House Calls

Dressing Up For God, Pt. 1

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Participants: John Lomacang (Host), John Stanton

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00:01 Hello, friends, grab your Bible
00:02 and a friend and sit back as we explore
00:05 God's word together on this edition of House Calls.
00:22 Friends, welcome to the most
00:23 exciting program on television.
00:25 If we didn't believe that we wouldn't be here.
00:27 And that's why, John and John,
00:29 are in the saddle together again.
00:30 So thank you for tuning in
00:32 and it's always good to know that I'm not by myself,
00:36 and John, thank you
00:37 for chaperoning me on this program.
00:39 Yeah, hey, it's good to monitor you
00:41 and make sure I can keep you in line
00:42 and everything else that goes along with that,
00:44 because you can get out of control sometimes.
00:46 That's right, I get happy about the word of God.
00:48 All right, well, it's an exciting program
00:50 we've got, actually a new series today, that's right.
00:52 And we'll get into that here in just a minute,
00:54 but I know that we like to start with prayer,
00:55 so why don't we do that, okay.
00:57 All right, gracious Father in Heaven,
00:59 we just pray for Your blessing here today
01:01 that You would open up the word
01:02 in a way that maybe we don't even comprehend
01:05 in the way You move and lead
01:07 and give us knowledge and wisdom
01:08 and we just put it in your hands.
01:10 We pray that each heart that is watching,
01:12 that is listening will also receive a word
01:14 from You here today, in Jesus name, amen.
01:17 Amen, and on that note friends,
01:19 don't forget to get your Bibles,
01:20 get your pens and get all the questions
01:24 that you would like to share with us
01:26 and you can send those to housecalls@3abn.org
01:30 that's housecalls@3abn.org.
01:33 And, we know that your questions
01:34 make a difference on this program
01:37 and also if you want to hit the record button,
01:39 because today our topic is "Dressing up for God."
01:43 It's one that we're gonna be covering
01:44 in a number of programs.
01:46 It's more than just a gleaming topic, John.
01:49 It's more like an exhaustive study
01:51 on the topic of what the Bible says
01:52 about appropriate dress and adornment.
01:54 And by the way, this is not something
01:56 that is just denominational, this is scriptural.
02:00 I remember looking at a magazine article
02:03 and it was really amazing how the picture said it all
02:07 where there was somebody coming to church,
02:09 and the way they were dressed,
02:12 the usher was by the door and said,
02:14 I know you're not coming up in here
02:15 dress like that and it wasn't an Adventist Magazine, yeah.
02:19 Very amazing article talking about
02:21 how important is for Christians to remember
02:23 that the world doesn't set the trend
02:25 for the Christian Church, but the Christian Church
02:27 should be a reflection to the world
02:30 of what God would want us to be.
02:32 It's a very important topic--
02:33 And a few years ago this wasn't a big issue.
02:35 They shouldn't come up much,
02:36 because it didn't matter really
02:37 what church you attended,
02:40 typically you didn't have a lot of debate
02:43 about the subject, because people were
02:44 fairly modestly dressed.
02:46 I don't care what church it is,
02:47 you look there and you didn't have
02:49 a ton of jewelry and everybody ducked out.
02:51 Now it's a little different,
02:52 things have changed in the world
02:54 and the church is kind of following
02:56 the world in many respects,
02:57 so it's time to get back to the word
02:58 which we'll do today.
02:59 That's right, and by the way
03:01 I know you have questions
03:02 and if at any point in the program,
03:04 a question comes up in your mind,
03:05 send that question to housecalls@3abn.org
03:08 that's housecalls@3abn.org and we'll download
03:12 those questions and hopefully get an answer
03:14 to you as soon as we can.
03:15 But John, why don't you begin
03:16 with our question today,
03:17 what do you have for us?
03:18 You know, I've had a couple of questions today
03:20 and I like to spend all our time
03:22 on these two questions,
03:23 at least our question and answer time, all right.
03:25 Because they're almost the antithesis
03:27 of the type of question that we would get.
03:30 One is a pursuer of the word,
03:32 wants to know the truth, the other one is wondering,
03:35 why the truth is so important?
03:37 And why we belabor on some issues
03:40 especially with regard to the Sabbath truth.
03:42 And so we'll look at both these questions
03:44 and we'll answer maybe using similar text
03:46 to answer both questions.
03:48 But let me read you the first one here.
03:50 This one is from Linda, and she says,
03:53 "John and John, hope you're both well
03:55 and the weather is nice.
03:56 I am having a discussion with my pastor.
04:00 He says, you can choose the day you worship,
04:02 Saturday or Sunday.
04:04 You can eat anything you want.
04:06 There is no black or white in the church,
04:08 but grey areas.
04:09 To be saved, you only need to believe in Christ.
04:12 Baptism isn't the importance, isn't the important thing.
04:17 There are many forms, I don't agree with this
04:20 and asked him to show me the verse that says this,
04:23 also to give me the churches interpretation of each.
04:26 He gave me these verses and she quotes from
04:31 Hebrews 4:1 through 12, 8:13,
04:35 Colossians 2, the entire Chapter Genesis 9:3,
04:38 several others here.
04:40 He said, these will lead you
04:41 into the churches interpretation.
04:43 And she said she read those,
04:44 she still doesn't understand the churches interpretation.
04:47 So, she is confused about this, okay.
04:50 Anyway then she goes down,
04:52 let me read a little further here.
04:56 But especially about the subject of eating
04:57 anything you want, the Bible doesn't seem to say that.
05:00 Please let me know if you can help me
05:02 understand these issues.
05:03 This is a non-denominational church that she attends.
05:06 Okay, so a woman who is pursuing the word
05:10 wants to know the truth,
05:12 has a little bit of struggle taking each topic
05:15 and going through the word
05:16 and finding all that says about that, that topic.
05:19 And so that's the first question.
05:20 Now, let me read the second question.
05:21 Oh, yeah, okay. Equally is amazing.
05:24 Okay, here we go. The age of computers, right.
05:30 Okay, this question is
05:31 for the two John's on House Calls.
05:33 I am a believer born again in Jesus Christ
05:36 and I'm one who goes to church on a Sunday.
05:38 My question is how come you're sure,
05:40 how can you be sure the Sabbath is Saturday?
05:43 And the Bible never says that God started
05:46 creating the world on any specific day.
05:49 How do you know that when the Bible said
05:51 that God rested on the Sabbath,
05:52 it was not a Monday, Thursday and so on?
05:56 If it said that He started on Sunday
05:59 then we can say for sure, yes, Sabbath is Saturday.
06:02 And I can say the same thing for Sunday,
06:04 the day that I worship on.
06:06 Another thing, is it so important
06:08 that about what we-- what day we worship on?
06:11 The truth is that I've chosen
06:14 to go to church and worship.
06:15 Have you ever heard that the vertebra,
06:18 heard of the vertebra and the rib,
06:20 to me this is a rib issue,
06:21 it's not such a big deal to God.
06:24 As long as He has my heart
06:26 and I've a relationship with Him,
06:28 to me this is what is important.
06:32 Can you explain to me how it is than
06:35 that when I attend church in the presence of the Lord
06:37 when He is there our church is being blessed
06:40 and that there is so much love there,
06:43 lives are being changed not only by sermons.
06:46 Don't you think that if we were doing something wrong,
06:49 God would bother showing--
06:51 God wouldn't bother showing up.
06:54 See here, one time I was getting to the point
06:56 where I was grasping for so much at one time
06:58 that I said to Jesus, Lord, this is so hard
07:01 and I literally felt His hands touch
07:02 one of my shoulders and this is no joke,
07:05 He said these were His words, child I am so simple.
07:09 And from that very moment I got calm and understood
07:12 that He is about the relationship with Him
07:15 and the love of others.
07:16 Why pollute the water with things like this.
07:19 These things are rib issues not vertebra.
07:22 And she goes on to talk about,
07:23 you know, the Sabbath Sunday issue
07:24 is not really the big issue
07:27 and anyway why can't we just agree to get along,
07:33 I believe in Jesus and then it won't matter so much."
07:37 So yeah, sometimes there, it's very long quote,
07:41 so I am going to paraphrase a little bit there,
07:42 but you can see the antithesis here of both questions.
07:46 And I am not saying the questions
07:48 are right and wrong,
07:50 but you see the approach here from one side is,
07:54 give me the word,
07:55 tell me what the Bible says and I'm gonna do it.
07:56 The other one is I know when you say the Bible says
08:00 and I know that, you know, the Bible is important
08:03 to Christianity, but does it really matter.
08:05 Okay, and we'll hear on some of these issues too,
08:09 because I know that we need
08:10 to at least address some of them.
08:13 Let's address the Sabbath first,
08:14 because that was the big issue with the sender,
08:17 at the second question that I read there.
08:19 You know, the first thing I think she mentioned was
08:22 how do we know that the Sabbath is Saturday?
08:26 The first answer would be obviously
08:27 the seventh day is the Sabbath,
08:29 that's in the Fourth Commandment, that's right.
08:31 And so we know that the first day is Sunday
08:34 and I don't hear anybody saying
08:35 how do we know the first day is Sunday?
08:38 No, no that question doesn't come up very often.
08:41 The first day clearly is Sunday
08:42 and everybody acknowledges that.
08:44 The opposite of that is to the Jewish
08:46 have been keeping the Sabbath for centuries.
08:48 They know exactly, millennia, exactly.
08:51 So they know exactly what day the Sabbath is.
08:55 And they haven't missed one in a millennius, several--
08:57 The whole nation.
08:58 And this is a nation and one given to times
09:01 and prophecies and other things,
09:03 they're going to keep track.
09:05 So you know, it is very clear, in fact the Book of Luke,
09:09 Luke's recording of the resurrection of Christ,
09:12 it says pretty clearly that preparation day was Friday,
09:17 the Sabbath was Saturday
09:18 and the first day of the week he says,
09:20 was the resurrection day
09:22 which everybody acknowledges is Sunday, right.
09:24 So, you know, that is a good argument to make,
09:28 but it's not a valid argument,
09:30 because the answer is so obvious
09:33 that you can't really assert that as a reason
09:36 for not keeping the Sabbath, right.
09:38 But there are several other things here too
09:40 that I'll, you know, I'll let you get in on here too.
09:42 It's a-- You know, she wants to get
09:45 to the heart of worship
09:47 and the Sabbath really is at the heart of worship,
09:51 because when if you look at the Fourth Commandment
09:54 when you see it and talking about the seventh day
09:56 is the Sabbath, the Lord thy God,
09:58 six days you shall work,
09:59 but the seventh day is the Sabbath
10:01 and then connecting it with the creation.
10:04 Then when you get to the end of the Bible,
10:06 you get to the Book of Revelation
10:07 and it calls people back to worship,
10:10 restating then again that God is the Creator,
10:13 clearly a connection here between
10:14 Sabbath keeping and God's, and God being our Creator.
10:19 And so, you know, my suggestion,
10:21 I don't think it's my suggestion
10:22 I guess, I should rephrase that.
10:24 God's word says, that when you come together
10:27 to worship, you're worshiping your Creator.
10:30 And if you read Revelation Chapter 4,
10:32 we worship Him because He is the Creator.
10:36 So when you worship God as the Creator
10:38 that entails acknowledging His creatorship
10:41 and the memorial of His creation
10:43 which is the seventh day Sabbath, right.
10:47 So that is the word what the word of God says,
10:51 and here it, it says so much more
10:52 on this and I'll let you time in here little bit too,
10:54 because I think the real centre
10:56 though here is that either you're pursuing truth
11:00 and you want to do what God says
11:02 that He wants you to do in His word,
11:05 or you just don't.
11:07 And you chalk it up to well, let's just love each other
11:10 and let's deal with these certain aspects of God,
11:12 but not the other aspects of God.
11:14 When the word clearly says that keeping the truth,
11:17 following the truth is essential
11:19 to one salvation, that's right.
11:21 You know, just because
11:22 and I agree with her on this point.
11:26 We believe and we're saved, that's a fact.
11:30 When you believe in God,
11:31 and you put your faith and trust in Him,
11:34 He gives you the free gift of salvation.
11:37 But that doesn't mean that works
11:38 are completely divorced from our salvation experience,
11:43 because by rejecting good works,
11:47 by rejecting God's word, you may start out
11:50 believing in having that relationship with God,
11:52 but it goes no further and you can end up
11:53 losing that relationship with God.
11:56 And that's of course well,
11:57 Satan brings in this false teaching of one saved,
11:59 always saved to, kind of meet that at the paths,
12:01 'cause he knows that's a very biblical teaching.
12:06 But, you know, this whole thing about well,
12:10 it doesn't matter what you do,
12:12 how you worship as long as you believe in God,
12:13 really isn't in the Bible. No, it's not.
12:17 And I'll read one verse
12:18 and then I'll hand it off to you. Sure, I'm okay--
12:19 From Second Thessalonians Chapter 2,
12:25 if you read through these books
12:27 of specially these letters of Paul,
12:29 you'll see over and over again,
12:31 he encouraged the church to hold
12:32 steadfast to the truth of the word of God.
12:34 Okay, where you're turning now?
12:36 I'm reading from Second Thessalonians Chapter 2.
12:38 Okay, go on.
12:39 And he encourages the church to hold on the truth,
12:42 because there are some that are coming
12:44 into the church that are teaching heresy,
12:47 they're teaching stuff that is not in God's word
12:50 and they're leading people
12:51 away from the truth, all right.
12:54 And if the church in response to that were to say,
12:58 well it doesn't really matter,
12:59 just believe, just love Jesus and you're okay.
13:02 Then the church, Paul knows would have fallen, right.
13:05 It would have fallen into apostasy
13:07 and it would not be-- it would be unrecoverable.
13:10 But Paul encourage the church to stand up for the truth,
13:13 for the word of God
13:14 and keep those things which were once
13:16 and for all deliver to the saints
13:18 by him and by the rest of the apostles.
13:20 Okay, what verse you're in?
13:21 So I'm reading from Second Thessalonians
13:23 Chapter 2 verse 9, and look at this,
13:28 "The coming of the lawless one
13:30 is according to the working of who?
13:32 Satan. Satan.
13:33 With all power, signs, and what kind of wonders?
13:36 Lying wonders. Lying wonders.
13:38 He is a liar. He is exposed as a liar.
13:40 Christ acknowledged and pointed to him as a liar.
13:44 And with all unrighteous deception verse 10,
13:47 "Among those who perish because they did not do" what?
13:50 "Receive the love of the truth."
13:52 They didn't receive the love of the truth
13:54 that they might be saved.
13:56 Let me ask you question, does the truth save?
14:02 If you're reading this, the truth is involved
14:06 in the salvation equatio. Exactly.
14:09 So it's not just believing in Jesus
14:11 and His love and a good experience
14:13 and being kind to one another.
14:14 It's believing the truth in addition to that,
14:17 that saves you.
14:19 And it says here in verse 11 it gets worse.
14:21 And for this reason God will send them
14:23 a strong delusion that they should believe the lie,
14:26 they actually-- there are those who believe
14:28 the lie that they have been taught
14:30 to the point where they're lost
14:32 and they don't even know it.
14:35 Verse 12, "That they might be condemned
14:37 who do not believe the truth,
14:38 but have pleasure in unrighteousness.
14:40 Paul is giving this counsel to people in the church.
14:43 He is not writing to the heathen.
14:45 No, he is not.
14:46 He is writing to the church,
14:47 because there are some in the church
14:49 who have not believed the truth,
14:50 who have not followed righteousness
14:52 that they might be saved and they are deluded,
14:54 they have been even given a delusion by God,
14:56 because they're believing a lie
14:58 and they're rejecting truth and they're no longer saved.
15:02 No, they can't be.
15:03 So, I'll hand it off to you,
15:04 because this is a serious issue.
15:06 The truth is a serious issue
15:07 and when we say it doesn't matter
15:09 really what you believe,
15:10 what day you worship on and by the way
15:12 that is a commandment, not a suggestion.
15:15 When he say, it doesn't matter,
15:16 they're on dangerous ground by the word of God,
15:19 that is dangerous ground.
15:22 I'll tell you, you know,
15:23 you put that together really well
15:24 and I sat back listening and taking notes
15:27 and I came up with one, two, three,
15:29 four, five, six, seven, scriptures
15:31 and since we're in first--
15:33 and since we're in Second Thessalonians.
15:35 Let's go to First Timothy, let's begin there.
15:38 I want you to see Chapter 4, First Timothy Chapter 4
15:42 and there's a injunction or there is a warning
15:47 that Timothy brings out
15:48 and we'll see it again in Second Timothy.
15:51 And let me say this and I know that,
15:55 you know, people have various flavors of religion,
15:57 various approaches to what they believe
16:00 and how they put their walk with Christ together.
16:03 But the walk with Christ, remember Jesus said,
16:05 I am the way, the truth and the life, yeah.
16:09 And He didn't exclude truth,
16:12 He said I am the way, the truth and the life.
16:15 And when Paul proclaimed and warned
16:20 the Christians of his era,
16:22 he said to them it's important
16:23 that you'll not exclude truth.
16:26 And notice this, First Timothy 4
16:29 starting with verse 1 and then I'm gonna jump down
16:32 to verse 16 but it starts with verse 1,
16:35 "Now the Spirit expressly says,"
16:38 and we're in the New King James version
16:40 "That in latter times some will depart from the faith,
16:44 giving heed to deceiving spirits
16:47 and doctrines of demons, speaking lies in hypocrisy,
16:51 having their own consciences seared with a hot iron."
16:56 Notice what happens here, it says,
16:57 "They will depart from the faith."
17:01 And it talks about doctrines of demons,
17:04 but it also says, speaking lies.
17:06 So doctrines of demons also bring
17:08 to that equation speaking lies.
17:10 Doctrines of Christ is speaking truth.
17:14 Doctrines of the Holy Spirit seeking truth.
17:17 And by the way Jesus and the Holy Spirit is same level.
17:20 You find here, but if you go down to verse 16,
17:23 notice what Paul says, the answer to this.
17:25 He says, "Take heed to yourselves,"
17:28 in other words be careful "and to the doctrine."
17:32 Notice doctrines are not excluded
17:34 "Continue in them, for in doing this
17:38 you will save both yourself and those who hear you."
17:43 Salvation is there again.
17:45 The issue of salvation does not exclude the doctrines,
17:48 it does not exclude the truth.
17:51 If it excluded the truth, then Paul wouldn't say,
17:54 do these things and you'll both save
17:56 yourself and those who hear you, yeah.
17:58 And-- you know, verse 3 I think some people
18:02 would read on, okay.
18:03 First Timothy did not to side track you at all
18:05 but it says "Forbidding to marry,
18:06 and commanding to abstain from foods
18:08 which God created to be received."
18:09 Some would say well, see that's the lie to abstain
18:12 from unclean meats or something like that.
18:16 And that's not the context here all
18:17 what he is talking about
18:18 if you read the writings of Paul--
18:20 But if you read.
18:21 Well, let me finish to say,
18:22 you read the writings of Paul,
18:23 he says very clearly here that the debate of the day was
18:27 whether or not you can eat foods
18:28 that were offered to idols?
18:29 Right, not, clean versus unclean.
18:32 Clean versus unclean food was not an issue.
18:35 They're pretty much the early church understood
18:37 that clean foods were permissible
18:40 and unclean was not,
18:41 that's something talked throughout the bible.
18:43 This was an issue of eating foods
18:44 offered to idols and that became a debate,
18:46 a divisive thing within the church.
18:48 So I just want to mention that but you had--
18:51 But if you finish that same verse, verse 3,
18:53 notice how the verse ends.
18:57 "Those who believe and know the truth."
19:00 Okay there it is.
19:01 The basis of what they were to practice
19:03 was based on the fact that they believe
19:05 and they know the truth.
19:07 Once again you see the truth is connected with salvation,
19:10 that entire Chapter 4 is talked about salvation.
19:16 Satan will lead people away by doctrines of demons,
19:19 speaking lies, but it says those who are,
19:21 those who are safer, those who know the truth
19:24 and then Paul says, make sure that you continue
19:26 in that way, by doing this you'll both save yourself
19:29 and the person who hears you.
19:30 But Proverbs 14, sorry Proverbs 16 let's go there
19:38 and look at what it says,
19:41 Proverbs 16 this is why it's important.
19:44 That first question, I want to go ahead
19:46 and address it, because those--
19:48 one of those person said, you know,
19:52 my pastor said, there are so many different ways
19:54 you can be baptized,
19:56 didn't really matter what you eat,
19:58 pick a day it doesn't really matter.
20:00 It just sounded like he worked out at circus.
20:03 You know like pick the ride, you know,
20:05 pick the teddy bear, pick the game,
20:07 pick the price, yeah.
20:08 It's like he didn't have any foundation whatsoever,
20:10 he was like a kite with no string.
20:12 He blew in whatever direction the wind would take him.
20:15 But the Bible made it very clear
20:17 that there is a way that is right
20:19 and in some people's mind I would say,
20:21 in this pastor's mind the way that I heard
20:23 the question phrase, if this is in fact
20:24 true about him, this is--
20:26 there's a way that seems right,
20:29 just pick any way.
20:30 But if you notice Proverbs 16:25 it says,
20:32 "There is a way that seems right to a man,
20:35 but its end is the way of death."
20:39 So because it just seems right to do
20:41 this and do that and it doesn't really matter
20:42 what you do, what church you go to,
20:45 how you worship, what day you chose,
20:48 what method of baptism, it could be anyway
20:49 from sprinkling to rose petals,
20:51 to dry cleaning, to mass baptism with a hose.
20:54 It could be immersion, it could be through the mail
20:56 it could be just believe and said be saved.
20:58 So, it's not the feeling here, yeah.
21:00 Because the second question also talked about
21:03 when she is in church,
21:04 she feels this wonderful experience of love, yeah.
21:07 God's presence and people who care for one another.
21:10 And it was a very emotional thing for her.
21:13 And I think just because, just because
21:18 we believe in God and we have a good emotion
21:21 about it, a good experience doesn't mean
21:24 that we're doing necessary the right thing,
21:26 because it seems right, but it can't be,
21:30 the end can't be one that leads to death, that's right.
21:33 And so we have to be very careful
21:35 not just to feel, you know, like we're Christians.
21:39 But we need to make sure
21:40 that we're following the word of God.
21:43 Because Christians that were dying in the dungeons,
21:48 and in the Roman Coliseums,
21:51 really didn't feel like Christians?
21:53 You know, it was not about a feeling,
21:55 it was about a strong life changing decision
22:00 that I would die for.
22:02 So it doesn't really have
22:03 a whole lot to do with feelings.
22:05 Although feelings are valid in the sense that,
22:08 you know, I feel sick,
22:09 I feel lightheaded, I feel dizzy,
22:11 I feel happy, those are emotions,
22:13 but when it comes to the truth
22:15 Isaiah 3 and verse 20, Jesus simply says,
22:18 "This is the way walk in it."
22:21 That's just a command rather than a suggestion.
22:25 In Isaiah 8:20, right.
22:28 To the law and to the testimony
22:29 if they speak not according to this word,
22:32 there was no light in them.
22:34 In other words don't go there,
22:35 test what it was there from John,
22:37 test the spirits to see
22:39 whether or not they are of God, that's right.
22:41 Test what someone is saying
22:43 because you just don't-- because they see
22:45 they're Christian, these days especially
22:47 after warning after warning about heresy
22:50 and about apostasy of the church
22:52 and those living in the last days
22:53 who say that they believe in God,
22:55 but don't really follow God, we've got to make sure
22:58 that we're examining what we're being told.
23:04 And for people that think that it doesn't really matter
23:05 what your church teaches, you know, when after baptism,
23:08 the-- after the resurrection of Jesus,
23:10 He made it very clear, He gave a command He says,
23:13 I'll not only go there for make disciples
23:15 and baptize them.
23:16 But He says, teaching them to observe
23:18 all things that I command you.
23:20 Notice not that I suggest,
23:22 but that I command you and He says
23:25 and then doing this I am with you always
23:28 even through the end.
23:30 And so that was quite a contrast between
23:33 the person who wants to know
23:34 and the person who says well, it doesn't really matter.
23:37 You know, here we are Woodstock,
23:39 let's just go ahead and--
23:41 You know, just some counsel to the girl
23:42 that had the pastor that was doing that.
23:45 In a lot of that text that he, he referenced there were once
23:49 that we've explained in past programs, right.
23:54 You know, and the stuff taken is
23:56 very much taken out of context
23:58 to strain teach something that is not true to be true.
24:02 That's right, and so my counsel would be
24:04 find a real good Bible study,
24:07 find a pastor who is teaching the right thing,
24:10 find a church who is teaching the truth.
24:13 And we of course suggest
24:14 the Seventh-day Adventist Church
24:15 because it is very, very Bible based,
24:17 Bible oriented church.
24:19 And in addition to that one,
24:20 I mentioned, you know, Bible studies.
24:23 I would suggest her to-- maybe get
24:25 the Amazing Facts Bible study course.
24:27 You know, 14, I think the first 14 lessons
24:30 are the beginning lessons and there is another 13
24:32 after that, covers extensively throughout God's word,
24:36 all these different truths.
24:38 Get those study guides,
24:39 if she can get those study guides,
24:41 she will find that text after text after text
24:44 exists on these various topics
24:46 that she can use and hopefully sharing with her pastor.
24:49 But if a pastor doesn't listen,
24:50 I would say don't bother,
24:53 you don't want to create a fight,
24:54 I mean, you know, arguments aren't for fighting,
24:57 arguments are for coming to the truth,
25:00 the knowledge of the truth.
25:01 And if you're arguing or discussing
25:05 with somebody these truths
25:07 and you're not meeting in the middle,
25:09 you're not meeting according to God's word.
25:12 My suggestion is it's not the time
25:15 for that person at least to see
25:17 the word of God and to hear it.
25:19 That's right, it doesn't really make us difference,
25:22 if you're just going to argue the point
25:24 rather than just move forward in doing God's word.
25:27 And we've a lot of people in our church
25:30 that had been at that point of decision that's said,
25:32 well, this is what my church said,
25:33 this is what my pastor said,
25:35 and it came down to what he said to me.
25:37 Well, you've got the problem,
25:38 you solve it and they said we have,
25:39 we're not coming back, yeah.
25:41 They're members in good and regular standing.
25:44 Oh, that simply means they're solid,
25:46 they're in the word of God,
25:47 they're studying, they're growing.
25:49 And it does make a difference,
25:50 but thank you for that John.
25:52 We have a question here from a gentleman in Uganda.
25:55 Welcome, if you're watching from Uganda.
25:57 We've always got people watching from Australia,
26:00 all the way to Uganda, Europe,
26:02 the islands of the sea, you name it.
26:07 He says, this is Edima,
26:12 I'm not going to-- not give his name,
26:14 last name, from Uganda.
26:17 And his point was, paying tithe means nailing
26:21 Jesus back to the torture stake.
26:26 That sounds so Jehovah's witness,
26:29 that's how they referred to the cross,
26:31 the cross, that torture stake.
26:33 Tithe was meant for the Levites,
26:35 serving at the physical temple.
26:39 We are the spiritual temple now.
26:41 Our High Priest Jesus instructed us
26:44 to practice giving.
26:46 Comment on this through e-mail,
26:50 this e-mail address.
26:52 Okay, you just wanted an e-mail response.
26:55 Well, I'll respond on air, okay.
26:57 And you will get an e-mail response too,
26:59 but here's the point.
27:00 A tithing is not anything that has to do
27:04 with nailing Jesus to the cross.
27:06 You know, when you go all the way back to the
27:08 Melchizedek Priesthood, you find that Abraham vowed,
27:13 this is even before the Levitical Priesthood
27:15 and you have to understand this.
27:16 Before the Levitical Priesthood,
27:18 Abraham because God blessed him so much
27:20 and Abraham wasn't a Jew.
27:22 Abraham was from Caldia,
27:24 he was from the Province of Babylon.
27:26 He promised because of God's faithfulness
27:28 to him that one-tenth of everything he had,
27:31 he would give to Melchizedek
27:32 as an offering as a thank offering to God
27:35 and he said this is the tithe.
27:37 So you see that it goes far the back
27:39 than even the Levitical Priesthood.
27:41 And then in the New Testament, you find it also there even
27:44 after the crucifixion of Christ, tithe is talked about.
27:48 So this is the topic that is throughout the Bible,
27:52 or as a matter of fact, if you look at it,
27:54 God had established tithing as a means
27:56 where by His work is furnished.
27:58 And you know, amazing to me--
28:01 this is not a denominational issue,
28:03 this is cross denominational.
28:05 And so when Jesus asked the question in Malachi 3,
28:09 was for the purpose of getting His people
28:11 to the place where they would be
28:12 honest to God and returned to Him
28:14 what already belong to Him.
28:16 Malachi 3 and verse 8, excuse me,
28:18 "Will a man rob God?
28:20 Yet you have robbed Me,
28:22 but you say, in what way have we robbed You?
28:24 In tithes and offerings."
28:26 And John, Malachi is a "Book of Returns."
28:28 If you look at the Book of Malachi,
28:31 it has four chapters.
28:32 But in Malachi, Malachi, addresses
28:35 the various ways that the children of God
28:38 had turned away from Him
28:40 and that He wanted them to return back.
28:43 And so when you reignites,
28:44 return unto Me and I'll return unto you,
28:47 that's one of the ways
28:48 that they turned away from God,
28:50 not just in tithing and offering.
28:51 You know Jesus, it also says,
28:53 Jesus is assumed His high priestly ministry
28:56 after the order of Melchizedek.
29:00 Right, not after Levitical Priesthood.
29:02 Did Melchizedek receive tithes?
29:07 Yeah, yes, he did. Yes, he did.
29:09 And so if he is after that order,
29:11 he also receives tithes.
29:13 Right, the praising of His people
29:15 is also a way of returning to God
29:18 what belongs to Him.
29:20 When you look at this whole topic
29:22 though and I want to just do this briefly.
29:24 When you look at this entire topic,
29:26 tithing and I want to go back to his original point.
29:29 Tithing is not a way of nailing Jesus
29:32 to the cross that is not found anywhere.
29:36 You have the tithe of the land,
29:38 you have a tithe of the cattle,
29:40 and some people offered offerings to God,
29:43 but that was not in the sense saying,
29:46 tithe in and of itself is the way by
29:49 where the means where by we nail Jesus
29:51 to the cross, that's not what that means at all.
29:54 But anyway, I think
29:55 we've gone past our time on questions today
29:58 and we just covered two actually.
30:00 Yeah, the first one was a couple,
30:01 was a couple of long ones, but--
30:03 But if you have any questions and comments,
30:05 you can send those here to us at House Calls.
30:08 Send those to the e-mail housecalls@3abn.org
30:10 that's housecalls@3abn.org
30:13 and we'll try out best to respond to your questions
30:16 and your comments and even those of you
30:18 who just want an e-mail response
30:19 please indicate that as was done here
30:22 in the question that we just read to you.
30:26 Well, John, our topic today is called "Dressing up for God"
30:29 and the reason I've mentioned
30:31 in the beginning of the program
30:32 while we're gonna talk about this,
30:33 is because lot of people don't think about
30:36 dressing up for God.
30:37 Let me just talk about this
30:38 from the perspective of a world view
30:41 and I've traveled a bit.
30:42 I've been around the world,
30:44 I've seen dress from various cultures,
30:46 in Africa, in Australia, in New Guinea,
30:49 in Asia, in Europe and the islands of the sea
30:52 and while they're cultural dress differences,
30:57 there is one thing that is across the board
30:59 and the Bible refers to this as adornment.
31:04 And so one of the first principles is
31:06 if you're dressing in the societal dress,
31:09 let's use some contrasts.
31:12 In America, we go to work we wear suits and ties,
31:16 the women may wear a nice outfit to work,
31:21 they have work clothing and then also there's clothing
31:23 that people use for worship,
31:25 for weddings and you will see a diff
31:27 quite a bit in American society.
31:29 You could say, oh that person is going to a wedding.
31:31 Oh, that person is a bridegroom.
31:32 Oh, that person is an usher.
31:34 Oh, that person is a policeman.
31:36 Everybody has different kinds of clothing
31:38 for the professions and also when it comes to worship,
31:42 some churches, some pastors use robes
31:45 where they preach in, we don't do that,
31:47 at least I don't do that and I know you don't do that.
31:51 My personal view it seems little archaic
31:53 and kind of sets up kind of somewhat
31:55 I'm the preacher, you're the member
31:58 barrier type of thing.
31:59 But, now pulling all the cultures together
32:03 there is a standard in the scriptures
32:05 that lets us know that modesty.
32:08 How we should dress when we come to the house of God.
32:11 You shouldn't come to the Lord's house
32:13 and have a tough time keeping your mind on Jesus
32:16 because of the way people are dressed.
32:19 Secondly, it also talks about ornamentation
32:22 or the wearing of jewelry
32:24 and the Bible talks about that.
32:26 But that's what we're gonna talk about on this program
32:28 and a number of other programs to come.
32:30 But anything you want to say
32:31 about that before we go to artifacts.
32:32 No, it's an important-- it's an important topic,
32:33 because again the church didn't have
32:36 this issue in the past.
32:39 And now we're finding that the issue
32:40 is becoming more and more prominent,
32:44 because of the way the world is.
32:47 It seems like there has been over the last,
32:51 10 to 12, 15 years in explosion of body tattoo,
32:56 body art, piercings in places that weren't pierced before.
33:00 I mean its just an explosion of that kind of
33:04 almost an-- I don't know what to call,
33:07 acceleration of that, I mean, it's a little bit,
33:09 you know, with the ears and things,
33:10 but then it became up on the top of the ears
33:12 and then-- so the world itself is really increasing
33:18 in its desire to adorn one's body
33:21 with all this different stuff
33:22 and so now it's coming to the church.
33:24 And, you know, John, I won't just say this
33:26 for the record and I know it's for the record,
33:28 but I've a hard time
33:29 seeing preachers that dress that way.
33:32 There are some churches where the preachers
33:34 were earrings and preach,
33:36 were its allowed and I'm-- and this is not
33:38 in the subject of dress, it's in the sense of earrings,
33:42 but there are some preachers
33:43 that preach in orange suits, purple suits, yellow suits--
33:48 it's not just jewelry, it's like distract to him--
33:51 Okay, you know, someone turn off the lights,
33:53 'cause I can't see the washroom
33:56 because the preacher is blocking it.
33:58 You know, there is modesty all the way
34:00 across the board and there is a way to represent Christ.
34:03 And if the world is gonna be setting the trends,
34:06 there are churches nowadays that you dress
34:09 so dressed down that the preacher
34:11 have barely has on a t-shirt,
34:14 but has all this, you know,
34:15 artifacts on and he is got dread locks
34:18 and he's got earrings, he's got a nose ring
34:20 and he is like dude!
34:22 And he's like God's my homey--
34:24 Because he is trying to appeal
34:25 to those groups, yeah.
34:27 Yeah, but he did bring God so low
34:29 that you kind of come to this Jesus
34:31 that has-- He's you know hanging out with me
34:35 rather than I'm having a relationship with Him,
34:37 we kind of brought God--
34:39 bring God down to such a low, low level.
34:41 And I want to say this as I say this,
34:43 the Lord meets everyone of us where we are,
34:45 whether sinner or righteous, He meets us all where we're,
34:48 but He doesn't leave us the way we find us.
34:51 He didn't find the demoniac bound
34:53 in chains and decide to wear chains
34:55 to hang out with a demoniac, right.
34:57 You know, He didn't find, Adam and Eve,
34:59 and leaves and decide to leave them in leaves,
35:02 He said you got to cover up,
35:04 you see, so we're gonna look at this topic
35:06 from various perspectives and understand
35:08 that the Christian church needs
35:10 to get back to setting standards that the world has
35:13 for--to total sense have almost abandoned.
35:18 John, you and I know, we're basketball players
35:20 and when you look at basketball players,
35:23 what do see mostly nowadays?
35:25 Oh, there's tattoos everywhere, yeah.
35:27 You remember years ago-- the word tattoo was,
35:32 you know, the name of the little guy
35:34 on Fantasy Island.
35:36 I think, Dennis Rodman,
35:37 kind of started that, didn't he?
35:38 Right, Dennis. Right that's the first--
35:40 Major, I'm sure he didn't started,
35:42 but he has first major tattoos everywhere.
35:45 Yeah, and the rings come out of the nose
35:47 and it's like, ahh.
35:48 When everybody saw a tattoo, they thought, Dennis Rodman.
35:51 But nowadays it's like
35:53 you look at the basketball players,
35:55 they look like art galleries and names on their neck
35:59 and you know it's just, and the world has so impacted
36:05 the church that you can't tell preacher,
36:09 basketball player, Bible worker,
36:12 they all kind of look the same.
36:14 And let's pause here for just a minute,
36:15 because I don't want to get people
36:17 to set people up immediately in opposition
36:19 to what we are saying. Not at all.
36:21 Because what we are simply saying is
36:23 that the Bible does speak pretty clearly
36:25 about these subjects. Yes.
36:26 And I think most of them that are dressing in this way
36:29 and they put the tattoos and the piercing.
36:31 They don't really understand
36:32 that the Bible does have some clear
36:34 teachings on this subject. Truth.
36:36 And so it also, we need to acknowledge to that
36:39 there are some that have come out of the world
36:41 when they were already tattooed and things
36:43 and they have chosen not to get those removed
36:46 and that's fine too.
36:49 We have to be careful that
36:50 they don't hear what we're not's,
36:51 that they are hearing or don't hear
36:53 what we're not saying. Right.
36:54 So, we're not trying to come out to you
36:56 with this stuff change now.
36:58 In fact, I wouldn't even advocate that
37:00 we're trying to give someone
37:01 ammunition to clean house in the church,
37:04 because I tell you there are lot of brethren,
37:06 lot of sisters in the church that clean house,
37:09 they do just as much damage as those who, who don't.
37:13 So, we've got to be careful of that as well.
37:16 But we don't want to give him a sledgehammer
37:18 that starts swinging in all directions--
37:19 Yeah, and I've used this text several times here recently,
37:22 because you know, as you and I've seen
37:24 like this subject of music-- That music has been
37:26 so devise in the church.
37:28 Or people are aking it device--
37:29 People are making it divisive, yeah.
37:31 And you'll see that with my point here,
37:34 they do it in the name of righteousness,
37:36 not in the name of, you know, Holiness or Jesus--
37:40 Just whatever, I mean,
37:41 it's a name of let's be more righteous,
37:43 so we need to improve the standards of the church
37:45 and music ends up dividing the church.
37:48 And we've got to be careful that
37:49 we're not dividing in this respect,
37:51 but at the same time I think we're asking
37:54 each person individually to make themselves accountable
37:58 to God by His word in how they dress.
38:01 And I think if all of us who are doing that,
38:02 we're gonna see an incredible improvement in the church
38:06 as we're worshiping, coming together to worship
38:08 and to give ourselves to Him each week. And you know--
38:10 And so that's what we're saying,
38:11 we're not attacking those that are doing this
38:15 even though we're using some clear examples
38:17 of what the world is like.
38:18 Right and that's the thing, we're talking about
38:20 the fact that their needs to be a contrast.
38:24 I know of someone who is in the nursing field
38:28 and they say that as a matter of fact
38:31 they're training now to be a nurse
38:33 and they say well, one of the criteria is that
38:36 we don't dress with the jewels
38:39 and the necklaces and the earrings,
38:40 because our patients would-- For professional reasons,
38:43 reach up and grab and pull
38:46 and in some institutions it could be very damaging,
38:50 in the sense of injuring the nurse or the professional
38:53 that's working with this patient or her patients.
38:56 But I also want to add this point John.
38:58 We have to keep in mind that because some thing may divide,
39:03 it should not be the reason why we don't talk about it.
39:07 Jesus said in John 10:34,
39:10 "Don't think I came to bring peace on the earth,
39:12 I did not come to bring peace but a sword"
39:15 and the sword if you look at the sword
39:17 as the Bible talks about it when Jesus comes back,
39:19 He'll have, He'll be called the "Word of God,"
39:22 He'll have a sword, a two edged sword
39:24 and that in the verbal sense
39:26 He will be-- He is the word of God.
39:29 Hebrews talks about the Bible as sharper
39:32 than any two edged sword
39:34 and the sword of the spirit is the word of God.
39:36 So when you preach the word, when you share the word,
39:39 you're going to inevitably and inadvertently
39:42 and sometimes intentionally
39:45 present something that's going to divide,
39:47 but what you have to keep in mind is, as the person--.
39:50 Let's use a surgeon for an example.
39:53 The surgeon doesn't cut up his patient. Right.
39:56 But he has instruments that can cut,
39:58 I mean, if he decides to-- Thankfully they do that.
40:02 If they anesthetize their patient
40:05 or put them under, make sure that they're sleeping
40:07 when they do the surgery.
40:08 They have surgical tools that are extremely sharp.
40:11 Their job is not to cut up the patient,
40:13 their job is to cut out the problem,
40:16 to remove the thing that may be hindering
40:18 that person from growth or full health.
40:20 But to sew that person up
40:22 and bring them back to whole again.
40:24 In the same way the teachings of Christ are intended to
40:28 remove the things that are causing us
40:31 to have an unhealthy walk with Christ,
40:33 but to leave the sinner whole on that note,
40:37 so we'll transition into that.
40:39 And one of the things I want to point out--
40:42 When I was over in Australia
40:43 and I know some of the brethren
40:44 over in Australia appreciate this.
40:48 They say, it's gone to the place
40:50 where some people come to church
40:51 and one of the guys is not even a girl
40:53 as you--but one of the guys young man said to me,
40:56 you know, I find some of my other comrades,
40:59 my same age, they come to church
41:02 with a flip-flops and shorts,
41:05 like we're going to go skiing, or like they skied to church,
41:10 or they like they're gonna hang ten,
41:12 you know, on boogie board to come to church
41:15 and then it's become so fashionably faddy,
41:23 fad and in the sense that, you know,
41:26 there is no difference between what the Bible talks about
41:28 modesty in coming before the Lord bringing your best.
41:31 And what it looks like when you go to the beach. Yeah.
41:34 And so times have definitely changed
41:37 and the world has made a strange
41:39 and strong impact on the church. Yeah, yeah.
41:42 So, what we're gonna do today is we're gonna start,
41:43 we're gonna walk through the topic of adornment.
41:45 We're gonna talk about tattoos.
41:47 We talked about modesty and dress
41:48 and as you know the program has about 15
41:50 or so minutes left to it.
41:51 We're not gonna cover that all today.
41:52 We're gonna talk about some trends in the Bible
41:54 that have talked about there
41:55 and by the way you have to keep in mind
41:56 everything that's mentioned in the Bible is not mentioned
42:00 to be an example for us to follow,
42:02 because it talks about polygamy,
42:04 it talks about multiple wives,
42:06 it talks about Solomon having 700 wives,
42:09 definitely not a recommendation,
42:11 can you say amen, John? Amen, amen.
42:13 It talks about people who had,
42:16 who had been involved in promiscuity,
42:18 immorality, sexual immorality.
42:21 Those are not practices
42:22 that the Bible is giving us an example to follow.
42:26 Number of things that are there written for the history
42:29 for us to understand what the Bible wants us
42:31 to do and not to do.
42:32 And so let's begin, I want to start with a story
42:35 that many people don't know
42:38 but it's in the Book of Genesis.
42:40 Genesis Chapter 24 and the verses
42:43 that we highlight here today,
42:45 we're gonna be talking about the Midianites,
42:47 and the Chaldeans, and the Canaanites.
42:51 Abraham had a son by the name of Isaac.
42:56 And Isaac was a young man whose father wanted him
43:03 to have an appropriate bride.
43:06 He wanted him to be married to a young lady
43:09 who will not be a dishonor to the family.
43:13 And so if you begin
43:14 in the Book of Genesis Chapter 24,
43:18 let's go ahead and John, if you could,
43:21 I don't know if you're there, are you there? I am here.
43:24 Read for us for verse 1 down to verse 4
43:29 and I'll just go ahead
43:30 and we'll work back and forth on this.
43:33 Genesis 24 verse 1 Yes, Isaacs's marriage, yes.
43:36 "Now Abraham was old well advanced in age
43:39 and the Lord had blessed Abraham in all things.
43:42 So Abraham said to the older servant of his house,
43:45 who ruled over all that he had,
43:47 Please put your hand under my thigh,
43:50 and I will make you swear by the Lord,
43:52 the God of heaven and the God of the earth,
43:55 that you would not take a wife for my son
43:57 from the daughters of the Canaanites,
43:59 among whom I dwell, but you shall go to my country
44:02 and to my family, and take a wife for my son Isaac."
44:06 Just read verse 5 too.
44:07 "And the servant said to him,
44:09 Perhaps the woman will not be willing
44:11 to follow me to this land.
44:13 Must I take your son back to the land from which you came?"
44:18 And now I want to add verse 6 "But Abraham said to him,
44:20 "Beware that you do not take my son back there."
44:23 In other words when you think about it,
44:25 when the Lord called Abraham out. Stay out--
44:28 Abraham, exactly, He called him out he said,
44:30 come out stay out.
44:31 And the beautiful thing about the story is
44:33 it covers Chapter 25 and verse 53
44:35 because it's a long story.
44:37 Let me summarize it
44:38 and show you the high points of the story here.
44:39 And one of the first examples in scripture
44:41 were jewelry is talked about
44:43 and in the cultures of the Babylonians,
44:46 the Egyptians, the Chaldeans, the Midianites.
44:49 It was not uncommon in the word we call it dowry,
44:54 that's still prevalent in some lands
44:57 where there is gift to the perspective bride,
45:00 there's a gift to the family.
45:01 And so Abraham servant prays and he asked God for sign,
45:06 so that the woman that he is about to choose
45:08 would be the one that God has for Isaac.
45:12 And I want go ahead and take you to the story now.
45:14 Let's go down to verse.
45:21 Oh, yeah, verse 13 of Genesis 24
45:26 "Behold, I stand here by the well of water,
45:30 and the daughters of the men of the city
45:32 are coming out to draw water.
45:34 Now let it be, that the young woman to whom
45:37 I say, Please let down your pitcher that I may drink,
45:40 and she says, Drink,
45:42 and I will also give to your camels a drink,
45:45 let her be the one whom You have appointed
45:49 for Your servant Isaac.
45:51 And by this I will know that
45:53 You have shown kindness to my master."
45:56 And I like this read verse 15, John.
45:59 "And it happened, before he had finished speaking,
46:01 that behold, Rebekah, who was born to Bethuel,
46:05 son of Milcah, the wife of Nahor,
46:08 Abraham's brother, came out with her pitcher
46:10 on her shoulder. Go ahead.
46:14 "Now the young woman was very beautiful to behold, a virgin,
46:17 no man had known her.
46:19 And she went down to the well,
46:20 filled her pitcher, and came up."
46:22 And so what happened,
46:23 the servant you find in verse 17,
46:25 he went to meet her he said, wow she is beautiful,
46:27 I think that she will fit,
46:29 but that was not the only criteria.
46:31 He said, I just don't want somebody that looks good,
46:34 but I want somebody who is going to be
46:36 willing to be a servant
46:38 and you will notice in this sense,
46:39 he ask if she offers me something to drink
46:42 and she says she is going to even feed my camels
46:45 or water my camels and she did that.
46:47 She did exactly what the Lord had placed upon his heart
46:51 to do, but notice the response there,
46:53 because he looked at her and he said.
46:55 She will be wonderful candidate for a bride.
46:58 And look at verse 22--
46:59 And part of the reason for that though is that,
47:01 he asked her for the drink.
47:03 But when she asked,
47:05 if she can also give some water to the camel,
47:07 she went above and beyond what she was asked.
47:09 She was a woman who went out of her way
47:13 to bless somebody else,
47:15 and that's the kind of character
47:17 that I think we see here in choosing a wife. Right.
47:22 That we need to find and that those
47:24 who are single out there look for that one
47:25 that will go the extra mile. That's right.
47:27 That will be a blessing to those around her,
47:29 not just is the kind that takes, takes, takes.
47:33 And you know how difficult it would have been for the woman
47:35 to go get that water and water the camels
47:37 and that's a lot of work. Yeah.
47:38 She was willing to really be a woman of virtue.
47:42 She was a virtuous woman, she was pure,
47:44 she was beautiful, she was lovely.
47:46 And then when Abraham servant went with,
47:49 when he went looking for the wife
47:51 he took gifts with him.
47:53 And look at the gifts that he gave to her, verse 22.
47:58 And it says "So it was,
47:59 when the camels had finished drinking,
48:02 that the man took a golden nose ring
48:06 weighing half a shekel, that's pretty heavy.
48:09 And two bracelets for her wrists
48:12 weighing ten shekels of gold,
48:15 and said, whose daughter are you?
48:17 Tell me, please, is there room in your father's house
48:21 for us to lodge?"
48:23 So notice what he did right away,
48:24 he gave for a dowry and she excepted that dowry,
48:27 but he wanted to go even further,
48:29 he wanted to find out from the family
48:31 whether or not she would, that would be okay with them.
48:33 And in that culture, in some cultures today,
48:37 I don't know how much is practiced still,
48:39 but they're arranged,
48:40 where the family members all get together
48:42 and discuss this arrangement
48:43 before there is even ever a wedding.
48:46 And so as you get together, you go down to verse 30,
48:49 and he is there in the house
48:52 and verse 29 to lead into that go ahead, verse 29--
48:55 "Now Rebekah had a brother whose name was Laban."
48:57 Who appears latter on in the Genesis story.
49:00 That's right.
49:01 "And Laban ran out to the man by the well.
49:03 So it came to pass, when he saw the nose ring,
49:05 and the bracelets on his sister's wrists,
49:08 and when he heard the words of his sister
49:10 Rebekah, saying, "Thus the man spoke to me,"
49:13 that he went to the man.
49:14 And there he stood by the camels at the well.
49:17 And he said, "Come in, O blessed of the Lord!
49:21 Why do you stand outside?
49:22 For I have prepared the house, and a place for the camels.
49:26 Then the man came to the house.
49:27 And he unloaded the camels,
49:29 and provided straw and feed for the camels,
49:30 and water to wash his feet
49:33 and the feet of the men who were with him."
49:36 It looks like he give them food
49:38 and he tells him about his mission
49:40 little bit as to why he is there.
49:42 And so when he asked it,
49:43 so he is telling the story
49:44 and he is relaying when he asked her,
49:46 whose daughter are you?
49:47 So he goes back to account,
49:48 because this is quite a long story.
49:50 We go down to verse 47,
49:51 and then he is telling the story
49:53 what happen when he met Rebekah and he says,
49:56 "Then I asked her, and said, Whose daughter are you?
49:58 And she said, The daughter of Bethuel,
50:00 Nahor's son, whom Milcah bore to him.
50:04 And I put the nose ring on her nose
50:07 and the bracelets on her wrists
50:09 and I bowed my head and worship the Lord
50:11 and bless the Lord God of my Master Abraham,
50:14 who had led me in the way of truth
50:16 to take the daughter of my master's brother for his son.
50:19 And so what happened, this entire arrangement continues
50:22 and then you get down to verse,
50:24 we read verse 47, now look at verse 53,
50:27 what sealed the deal.
50:29 "Then the servant brought out jewelry of silver,
50:32 jewelry of gold, and clothing and gave them to Rebekah.
50:35 He also gave precious things to her brother and her mother.
50:40 And he and the men who were with him
50:42 ate and drank and stayed all night.
50:44 Then they arose in the morning,
50:45 and he said, "Send me away to my master."
50:49 And as you read the story further,
50:51 they gave him permission to take Rebekah,
50:55 as the wife of Isaac.
50:57 And this entire story covers the account of the dowry
51:01 which is something that's almost been
51:02 lost sight of nowadays.
51:04 I think that if people made more of an investment,
51:06 if people said okay I want to marry your daughter
51:09 and the father or the mother or the family said okay,
51:11 how much you're gonna pay us. Right.
51:13 I think, a far or less,
51:16 far fewer people would be
51:17 backing out of this relationships
51:19 as though it's nothing.
51:20 Far a fewer people will say, well, I want my money back
51:23 because in this sense you don't get it back.
51:25 And the dowry was anything from great wealth,
51:28 sometimes it was cattle, sometimes it was land,
51:30 but in this sense, Abraham is very wealthy man
51:34 and he sent with his servant
51:37 these articles to give to Isaac and Rebekah.
51:41 But where we want to windup the program today is
51:43 because as you look at this,
51:45 this was practice that was among the Midianites,
51:47 the Chaldeans, the Canaanites,
51:50 but you will notice that in this story
51:52 there are no Israelites.
51:54 The nation of Israel is not even in existence,
51:56 because, Isaac and Rebekah,
52:00 didn't have their children yet.
52:02 They're gonna have sons, to Issac and Rebekah
52:05 is going to be born Jacob and Esau.
52:08 To Jacob, is going to be born the sons of Israel. Right.
52:12 And so what we're gonna do now
52:13 is transition before the winding of the program
52:16 and we're gonna go now.
52:17 Remember the story, there is a man called Laban,
52:19 and Laban has a part to play in this story,
52:22 because you will see that
52:23 as we go down to verse Chapter 31 of Genesis.
52:27 We're gonna lay the foundation
52:28 and by the way this is not the--
52:30 We're just laying some foundation in this program.
52:33 We're gonna see Laban mentioned again.
52:35 And okay, Rachel and Leah
52:39 and now I'll start with verse 1 of Chapter 31
52:42 because this is were Isaac has sons,
52:46 Isaac and Rebekah has sons, Jacob and Esau,
52:48 and I'll go ahead and verse 30,
52:50 Chapter 31 verse 1.
52:52 "Now Jacob heard the words of Laban's sons, saying,
52:55 "Jacob has taken away all that was our father's,
52:58 and from what was our father's
53:00 he has acquired all this wealth."
53:02 Okay, so Jacob now, you know the story
53:05 when he desires to marry Rachel there is deal made.
53:11 Okay, if you work for me for x amount of years,
53:13 7 then got to 14, then I will go ahead
53:16 and give you permission to marry my daughter.
53:18 Well, they got to the place were Rachel thought that
53:20 the father was robbing them and he says,
53:22 I think that he is spending all my wealth.
53:24 Yet, the Lord had to come to the place
53:28 were they came to some agreement
53:29 to deal with this issues.
53:31 Look at verse 7, and Jacob is speaking here,
53:34 it says "Yet your father has deceived me
53:36 and changed my wages ten times,
53:39 but God did not allow him to hurt me."
53:42 And so Rachel and Leah now are upset with their father
53:45 and look at verse 14
53:47 "Then Rachel and Leah answered and said to him,
53:49 "Is there still any portion
53:51 or inheritance for us in our father's house?
53:54 Are we not considered strangers by him?
53:56 For he has sold us,
53:58 and also completely consumed our money.
54:00 For all these riches which God has taken from our father
54:05 are really ours and our children's now then,
54:09 whatever God has said to you, do it."
54:11 And so what she did look at verse 19.
54:14 "Now Laban had gone to shear his sheep,
54:16 and Rachel had stolen the household idols
54:20 that were her father's.
54:21 And Jacob stole away, unknown to Laban,
54:24 the Syrian, in that he did not tell him
54:29 that he intended to flee."
54:31 And so now the father came back looking for his gods,
54:34 he came back looking for this articles that were stolen.
54:37 Now John, pick up the story at verse 30 now.
54:41 Verse 30 "And now you have surely gone
54:43 because you greatly long for your father's house,
54:45 but why did you steal my gods?" Okay.
54:49 "Then Jacob answered and said to Laban,
54:51 "Because I was afraid, for I said,
54:53 Perhaps you would take your daughters
54:54 from me by force."
54:56 So Laban catches up with Jacob down the road here
55:01 and Jacob is explaining why he left. Exactly.
55:05 And now verse 32 "With whomever you find your gods,"
55:09 but Jacob doesn't know that
55:12 Rachel stole these things. Right.
55:14 He doesn't know she is hiding them.
55:15 And so he says okay "Your gods are missing
55:17 whomever you find it, where ever you find these gods
55:20 do with them as you please.
55:21 But now the story goes on
55:23 and with whomever you find your gods,
55:25 do not let them live.
55:27 In the presence of your brethren,
55:28 identify what I have of yours and take it with you."
55:31 For Jacob did not know that Rachel had stolen them."
55:35 And it says in verse 34
55:36 "Now Rachel had taken the household idols
55:38 and put them in the camel's saddle, and sat on them.
55:41 And Laban search all about the tent
55:43 but did not find them.
55:45 And she said to her father,
55:46 "Let it not displease my lord that I cannot rise before you,
55:48 for the manner of woman is with me."
55:51 And he searched but did not find the household idols.
55:54 And we're gonna see as we continue,
55:57 but I want to windup this program on is
55:59 we're gonna see what God has done,
56:02 because remember now,
56:04 Jacob and Rachel, are going to establish their family,
56:09 the story is going to continue.
56:10 The culture has been established here.
56:11 We're seeing the history of the family. That's right.
56:13 With the dowries and the rings,
56:15 nose rings all the other things.
56:16 We're gonna see what God does
56:17 as He calls them to be Israelites.
56:19 That's right, so this story is beautiful
56:22 and the reason why we begin this way
56:23 and I thank you for saying that John,
56:25 the reason why we begin this way.
56:27 Is in order for us to understand
56:28 why God says what He does.
56:30 God knows history better than we.
56:33 He sees the end from the beginning,
56:36 from ancient times,
56:37 things that are not even happening yet.
56:40 And he sets up a precedent by coming to Jacob,
56:46 by coming to Rachel, and he says,
56:49 I'm gonna bless your household,
56:52 but I don't want you to take upon yourself
56:56 the parameters of the blessing,
56:57 I'll outline them.
56:59 In our next program you're gonna see
57:01 what God did as He prepared to bless the entire world
57:05 with the sons of Jacob.
57:07 And he did not only with the nation of Israel.
57:09 That's right, as he brought them out
57:10 and continue to impress upon them throughout the times,
57:14 because they went where they wavered back and forth,
57:15 in and out, but he also does that with spiritual Israel
57:18 which is the church today.
57:20 Well, friends remember,
57:21 the Lord always has a plan for your lives.
57:23 And here at House Calls we firmly believe that,
57:25 that's why the standards that God establishes
57:27 is to get us ready for the House Call,
57:29 He is gonna make on our life.
57:30 So as you get ready for that,
57:32 you can do so by giving your life to Christ today.


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