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Emotional Dishonesty

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00:43 >> Welcome to It Is Written
00:44 Canada.
00:46 Thank you for joining us in
00:47 beautiful Kelowna, British
00:49 Columbia.
00:51 Our special guest again is Don
00:53 Straub, a practising clinical
00:55 counsellor who helps people
00:57 struggling with everyday
00:58 problems by giving them
01:00 powerful, practical solutions.
01:03 >> Don is going to look at the
01:05 topic of emotional dishonesty.
01:07 Don, welcome again to It Is
01:09 Written Canada.
01:10 >> Thank you, it's awesome to
01:12 be here with you.
01:13 >> Can you explain to us,
01:15 what do you mean by
01:16 "emotional dishonesty?"
01:19 >> Well, for starters, our
01:20 society holds many myths
01:22 about emotions.
01:24 For example, in our society,
01:27 emotional dishonesty is not
01:29 just common, it's something to
01:30 be sought after.
01:32 Like: "How are you today?"
01:34 "Fine," even though I'm
01:36 anything but fine.
01:38 And what I've discovered is
01:40 that this takes place in other
01:41 cultures, too.
01:42 When I went to Africa, I
01:44 discovered I wanted to know
01:45 how to greet people first off
01:47 and so they said, "Well, this"
01:48 "is what you do: you say,"
01:50 "'Habari gani'" which means
01:52 "Any news," or "What's the"
01:53 "news," literally "What's the"
01:54 "news" and you must always
01:57 say, "Nzuri," which means
01:59 "good, "it's always gotta be
02:01 good news.
02:03 And so here's the thing about
02:05 emotions, I think that many
02:06 Christians begin to equate
02:09 certain emotions like
02:11 uncomfortable emotions, like
02:13 sadness, anxiety, worry, fear,
02:16 even anger, as being negative
02:19 or sinful and they equate when
02:21 you have joy and happiness and
02:23 calmness that you're
02:25 righteous.
02:27 And that's too bad because all
02:30 of the emotions serve a
02:31 purpose, they have a function.
02:33 There aren't negative or
02:34 positive emotions, just
02:35 comfortable and uncomfortable
02:37 emotions.
02:38 >> So, Don, what does the
02:40 Bible say about emotions?
02:42 >> When I started to
02:44 understand the biology of
02:45 emotions and how they're
02:47 produced by the brain and the
02:49 hormones, I realized that,
02:51 "Hey, this is just how the"
02:53 "body works, this is just how"
02:54 "God created us," and I began
02:56 to pay attention to emotions
02:58 in the scriptures.
03:00 And there's emotion all
03:01 through the scriptures.
03:03 Psalms, especially, are just
03:04 filled with strong emotions, I
03:06 mean there's crying, there's,
03:08 like, wailing, there's tears,
03:11 and there's huge emotions of
03:13 fear and anxiety, there's--
03:16 oh, there's strong emotions of
03:18 anger in the book of Psalms.
03:20 In the Bible, the Bible refers
03:22 to God as having anger,
03:24 there's 44 scriptures that say
03:25 God is angry.
03:26 And so there's a lot of
03:28 emotion in scripture.
03:30 The shortest verse in the
03:32 Bible is so profound,
03:34 it simply says, "Jesus wept."
03:37 And when I think of those
03:39 words, it just meets my needs
03:42 because when both of my wifes
03:44 died, I would imagine Jesus
03:47 weeping right with me when I
03:49 was weeping, that He was there
03:52 with me, that Jesus is always
03:55 abiding with us through all of
03:57 this pain.
04:01 ♪♪
04:17 ♪Abide with me♪
04:22 ♪fast falls the eventide♪
04:29 ♪The darkness deepens♪
04:35 ♪Lord, with me abide♪
04:42 ♪When other helpers♪
04:48 ♪fail and comforts flee♪
04:53 ♪Help of the helpless♪
04:57 ♪oh, abide with me♪
05:05 ♪♪
05:24 ♪I fear no foe♪
05:28 ♪with Thee at hand to bless♪
05:35 ♪Ills have no weight♪
05:39 ♪and tears no bitterness♪
05:46 ♪Where is death's sting♪
05:50 ♪Where, grave, thy victory♪
05:57 ♪I triumph still♪
06:02 ♪if Thou abide with me♪
06:11 ♪♪
06:36 >> It is so true.
06:39 When you open your heart to
06:41 God, Jesus says that He will
06:45 abide with you and He will
06:47 never leave you.
06:49 And we've been talking to Don
06:51 Straub who is a practising
06:52 clinical counsellor and he's
06:54 been talking about what the
06:56 Bible reveals about emotions
06:57 and about how God is with you
07:00 in your times of sorrow.
07:02 Don, what about myths?
07:05 Do people have certain myths
07:07 when it comes to emotions?
07:10 >> Well, one myth about
07:11 emotions is that we are
07:14 responsible for other
07:15 people's emotions.
07:18 That may sound logical, but
07:19 it's not really helpful.
07:21 And it can start innocently,
07:23 like, let's just say we have a
07:25 little toddler and he walks
07:27 into his mommy's bedroom
07:29 and Mommy's crying.
07:31 To the toddler, his mommy
07:32 could be dying in his
07:33 little mind.
07:35 And Mommy sees the toddler
07:36 and says, "Oh, come here,"
07:38 "Honey, give Mommy a big hug,"
07:39 and they hug and she says,
07:41 "Oh, you make Mommy"
07:42 "feel so much better."
07:44 Sounds really endearing,
07:45 doesn't it?
07:47 But actually it's the opposite
07:48 of endearing.
07:49 What's happening there is the
07:51 toddler will probably get the
07:52 idea that he has the power to
07:55 change his mommy's feelings
07:57 and he might even become to
07:59 believe that he's responsible
08:01 for his mother's feelings and
08:03 then through his life he's
08:04 always trying to make Mom feel
08:06 better, if she's not,
08:08 it's his fault.
08:10 See, the truth is that it
08:12 would be better for Mommy to
08:14 say, "Oh, come here, honey."
08:15 "Give Mommy a big hug."
08:17 "It's OK for mommies to cry."
08:19 "We get sad sometimes and"
08:20 "that's OK."
08:22 That way the child learns that
08:23 it's OK to be sad, it's OK not
08:25 to be happy all the time.
08:28 But let's say this child feels
08:30 that he has to be responsible
08:32 for his mother's feelings,
08:34 that child could easily grow
08:36 up and now in his adult
08:38 relationships, such as his
08:40 marriage relationship, he
08:41 might feel responsible for his
08:43 partner's feelings.
08:45 And, you know, we don't like
08:46 to be told, "You shouldn't"
08:48 "feel this way," or we wanna
08:49 fix it.
08:50 People don't wanna be fixed,
08:51 sometimes they just wanna be
08:53 held, understood, listened to.
08:56 It's not about making us feel
08:58 differently or better.
09:00 >> So, Don, aren't some
09:01 emotions better than other
09:03 emotions?
09:05 >> I used to think that way,
09:06 I think it's sort of natural
09:08 for us to think that way.
09:09 I used to call negative
09:11 emotions and positive
09:12 emotions, but I don't anymore.
09:14 There are comfortable emotions
09:16 and uncomfortable emotions
09:18 and each of these emotions
09:19 have a purpose.
09:21 Let's take sadness for
09:22 instance.
09:24 So sadness is what we call an
09:27 emotion and an emotion is an
09:28 action signal, every emotion
09:31 is an action signal so we take
09:33 some action.
09:35 So sadness is an action signal
09:38 to chill out, take a rest,
09:40 slow down your life, and get
09:42 this: it's an action to shed
09:44 some tears, it's a signal
09:46 to cry.
09:48 There are two kinds of tears:
09:50 there's tears of lubrication
09:52 which we need to keep from
09:53 getting dry eyes, then there
09:55 are tears of emotion and these
09:57 tears of emotion could be sad
09:59 or happy-sad, as you know, and
10:01 these tears actually contain
10:04 toxic chemicals, they can
10:06 measure them, and these are
10:08 the toxins produced by the
10:10 brain when we're stressed and
10:12 this is the way the brain gets
10:14 rid of those toxins is through
10:15 the tear ducts.
10:16 So it's important to cry to
10:18 de-stress.
10:20 Let's talk about anxiety,
10:22 that's another example of
10:23 an emotion.
10:24 We don't like to feel anxiety,
10:26 but it's actually your friend.
10:29 Anxiety is my friend because
10:30 anxiety is an action signal
10:33 to keep myself safe.
10:35 If I had no anxiety, I
10:37 wouldn't probably live more
10:38 than a few years of life
10:40 because the action signal to
10:42 stay safe is an important
10:43 signal.
10:44 If I had no anxiety, I
10:46 wouldn't study for a test.
10:48 If I had no anxiety, I
10:50 probably wouldn't check my
10:51 smoke alarms
10:52 or I wouldn't drive safely.
10:54 See, it's an action signal
10:55 that keeps me safe.
10:57 But let me explain something
10:59 here, we have these two words
11:00 in the English language, we
11:01 have the word, "fear," and the
11:03 word, "anxiety."
11:05 So just for definition's sake,
11:06 we have to look at it this
11:07 way: they feel the same.
11:09 Maybe fear can sometimes be
11:11 more intense, but for some
11:12 people, anxiety can be as
11:13 intense as fear.
11:15 But fear is what we feel when
11:18 there is a danger right now,
11:21 in the room, in this moment,
11:22 there's a rattle snake on the
11:23 floor right now.
11:25 It's a good thing we feel fear
11:26 We wanna feel fear or we might
11:28 pick it up.
11:29 It keeps us safe.
11:31 Anxiety is when we're in the
11:33 future, so it's kind of like
11:37 I'm feeling anxiety about the
11:40 idea that I might run across a
11:43 rattle snake in the parking
11:44 lot when I go home today.
11:47 Now, if there were rattle
11:49 snakes in this area, that may
11:52 be an appropriate thing and I
11:54 can take action, I can stomp
11:56 my feet, look for rattle
11:57 snakes, but if there's no
11:59 rattle snakes at all in this
12:01 area, that anxiety serves
12:03 no purpose.
12:04 We call it a perceived fear,
12:07 it's just only a perceived
12:08 fear and-- but it can get me
12:10 into trouble and sometimes
12:11 these perceived fears, this
12:13 anxiety, can just put us
12:15 instantly into fight, flight,
12:16 or freeze mode.
12:18 And for some people, they
12:21 have, like, a chronic anxiety
12:23 in which they're continuously
12:25 anxious, continually fearful
12:27 and this is often the result
12:29 of PTSD, Post Traumatic
12:31 Stress Disorder.
12:33 In other words, their brains
12:34 have been now programmed to be
12:36 in a high state of alert for
12:38 danger because of what they've
12:39 experienced in their past,
12:41 they can never feel comfortable
12:43 or safe in the present.
12:45 God knows that we're human,
12:47 He understands our condition.
12:49 He's not gonna, like, judge us
12:52 for that kind of feeling in
12:53 the body.
12:55 But it's an action signal to
12:56 probably go see a
12:58 professional, get some help
13:00 with that trauma.
13:02 >> So, Don, what happens if
13:05 you can't calm down and you're
13:08 constantly in this state of
13:11 fight, flight, or freeze?
13:16 >> Well, I like to teach my
13:19 clients a way of managing that
13:21 emotion because there are
13:25 times where emotions get out
13:26 of control and we're almost
13:28 helpless to do anything about
13:30 it in that moment, and, like,
13:31 normal spiritual disciplines
13:34 don't work, nothing seems
13:35 to work.
13:37 But let me explain emotion
13:38 this way, I'm gonna talk about
13:41 the "window of tolerance," OK?
13:44 So let's just say that right
13:46 here, at this level here, is a
13:50 minimum amount of emotion that
13:52 a human needs to be healthy.
13:55 Now below this level, in this
13:57 area down here, we're not
14:00 safe, we're not living in
14:02 healthy ways because in this
14:04 area, we're probably
14:06 intoxicated, drunk,
14:07 high on drugs.
14:09 [MIKE] So your emotions are
14:11 being suppressed by
14:12 the alcohol...
14:14 [DON] Exactly.
14:15 >> ...or the drugs.
14:16 >> Exactly.
14:17 And so when we're in this area
14:19 with our emotions, we're not
14:20 healthy, we're gonna do
14:21 dangerous things.
14:23 Now, let's talk about maybe a
14:25 metaphor here to kinda
14:26 illustrate this.
14:28 I can have spaghetti and I can
14:30 put it into ice cold water and
14:31 let it sit there for a few
14:33 hours and it gets soft, I could
14:35 eat it, but it's disgusting.
14:37 Like, if you want to enjoy
14:39 spaghetti, you have to have
14:40 heat, you have to cook the
14:42 spaghetti, OK?
14:44 So it's like that.
14:46 All of our emotions, all of
14:48 the emotions have a purpose
14:49 and we need to have those
14:51 emotions in our lives, like
14:53 spaghetti needs heat, we need
14:55 these emotions to be healthy.
14:58 So we need to stay within this
15:01 zone right here to feel some
15:05 emotions to be healthy
15:07 human beings.
15:09 But just like spaghetti, if
15:11 you aren't watching and you
15:13 don't turn the heat down
15:14 before the temperature gets to
15:16 a certain point, what a mess
15:19 all over the stove.
15:20 And that's what happens
15:21 with emotions.
15:23 When we reach this upper level
15:25 here, the window of tolerance,
15:29 and we go over that, our lives
15:31 can fall apart, we can't
15:32 function, we can't think
15:34 properly, we can't reason
15:36 logically, we just come apart,
15:38 so to speak, and we have words
15:39 in the English language
15:40 for this.
15:41 And this is where we fear, we
15:42 fear arriving here so we numb
15:45 ourselves with alcohol and
15:46 drugs to stay--
15:48 but it goes down here.
15:50 So this is the point we don't
15:52 want to exceed and we need to
15:54 manage our emotions in order
15:56 to stay within this window of
15:57 tolerance.
15:59 >> So how do you manage
16:01 your emotions?
16:03 >> Well when the usual things,
16:05 usual spiritual disciplines
16:07 like prayer and stuff doesn't
16:08 work, and sometimes it doesn't,
16:10 I make sure that all my
16:11 clients have an exercise that
16:13 really works to manage
16:14 emotions so I'm gonna quickly
16:15 go through this.
16:17 I tell people to go to a calm
16:18 place which a place they've
16:20 been in the past that has just
16:22 been a calm, happy experience,
16:23 nothing bad happened in this
16:25 place, and I tell them to go
16:26 there and imagine this place,
16:28 what they see, what they hear,
16:29 what they feel on their body,
16:30 temperature, maybe what they
16:32 smell and to stay in
16:33 that place.
16:34 And generally if it's a calm
16:36 place, their breathing rate
16:38 goes slow and kinda shallow
16:41 and it's down in this area
16:43 instead of up here when you're
16:44 anxious, and then once they
16:46 have that calm place, I tell
16:48 them to memorize their breath,
16:49 remember it because we do have
16:51 some control over the breath
16:52 with our conscious mind, we
16:53 can force ourselves to breathe
16:55 that way, and then I tell them
16:56 to pick a word or a phrase
16:59 that they can link to this
17:00 place like "peace," "serenity,"
17:03 maybe "God is with me," and to
17:05 remember that word, it's like
17:07 a cue word.
17:08 After that, I tell them to do
17:10 this: take your hands, looking
17:13 at your palms, cross your
17:15 fists-- your wrists with your
17:17 thumbs up and when you do this
17:19 it's like a butterfly.
17:20 This is called a butterfly hug
17:22 You put the thumbs at the top
17:23 of your rib cage and you start
17:25 to use left-right bilateral
17:27 stimulation and you tap your
17:28 chest, left, right, left,
17:30 right, left right.
17:32 This bilateral stimulation of
17:33 the brain has a very calming
17:35 effect on the brain because,
17:37 you see, your left brain
17:38 controls your right hand which
17:40 tells your left arm that you've
17:42 touched it which is received
17:44 by your right brain and vice
17:45 versa, it really calms
17:47 the brain.
17:48 So to do this exercise, we do
17:50 it backwards.
17:51 So if you're getting to this
17:53 place where you're just going
17:54 over the top, you start with a
17:57 butterfly hug and you start
17:58 tapping left-right like this
18:00 and then you say the cue word.
18:03 "God is with me," "peace,"
18:05 whatever the cue word is, and
18:06 then you force yourself to
18:08 breathe in that slow, shallow
18:09 way and then you go to this
18:11 place, you see it, you feel
18:13 it, you hear it, you smell it
18:15 and you cycle around the cue
18:17 word, the breath, the calm
18:19 place, the cue word, the
18:20 breath, the calm place, all
18:22 the while doing the
18:23 butterfly hug.
18:25 And what happens here is you
18:27 cannot be in the future,
18:29 remember that's what anxiety
18:31 is, you're in the future, you
18:32 cannot stay in the future when
18:33 you're doing all this.
18:35 It brings you to the present
18:36 and as long as there's no
18:38 rattle snake on the floor, as
18:39 long as you're safe, you're
18:40 gonna come down in your
18:42 emotions.
18:43 And guess what you're doing:
18:44 you're using your thoughts and
18:46 your behaviours, remember the
18:47 BFT sandwich?
18:49 Thoughts create feelings and
18:50 behaviours create feelings.
18:52 So you're using your breath,
18:54 that's a behaviour, and you're
18:56 using your butterfly hug,
18:58 that's a behaviour, you're
18:59 using your thought, "God is"
19:01 "with me," "calm," "peace,"
19:03 "serenity," and you're using
19:05 the calm place, you're
19:06 thinking about this calm place.
19:08 So you're using thoughts and
19:09 behaviours to bring your
19:11 feelings down below the window
19:14 of tolerance level there.
19:17 >> So, Don, can you use this
19:19 to manage other emotions that
19:22 are troubling you?
19:23 >> Absolutely.
19:24 Any emotion that starts to
19:26 send you into a place where
19:28 you're starting to feel
19:29 flooded, raises your heart
19:30 rate, you can use this
19:32 exercise to keep yourself
19:34 within the window of tolerance.
19:36 Let's talk about anger for
19:38 example, OK?
19:39 A lot of people are afraid of
19:41 anger, they don't think it's a
19:43 good emotion to have, but
19:45 actually, like all the other
19:47 emotions, anger is an action
19:49 signal, it has a purpose.
19:50 The action signal of anger is
19:52 to protect yourself and the
19:54 people you love from injustice.
19:58 You see, if I don't feel any
20:00 anger when there's an
20:02 injustice, I would be deemed
20:04 sociopathic because it's very
20:07 appropriate to be angry when
20:09 there's an injustice.
20:11 It's an action signal to
20:12 protect myself and the people
20:14 I love, like I said.
20:15 So maybe I see racism.
20:17 Perhaps I could write an
20:19 article to the newspaper,
20:20 maybe I could work towards
20:22 passed laws that help people
20:24 from, you know, that are being
20:25 picked on because of
20:27 their race.
20:29 People have invented cures
20:31 for diseases because they
20:32 were angry that their
20:33 loved-one died.
20:34 So anger's a very appropriate
20:36 emotion when there's injustice.
20:38 No wonder God gets angry, no
20:39 wonder there's 44 verses
20:40 because think of all the
20:42 injustices that God
20:43 experiences.
20:45 Now let's take the emotion of
20:47 guilt, it's a very appropriate
20:49 emotion.
20:51 Think of what would happen if
20:52 no one felt guilty.
20:53 What a terrible world we'd be
20:55 living in because guilt is an
20:56 action signal to apologize,
21:01 make amends, ask forgiveness,
21:03 and to change what you're
21:05 doing, to do it differently.
21:09 Unfortunately, some people
21:10 feel guilty when they're
21:12 not guilty.
21:14 Now this happens especially
21:15 with children because they
21:16 don't have that ability to
21:18 reason logically.
21:20 They're egocentric, it's all
21:21 about me, you see.
21:23 So for a child, for instance,
21:26 if, maybe if a parent leaves
21:29 them, there's a divorce and
21:32 they never see their dad
21:33 hardly at all, they begin to
21:35 feel it's their fault for
21:37 the divorce.
21:38 And maybe they heard--
21:39 overheard parents arguing
21:40 about them, how to discipline
21:41 and they begin to feel
21:42 they're guilty, they're the
21:44 guilty one, it's their fault.
21:46 I even found that some
21:48 children will believe it's
21:49 their fault that Grandma died
21:51 because they go to this place
21:53 of, "Well, I must not be a"
21:54 "good child, I must have done"
21:56 "something wrong and made God"
21:58 "angry and killed my grandma."
22:00 This is how children think.
22:02 But sometimes adults do the
22:03 same thing.
22:04 I've met many adults that feel
22:06 guilty because of a friend's
22:07 suicide, they feel guilty
22:09 because they believe that if
22:10 they'd just seen it, if they
22:12 just saw the symptoms, they
22:13 could have done something
22:15 about it, but they're not
22:16 professionals, but they
22:17 believe that it's their fault.
22:19 Of course the Devil loves us
22:20 to feel guilty when we're not
22:21 guilty 'cause he likes to beat
22:23 us up with this false guilt.
22:25 >> So, Don, earlier on you
22:27 mentioned shame.
22:29 Where does shame come in?
22:31 Aren't guilt and shame
22:33 the same thing?
22:36 >> What's interesting is that
22:37 in scripture it doesn't
22:38 differentiate between the two,
22:40 but when it comes to
22:42 definitions, it's important in
22:43 the field of counselling to be
22:45 able to define their
22:46 differences, OK, or you could
22:47 perhaps use other words, but
22:50 we've chosen to use "shame"
22:52 for the word for "false guilt"
22:54 'cause they feel identical
22:55 when you're guilty and you
22:57 feel guilty or when you're not
22:58 guilty and you still feel
22:59 guilty, you're feeling guilt,
23:01 false guilt, so we just call
23:02 that shame.
23:03 Shame is a very icky, icky
23:05 feeling, a very painful
23:06 feeling that we get when we
23:08 feel we're flawed, we're not
23:09 good enough.
23:10 When I sin, I might feel
23:12 unworthy to myself,
23:15 but never to God.
23:17 John Newton wrote these words
23:19 in Amazing Grace, he said...
23:27 Now, John Newton, being human,
23:29 I'm sure felt like a wretch
23:31 after all the wretched things
23:33 that he did.
23:35 And so with Isaac Watts, he
23:37 penned these words in a song.
23:39 He said...
23:53 This is probably a reference
23:54 to Psalms 22:6 where it says,
23:57 "But I am a worm and"
23:58 "not a man."
23:59 Now I'm sure that Isaac Watts
24:01 felt like a worm for his sins,
24:05 but that is not the truth
24:07 because this is what Zechariah
24:10 says in chapter 2, verse 8:
24:27 Wow!
24:29 Another translation says
24:30 again-- "Anyone who harms"
24:33 "you harms my most precious"
24:36 "possession."
24:38 You see, the truth is we're
24:40 not a wretch, we're not a
24:43 worm, we're the apple, we're
24:47 God's most precious possession.
24:50 And so when we start to feel
24:52 this way, like, "I'm unworthy,"
24:55 "I'm not valuable, because"
24:56 "I'm a-- I've sinned..."
24:58 We need to say the truth:
25:01 "I am worthy, I am valuable"
25:04 "to God, I'm the apple of His"
25:06 "eye, I'm His most precious"
25:08 "possession," because speaking
25:10 these truths sets us free.
25:16 >> Don, that is so encouraging
25:19 that we are the apple of God's
25:21 eye and we all make mistakes,
25:24 but even though we make
25:25 mistakes, we are not
25:27 a mistake...
25:28 >> That's right.
25:29 >> ...in the eyes of God.
25:31 So, Don, we've come to the end
25:33 of our program and I wonder if
25:35 you could please pray for us.
25:36 >> Absolutely.
25:39 Father God in heaven,
25:43 thank You for telling us how
25:47 You see us through Your eyes
25:50 as Your most precious
25:52 possession.
25:53 And, Lord, help us to remember
25:55 that when we're not feeling
25:58 like we're worthy at all,
26:00 to remember these truths and
26:02 to claim them.
26:04 In Jesus' name we pray, amen.
26:06 >> Amen, amen.
26:07 Thank you, Don, for sharing
26:09 with us about emotions today.
26:11 >> You're welcome.
26:13 >> Friends, as Don Straub
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27:51 "live by bread alone, but by"
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