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The Problem with Anger

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00:00 - Now, I don't know about you,
00:01 but there are these moments in life
00:03 when I'm in a really stressful situation,
00:06 and I can feel my temperature start to rise,
00:09 and I'm pretty sure if I don't walk away
00:11 from that situation right then and there,
00:14 I'm gonna blow my stack.
00:16 And then, of course, a few minutes later,
00:18 I'm gonna hate myself for doing that.
00:20 Today on "Authentic", we're gonna talk
00:23 about getting unjustifiably angry.
00:26 [soft pensive music]
00:38 [soft pensive music continues]
00:47 The other day I was running over to the hardware store
00:49 to get some furniture polish,
00:51 when I think I probably met the angriest guy in town.
00:54 Now, right up front, I should probably confess my sins.
00:58 I was in a hurry, and I was obviously breaking
01:00 parking lot protocol, because the lot
01:02 was almost completely empty.
01:05 So, like I've done in the past, I cut across the lot
01:08 diagonally to get to the spot where I wanted to be,
01:11 and my infraction was more than this guy could handle.
01:14 He was pushing a cart with what looked to be
01:16 some bags of garden soil, and honestly,
01:19 I came nowhere near him.
01:21 I'm not even close.
01:22 But I could hear him cursing me
01:25 through the closed windows of my car.
01:27 Now when I stopped and rolled down my window,
01:29 he was ready for me.
01:30 And because this is a family show,
01:33 I cannot repeat what he said.
01:34 But man, he was hot.
01:36 It was the weirdest case of road rage I've ever seen.
01:40 Obscene gestures, foul words,
01:42 and when I tried to talk to him,
01:44 it only made things worse.
01:45 He just got madder.
01:47 Eventually, I gave up.
01:48 I told him I'm sorry he was having such a hard day,
01:51 and I hoped that things would start to improve.
01:53 And I walked away.
01:55 It was one of those rare times when you see
01:57 somebody coming completely unglued.
02:00 And who knows what was going on in this poor guy's life
02:03 before I got there?
02:05 Maybe he'd just discovered his spouse was leaving him,
02:08 or maybe he'd just been fired,
02:10 or maybe he's quitting a long time habit, like alcohol,
02:13 or cigarettes, or even prescription drugs,
02:16 and his body chemistry was all out of whack.
02:19 I mean, who really knows what kinds of things
02:22 lead up to that moment when the camel's back finally breaks?
02:27 I mean, if we're honest, we'd have to admit
02:29 we've all been there.
02:30 There comes a moment when your bottled up stress
02:32 finally gets to you, and you start to dump
02:35 on some poor victim who just happens to be there
02:38 when you finally hit the limit.
02:40 I've seen it happen in workplaces,
02:42 on the freeway, in a shopping mall,
02:44 and more and more and more, I've been seeing it
02:48 happen in airports and on airplanes.
02:50 It's as if the stress of travel
02:52 suddenly pushes some people over the precipice.
02:55 Now from where I sit, it seems like our collective anxiety
02:59 in this society is rising.
03:01 People are more frustrated, they're more anxious,
03:04 and of course, that means that a lot of people
03:06 are getting angrier, too.
03:09 And if we're honest about this, we'd have to admit
03:11 that we've all made contributions to the overall problem.
03:14 I mean, if you're human, you've done it.
03:17 And then when you're finished blowing up,
03:19 you suddenly pass through several different
03:21 phases of thinking.
03:22 First, you kind of hate yourself for losing control,
03:26 and then you justify what you did,
03:28 identifying the people who provoked you,
03:30 or the circumstances that shouldn't have been
03:33 allowed to happen.
03:34 And then, as your anger begins to dissipate,
03:37 you find yourself mentally revisiting that moment
03:40 30 seconds before you lost your cool,
03:43 and you wonder what you might have done differently.
03:46 Then, after some time goes by, there's a pretty good chance
03:48 that you begin to realize that you probably owe
03:51 somebody an apology.
03:53 I mean, they did do the wrong thing,
03:56 but it really wasn't worth the level of anger
03:58 you expressed, and maybe you even escalated
04:01 the situation unnecessarily until it lost
04:04 all sense of proportion.
04:06 When you and I get angry, we often lose control,
04:10 which can lead to an awful lot
04:12 of shame and regret.
04:14 And because of the way we experience anger,
04:17 a lot of people have trouble with the idea
04:18 that God might also get angry.
04:21 "I don't know what kinda god you worship,"
04:23 I've heard some people say.
04:24 "But my god doesn't get angry."
04:28 As if we all get to reinvent or redefine God
04:31 to suit our own sensibilities.
04:34 But let me ask you this.
04:35 Does God actually get angry?
04:37 That's what I want to explore today,
04:38 the concept of God's wrath.
04:41 For this generation, that's become an uncomfortable subject,
04:44 because over the centuries, the Christian church
04:47 has often painted a very unfair picture
04:49 of who God is and what he's like.
04:52 Preachers have been known to describe God
04:53 as a severe, unforgiving, angry deity
04:57 who can't wait to deliver his wrath on your head.
05:00 Just make one wrong move, and that angry God's
05:02 gonna strike you dead.
05:04 All he needs is the slightest excuse.
05:09 We preached a God who can't wait to be rid of human beings,
05:11 a God who even hates us, and maybe, just maybe,
05:15 he'll accept you into his kingdom
05:17 if you somehow manage to find a legal loophole,
05:20 but it's gonna be begrudgingly.
05:22 It's a regrettable portrait of God
05:25 that isn't really supported by the writers of the Bible.
05:29 After all, the most pointed explanation
05:31 of the character of God that you find in the Bible
05:34 is one single word.
05:35 That word is love.
05:37 And if there's one thing that some preachers
05:40 have been guilty of, it's skipping right past
05:42 that definition of love to preach
05:45 about the condemnation of sinners.
05:48 But you know, there's another ditch that we fall into
05:50 sometimes, and that's ignoring what the Bible
05:52 actually says about the wrath of God.
05:56 It's an uncomfortable subject, to be sure.
05:58 And here in America, a lot of consumer-driven churches
06:01 don't seem to think that God's anger is good advertising.
06:05 That concept sometimes leads to a one dimensional
06:09 meaningless God who always seems to think
06:11 that everything's A-okay, no matter what happens to who.
06:16 But in our more honest moments, we have to admit
06:18 there's no way to read the Bible
06:20 and avoid what it says about God getting angry.
06:23 Let me give you just one example
06:25 from the Book of Numbers,
06:26 where it tells us that God decided
06:28 to punish the nation of Israel.
06:31 It says, "And the Lord's anger was kindled against Israel,
06:35 "and he made them wander in the wilderness 40 years
06:37 "until all the generation that had done evil
06:40 "in the sight of the Lord was gone."
06:43 Now let's be honest about that.
06:44 There's no way of getting around what it said.
06:47 You can't just dismiss that as some kind
06:49 of semantic misunderstanding.
06:51 It tells us that Israel provoked God
06:53 to the point of anger, and what exactly was it
06:57 that made him angry?
06:59 Evil behavior.
07:00 So, maybe the preachers of yesterday
07:03 who pointed to the wrath of God kind of had a point.
07:06 Sometimes, the almighty God really does get angry.
07:11 And I think there are reasons we tend to squirm
07:13 when we think about that.
07:14 First of all, most of us realize that when the Bible
07:17 says that every one of us falls dramatically short
07:20 of the glory of God, and we think about the way
07:22 we've chosen to live, the decisions we've made,
07:25 the people we've hurt, well, it's not too hard
07:28 to understand that could easily be directed at us,
07:32 and we would have it coming.
07:34 So from that perspective, we'd like God's anger
07:37 not to be true.
07:40 But then, you know, I think there's another reason
07:41 that some people find the idea of an angry God
07:44 to be really unsettling.
07:45 It's because they've been the victim
07:47 of some human being's anger, and they were hurt by it.
07:50 Maybe they spent their childhood in an abusive home,
07:53 or they've just escaped from an abusive marriage,
07:56 or maybe they're the ones with an anger problem,
07:59 and they know full well they have victimized
08:01 an awful lot of people.
08:02 So, of course, when they read about the wrath of God,
08:05 that can stir up a lot of painful emotions and memories,
08:08 because they're projecting unjust human anger
08:11 onto the character of God,
08:13 and to some extent, that's understandable,
08:15 because all we really have in this world
08:17 is a human perspective.
08:19 When we wanna know what God is like,
08:21 we tend to compare him to our own experience,
08:24 and that's kind of where the problem lies.
08:26 Of course we anthropomorphize God,
08:29 because that's what the writers of the Bible do.
08:31 God relates to us in human terms.
08:34 And then, of course, he suddenly shows up in Bethlehem
08:36 as one of us, and encourages us to learn more
08:40 about him as a real live human being.
08:43 Then what we sometimes do is run the comparison
08:45 in the wrong direction.
08:47 We compare God to ourselves instead of the other way around.
08:51 I'll be right back after this.
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09:26 - You know, I think one of the trickiest bits
09:29 about learning to read the Bible
09:30 is the tension between the fact that God
09:32 is somewhat like us on the one hand,
09:34 because we're made in his image,
09:36 but then on the other, we have the fact
09:38 that God is not like us, because we're fallen.
09:40 So, when the Bible tells us in 1 John 4 Verse 8,
09:44 that God is love, we can, to some extent,
09:47 grasp that concept, because human beings
09:50 also practice love and tend to treasure it.
09:53 But then once you really start to examine it carefully,
09:56 the Bible suddenly reveals that God practices love
09:59 in a way that you and I can't.
10:02 His love is bigger, it's better,
10:04 and it's completely selfless,
10:06 which leaves you wondering.
10:08 What would pure love, completely uncompromised
10:11 by human brokenness, actually look like?
10:15 The same thing happens with the Bible's
10:17 treatment of anger.
10:18 There's just no getting around the idea
10:20 that God gets angry.
10:22 It gets mentioned in the Bible far too often
10:24 to just dismiss it.
10:26 And of course our natural tendency is to compare
10:29 God's wrath to our own, just like we do with love,
10:33 and what we discover is that God's anger
10:36 is not exactly like ours.
10:38 There's a very brief statement
10:40 over in the Book of Psalms that kind of underlines
10:42 this concept.
10:43 "Be angry," it says, "And do not sin.
10:46 "Ponder in your own hearts on your beds and be silent."
10:50 Now, tell me that description isn't different
10:52 from your human anger.
10:54 I mean, how many times have you been upset,
10:56 and the way you handled it was completely selfless,
11:00 completely sinless?
11:02 This is what makes you suspect that anger is always wrong,
11:05 no matter what the circumstances,
11:07 but according to the Bible,
11:08 anger is actually a perfectly valid emotion.
11:13 But it can become wrong very quickly,
11:15 the way that you and I do it.
11:17 In a fit of anger, it's easy to let selfish concerns
11:20 start to dominate, and it's easy to lose control
11:23 of our rational faculties, so that we start
11:25 to act in irrational ways.
11:28 The task that challenges the student of the Bible
11:30 is to learn to exercise legitimate anger
11:33 in a Godly way, what some would call righteous indignation.
11:38 And I know, there are people who really struggle
11:41 with the idea of a God who gets angry,
11:42 but again, it's really, really important
11:45 not to take our own experience with anger
11:47 and project it onto God.
11:49 God gets angry, all right, but not the way that we do,
11:52 and honestly, let's think about this.
11:55 Would you really want a God who never gets angry?
11:59 Many years ago, I went to this New Year's Eve party
12:02 where there was an elderly woman sitting in the corner
12:05 watching TV.
12:06 Sadly, she was struggling with dementia,
12:09 so that was about all she could handle, just to sit there.
12:12 And of course, because it was New Year's Eve,
12:14 a lot of TV stations were showing the year in review,
12:17 the highlights, the news stories that happened
12:19 over the last 12 months.
12:21 And at one point, they came to the case
12:23 of a notorious serial killer who'd been executed
12:26 during that year, and they were very briefly
12:30 listing some of the terrible crimes
12:32 he'd committed against children.
12:35 Now, this lady was understanding enough of that broadcast
12:37 that she started to fidget in her seat.
12:40 She was getting visibly upset,
12:42 and at one point, to the surprise of the people
12:45 who were not watching that TV, she suddenly blurted out
12:48 her indignation, telling us exactly what she thought
12:51 of that guy.
12:52 It was a pretty good example of righteous indignation.
12:57 So of course, it makes us angry when an evil person
13:00 hurts the innocent.
13:01 And of course it makes us especially angry
13:03 when children are involved.
13:05 This ministry is currently involved
13:07 in rescuing young girls from the sex trade in India,
13:10 and I'm not sure I can adequately describe
13:12 how it makes me feel when I hear about grown men
13:15 who use these young girls for unspeakable things.
13:20 That kind of stuff should make us angry.
13:22 I mean, what kind of a person just shrugs their shoulders
13:25 and chooses to be completely indifferent?
13:28 So think about this.
13:30 Why would we think that God should never get angry,
13:33 especially when you consider the fact that he has to witness
13:35 all of our evil acts combined?
13:39 Would you even want a God who isn't bothered
13:42 by pain and suffering?
13:44 I like how Garrett Kaiser puts it
13:46 in his book, "The Enigma of Anger".
13:48 He writes, "The thoroughly gentle God,
13:51 "the unceasingly kind God, the God of the unalterable smile
13:55 "is also the fairy God, the clown God,
13:57 "the stuffed animal God, perhaps not a great deal
14:00 "more helpful than the threadbare little giraffe
14:03 "that a child clutches in his dark room
14:05 "as he winces with every cry
14:06 "from his battered mother's throat,
14:09 "the God who never gets mad for fear of offending the abused
14:13 "must sooner or later be construed as the God
14:15 "who never gets mad at the abuser."
14:19 A god who never gets angry would be
14:21 a one-dimensional work of fiction,
14:23 a god without real personhood,
14:25 a vague, impersonal presence,
14:27 a nebulous deity whose more like the force from "Star Wars"
14:31 than he is the god of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.
14:34 And of course, ultimately, he would be a god
14:37 who didn't really care about the suffering
14:39 of his own children.
14:42 Maybe you've noticed some of those passages in the Bible
14:44 where Jesus himself is said to get angry.
14:47 Like this one, found in the Gospel of Mark
14:50 when he realizes that the religious leaders
14:52 are more worried about their interpretation of the rules
14:56 than they are about people.
14:58 Listen to this.
14:59 It says, "And he said to them, 'Is it lawful on the Sabbath
15:03 "'to do good, or to do harm, to save life or to kill?'
15:07 "But they were silent.
15:08 "And he looked around at them with anger,
15:11 "grieved at their hardness of heart."
15:14 So here's the important question
15:16 I really want you to wrestle with.
15:18 What exactly is it that makes God mad?
15:21 Let's start to piece together an answer
15:23 from the pages of the Bible itself.
15:26 In the Book of Revelations, Chapter 16,
15:28 we find a description of God's final wrath
15:31 as its poured out during the seven last plagues.
15:34 And the chapter opens like this.
15:37 "Then I heard a loud voice from the temple
15:39 "telling the seven angels, 'Go and pour out on the earth
15:42 "'the seven bowls of the wrath of God.'"
15:46 According to John, this will be the final display
15:50 of God's wrath against sin,
15:52 right before the second coming of Christ.
15:54 And back in Revelation 15,
15:57 these seven bowls are called the seven last plagues.
16:00 Why are they the last ones?
16:03 It's because they're emulating another set of plagues,
16:06 one that you probably know about.
16:08 In the Book of Revelation, John uses language
16:10 from the Old Testament.
16:11 About two thirds of what he writes
16:14 is actually imagery from other parts of the Bible,
16:16 and one of the books that it draws on most heavily
16:20 is the Book of Exodus.
16:21 In fact, if you glance through Revelation 15,
16:24 you'll see a description of God's redeemed people
16:27 singing something called "The Song of Moses".
16:30 [soft piano music]
16:32 What it's doing is comparing the ultimate liberation
16:35 of this world to Israel's liberation from Egypt.
16:39 And you remember that right before Israel left
16:41 for the Promised Land, God sent 10 devastating plagues
16:45 on a Pharaoh who refused to let his people go free.
16:48 That would make these the first plagues,
16:51 and they were also an expression of God's anger.
16:54 Somebody was harming his children,
16:57 and they refused to stop doing it.
17:00 Which brings me to the original encounter
17:02 between God and Moses, the one you find
17:04 at the burning bush.
17:06 It takes place right before Moses goes
17:08 into the Pharaoh's palace to deliver the news
17:11 that God intended to free his people.
17:13 And as soon as we take another really quick break,
17:16 I'll come back to liberate you from the suspense
17:19 of not knowing what I'm gonna read next.
17:21 I'll be right back after this.
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17:57 - All right.
17:58 Just before the break, we were headed
17:59 to Exodus Chapter 3, where Moses talks to God
18:02 for the very first time.
18:04 Of course, this takes place right before Pharaoh
18:07 refuses to liberate the Hebrews,
18:10 at which point, God delivers the plagues,
18:12 which reveal his displeasure with the Egyptian prince
18:16 in a really tangible way.
18:18 So listen to this.
18:19 As God is about to tell Moses
18:21 to go to Egypt to confront the Pharaoh,
18:23 you'll find this in Exodus Chapter 3.
18:26 It says, "And now, behold, the cry of the people
18:30 "of Israel has come to me, and I have also seen
18:33 "the oppression with which the Egyptians oppress them.
18:36 "Come, I will send you to Pharaoh that you may bring
18:39 "my people, the children of Israel, out of Egypt."
18:43 So what is it that provokes God's anger?
18:46 Suffering.
18:48 It's the individuals who use other people
18:50 for their own selfish purposes.
18:52 God essentially tells Moses, look, I know that some people
18:56 think I don't respond when people are suffering,
18:58 but I haven't missed a thing.
19:00 I have heard the cries of my people,
19:03 every single one of them.
19:05 A couple of verses earlier,
19:07 God says this.
19:09 "Then the Lord said, 'I have surely seen the affliction
19:12 "'of my people who are in Egypt,
19:14 "'and have heard their cry because of their taskmasters.
19:18 "'I know their sufferings.'"
19:21 So what is that really angers God?
19:24 It's the way that sin and selfishness hurts us.
19:27 I mean, I know it's impossible,
19:30 but for a moment, try to look at all of this
19:32 from God's perspective.
19:33 When the human race was ushered into existence
19:36 back in Genesis Chapter 1, God stood back,
19:39 looked at the entire creation,
19:41 and said, "Behold, it is very good."
19:44 [soft music]
19:46 In the beginning, there was no suffering.
19:47 There was no pain, no funerals, no hospitals,
19:52 no broken people sitting on a sidewalk,
19:54 hoping for a little bit of change
19:56 so that maybe today, they won't have to rummage
19:59 through a trash bin.
20:01 God's children, you and me, we were designed for joy,
20:05 and when we had children, it was the same thing.
20:08 That was supposed to bring us joy.
20:10 There was no such thing as neglect or child abuse.
20:15 But now, in sharp contrast to the way
20:17 that we tend to see the world, God sees everything,
20:20 all of the pain, all of the suffering,
20:23 all of the heartbreak, and he knows full well
20:25 this is not what he intended.
20:28 You and I have taken something marvelous,
20:30 something designed to reveal a god of love,
20:32 and we have twisted it, making it about us instead.
20:37 So then you've got to wonder, why doesn't God
20:39 just blow the whistle, and stop it?
20:42 That's probably the number one question I get
20:44 as a minister, why doesn't God just put a stop to it?
20:48 And I'll be honest, sometimes I've been hurt so badly
20:52 that I find myself asking the same thing.
20:54 Why don't you just stop it, God?
20:56 But then it occurs to me, if God were to start
20:59 systematically eliminating evil,
21:01 where exactly would I want him to stop?
21:04 Before he gets to me?
21:06 Because as much as I'd like to tell you
21:07 I'm not a part of the problem, I know I am.
21:10 So are you.
21:12 Oh, for sure, maybe you and I haven't committed
21:14 the kind of unspeakable crimes that people remember
21:17 when they're talking about the year in review,
21:20 but you know full well you've contributed to the mess.
21:24 I mean, let's just be honest,
21:26 just how certain are you that you've never, ever,
21:29 ever hurt somebody?
21:30 How confident are you that your actions
21:33 haven't been a major source of discouragement
21:35 for somebody else?
21:37 How do you know for sure that somebody out there,
21:39 when they think back about how hard
21:41 their life has been, when they're trying to assess
21:44 just where everything went wrong,
21:46 and how they got hurt, how sure are you
21:49 that you never come to mind?
21:51 "The Lord looks down from heaven on the children of man,"
21:54 it tells us in the Book of Psalms,
21:56 "To see if there are any who understand
21:58 "who seek after God.
22:00 "They have all turned aside,
22:01 "together they have become corrupt.
22:03 "There is none who does good, not even one."
22:09 Can I really convince myself that my sins
22:11 are less serious than somebody else's?
22:14 I know the temptation to think that
22:16 is pretty overwhelming, and it's easy to point
22:19 to the serial killers and the architects of the Third Reich
22:21 and say, "At least I'm not like that."
22:24 But then I'm reminded of that parable that Jesus told
22:27 about the Pharisee in the public.
22:30 "Two men went up into the temple to pray," he said.
22:33 "One, a Pharisee, and the other, a tax collector.
22:37 "The Pharisee, standing by himself, prayed thus.
22:40 "'God, I thank you that I am not like other men,
22:43 "'extortioners, unjust, adulterers,
22:46 "'or even like this tax collector.'"
22:50 You know, even the pride we feel
22:53 when we think that our behavior
22:54 isn't quite as bad as somebody else's,
22:57 well, that constitutes yet another crime
23:00 against the God of heaven.
23:01 I mean, let's suppose that the entire human race
23:04 is on a bell curve, and you've got the righteous life
23:07 of Christ on the right-hand side of the curve,
23:11 and all the rest of humanity to the left.
23:14 Where exactly do you think your dot would be
23:16 on that line?
23:17 Do you really think that you'd make it up
23:20 out of the bottom two or five percent?
23:25 Am I so far ahead of the guy on death row
23:27 that I'd be able to see a difference
23:29 from the perspective of heaven?
23:31 From what I've read in this book, I'm guessing no.
23:33 And just imagine the pain God must feel
23:36 when he sees the collective pain that you and I have caused,
23:39 when he sees the tear-soaked pillows
23:41 of the people we've hurt.
23:43 You and I get justifiably angry
23:45 when we see somebody hurt our children.
23:48 How exactly would you expect a loving God to feel
23:51 in the same situation, when you and I level hatred
23:54 against each other?
23:56 I'll be right back after this.
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24:32 - Okay, let me tell you what I'm not saying,
24:34 just so I'm perfectly clear and don't get
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24:38 I really do think there's a world of difference
24:40 between what somebody like John Wayne Gacy did
24:44 and what most of you do, at least, I hope so.
24:47 Is there a moral difference between killing somebody
24:50 for the sake of entertainment and say, I don't know,
24:53 taking a pen home from work, or cheating on your taxes?
24:57 Yeah, probably.
24:59 But all of us, absolutely all of us,
25:02 are part of the problem,
25:03 and we're fortunate that God's wrath
25:06 against the pain and suffering we've caused
25:08 is tempered by his unbelievable love and mercy.
25:12 One of my very favorite statements in the Bible
25:14 comes from Peter's Second Letter,
25:16 where he's talking about the line in the sand
25:19 that God has drawn, the line where he finally
25:22 brings it all to an end, because he cannot stand
25:26 the suffering, and he reveals the reason
25:28 that God has not yet started to systematically remove
25:31 everything that's evil.
25:33 Not yet.
25:34 Just listen to what he writes.
25:36 "The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise
25:39 "as some count slowness, but is patient towards you,
25:43 "not wishing that any should perish,
25:45 "but that all should reach repentance."
25:49 That statement, if you think about it,
25:51 it's really almost beyond all comprehension.
25:54 If you would take the time to read this whole book,
25:57 you'd discover that God has actually figured out
25:59 how to stop evil without having necessarily to lose you.
26:05 God really can be perfectly just,
26:08 and perfectly merciful, at the very same time.
26:12 But us, you and me, on the other hand,
26:14 we haven't even gotten close,
26:17 because when we get mad,
26:19 it's usually not righteous indignation.
26:22 In fact, that's pretty rare.
26:24 It does happen, there is such a thing,
26:27 but not most of the time,
26:29 and we all kinda know that.
26:30 We all kinda know what we're made of
26:32 if we're honest for a moment.
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26:36 So, how could I learn to be angry
26:38 and not sin at the very same time?
26:40 Maybe the answer is here.
26:43 Maybe the answer is understanding
26:44 the patience of God with me.
26:47 Maybe the answer is this thought
26:49 found in the 103rd Psalm.
26:52 Here's what that says.
26:53 "The Lord is merciful and gracious,
26:56 "slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love.
26:59 "He will not always chide, nor will he keep
27:01 "his anger forever.
27:02 "He does not deal with us according to our sins,
27:05 "nor repay us according to our inequities,
27:08 "for as high as the heavens are above the earth,
27:10 "so great is his steadfast love toward those
27:13 "who fear him."
27:16 For if you forgive others their trespasses,
27:18 Jesus taught during the sermon on the mount,
27:20 your heavenly father will also forgive you.
27:24 Now that kinda puts it all in perspective, doesn't it?
27:27 Personally, I'm pretty sure I've got as much reason
27:29 to be sorry as I do to be mad in this world,
27:32 and I'm guessing that's probably true for you, too.
27:36 How to conquer anger, focus on Christ.
27:39 How to understand God's anger, focus on Christ.
27:42 At the foot of the cross, it's gonna start
27:45 to make a lot of sense.
27:47 Thanks for joining me today.
27:48 I'm Shawn Boonstra.
27:50 You've been watching another episode of "Authentic".
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