love that verse,
09:25 "I will cleanse you from all your filthiness
09:27 and from all your idols."
09:29 Verse 26, "I will give you a new heart
09:33 and put a new spirit within you,
09:36 I will take the heart of stone out of your flesh
09:39 and I'll give you a heart of flesh.
09:42 I will put My Spirit within you
09:44 and cause you to walk in My statutes,
09:47 and you will keep My judgments and do them.
09:51 Then you would dwell in the land
09:53 I gave to your fathers,
09:54 you shall be My people, and I will be your God."
09:58 What is God saying here? He will give us a new heart.
10:01 He will exchange my stony heart,
10:04 my heart that desires the work of the flesh,
10:07 He's gonna take it out.
10:09 And He is going to give me a heart of flesh.
10:12 A soft heart, a heart that's open to the work
10:17 of the Holy Spirit.
10:18 "In my heart and in my life."
10:21 Caleb is one of my nephews, and when he was five years old,
10:27 he gave me a call on the phone.
10:28 Now this is not unusual
10:29 because every Friday I get to talk to the nephews.
10:33 And so I talk to them
10:35 and it's one's turn and then the next one
10:37 and then the next and they all get their turn.
10:40 Now Caleb usually goes last.
10:42 And not 'cause he is the youngest,
10:43 he just usually goes last, and he said,
10:45 "Aunty Jill, I have something to tell you."
10:48 And I said, "Oh, Caleb, that's great."
10:49 And I am kind of, you know, I got my Bluetooth in,
10:52 I am working around the house, cleaning, it's Friday,
10:54 and just doing my thing,
10:55 and just, "Oh, that's great, Caleb."
10:57 He said, "I asked Jesus into my heart."
11:03 A five years old.
11:05 And for a minute I couldn't even talk,
11:07 you know, just and then he says,
11:10 "Aunty Jill, are you there?"
11:11 And I said, "Yes, sweetie. I am so proud of you.
11:15 That's the best decision you could ever make."
11:19 And he said, "I can't read yet
11:22 'cause I'm little, and I can't read yet.
11:25 But when I want to be mean to my brothers,
11:30 I ask Jesus to help me and He does."
11:34 That is, we could say in a child's viewpoint,
11:38 but it's kind of what we just read in Ezekiel 36,
11:41 that is God taking by the power
11:43 of His Spirit out of that stony heart,
11:46 the hard heart that wants to be mean to your brothers,
11:49 the heart that wants to do the work of the flesh,
11:52 and giving us a heart of flesh,
11:56 working within us the fruit of the Spirit.
12:00 There's another verse I want to look at before
12:03 we jump into the fruit of the Spirit.
12:04 This is found in Galatians 2:20.
12:08 Back to Galatians, Galatians 2:20,
12:11 and you can quote it at home, I am sure.
12:14 "I have been crucified with Christ,
12:17 it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me,
12:22 and the life which I now live in the flesh
12:24 I live by faith in the Son of God,
12:28 who loved me and gave Himself for me."
12:33 I think as we want to walk in the spirit,
12:37 as opposed to walking in the works of the flesh,
12:42 not only do we need to ask God for a new heart
12:44 and to give us the heart of flesh,
12:46 He also wants us to die to our self,
12:51 to crucify our own self.
12:57 Have you ever been to a funeral?
13:01 I guess everybody in this room has been to a funeral.
13:04 Now this is no disrespect to someone who has passed.
13:08 But if you go to the funeral, and say,
13:11 the person is there in the coffin,
13:15 can you tempt them with anything?
13:19 So if you were to go up and say,
13:20 "Hey, you want to smoke?"
13:22 Will they all of a sudden jump up and say, yes,
13:24 I want to smoke?
13:26 No, right. Why?
13:28 They are dead, that's right, Linda.
13:30 So you could not tempt them
13:31 with cigarettes or alcohol or pornography.
13:34 You could not tempt them to get mad or bitter or angry.
13:39 You could not tempt them with lust
13:41 or any of those works of the flesh and why is that?
13:45 Because they are dead.
13:48 I think that's the same principle,
13:51 the same place that God wants to bring you and I to.
13:56 I am crucified with Christ.
13:58 It's not me who is living, but Christ lives in me.
14:03 Remember Jesus in John 14.
14:06 Turn with me to John 14:30.
14:13 This is right before
14:14 our opening scripture in John 15.
14:15 John 14:30.
14:18 Jesus is speaking,
14:19 "I will no longer talk much with you,
14:22 for the ruler of this world is coming," meaning Satan,
14:25 "the ruler of this world is coming
14:27 and he has nothing,"
14:30 that's right, Cynthia, "he has nothing in Me."
14:33 What is that saying?
14:35 He is entirely, 100% dead
14:40 or crucified, two, there's no nature,
14:43 there's no sinful nature rising up,
14:47 none of that is in him, none of that response.
14:51 When we are connected to the vine,
14:53 as John 15 talks about abiding in Him,
14:57 connected to the life giving sap of Jesus,
15:00 the Holy Spirit flows into us
15:02 and empowers us to live for Christian walk.
15:07 Let's look at, we talked last time
15:11 on the first four fruits of the Spirit.
15:13 Fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering,
15:18 or patience.
15:19 Now we won't discuss those,
15:20 you can watch it on ASF.3ABN.org.
15:25 But let's go back to Galatians 6
15:27 and let's see what the next fruit
15:28 of the Spirit is.
15:30 So we are starting tonight with fruit number five.
15:34 Galatians 5:22,
15:37 we have love, joy, peace, longsuffering,
15:39 fruit number five is kindness.
15:42 They did a study in 2003
15:46 from people from 37 different countries,
15:49 now that's a fairly comprehensive study,
15:50 you might say a study is comprehensive
15:52 if you just did some people in America
15:54 or just a couple of countries,
15:56 but they did 37 different countries.
15:59 They had 16,000 people involved in the study.
16:02 And they asked them
16:04 what was their most desired trait in a mate.
16:08 So can you imagine what the most desired trait
16:10 would be in a mate?
16:12 Now you might say,
16:13 "Oh, I want him to be handsome."
16:15 Okay, especially if you are young,
16:17 you might think that, right?
16:18 Or, "I want him to provide for me.
16:22 I want a good communicator.
16:24 I want someone who will love me."
16:26 Okay, now this is from the woman's perspective.
16:29 But the number one trait of the 16, 000 people
16:32 in 37 different countries, you know what it was?
16:36 Kindness. Kindness.
16:39 The Greek word
16:40 in Galatians 5:22 is chrestotes,
16:46 and it means sympathetic kindliness
16:49 or sweetness of temper
16:51 which puts others at ease and shrinks from giving pain.
16:58 A synonym would be tenderness or compassion.
17:01 Sweetness.
17:03 Now you notice in the fruit of the Spirit,
17:04 many of them are similar, like they are related.
17:08 So this fruit of kindness is closely related
17:11 to the fruit of goodness.
17:13 Kindness is an attitude of the heart, and really,
17:16 kindness and goodness overlap,
17:18 but kindness is an attitude of the heart.
17:21 And if we think what are steps to kindness?
17:24 How do I incorporate kindness in my life?
17:27 How do I become a more kind person?
17:30 Now we could start with, put on kindness,
17:33 and the Bible says that, and we'll get to that,
17:35 but I think that's step number two.
17:36 I think step number one is to put off the old
17:40 before the new is put on.
17:43 Turn with me to Ephesians, Ephesians 4.
17:49 So number one for kindness is simply to take off hurt.
17:55 Some people want to be kind,
17:58 but there's too much pain in their heart.
18:01 Have you noticed that pain makes us
18:04 self-centered?
18:05 I remember when I was freshmen in college,
18:11 and we ate in the dorm often
18:13 because we didn't like the cafeteria food.
18:18 I think that would be common of anyone who lives in a dorm.
18:21 You think I don't like the café food.
18:22 So we ate in the dorm a lot.
18:24 And I remember once I had an apple
18:26 and I had my knife there, and I was gonna cut my apple
18:29 and I was holding the apple in this hand,
18:32 I am left-handed,
18:33 and I had the knife in my left hand,
18:35 and I was just gonna slice it through the middle,
18:39 so I went and I started and I got about to the middle
18:42 of the apple and it was a little hard,
18:44 and I am holding the apple like this
18:47 and I gave it an extra oomph, and you know what happened?
18:51 This tendon right here,
18:53 the tendon here cut right through it.
18:56 So when you are in pain,
19:00 I wasn't thinking about any upcoming assignment.
19:02 I wasn't thinking about anybody
19:05 that I liked or that I didn't like.
19:07 I was not thinking about any trouble
19:09 I was having with my roommate.
19:11 I wasn't thinking anything but my own pain.
19:14 So in order for us to reach out and be kind,
19:19 we have to put off the hurt that's in our heart.
19:22 Now we are talking physical pain there.
19:25 I remember that same year my grandmother died
19:28 and I was in a class and they called me out
19:34 and I was 500 miles from home.
19:36 And they said, "Your grandma died."
19:40 And I remember going outside and you know,
19:42 it's nice and pretty and all your friends going by
19:47 and I didn't care about any of that,
19:49 like my whole world was sucked into,
19:53 I just lost my grandma,
19:55 like your whole world is around that
19:57 and you can't get outside that to see anything else.
20:00 So the first step to being kind is to put off hurt.
20:05 Turn with me, we are in Ephesians 4,
20:08 Ephesians 4, and I am in 1 Corinthians,
20:10 so it will help if I got to Ephesians.
20:13 Ephesians 4:31, 32.
20:17 "Let all bitterness,"
20:18 this is the hurt we are talking about
20:20 that we are to put off.
20:21 "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor,
20:26 and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice."
20:32 The next verse,
20:34 "And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted,
20:39 forgiving one another,
20:41 even as God in Christ forgave you."
20:44 Did you see that?
20:45 What has to come off before we can put on kindness
20:48 and those other fruit of the Spirit?
20:50 We have to take off bitterness,
20:53 wrath, anger, clamor, evil speaking.
20:56 Now we already talked about,
20:58 we can't be the ones to pull it out of our heart.
21:00 I can't say, "Okay, I know, right now
21:03 I am holding bitterness against Iris,"
21:05 which I'm not, she is my good sister,
21:07 "and I am holding bitterness here
21:09 and I've got to pull it out."
21:10 No, we can't, we just go to God.
21:12 God, you've seen my heart.
21:14 Will you take out the heart of stone
21:16 and will You give me a heart of flesh?
21:19 So we take off the hurt, then we put on kindness.
21:22 Let's look at Colossians.
21:24 Galatians, Ephesians, Philippians, Colossians,
21:26 a couple of books over.
21:27 Colossians 3, the same principle,
21:32 we won't read this verse, but in verse 9,
21:38 it talks about putting off the old man,
21:39 it's this same principle of putting off.
21:42 Then verse 12,
21:43 "Therefore, as the elect of God,
21:45 holy and beloved,
21:47 put on tender mercies, kindness, humility,
21:52 meekness, longsuffering,"
21:54 you could almost think
21:55 we are reading the list of the fruit of the Spirit,
21:57 you notice a lot of them are similar,
22:00 "bearing with one another, forgiving one another,
22:03 if anyone has a complaint against another,
22:04 even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do."
22:08 We are to put on kindness.
22:11 To be good and kind is a choice,
22:13 I think, not necessarily a reaction, it's a choice.
22:18 Nothing discredits our Christian testimony
22:21 and ministry more frequently than unkindness.
22:26 Have you ever noticed that?
22:27 Someone that you look up to, that you respect,
22:30 that seems very godly and all of a sudden,
22:32 they react in an unkind manner, a sharp manner,
22:37 a difficult manner, and all of a sudden,
22:40 it discredits the Christian testimony,
22:44 who we are in Jesus.
22:46 Now that doesn't mean we don't fall, we all fall.
22:48 But when that happens,
22:50 1 John 1:9, if we confess our sins,
22:52 He is faithful and just to forgive us
22:54 and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
22:57 And in addition, "Now unto Him," Jude 24,
23:01 "who is able to keep you from falling.
23:04 He can enable us to stand up
23:06 and to walk in kindness toward our brothers and sisters.
23:09 So we take off the hurt, we put on the kindness,
23:12 then we actively look to reach out
23:14 in kindness to other people.
23:15 If you are in the grocery store,
23:18 let someone ahead of you in line and I have too.
23:21 They say confession is what?
23:22 Good for the soul, but hard on the reputation.
23:26 This happened to me just in Walmart.
23:28 I was in line and I had a huge cart full of stuff,
23:32 and the person came just behind me
23:35 with three items.
23:37 And you know what the Holy Spirit said?
23:39 Jill, let them go first. And you know what I did?
23:44 Anyone want to hazard a guess? I did not let them go first.
23:49 You were in a hurry? I was, Linda, I was in a hurry.
23:52 But does that make it right?
23:53 I was standing there thinking, "Oh, I got to get going,
23:55 and I got this appointment and I don't have time."
23:58 Kindness, try letting someone else go first in line,
24:03 pray for someone, that's kindness, reaching out,
24:07 offer to babysit at your friend's house,
24:09 say I am sorry more often,
24:12 look for ways to reach out in kindness.
24:16 Similar to kindness, remember,
24:18 kindness is an attribute of the heart
24:21 that's reached out, is goodness,
24:22 the next fruit of the Spirit is goodness.
24:25 Similar to it is goodness,
24:27 and goodness is actually the actions
24:29 or the reaching out
24:31 of what is actually in the heart.
24:32 Now I have, I don't know if we can get a shot of this,
24:34 I have an orange here.
24:36 So I don't know if you can see this orange,
24:39 would you want to eat this orange?
24:41 It looks kind of nasty, doesn't it?
24:43 Can you see that?
24:44 It's got some green spots, and it's kind of dimpled,
24:48 it's not a good looking orange.
24:50 Now if I were to show you this orange, you'd say,
24:52 "Okay, Jill, I don't want to eat this orange,
24:53 it does not look very good."
24:55 Now what if I were to show you this orange.
24:57 Does this orange look okay to you?
24:59 Now the thing is, you compare the two,
25:01 this one looks pretty bad, this one looks better.
25:04 The thing is, what if, I wish I had had an apple,
25:08 I would have used that illustration,
25:10 but I did not have an apple,
25:11 that's why we brought the oranges.
25:12 Now we can look at the outward fruit, outside,
25:15 and see this does not look very good.
25:17 Now there is a possibility though
25:20 that this orange might be dry, is that accurate?
25:24 This orange might not be very sweet,
25:27 or we are kind of late in the season,
25:29 it might also be sour,
25:31 you know how they start to go off
25:33 you get toward the end of the season,
25:35 kind of like biting into an apple.
25:37 You don't know if there's a worm in it,
25:39 especially if you grow it yourself,
25:40 until you bite in, "Ooh, I just bit into a worm."
25:44 You don't know, you don't see the worm from the outside
25:49 until you get inside.
25:51 So I look at goodness that way.
25:53 We might look okay on the outside
25:54 but what if someone takes a bite out of us, Tracey?
25:57 And they bite in, what are they gonna get?
26:01 What's gonna come out from inside?
26:04 The word in Greek for goodness,
26:06 this is back to our fruit of the Spirit, agatha...
26:11 If I can pronounce it properly, agathosune,
26:16 I did not do a good job with that
26:17 but it means active goodness, benevolence,
26:23 the practice or expression of kindness.
26:26 Goodness is love in action.
26:30 It's being good to other people,
26:32 it's reaching out in love,
26:34 or reaching out the attributes of kindness
26:37 that is exemplified in our heart,
26:38 it's reaching that out to other people.
26:42 I've heard, it said,
26:43 "If you want happiness for an hour, take a nap.
26:46 If you want happiness for a day, go fishing."
26:50 Now that might be my husband but to be honest with you,
26:53 if I wanted happiness for a day,
26:55 I wouldn't go fishing.
26:57 It depends on what you enjoy, right?
26:59 I would spend half hour fishing,
27:01 or if I brought a book,
27:03 now I'd enjoy going fishing with my husband.
27:06 "If you want happiness for a month, buy a new car.
27:09 If you want happiness for a year, win the lottery."
27:12 Now we do not advocate that here.
27:14 But people could say, "If you want it for a year,"
27:17 the point is it is not lasting, it's fleeting.
27:21 If you want happiness for a lifetime,
27:25 be good to people.
27:27 Why?
27:29 Because there's this saying,
27:30 "What goes around, comes around."
27:34 What you give is gonna in turn come back to you.
27:40 It's gonna come back to you.
27:42 Turn with me to Matthew 5,
27:46 Matthew 5 because what happens when...
27:50 It's easy to be good to those people who are loving.
27:55 It's painless to reach out if you don't have prickles.
28:00 But the real cost,
28:02 the real test for the fruit
28:05 of the Spirit of goodness in our live comes
28:07 when the loving costs me something.
28:10 When it's painful, when it hurts.
28:13 We are in Matthew...
28:17 I think it's chapter 5,
28:18 let me look what I am looking for,
28:20 Matthew 5, yes, Matthew 5,
28:22 part of the Sermon on the Mount.
28:23 Verse 43, "You have heard that it was said,
28:26 'You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.'
28:30 But I say to you, love your enemies,
28:34 bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you,
28:40 and pray for those who spitefully use you
28:44 and persecute you,
28:46 that you may be sons of your Father in heaven."
28:49 So you notice closely connected,
28:51 he mentioned good,
28:53 it was loving them, these are enemies,
28:55 these are people who hurt us, loving them, blessing them,
28:59 instead of cursing,
29:01 praying for them, doing good to them.
29:05 I remember I got a letter once
29:07 and sometimes you might get a letter
29:11 that's a little critical that says,
29:14 "Jill, why did you wear the pink top tonight?"
29:18 Well, I wore pink 'cause I like pink.
29:19 Okay, whatever.
29:21 But sometimes you get something
29:23 that's a little deeper than that.
29:26 And I got a letter once that was eight pages long.
29:32 And every page had something
29:35 that I was doing wrong,
29:39 or that the person who wrote it felt
29:42 that I needed to grow in, I needed to improve in.
29:49 And I remember, I read the letter
29:51 and then I cried
29:52 and then I read the letter again.
29:54 Why do we do that to ourselves? And then I cried again.
29:58 And Greg said, "Jill, stop reading that letter."
30:02 And so...
30:03 I still have the letter.
30:05 I put the letter away
30:07 and I felt some sort of simmering discontent,
30:13 hurt, pain, against the woman who had sent me the letter.
30:19 And one day, this is how God works, I was just...
30:22 I was not trying to purposely go to this verse.
30:25 I was just there in my morning's devotions.
30:28 I was in Romans,
30:29 if you want to turn there with me.
30:31 Romans 15...
30:38 Romans 15:5.
30:43 "Now may the God of patience and comfort grant you
30:46 to be like-minded toward one another,
30:49 according to Christ Jesus, that you may with one mind
30:54 and one mouth glorify the God
30:57 and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ."
31:00 And as I read that, the Holy Spirit spoke to me,
31:03 I don't mean like in audible voice,
31:05 but he said, "Jill, I want you to glorify me
31:10 with one mind and one mouth.
31:12 Are you in one accord with your sister?"
31:14 And I thought,
31:16 "I don't want to hear that right now.
31:17 I just don't want to think about it.
31:18 God, just don't go there with me.
31:20 So I am gonna keep reading.
31:22 I am not gonna listen to what the Holy Spirit
31:24 is trying to give me.
31:25 I am gonna keep going."
31:27 So I went to the next verse, verse 7,
31:30 "Therefore receive one another,
31:33 just as Christ also received us,
31:37 to the glory of God."
31:39 And as soon as I read that verse,
31:41 the Holy Spirit said,
31:42 "I have received the woman who wrote you the letter,
31:45 I've received her as my daughter.
31:47 Do you not think you can receive her
31:51 as your sister?
31:53 You are my daughter. She is my daughter.
31:56 That makes you sisters.
31:57 Don't you think
31:59 you can receive her as your sister?"
32:01 And I said, "Father, will You do that work?
32:04 'Cause I can't change my heart. It hurts.
32:08 I can't take that out but You can."
32:10 Remember, we started with Ezekiel 36,
32:13 God taking up the heart of stone,
32:15 giving us a heart of flesh, and so I went to God and said,
32:19 "Will You take this out?"
32:20 And you know what the beautiful thing is?
32:22 He did.
32:25 And I wrote her a letter back.
32:28 God said, "Look at that letter of eight pages
32:30 and see what's true in it."
32:32 And you know what? There was a lot of truth.
32:35 "This is what I want you to learn.
32:36 This is how I can help you grow."
32:39 And so I read that
32:41 and I prayed over it and I said,
32:42 "God, grow me in these areas where she pointed out."
32:46 And then I wrote my sister back and I said,
32:49 "Thank you for sharing with me 'cause I needed that."
32:53 And you know what?
32:54 She wrote me back the most beautiful letter,
32:57 and we talk now.
33:00 And you could say friends, I mean, she is not here,
33:03 so it's not like we are,
33:05 you know, we don't see each other all the time
33:06 but what a blessing, God wants to do that,
33:10 God wants to work in us the fruit of goodness
33:13 even when people hurt us,
33:16 when they are, what we would call enemies.
33:19 The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace,
33:22 longsuffering, we did kindness, goodness.
33:24 Now let's look at faithfulness.
33:27 Faithfulness,
33:29 the Greek word is pistos, and in the Greek,
33:33 this word is translated either faith or faithfulness.
33:38 And if you read different verses of the Bible,
33:40 some versions of the Bible in Galatians 5
33:42 were translated faith,
33:44 some were translated faithfulness.
33:47 So you could really take either one.
33:49 Faith is always a gift from God and it's never produced by us.
33:54 It only comes from the Lord Jesus Christ.
33:56 But I want to look at it from the faithfulness aspect.
34:00 The character of someone who can be relied on.
34:04 J.D. Quinn often says, and I've taken this,
34:08 he's told me this some time ago
34:10 and I just remember it and take it to heart.
34:13 He said, "It's the right thing to do."
34:17 I don't know if any of you here have heard him say that,
34:19 it was just the right thing to do.
34:22 I was tired and I didn't want to go
34:24 but someone needed prayer,
34:25 it was the right thing to do to call him in prayer.
34:28 I didn't want to go see so and so,
34:29 but it was the right thing to do to go and visit them.
34:32 I didn't want to make my bed, if you were a kid,
34:35 or wash the dishes or do my chores,
34:38 but it's the right thing to do.
34:41 When I get to my desk in the morning,
34:43 "Oh, I don't want to do that email,
34:45 I'd rather do this over here."
34:46 And that email is the right thing to do.
34:51 Faithfulness in those little things.
34:53 J. Hudson Taylor,
34:55 founder of the China Inland Mission,
34:58 one stormy night in Birmingham, England,
35:02 he was supposed to go out and speak at a church,
35:05 and the person said, "No, don't go.
35:08 It's so stormy. Nobody is gonna show up.
35:12 It doesn't matter. Don't go."
35:15 And he said, "I must go.
35:17 Even if no one is there, but the doorkeeper, I must go."
35:23 Well, he showed up and it was a stormy night
35:25 and not a lot of people had come out,
35:28 less than a dozen people.
35:31 So I don't know the exact number,
35:32 they just said less than a dozen,
35:34 so let's suppose there's ten people there.
35:36 You could think, why did they even come out, ten people?
35:42 Of those ten, half of them,
35:47 either went as missionaries themselves,
35:50 or their children
35:52 when they grew up went as missionaries.
35:55 And the other half liberally,
35:58 each one, supported the work,
36:02 the mission work, the work of the China Inland Mission.
36:06 It's an example of faithfulness.
36:08 Faithfulness is serving God regardless of the names,
36:11 or in his case, who showed up.
36:13 Faithfulness is serving God regardless of the numbers,
36:17 or in his case, how many people showed up.
36:20 Faithfulness is serving God regardless of the situation.
36:25 It's just serving God. Deuteronomy 7.
36:31 Deuteronomy 7 talks about the faithfulness
36:34 of our covenant keeping God.
36:37 Deuteronomy 7,
36:40 we are going to look at verse 9.
36:44 "Therefore know that the Lord your God,
36:47 He is God, the faithful God
36:51 who keeps covenant and mercy for a thousand generations
36:56 with those who love Him and keep His commandments."
37:00 You notice, it talks about God being a faithful God,
37:05 and how does he show his faith for this?
37:06 Keeping covenant, showing mercy with each one of us.
37:12 His faithfulness toward us is linked with him
37:15 being a covenant keeping God.
37:17 We see that in the Book of Lamentations.
37:20 Lamentations 3, now Jeremiah wrote
37:24 the Book of Lamentations.
37:25 And the children of Israel were at their,
37:29 you could say one of their bleakest moments
37:31 in their history.
37:32 They were getting ready to be taken captive, they had,
37:36 you could call it the book of regrets,
37:38 they had a lot of difficulties going on,
37:42 and Lamentations, 3,
37:45 and in the whole Book of Lamentations,
37:48 we see God's faithfulness toward us
37:50 because the hardships that the people experienced
37:52 during that time was a result of their unfaithfulness to God.
37:57 So because of their unfaithfulness,
38:00 they were experiencing hardships.
38:02 But even in spite of their unfaithfulness,
38:04 God was still faithful.
38:07 And he showed his faithfulness by judgment.
38:12 That was one of the conditions of the covenant.
38:14 The faithfulness was showed by judgment on the disobedient,
38:18 but it was also shown by restoration
38:22 of the repentant.
38:24 Lamentations 3:22,
38:30 "Through the Lord's mercies we are not consumed,
38:33 because His compassions fail not.
38:36 They are new every morning, great is Your faithfulness."
38:42 Our covenant keeping God is faithful.
38:45 "The Lord is my portion,' says my soul,
38:47 'Therefore I hope in Him!'"
38:52 You know, when I got married to Greg,
38:55 we've been married 15 years this fall,
38:57 it's hard to believe it's been 15 years this fall.
39:01 When I got married to Greg,
39:02 I thought I understood commitment.
39:07 We could say covenant,
39:08 we are talking about God's covenant keeping
39:10 toward us as His people.
39:12 I thought I understood covenant and I loved him
39:15 as much as I knew how to love him
39:17 at that time and it's amazing,
39:19 in marriage, the love deepens and grows.
39:21 But when we got married, I thought, "Surely,
39:23 I can't love him any more than I do now."
39:26 And I am committed and I really thought
39:30 and believed I was.
39:32 But as we entered our marriage, you know what I discovered?
39:36 The depth, the length, the breadth
39:42 of my husband's commitment to me,
39:46 it's deeper than anything I could ever imagine.
39:52 I thought I was committed to him,
39:56 but his commitment to me is deeper than anything
40:00 I could ever think.
40:03 I remember him telling me,
40:04 and this is fairly early in our marriage,
40:07 "No matter what you do Jilly,
40:09 no matter where life plays out,
40:14 no matter if you walk away from God,
40:18 if you walk away from me, no matter what you do,
40:23 I will always be here.
40:25 I will always love you.
40:28 I will always be committed to our marriage."
40:33 The depth of that gives us a glimpse
40:39 of the depth of the love
40:42 of our Father in heaven.
40:43 The depth of his covenant keeping ability, the depth...
40:49 He says, "No matter what you do,
40:51 no matter where you go,
40:53 no matter what you've done in the past,
40:55 no matter what you could do in the future,
40:57 I will always love you.
41:00 I will always be here and committed to you."
41:04 That's what God wants to do.
41:06 It's amazing to me the faithfulness of our God.
41:10 And God calls us to be faithful to Him,
41:15 faithful to each other,
41:17 and faithful in the little things
41:20 or the big things of life in the same fashion.
41:24 Because He is a faithful God
41:26 and He calls us as His people to be a faithful people.
41:32 "Where there is faithfulness to discharge one's duties
41:36 regardless of the results
41:38 there is success in God's sight.
41:41 We are to be faithful to the gifts, the abilities,
41:44 the opportunities that God gives us
41:47 and just leave the results with Him."
41:51 You know Elisabeth Elliot?
41:52 I don't know how many of you are familiar with her.
41:54 She and her husband Jim Elliott, remember,
41:56 they went as missionaries,
41:57 and she was young, and committed,
41:59 and wanted to serve, and follow God,
42:01 and remember what happened?
42:03 Her husband was murdered,
42:05 killed by the very people
42:08 they had gone to save, the very people
42:10 that they had gone to minister to and to lead to Jesus.
42:14 And if you are familiar with her writings,
42:16 she says this a lot, "Do the next thing."
42:21 So she said, after her husband died,
42:23 "What would you want to do?"
42:26 "I don't know. I haven't experienced that."
42:28 Tracy says, go home, right? You would want to go home.
42:30 You'd want to give up,
42:33 you'd want to walk in self-pity, and she said,
42:37 "I told myself, do the next thing."
42:41 What's the next thing? The floor needs to be scrubbed.
42:45 I'll get down and scrub the floor.
42:47 And she said, "I found, as I began to scrub,
42:51 God began to bring healing and comfort to my heart."
42:57 Do the next thing. Sometimes we are afraid.
43:03 God might call us to a task and we'd say,
43:07 "I can't fulfill it.
43:09 God, I can't do it.
43:11 I am not able. It's too big. It's too high. It's too hard."
43:17 And he says, "Do the next thing."
43:21 Sometimes it's the little thing we are called to and I say,
43:24 "This is too little.
43:25 God, I should be over here.
43:27 Why am I scrubbing floors or doing the..."
43:30 Do the next thing.
43:33 Sometimes we are overwhelmed.
43:35 I have too many things on my plate
43:36 and I just can't handle this, what am I going to do?
43:39 Do the next thing.
43:42 That is, walking in faithfulness.
43:46 We have two fruit of the Spirit left.
43:48 I hope we'll get through them all.
43:49 The next one, gentleness.
43:53 In the Greek, it means gentleness
43:57 by implication, humility, meekness.
44:02 Gentleness then is that virtuous quality
44:05 by which we treat all men with perfect courtesy.
44:10 We can rebuke without rancor.
44:13 We can argue without intolerance.
44:15 We can face the truth without resentment.
44:19 We can be gentle and not weak.
44:24 Gentleness is not without power.
44:26 It just chooses to defer to others.
44:29 It chooses to forgive others, to correct with kindness,
44:34 and live in humility, and tranquility toward others.
44:39 You know, in today's culture, we don't honor gentleness.
44:45 Would you say that's accurate? We don't honor humility.
44:48 We are in a culture
44:49 where world class athletes smash
44:52 into each other and we say, "Yes.
44:56 They did a good thing."
44:57 We are in a culture where entertainment
45:01 can even become insults.
45:04 People trade insults with each other,
45:06 like on some reality show,
45:08 and we consider that entertainment,
45:11 and we want to listen to that, we want to watch that.
45:13 We are in a world where pride,
45:17 and me first becomes common,
45:20 not only common, it's accepted and it's applauded.
45:24 We are not in a world where, remember, Matthew 11:28-29,
45:28 Jesus says, "Come to Me, all you who labor
45:31 and are heavy laden, I will give you rest.
45:33 Take My yoke upon you and learn of Me,
45:36 for I am meek and lowly in heart,"
45:40 the same Greek word,
45:42 "and you shall find rest to your souls.
45:46 For My yoke is easy and My burden is light."
45:48 And often, we think meekness is equated with weakness.
45:53 But meekness takes great strength.
45:57 Meekness takes great strength.
46:01 I remember, this was some time ago,
46:04 I met a gentleman.
46:06 And the first words out of his mouth, he looked nice,
46:10 he looked, he was in his suit, he had a nice clean cut,
46:14 a pleasant looking person.
46:15 And the first words out of his mouth
46:18 shattered any presuppositions
46:20 I had in my heart about his likeableness.
46:23 He held his hand out and he said,
46:25 "My name is John Smith."
46:26 That is not his name. "My name is John Smith.
46:29 I am a fabulous pianist."
46:33 And I looked at him, and then he said,
46:36 "You have no idea how well I can play."
46:39 And he proceeded to regale me with stories of how good
46:43 he was and how he did such a good job.
46:46 And I found, I wasn't even listening
46:47 as he talked, I thought in my mind
46:50 of the gifted musicians I do know,
46:53 men and women who make the piano laugh
46:55 and cry and sing and their fingers love
46:58 all over the piano and yet,
46:59 they never talk about their gifts and ability.
47:01 They never build themselves up like,
47:03 "I'm so good."
47:05 They walk in humility, or our word, gentleness.
47:09 So how do we walk in humility?
47:11 It's a hard thing to see yourselves, isn't it?
47:14 The Bible says, "The heart is deceitful above all things
47:17 and desperately wicked."
47:18 Who can know it?
47:20 So I can think, "I am walking in humility," and I am not.
47:24 I could be walking in pride, or arrogance,
47:28 or full of myself and not even be aware of that.
47:32 I think the first step is just to ask God
47:34 to show us our heart.
47:35 Psalm 139:23, 24,
47:37 "Search me, O God, and know my heart, try me,
47:40 and know my thoughts,
47:42 and see if there is any wickedness in me,
47:44 and lead me in the way everlasting."
47:47 I remember I was praying that one morning
47:49 and God showed me a picture of my heart,
47:51 not like a vision, I don't mean that.
47:54 But I saw there, in my lap,
47:56 and it was all clean in the middle,
47:58 and all the way around the edges
48:01 were pockets of diseased tissue.
48:04 And I began to cry 'cause I knew
48:07 that that represented junk in my life,
48:09 I knew that represented something
48:11 that was not pleasing to God.
48:14 But I didn't even know what it was.
48:16 And so I said, "Oh, Father, please show me
48:20 those areas in my life that are not pleasing to you."
48:23 Well, we went throughout the day,
48:25 and that very day
48:26 something happened and instantly,
48:29 my heart responded
48:30 with a critical judgmental spirit.
48:33 And I felt God speak to me and say,
48:36 "That's one of those pockets that I showed you this morning.
48:41 That's one of those pockets I want you to give to me."
48:44 And so what do we do?
48:45 We started with Ezekiel 36, God,
48:47 take out the heart of stone, give me a heart of flesh.
48:51 God, take out that pocket
48:53 of a critical spirit of being prideful,
48:56 give me the spirit of gentleness,
48:58 the spirit of humility.
49:00 We ask God to show us our heart, we behold Jesus.
49:03 Remember Isaiah?
49:05 We won't turn there 'cause of the time
49:06 but remember Isaiah, when he was called to ministry,
49:10 he had already been called as a prophet,
49:12 but remember Isaiah 6,
49:14 when he saw the Lord high and lifted up
49:16 and his train filled the temple,
49:17 remember that vision, and he saw the glory of God,
49:21 and what did he say?
49:23 "Woe is me, for I am undone!
49:26 I am unclean, I dwell in the midst
49:28 of an unclean people,
49:30 for mine eyes have seen the King,
49:32 the Lord of hosts, the Lord of glory."
49:35 And so when we look to Jesus automatically,
49:40 boy, that works in us the spirit of humility,
49:42 that works in us that spirit of gentleness
49:45 because comparing myself with someone else,
49:48 maybe in something I'd be better than them,
49:50 and then a lot of things I'd be worse than them.
49:52 But if I look at Jesus, always,
49:55 it shows it in the proper perspective
49:57 and I see who he is as opposed to me.
50:01 Ask God to show us our heart, behold him,
50:03 spend time in others, focus on others,
50:06 sorry, spend time in His Word, focus on others.
50:11 Pray for humility.
50:13 And then the last fruit of the Spirit, self-control.
50:18 I wonder why this one is listed last.
50:21 Ooph. Self-control.
50:25 It comes from the word crotos, originally,
50:29 which means holding one's self in.
50:34 This particular Greek word occurs only four times
50:38 in the New Testament.
50:40 Self-control.
50:42 It proceeds out from within one self,
50:45 not by one self.
50:47 So in other words,
50:48 it doesn't come because of my own power,
50:51 it comes from the Lord Jesus Christ.
50:53 It can be accomplished only by the power of the Lord.
50:56 You know, they did a study
50:59 and I'm sure you've all heard it,
51:02 the marshmallow test.
51:03 They did, yes, years ago.
51:05 Walter Mischel,
51:07 he was a professor at Stanford University,
51:09 and he developed this test.
51:12 They took three to five year olds.
51:15 And they gave them this test.
51:16 Now I have a Twix bar here, chocolate covered,
51:21 smells pretty good.
51:23 So they put, sometimes it was an Oreo cookie,
51:26 or a marshmallow, or a pretzel stick,
51:28 it depended on what the kids really liked.
51:32 And they told them, I'm gonna put this right here
51:34 in front of you, right there.
51:37 Now I'll leave the room for 15 minutes.
51:42 If you don't eat that, Lorrie, for 15 minutes,
51:47 you'll get another one, when you come back,
51:48 you can have two.
51:50 So they tracked this and studied these kids.
51:55 Some of them would cover their eyes
51:56 with their hands like this
51:57 so they didn't have to look at the Oreo cookie
52:00 or the marshmallow sitting there in front of them.
52:02 Some of them would turn around.
52:04 That way, I am not looking at the temptation behind me.
52:07 Some of them would
52:09 actually kick the desk, or I guess,
52:12 this had to be a girl, they said,
52:14 they pulled down their pigtails,
52:15 so you know that's got to be a girl,
52:18 or some of them would pick up the marshmallow and stroke it,
52:22 maybe thinking, "Ah, I am gonna eat you soon,
52:25 I am gonna eat you soon,"
52:27 I don't know what they thought.
52:28 So they tracked them.
52:30 And then years later,
52:31 now this study was done years ago,
52:33 they tracked those kids, and they found
52:37 that as they grew into adulthood,
52:39 and now the kids that they did are,
52:41 what did they say, 40s 50s, I think, they are middle-aged.
52:45 They found that
52:46 they had higher SAT scores in high school.
52:49 They did better in college.
52:52 Later in life, they had earned more advanced degrees,
52:56 they did less drugs, they coped better with stress.
53:02 Self-control, now when I look at that,
53:07 I think of all the fruit of the Spirit,
53:08 this one is the hardest one for me,
53:10 I am just being very frank with you.
53:11 Self-control could be, boy,
53:14 I really want a piece of chocolate today,
53:16 or it could be, I really want to go over
53:18 and give so and so a piece of my mind
53:21 because I am mad at them, self-control,
53:24 to hold yourself from saying that, right?
53:27 Or it could be, "I am married...
53:33 but I like the way he treats me over here,
53:36 and I think he is kind of cute,"
53:38 allowing my mind to step outside of the bounds
53:41 of marriage, or being single,
53:44 and walking, instead of in purity,
53:47 starting to walk in lust towards someone else.
53:49 So self-control takes many different facets.
53:53 How do we develop self-control?
53:56 True self-control is not about brining my self
54:00 under my own control.
54:02 Any time we do that, guess what happens?
54:04 We fail miserably.
54:07 It is about brining my self
54:10 under the power of the Holy Spirit.
54:14 It's about surrender.
54:17 It's not saying no in my own strength,
54:21 it's saying it through the power
54:22 of the Lord Jesus Christ.
54:23 Remember when we, toward the beginning,
54:26 one of the foundational scriptures was Galatians 2:20,
54:29 I am crucified with Christ, nevertheless,
54:31 not I live but Christ lives in me.
54:35 Let's turn to Luke 9:23,
54:37 we use this as our last scripture.
54:39 Luke 9:23..
54:45 Matthew, Mark, Luke, Luke 9:23.
54:57 Now remember, the Jews thought
55:00 that Jesus was coming to set up an earthly kingdom.
55:03 They thought that He would break
55:04 the Roman yoke.
55:06 They thought that He would do all this stuff, and instead,
55:10 He came gently, with humility, meekly,
55:15 and His kingdom was not of this world,
55:19 but they didn't understand it at that time,
55:21 so the principles that Jesus taught,
55:23 you think about the Sermon on the Mount
55:25 were vastly opposed to what they believed,
55:30 to what they had been taught in the synagogue.
55:32 We are in Luke 9:23, and I could say,
55:36 not only for the Jews, but for you and I today,
55:39 this goes counter against to our own heart
55:41 and our own life,
55:42 what we want, our cardinal nature,
55:44 "Then He said to them all,
55:46 'If anyone desires to come after Me,
55:49 let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily,
55:54 and follow Me.
55:56 For whoever desires to save his life will lose it,
55:59 but whoever loses his life for My sake will save it.
56:05 For what profit is it to a man if he gains the whole world,
56:07 and is himself destroyed or lost?'"
56:11 "If anyone desires to come after Me," verse 23,
56:13 "let him deny himself, take up his cross daily,
56:18 and follow Me."
56:20 Self-control is entirely Jesus',
56:24 bringing myself under His control
56:26 but it takes a death to myself,
56:29 it takes choosing His way as opposed to my way.
56:33 So I don't know how you feel tonight.
56:36 You might feel like the rubber band,
56:38 being stretched, ah, the flesh, the fruit of the flesh,
56:42 the work of that is pulling me this way.
56:46 But I know that
56:47 the Holy Spirit's pulling in on this side.
56:49 I know the Holy Spirit's wooing my heart.
56:54 God wants to give us a victory.
56:57 God wants to enable you
56:58 and I to walk in the fruit of the Spirit
57:02 as opposed to the work of the flesh.
57:05 It's not anything that we could do.
57:08 It comes from saying yes to Jesus,
57:11 being connected to the vine,
57:13 dying to self and letting Him live inside.
57:16 So I just want to encourage you
57:18 that God is a covenant keeping God,
57:21 and what He has promised,
57:23 He is able to fulfill in your life
57:26 and in mine, so give Him a chance.
57:29 Ask Him to come into your life and say,
57:32 "My heart is a heart of stone but, oh, Father,
57:36 by the power of Your Spirit,
57:38 will You take out the heart of stone?
57:40 Will You work in me the heart of flesh?
57:43 Will You change me into the image of Jesus?"
57:46 And He wants to work in your heart and in mine,
57:49 the fruit of love, joy, peace,
57:52 patience, kindness, goodness,
57:56 gentleness, and self-control.
57:58 Let Him do the work and give Him glory
58:02 for what He has done in your life.
58:03 Let's pray.
58:04 Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus,
58:06 and we thank You for what You want to do
58:09 in our lives.
58:10 We thank You that it's never us who does the work.
58:14 You are the one who works in us and through us both to will
58:17 and to do of your good pleasure.
58:19 So we give You permission right now
58:21 to change us into Your image,
58:24 and we thank You in the precious
58:26 and holy name of Jesus.
58:28 Amen.


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