Grandma's House

Eye Of The Beholder

Three Angels Broadcasting Network

Program transcript

Participants: Joyce Neal

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Program Code: GH000008


00:01 Hi there!
00:03 I'm grandma Neil.
00:04 The program you are about to see shows a typical day for
00:05 the children in my neighborhood who visit me at
00:08 grandma's house in Chehalis Washington.
00:10 These children are not actors they are just being
00:13 themselves as I let you peek inside our doors.
00:16 What a joy it is to see them learn of
00:19 Jesus for the very first time.
00:20 Come on outside now and enjoy
00:22 a little visit at grandma's house.
00:42 Hi kids! I'm glad you came downtown to meet us today.
00:46 Isn't this a glorious afternoon?
00:47 This is my granddaughter Kate and we came down here to
00:51 buy some of the freshest vegetables around.
00:53 Then we're going home and fix them for lunch.
00:55 Come on let's see what they've got.
00:57 Why don't we check here!
01:01 Purple potatoes - should we cook some of those up?
01:54 Looks like a spaceship.
02:11 I like raspberries.
02:26 I want to get one tiny cucumber.
02:39 Alright let's go home and cook the stuff.
02:50 Were back in my kitchen after our shopping day.
02:53 You might notice the kids aren't with me now.
02:55 And there's a reason for that, I shooed them outside
02:59 to play with grandpa for a while.
03:00 Because I want to try an experiment.
03:03 Do you remember at the market today when
03:05 we were looking at potatoes?
03:07 We saw some that were kind of purple on the outside, and
03:11 there were others that were red, white and I even saw
03:14 some yellow finish potatoes there.
03:16 Now most of those when you cut them open are white on
03:19 the inside, but let me show you the middle of this one.
03:21 Where's my knife here, this is fascinating.
03:29 Look at the inside of this!
03:31 It's purple, and you know what the cool thing about this is?
03:35 When you cook it up it's purple too.
03:39 And you know sometimes people have a little trouble with
03:42 things that don't look exactly as you
03:44 think they ought to look.
03:46 Sometimes it's called prejudice, and other times maybe
03:50 we don't treat other kids as nicely as we ought to.
03:54 Maybe they don't look quite like we think they ought to
03:57 look, but today I thought maybe if I snuck that in on
04:01 them, and they didn't know what to expect for lunch,
04:03 I would just like to see what happens when they get a
04:07 purple potato for lunch!
04:09 So you won't tell them will you?
04:11 Don't let on that you know the secret that they don't.
04:15 So when they come in we'll find out what they think
04:18 about purple potatoes.
04:19 Right now I'm going to finish getting the vegetables
04:22 ready that we bought for lunch.
04:49 Oh this all looks pretty good, don't you think?
04:52 All this good bread and good vegetables.
04:54 I think the kids out of be pretty hungry, of course one
04:57 thing they don't know is about the special for supper.
05:00 But I think it's about ready now, I didn't tell,
05:03 I hope you didn't either.
05:04 Grandpa, bring the kids in time for supper.
05:08 Come on in and - this is going to be fun don't you think?
05:12 Hi guys, you hungry?
05:14 Yeah! yeah! - good find a place around the table.
05:17 This is for you, alright.
05:21 Okay who wants to say grace?
05:24 Who wants to say the blessing?
05:25 Any volunteers alright, Kate you can.
05:27 Dear Jesus thank you for today, thank you that we can
05:31 all be here, thank you for our food, Amen!
05:34 Well I hope you like all your nice fresh vegetables.
05:39 But I do have a surprise for supper.
05:42 I've worked harder on this dish all day and it's a
05:45 wonderful entrée are you ready.
05:46 Go ahead you can start, I'll be back in just a minute.
05:59 Oh Look! It's awful quiet in here.
06:03 Oh would you like some of this?
06:05 What is it?
06:06 It's potatoes - it's some of the good potatoes we got
06:10 down at the market today.
06:12 Aren't those cute?
06:13 Don't they make your plate so colorful and lovely?
06:17 I think it's wonderful that God made all these great colors.
06:20 All the great colors of food, flowers.
06:24 Okay I what you guys just to, you don't want it?
06:28 How come?
06:29 Don't want a bite?
06:31 Awh, come on try a bite!
06:33 No! Not even a little bit?
06:36 Oh okay, are they pretty good?
06:40 Okay grandpa taste yours!
06:42 Did you eat them yet Kate?
06:44 When we were at the market.
06:47 Well Grandpa - that's not so bad - good I'm glad you tried it.
06:52 Come on over there Samantha don't you want to try them?
06:56 I am surprised you tried them.
06:57 Well you are just not going to.
06:59 You know what, we did cook a couple other kinds of potatoes.
07:04 Are they good, yeah!
07:09 I think they are really good, but if you didn't want those
07:13 kind I made some of those others over here.
07:16 Do you want to see something else fun guys?
07:19 This is what they look like when they are just being
07:22 cooked, mmmm yummy right?
07:25 Ha ha what do you think?
07:27 Do you want to see?
07:29 I will bring those over for you.
07:32 I have two admit that lavender mashed potatoes
07:34 are a little different, but when they are cooked like
07:39 that they turn lavender in the middle.
07:42 They're my favorite color, - yeah mine too.
07:44 but it is unusual to have food that color, isn't it?
07:47 Could you guys think of any other purple food?
07:52 Plums - grapes - onions.
08:00 Huh well why we are naming all these good kinds of food do
08:03 you think you guys might have a time to jot down my address?
08:06 I'd love for you write to me, you know I'd love it.
08:08 So if you have got your paper and pencil ready,
08:10 well here's my address.
08:14 Hey kids grandma Neil would like to hear from you.
08:17 She loves to get pictures, drawings and anything else
08:19 you may want to send her.
08:21 She also answers each one of your letters so get your
08:23 pen ready and write down her address.
08:58 Everything is quiet again and it is time for just you and me.
09:03 Time for a heart to heart talk.
09:05 You know sometimes it is not so easy to get past the way
09:08 something looks, to see the real goodness inside.
09:11 It could be like eating blue potatoes, actually they
09:15 looked kind of purple didn't they?
09:17 Do you ever feel like blue potato?
09:19 Do you think that people turn up their noses at you
09:22 because they can see past you're outside?
09:24 Oh honey I feel that way too sometimes.
09:27 I know that especially when we are young being different
09:31 can make you wonder if you are lovable.
09:33 What makes a person lovable anyway?
09:36 Do you ever wonder why some kids are part of the in
09:39 crowd and they seem to have trillions of friends,
09:41 and others only have a few?
09:43 If somebody is popular does that mean they are more lovable?
09:48 Look of this old picture of my grandma and grandpa Miner.
09:52 Do they look like lovable people to you?
09:55 They are both old, they don't look terribly happy.
09:58 Grandma is fat and grandpa can't hear or see.
10:01 Hmmm, but here in one of my magazines, let me find it.
10:07 Here it is, this will give us a clue.
10:11 The eye of the beholder.
10:16 When grandpa looks at grandma somehow he doesn't see her
10:21 wrinkled brow, her hair is white now, in her aged serenity.
10:26 He doesn't see her falter when night its darkness brings,
10:31 that she is slow he'll never know, or any of those things.
10:36 When grandpa looks at grandma somehow he doesn't hear
10:41 the broken tones that she now owns,
10:44 her voice seems firm and clear.
10:47 Her eyes and smile upon him are faded blue and dim.
10:51 Though time has changed, they have not changed,
10:55 they look the same to him.
10:57 When grandpa looks at grandma, forgetting that she is old
11:01 he sees his bride cling to his side with hair of shining gold.
11:06 He seems to her in splendor, love just grows and grows.
11:12 If she is gray and bent today, grandfather never knows.
11:17 Hmmm, now let me show you the pictures of our wedding day.
11:22 These were taken over 20 years ago.
11:25 I sure don't look the same and grandpa
11:28 has changed a little bit too.
11:30 I used to worry that if my out side changed, or I wasn't
11:35 as pretty as I used to be, I worried that no one
11:37 would love me.
11:39 But I found out that grandpa does, his love has stayed
11:42 strong and has never wavered no matter what happened.
11:45 He reminds me of God.
11:48 No matter what we look like on the outside He loves us
11:51 because He sees what is in our hearts.
11:54 Have you figured out what makes a person lovable yet?
11:58 Being lovable is not the same as being popular.
12:01 Lovability is what you are, and popularity is
12:05 something you might have.
12:07 God made you, and He made you lovable, and nobody can
12:11 take that away from you.
12:12 Popularity is something other people may give you
12:16 for a while, but they can take it away too.
12:19 There is nothing you can do to make God love you less,
12:23 and nothing you can do to make Him love you more.
12:27 Even if you do wrong things you are still lovable,
12:31 isn't that good to know?
12:33 He made you lovable and that is it!
12:35 There is nothing you can do to make me
12:38 love you less either, when I look at you
12:40 I see the most precious faces in all the world.
12:44 I see stars shining in your eyes and big important
12:47 dreams in your heart.
12:49 Keep these thoughts close to you tonight as you go to sleep.
12:52 and until next time know that you are deeply
12:56 loved and nothing will ever change that.
12:59 The purple potatoes I like them very much because
13:04 they are my favorite color.
13:05 Purple mashed potatoes aren't right.
13:09 She showed us some before she picked them and
13:12 they were purple in the middle.
13:14 You say potato and I say tomato, no! no! no! no!
13:20 it doesn't go like that.
13:22 Why would you think that?
13:25 I say potatoes, you say Potatoes.
13:29 I wonder what French fries would look like if they were purple?
13:33 What's a Patato?
13:36 Well at first I thought they looked gross but then
13:40 I tried some they were Ummm!
13:42 I see grandpa it those potatoes and that was funny.
13:46 I wonder if green beans could be purple?
13:50 Wouldn't it be called purple beans?
13:54 Yuck! That would be gross!


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