3ABN On the Road

Cheap Date

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Participants: C.A. Murray

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01:00 Hello, and welcome.
01:02 Thank you for joining us today.
01:03 We are here together to worship the name of our Lord
01:06 and Savior Jesus Christ.
01:07 We thank you so much for joining us, and we have with us,
01:11 of course, a worldwide audience.
01:13 We welcome you. Thank you for joining us.
01:15 And we praise the Lord because we are now coming to you from
01:19 the metropolis, as some say, of Thompsonville, Illinois;
01:23 only 600 people, somewhere between 600 and 900 people.
01:27 However, from this little spot in the world we are reaching
01:31 the whole world, via 8 satellites,
01:33 through the Three Angels Broadcasting Network.
01:36 We praise the Lord because our remote crew is here.
01:40 They are normally traveling all over the world
01:43 in different places.
01:45 But normally when they're in the U.S. we are traveling on
01:47 production trucks.
01:48 And we praise the Lord that they are here with us today
01:51 for this special event.
01:52 We have a three part series that we will be having today.
01:56 Our special speaker is Pastor C. A. Murray.
02:00 We will be mentioning a few things about him later,
02:03 but we welcome you.
02:04 And we want to guarantee something to you,
02:07 everyone of you that is here, and everyone that is watching
02:09 on TV, The Lord has a plan to bless you today.
02:14 And the Lord will bless you somehow through the reading
02:17 of the Scripture, through a Bible Scripture that
02:19 Pastor C. A. Murray will share, or through a song that
02:23 you will hear today.
02:25 So we encourage you to focus on what God has intended for you.
02:29 We hope that you have purposed in your heart
02:31 to receive a blessing.
02:32 Because the Lord wants to bless His people.
02:34 And so we want to thank you for joining us.
02:37 And now we would like to invite you for prayer.
02:40 Sister Mollie Steenson will be leading us in prayer.
02:43 Afterwards Brother Matthew Andrew will be sharing
02:48 a Scripture reading with us.
02:50 Pastor Johnny said that he wanted our hearts to be prepared
02:55 to receive the word.
02:56 And I just want to encourage all of you.
02:58 Here at Thompsonville I see some beautiful faces; faces that I've
03:02 never even seen here before.
03:04 So we welcome you from outside the community,
03:07 as well as from our local church.
03:09 But we always encourage you to prepare your hearts
03:12 to receive God's word.
03:14 You know, the Scripture tells us that the purpose for the word
03:17 is that we would produce the fruit thereof.
03:19 Do you know that that's what the Scripture says?
03:20 And the Scripture also tells us in Mark 4 that when the word is
03:26 sown that it goes where?
03:28 It goes into our heart.
03:29 And it gives us two examples.
03:31 One is where the birds come and eat that word,
03:34 and another is where the enemy comes and steals the word
03:37 right out of your heart.
03:38 And I personally don't believe he should
03:39 have that opportunity.
03:40 Are you in agreement with that?
03:42 So we want to pray tonight.
03:44 We want to ask God, by the power of His Spirit,
03:47 to plant His word into your heart.
03:49 That that word will take root, and it will grow,
03:51 and it will produce.
03:52 How many of you want to produce for the kingdom of God tonight?
03:55 Both here, and in our worldwide audience, we want God to do a
03:59 work in our hearts, and in our lives tonight.
04:01 We don't want to leave here the same way we came in.
04:04 We want to be changed by the power of God's word.
04:07 And so let's pray and ask God to have His perfect way
04:10 in our midst tonight.
04:11 Holy Father we come before You in the name of Jesus,
04:14 and we are so grateful, Father, for the power
04:17 that's in Your word.
04:18 And we ask, Father, tonight as that word is sown,
04:21 as Pastor Murray is the sower of Your word, and he sows that word
04:26 and it goes into our heart, Father, that You would guard
04:29 over that word and you would seal it in our heart.
04:31 That that word would take root and it would grow and produce
04:34 not thirty fold, not sixty fold, but a hundred fold return
04:38 on Your word would come forth in our lives, Father.
04:41 And Father, we pray for brother Murray.
04:43 Father that right now that You will anoint him,
04:45 that his words will be anointing.
04:47 As they go forth they will be Spirit, and light, and life,
04:51 and they will produce in us what You would have them produce.
04:54 Father our prayer for Pastor Murray tonight is that you will
04:57 permit him to preach.
04:59 In Jesus name. And everybody in agreement says, Amen.
05:10 Good evening. It's now time to walk out onto the diving board.
05:17 This is where we dive into the word by the Scriptures.
05:21 Would you open your Bible, if you have one?
05:23 Please open your Bibles to the book of Isaiah 3, and we will be
05:31 looking at verses 18 through 26 of chapter 3, and chapter 4,
05:38 verse 1. And I'll be reading from the New King James.
05:45 And the Scriptures say, In that day the Lord will take away the
05:52 finery, the jingling anklets, the scarves, and the crescents,
05:56 the pendants, the bracelets, and the veils, the headdresses,
06:02 the leg ornaments, and the headbands, the perfume boxes,
06:05 the charms, and the rings, the nose jewels, the festal apparel,
06:10 and the mantels, the outer garments, the purses,
06:14 and the mirrors, the fine linen, the turbans, and the robes.
06:19 And so it shall be instead of a sweet smell
06:24 there will be a stench.
06:26 Instead of a sash, a rope.
06:29 Instead of well set hair, baldness.
06:31 Instead of a rich robe, a girding of sackcloth.
06:35 The branding instead of beauty.
06:39 Your men shall fall by the sword and your mighty in the war.
06:43 Her gates shall lament and mourn.
06:46 And she, being desolate, shall sit on the ground.
06:50 And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man,
06:55 saying, We will eat our own food, and wear our own apparel:
06:59 only let us be called by your name, to take away our reproach.
07:06 Amen, and amen. Amen to the reading of God's word.
07:14 I would like to introduce to you a little bit about
07:20 Pastor C. A. Murray.
07:22 Some of us know a little bit about him.
07:24 Our worldwide audience may not know him; some of us.
07:29 And so his journey through life, through ministry,
07:34 has taken him to serve as a pastor in the New York area
07:39 for nineteen years.
07:40 He has also served as a departmental
07:44 director for twelve years.
07:45 And the Lord has blessed him to be able to preach across
07:49 the U.S., South America, Europe, Africa,
07:53 on many college campuses.
07:55 And, of course, he has conducted many weeks of prayer,
08:00 and evangelistic meetings all over the world practically.
08:05 And the Lord has blessed him to be able to author three books.
08:09 He's now working on his fourth book.
08:11 And he's also authored hundreds of articles for
08:16 Signs of the Times, Message magazine, and the Review,
08:22 known as the Adventist Review by most of you.
08:25 He's also a Ph. candidate in mass communications at
08:30 Columbus University.
08:32 But the Lord has also blessed him with a love for people,
08:37 and a love for the Lord.
08:39 And so, because of this, it's a joy to have welcomed him
08:46 to the 3ABN family.
08:48 In January of 2005 he joined us to serve as
08:52 corporate director of marketing.
08:54 And so, praise the Lord, for his ministry, and we want to
08:58 encourage you to pray for him as he ministers to us
09:02 in the preaching of God's word.
09:03 I know that in the short time that I've known him
09:08 is that he loves the Lord, and he believes in prayer.
09:12 And so I've heard him preach before, and I know the Lord
09:15 has used him, and I know that He will use him today.
09:18 So please pray for him.
09:19 Before he speaks, we have with us Brother Darrell Marshall,
09:26 and you know him as also a man that has gone through many
09:30 trials and tribulations.
09:31 But he can say, Praise the Lord.
09:34 And that is the title of the song he will sing,
09:37 Praise the Lord. There is a message in this song.
09:39 And so we encourage Brother Marshall to come with us
09:42 and join us to sing, Praise the Lord.
09:44 And the next voice you will hear after Brother Darrell Marshall
09:48 is Pastor C. A. Murray. May God bless us.
10:12 When you're up against a struggle that shatters all
10:17 your dreams, and your hopes have been cruelly crushed
10:22 by Satan's manifested schemes, and you feel the urge within you
10:30 to submit to earthly fear.
10:34 Don't let the faith you're standing in seem to disappear.
10:41 Praise the Lord. He can work with those that praise Him.
10:49 Praise the Lord, for our God inhabits praise.
10:56 Praise the Lord, for the chains that seemed to bind you,
11:04 serve only to remind you that they drop powerless behind you
11:11 when you praise Him.
11:19 Now Satan is alive and he wants to make us think that we are
11:27 paupers, when he knows himself that we're children of the King.
11:34 So lift up the mighty shield of faith for the
11:38 battle must be won.
11:41 We know that Jesus Christ has risen,
11:45 so the work's already done.
11:49 Praise the Lord. He can work with those that praise Him.
11:57 Praise the Lord. For our God inhabits praise.
12:04 Praise the Lord. For the chains that seemed to bind you
12:11 serve only to remind you that they drop powerless behind you
12:19 when you praise Him.
12:26 Praise the Lord. He can work with those who praise Him.
12:34 Praise the Lord. For our God inhabits praise.
12:41 Praise the Lord. For the chains that seemed to bind you
12:49 serve only to remind you that they drop powerless behind you
12:56 when you praise Him, praise Him, praise Him.
13:09 When you praise Him.
13:19 When you praise the Lord.
13:50 Hello. How are you?
13:53 I trust everybody is well.
13:56 I want to thank Darrell very, very much.
13:59 A mutual friend of ours, Ruben Carr, asked me when I saw
14:05 Darrel this evening to give him a punch in the stomach.
14:08 And I told him that will have to wait until tomorrow.
14:12 I need him to sing first.
14:14 The punch has to come later.
14:16 I'm so very humbled, and so very glad to be here tonight
14:20 to kick off this time of spiritual emphasis,
14:23 and to share this desk with Pastor Lomacang,
14:26 my pastor and friend.
14:28 I rather see this time as a time of spiritual tune-up.
14:33 You know, we drive these cars, and it is important every now
14:39 and again to take to take them in for maintenance;
14:41 for a tune-up. You need to change the oil,
14:43 and check the tires, and do all of those kinds of things
14:47 to avoid a major problem down the road.
14:50 And so this little exercise, the three sermons this weekend
14:54 and next week, we will call a little spiritual tune-up,
14:58 a little course correction, a little adjusting,
15:00 a little changing of the oil, as it were,
15:02 checking of the tires to make sure that we are in good
15:06 running condition to run the race that leads to glory.
15:10 Can you say Amen? Now in order to do that I'm
15:13 going to need your help.
15:14 I have some exercises for you to do this week; a little homework
15:18 for you to look at this week.
15:19 I'll be preaching this weekend, Pastor Lomacang following.
15:24 And to sort of keep you in spiritual tune we've developed
15:29 a little tune-up homework assignment for you.
15:31 And if you have a pen you can write this down.
15:33 They're going to be up on the board.
15:35 The spiritual tune-up; they will be in the bulletin on tomorrow.
15:37 These are things we need you to do each day of the week
15:41 to sort of keep you in spiritual shape as we go through the week.
15:44 Let's go through them together.
15:46 First one, on Sunday:
15:55 So find a new text that gives you comfort and encouragement.
15:59 We don't want a text about judgment, or burning in hell.
16:02 None of those kinds of texts.
16:03 We want a text that lifts you up, that you can share
16:06 with somebody, that gives you comfort and encouragement.
16:10 Begin to memorize that text, and rehearse it in your spirit.
16:13 So this week the first thing you're going to do on Sunday,
16:15 find a text that gives you encouragement and comfort.
16:19 Let's go to Monday.
16:27 Write them down: five people who have been a blessing
16:30 to you this year, since January.
16:32 Five people that have touched your life,
16:34 that have been a blessing.
16:36 It doesn't need to be anything big.
16:37 They didn't have to give you a million dollars.
16:39 Sometimes just a smile, just a kind word, just food,
16:42 just letting them come over and watch your television set
16:46 on Sunday, those kinds of things, a blessing this year.
16:49 Alright that's your Sunday assignment.
16:51 On Tuesday we want you to:
16:54 Preferably all five.
17:00 Call them. If they work near you seek them out and tell them,
17:04 You have been a blessing to me this year.
17:07 That's your Tuesday assignment.
17:12 Amen! Pastor John Stanton will be leading out.
17:16 And we want you to give a report of praise.
17:19 Now I'm saying a report of praise, not a praise report.
17:22 There's a difference.
17:24 A report of praise is a positive report of praise.
17:27 Now we don't want...
17:28 You know, we've got problems, but we don't want to hear about
17:30 your sacroiliac, or your aching feet, or your bunion.
17:33 Not this Wednesday.
17:34 This Wednesday we want all reports of praise, Amen?
17:37 Positive report of praise when you come to prayer meeting
17:40 on Wednesday night.
17:44 And you determine who that is: your wife, your husband,
17:46 your children, a friend at work.
17:47 Pray for your best friend, and those five people that you
17:50 identified on Monday who are a blessing to you.
17:53 Pray that God will share that blessing
17:56 through you, and through them.
17:57 That's for Thursday, and Friday:
18:03 That's your spiritual homework this week.
18:07 And you'll see those again on tomorrow.
18:10 The sermons that we're going to be dealing with this week
18:14 all are drawn from war, and the experience of war.
18:19 They are war stories.
18:21 Tonight's message is called, interestingly enough,
18:26 Cheap Date. Uh huh. Ha ha.
18:32 Tomorrow, The Ishbibenob Incident.
18:36 And tomorrow afternoon we're going to revisit Any person,
18:42 Any Situation. Return with me, if you will,
18:48 to the book of Isaiah, Isaiah 4:1.
18:58 We want to deal with tonight the cost of discipleship.
19:02 We want to set some groundwork.
19:05 What does it cost to be a follower of Jesus?
19:08 The cost of discipleship.
19:13 And I'm reading Isaiah 4:1 from the New King James.
19:18 The Word of God reads: And in that day seven women shall
19:26 take hold of one man.
19:29 It's every man's fantasy, perhaps.
19:34 Saying we will eat our own food, wear our own apparel,
19:40 only let us be called by your name, to take away our reproach.
19:49 Cheap Date! Father God, We ask You now to speak to us.
19:58 Let us know Your will, and give us the strength to do it.
20:04 In Jesus' name, Amen.
20:08 I have read through the Bible countless numbers of times
20:14 and I never cease to be amazed by the intricacy of this book.
20:21 It is a marvelous book that grows with you.
20:27 When you're a brand new Christian you read at one level.
20:31 But as your Christian experience grows, the Bible grows with you.
20:36 And every time you read the Bible it is truly
20:39 and brand new book.
20:42 The Bible is for the student; a window on the soul of humanity.
20:50 You've got questions?
20:52 God's got answers.
20:55 And the answers are in His word.
20:59 There are things in the Bible that shock us sometimes,
21:03 and disturb us, but Bible study is a good thing.
21:08 In fact my favorite author says that Bible study is designed
21:15 by God to increase the intelligence. Amen.
21:21 You know, you may not be the sharpest knife in the drawer,
21:24 but if you study the word of God, you can get smart.
21:28 It will increase your intelligence
21:32 and shed light on your life.
21:34 And so we need to set some historical parameters,
21:37 some theo historical parameters dealing with
21:40 this particular text.
21:41 Polygamy, many wives, was not and is not
21:50 God's plan for His people. Amen.
21:54 God never intended any man to have more than
21:58 one wife, uh huh, at a time.
22:04 Now there are circumstances under which you can
22:06 have several wives.
22:07 But God intended for you to only have one at a time.
22:11 Polygamy was practiced by the nations surrounding Israel,
22:17 but they also practiced polytheism.
22:20 They worshipped many gods; they had many wives.
22:25 And somehow the Jews were always attracted throughout
22:30 their history, throughout the Old Testament,
22:32 to certain aspects of Canaanite worship.
22:36 They were irresistibly, or almost irresistibly, allured by
22:42 Canaanite worship, and Canaanite women,
22:45 and the Canaanite way of life.
22:47 All throughout their history they struggled with this
22:50 attraction to the ways of the Canaanite people.
22:53 God told them that if you intermarry, these women will
22:57 draw you away from Me.
22:59 And yet somehow they couldn't resist.
23:02 There are two notable examples: Delilah and, of course, Jezebel.
23:08 But if you break down and digest Canaanite worship to its least
23:14 common denominator, really theologians will tell you that
23:18 Canaanite worship was basically sex and drugs.
23:22 And it's interesting that the devil has not changed
23:26 his tactics in 3,500 years.
23:28 You look at what's on the TV set, and in the movie screens,
23:32 it's pretty much the same things: sex, and drugs,
23:35 and violence. And the devil's no fool.
23:38 It's been working for 3,500 years. Why change?
23:41 But God's people were irresistibly attracted to this.
23:48 But that was not God's design for His people.
23:51 God wanted one man, one woman, one God.
23:55 Here O Israel, the Lord your God is One Lord. Mark 12:23.
24:03 Coming from the mouth of Jesus Himself.
24:05 And if the truth be told, gentlemen, if we males can
24:10 disabuse ourselves of our own misguided machismo,
24:14 if we could let go of our predilection to self
24:18 aggrandizement, and the sexual hubris of the male ego,
24:24 if we get real with ourselves, the irreconcilable truth is the
24:28 unavoidable, unassailable, irrefutable, undeniable truth is
24:32 that one good woman is more than enough for any man.
24:41 If you can't say Amen, say Ouch!
24:45 And Solomon says, One bad woman is too much.
24:52 And if you're putting the requisite time and energy
24:59 that it takes to keep this ultra complex psychosocial
25:02 sociological machine that is woman functioning properly
25:06 and happy, you'll forgive my prerogative English:
25:09 You ain't got time for nobody else.
25:13 Women are work. Praise God.
25:18 But it is a happy task.
25:23 And don't get hung up by popular culture
25:28 sitting home watching The Bachelor.
25:30 That's not reality.
25:32 The Bachelor is not real, so you keep the one you've got,
25:37 and praise the Lord.
25:39 If you read the book of Ecclesiastes we find that
25:42 Ecclesiastes is Solomon's diary.
25:45 It is his doctoral thesis on life.
25:47 And in chapter 2, verse 10, he says, Anything I wanted I got.
25:52 You know the story: 700 wives, 300 girlfriends.
25:57 And just seven verses later, chapter 2, verse 17, he says:
26:01 Therefore I hated my life.
26:03 Thought I was riding high and ended up
26:08 wishing that I was dead.
26:09 Proverbs 31:10, same writer, Solomon says, Who can find a
26:15 virtuous woman? Her worth is far above rubies.
26:19 And so God's plan was that you find a good one,
26:23 and you stay with that good one through thick and thin,
26:27 and you stick it out.
26:30 When our Scripture lesson today speaks of desperate times,
26:36 it is a time of war.
26:37 A time when Israel is at war with a nation,
26:43 not just any nation, but one of the cruelest, most war like
26:47 nations of the ancient middle east.
26:50 Their kings were like the Adolph Hitler's of their day.
26:55 Their names read like a veritable Who's Who of
26:59 blood thirsty, war mongering tyrants: Tiglath-Pileser III,
27:04 Shalmaneser V, Sargon II, Esarhaddon, and Sennacherib;
27:08 men who fought for the shear pleasure of fighting.
27:13 Men who conquered just because they could, and for the joy
27:17 of watching people die.
27:19 If you fought the Assyrians they killed you.
27:23 If you surrendered to the Assyrians they killed you.
27:26 They took no prisoners.
27:29 And they had no POW problems.
27:31 The Assyrians were renowned for implacable cruelty,
27:35 and bloodthirsty living.
27:38 They spared no one.
27:40 And Israel fought the Assyrian empire for twenty plus years.
27:46 And the price they paid in dead soldiers was staggering.
27:51 Everybody eligible was in the Army.
27:55 And everybody in the Army was at war.
27:59 And there simply were not enough men to go around.
28:03 Isaiah gives us a view of societal trauma.
28:09 The cities were filled with women; lonely, desperate women:
28:15 Army widows, women who were once married, and whose husbands
28:20 went off to war and never returned.
28:23 Young women who were hoping to get married: 20 somethings
28:29 whose biological clock was ticking.
28:31 And they were hoping to latch on to some eligible man
28:34 before the alarm went off.
28:36 These were desperate times, and in desperate times desperate
28:42 people do desperate things.
28:44 Now I need to stop here and state parenthetically,
28:49 if you will allow me to use the words of an old commercial,
28:53 You've come a long way baby.
29:02 Those were not perfect, and I would not be so presumptuous
29:04 as to say that they are.
29:06 Women in this country have come a long way, and God has blessed.
29:12 Now things are not perfect.
29:14 There are still pay gaps, and classes of men, racism,
29:19 and sexism, and there is unequal pay, but things are a lot better
29:26 than they used to be. Can you say Amen?
29:28 Now I'm a black American, but more importantly I'm a
29:31 Seventh-day Adventist Christian.
29:32 So anytime you say anything about equal, I'm on board.
29:36 Equal rights, equal opportunity, equal pay, equal access,
29:39 equal employment; I like that idea.
29:42 I like working at 3ABN.
29:44 Our founder, of course, is a male, but our chief of
29:46 operations is a female.
29:48 Our production coordinator is a female.
29:51 The associate is a female.
29:53 There are women involved in every strata of 3ABN.
29:57 We can, I think, be proud of the involvement of women here.
30:00 But it's not that way in all places.
30:04 There is a pay gap, as I said before, and a gender gap,
30:07 and yet things are getting better.
30:10 A certain daytime talk show host just passed the 1 billion
30:16 dollar net worth about a year ago.
30:19 Sixteen percent of college and university presidents are women.
30:23 Fourteen percent of Congressional and Senatorial
30:27 seats are held by women.
30:29 Women make up fifty-one percent of the population, and forty-six
30:34 percent of the labor force.
30:37 CNBC president is a woman.
30:40 Hewlett Packard's president is a woman.
30:43 March, I just found out, is actually Women's History Month.
30:48 They've got their own month, praise the Lord.
30:50 But if you think things are bad now, things were much
30:59 worse in Bible times.
31:01 In the Canaanite cultures young girls were routinely
31:06 sold to pay bills.
31:08 You know, you get a little behind on your Master Card,
31:11 you sell your daughter.
31:13 It was routinely done.
31:15 In the ancient near east in the Samarian culture,
31:20 a wife also had to sleep with her brother-in-law.
31:25 In Greece, in Sparta, and in certain parts of the Hittite
31:31 nation, it was mandated that a wife be given a beating
31:36 at least once a year.
31:38 Part of the culture.
31:40 Now Jewish women had it a little bit better.
31:44 But even they could be divorced for what we would
31:47 call trivial offenses.
31:49 A Jewish wife could be divorced for nagging too much.
31:53 A Jewish wife could be divorced for laziness.
32:02 You were expected to share the burden.
32:05 And if you didn't share the burden, you could be divorced.
32:07 That nagging and laziness.
32:10 She could be divorced for not cooking dinner.
32:17 She could be divorced for staying out too late.
32:24 She could be divorced for talking to a man for too long.
32:34 Women couldn't have a job that put them in a position over men.
32:38 For the most part they couldn't inherit wealth.
32:41 There was a long list of prohibitions concerning
32:47 even Jewish women.
32:49 Their wealth came from the man.
32:52 Their social status came from the man.
32:55 Their societal image came from the man.
32:58 Their worth in society came from the man.
33:01 Their religion came from the man.
33:03 Their standing in the community came from the man.
33:06 The theological clock ticked much faster in those days,
33:12 as did the biological clock.
33:14 You had to find a man, marry a man, and stay married by
33:18 your eighteenth birthday.
33:19 Many scholars believe that Mary married Joseph somewhere between
33:24 the ages of twelve and fourteen.
33:26 So this then is the background for Isaiah chapter 4.
33:32 It is a time of war with the Assyrian empire.
33:35 It is a bad time. All or most of the eligible
33:42 bachelors are gone.
33:43 All of the good catches are dying in war,
33:47 and there just aren't enough men left.
33:51 And to be without a man was to be without
33:54 respect in Bible times.
33:56 It was to be without social standing.
33:59 It was to be without a future.
34:00 And desperate people do desperate things.
34:03 So these women had to have a husband,
34:06 even if it was a husband in name only.
34:10 So they would go to the few eligible men left
34:14 with this proposition: We will take care of ourselves.
34:18 You don't have to feed us.
34:21 You don't have to provide for us.
34:23 You don't really have to be a husband.
34:27 We will do it all.
34:30 Just give us your name to take away our reproach
34:36 so that when we go to the market we're not laughed at,
34:40 so that when we walk down the streets we have
34:43 respect in the community, so that when we shop
34:48 and do other kinds of things we can hold our head up high.
34:51 We don't need any sustenance.
34:53 All we want is your name.
34:59 And I see in this odd little text a compelling parallel
35:03 to the Christian world today.
35:06 Jeremiah 6:2, God likens the daughters of Zion to the church.
35:12 And without pointing fingers, I have a problem with some of
35:21 the Christianity that I see today.
35:24 I have a problem with that brand of Christianity that says,
35:28 God is here to serve us, not we to serve Him.
35:33 For the Bible message is that we are the
35:37 servants of a loving God.
35:38 And I am convinced in my mind, and convicted in my spirit,
35:42 that the Christian ranks today are far too populated by people
35:47 who really don't want to serve Jesus.
35:50 All they want is the name.
35:54 And they don't want to carry the weight
35:57 that comes with that name.
35:59 I submit to you in all humility that there are people across
36:04 this world and in this country who have said, not so much
36:09 by their words but by their actions and deportment,
36:12 Jesus, I'm only going to give You so much.
36:16 Talking about the cost of discipleship.
36:19 I don't intend to suffer, Jesus.
36:23 I don't intend to be too uncomfortable, Jesus.
36:26 I don't intend to sweat, or be disenfranchised,
36:33 or to sacrifice for my faith.
36:34 Jesus, all I want is Your name.
36:41 Look Jesus, you're only going to get so much energy.
36:44 You're only going to get so much time.
36:46 You're only going to get so much of my talents and abilities.
36:49 I'm drawing the line here.
36:51 All I want really, Jesus, is the name.
36:54 I want the name Christian.
36:56 I don't want the weight that comes with that name.
37:00 I'll wear my own clothes.
37:02 I'll make my own food.
37:04 I'll live my own life.
37:06 You keep the rules, Jesus.
37:09 You keep the regulations, Jesus.
37:11 You keep the do's and don'ts.
37:13 All I want is Your name.
37:16 You know, it occurs to me that what the world really wants is
37:21 no sweat religion.
37:23 They want easy religion.
37:26 Let me ask you a question.
37:30 How many believe that God wants us to be happy?
37:36 Everybody says Amen.
37:38 Now how happy does God want you to be? Happy as you can.
37:45 And how important is your happiness to God?
37:48 We all agree that He wants us to be happy,
37:52 and that our happiness is important.
37:56 So what's the problem?
37:58 I have a Korean friend.
38:02 He owns three dry cleaners.
38:05 We met at a Christian businessman's luncheon
38:07 some time ago, and I figure I'll go to your church,
38:12 and you come to mine.
38:14 I've been to several of his services;
38:16 never got him to come to mine.
38:17 His reasoning is to me, God wants me to be happy.
38:26 I'm happy when I make money.
38:31 I make most of my money on Saturday.
38:36 And if I'm not open on Saturday, I don't make money.
38:44 And if I don't make money, I'm not happy.
38:48 So God wants me to close on Saturday,
38:53 cause He wants me happy.
38:55 And I'm only happy when I'm making money.
38:58 So how happy does God want you to be? Huh?
39:06 You see, we see happiness as a destination, as a goal,
39:15 as somewhere to get to.
39:17 God sees happiness as a by product of a
39:22 relationship with Him.
39:24 You don't seek for happiness, you seek for Jesus.
39:29 And when you find Jesus, Jesus will make you happy.
39:34 You see, it's not a goal.
39:36 If happiness is a brand new sports car,
39:40 when your car is new, you're happy.
39:44 But three years down the road your sports car is old.
39:49 So you've got to get another sports car or you're not happy.
39:54 Amen. But God says happiness is a by product
40:01 of a relationship.
40:02 John 13:7, If you know these things,
40:07 happy are ye if ye do them.
40:10 So happiness is never a goal, it's a by product
40:14 of a relationship with Jesus.
40:16 And more than that, God not only guarantees you happiness,
40:21 he guarantees you joy.
40:23 Can you say Amen? Amen.
40:24 Because you know there are some days when you're just not
40:27 going to be happy.
40:28 Some days you get up; this is not going to be a happy day.
40:32 Huh? You know, some days you get up, uh um,
40:35 not going to be a happy day.
40:36 You don't feel good.
40:37 Something is hurting that didn't hurt last night.
40:39 It's hurting this morning.
40:40 It's not coming, and you go to work and somebody says:
40:42 How are you doing ugly? Ha ha!
40:44 And they're just, they're playing.
40:45 You know they're just playing with you.
40:47 Yesterday you would have laughed; today that's not funny.
40:50 So it's not going to be a happy day.
40:52 You get a bad doctor's report.
40:54 It's not going to be a happy day.
40:56 But Jesus says you can have joy even when you're not happy.
41:01 Psalm 16:11. Let's look at that real quick.
41:04 Psalm 16:11. Let me just find that real fast.
41:09 Psalm 16:11, 16:11.
41:13 You will show me the path of life: in your presence
41:19 is fullness of joy.
41:22 So as long as you're in Jesus, you've got joy,
41:25 even though you may not be happy. Amen?
41:28 Because some days you just can't be happy.
41:30 But as long as you've got Jesus, you've got joy.
41:32 In fact we're so accustomed to the Laodicea condition
41:38 that when we see really happy people in the midst of trial,
41:43 we think that's great.
41:44 Just got a report of cancer, but I'm praising God.
41:49 Something wrong with you?
41:51 No, that's Jesus! That's what Jesus can do.
41:54 I told a story the other day about my conference president,
41:56 and a good friend of mine Trevor Baker.
41:58 He came down one day; came downstairs from his apartment,
42:01 and all four of the doors on his Oldsmobile were gone.
42:04 They just took the car doors.
42:05 And he went upstairs and began to play, Jesus, Savior,
42:09 pilot me on the piano.
42:11 And his wife said, What is the matter with you?
42:13 I'm happy! Got joy in my heart!
42:18 It's alright, because as long as you've got Jesus,
42:21 you got, you got joy. Praise His name.
42:24 Being a child of God, being a Christian, means more than just
42:28 carrying the name.
42:29 It means more than just the name.
42:33 It's having Jesus within.
42:34 I remember years ago coming to New York, Pastor Lomacang,
42:37 and I just got to New York, driving through
42:39 the Lincoln Tunnel, and traffic was merging down to one lane,
42:43 and a fellow had a Honk if you love Jesus bumper
42:45 sticker on his car.
42:46 So I pulled up right beside of him, and I just laid
42:49 on the horn: beep, beep, beep, beep, beep, beep, beep, beep.
42:52 Big mistake! The fellow rolled down the window
42:56 and threw a gesture at me.
42:59 And I could see the way his mouth was
43:00 going he was not happy.
43:01 And he sure didn't love Jesus. Ha ha!
43:03 So being in Christ means more than just bumper
43:07 stickers on your car.
43:08 It means more than just carrying the name of Jesus.
43:11 It means having Jesus down inside, doesn't it?
43:14 Praise God! Let's do a little Bible searching.
43:17 Luke 9, Luke 9. Let's find it real quick: Luke 9.
43:22 I'm going to read verses 23 through 25. Luke 9:23-25.
43:29 Luke 9:23-25. Then he said to them all, If anyone desires
43:36 to come after me, let him do what? deny himself, and take up
43:41 his cross daily, and follow me.
43:45 For whoever desires to save his life shall lose it:
43:48 but whoever loses his life for my sake shall save it.
43:51 For what profit is it to a man if he gains the whole world,
43:55 and is himself destroyed or lost?
44:00 I'm in Matthew 10:38, Matthew 10:38.
44:10 Matthew 10:38, the word of God says: And he who does not take
44:14 his cross and follow me is not worthy of me,
44:20 says the word of God.
44:22 That's not a message that we like to embrace,
44:28 if we tell the truth.
44:29 That's not a message that warms our heart.
44:33 That's not a message that we'd like to wrap our arms around.
44:36 We like to know that we're victorious, don't we?
44:38 Well, you are. We like to know that we're over comers.
44:42 And you are. We like to know that we're champions;
44:46 which you are. We like to know that we have authority;
44:50 which you do. We like to know that we are
44:53 more than conquerors. All that, too.
44:56 We like to know that God will bless us abundantly more
45:00 than we can ask or think.
45:02 And that, of course, is true.
45:03 But it comes with a price, ladies and gentlemen.
45:07 The word of God says, If you want the crown,
45:10 you have to bear the cross.
45:14 Let's read 1 Peter 4:12, 1 Peter 4:12, 1 Peter 4:12.
45:26 Beloved, think it not what? strange concerning the
45:33 fiery trial which is to try you, as though some strange thing
45:37 happened unto you.
45:38 Now I can see the wheels turning in your minds.
45:40 I can see the depression etched on your faces.
45:42 You've got a little depressed.
45:43 I can see you saying, fiery trial!
45:47 I don't want fiery trial.
45:49 Is that what following Jesus means; fiery trial?
45:53 I don't want to go through fiery trial.
45:55 I don't like fiery trial.
45:57 I'm scared of fiery trial.
46:00 I don't want to have fiery trial.
46:01 Well, God's got good news for you, my brother, my sister.
46:05 One verse later, just one verse later.
46:09 Look at what it says in verse 13.
46:12 But rejoice. I like that word, but.
46:14 You know, but is an interesting word.
46:16 It is a conjunction, it is a verb, it is an adverb,
46:18 it is a noun, and a pronoun.
46:19 It's all of the above.
46:20 But rejoice, God says, to the extent that you are partakers
46:26 of Christ's what? sufferings, that when his glory is revealed,
46:32 you may be glad with exceeding joy.
46:37 There's that word again, joy.
46:39 Praise God for joy!
46:41 The Bible says rejoice.
46:44 She rejoice is jumping joy. Amen?
46:48 Rejoice is animated joy.
46:50 Rejoice is articulated joy.
46:51 I looked it up in the dictionary just a little while ago.
46:55 The dictionary says rejoice is to experience joy and
46:58 gladness to a high degree.
47:00 Rejoice is loosed joy.
47:03 It is joy unchanged.
47:05 It's joy on steroids.
47:07 It's taking a bath in joy.
47:09 It's being baptized in joy.
47:11 Rejoice is hallelujah joy.
47:14 Rejoice is Praise the Lord joy.
47:17 Rejoice is drinking from my cup because my cup overflowed joy.
47:23 You know, rejoice is feel good all over joy.
47:26 Rejoice is joy unbounded, and unfettered, and uninhibited,
47:32 and unashamed. Rejoice is drowning in joy. Amen!
47:38 It's joy all over!
47:40 And God says rejoice.
47:43 The Bible says hang in there through the
47:47 rough times with Jesus.
47:49 Because when glory rolls around you're going to get, not a
47:54 spoonful of joy, you're going to get exceeding
47:57 joy the Bible says.
47:59 You see, it's not all shame.
48:01 It's not all pain.
48:02 It's not all suffering.
48:04 It's not all heartache, and ridicule, and hard times,
48:07 and sacrifice, and blood, sweat, and tears.
48:10 Psalm says weeping may endure for a night,
48:13 but in the morning you're going to get joy. Amen!
48:18 Jesus promises joy.
48:21 1 Corinthians 10:13; you know the text.
48:25 It says basically that God will put no more on you
48:27 than you can bear.
48:28 But with that make a way of escape that you may be
48:32 able to bear it, because God wants to get you in,
48:37 and God wants to save you.
48:38 You've got a husband that won't talk.
48:40 You've got a wife that won't stop talking.
48:42 You've had an affair.
48:44 You are an abuser or an abuse victim.
48:48 You've got a drug problem.
48:49 You've a victim of pornography.
48:51 You've got a non-Christian spouse.
48:53 You've got wayward children, bad marriage, failing in school.
48:55 You hate your boss; boss hates you.
48:57 Dead end job, you're addicted, you got a bad medical diagnosis.
49:02 All of these things are bad, but brothers and sisters,
49:04 they are not new. And somebody else has gone through them.
49:08 And somebody else has been victorious over them.
49:11 And just like they were victorious,
49:13 so you can be victorious, too.
49:15 God says, Don't worry; hang in there.
49:18 Because after the trial comes the triumph.
49:21 And after the triumph comes joy!
49:23 Because God is faithful.
49:26 God doesn't want you to think that heaven is easy,
49:30 but He wants you to know that heaven is very possible,
49:33 very, very possible.
49:36 And Jesus wants you to give Him your all,
49:39 because He paid His all.
49:41 Jesus did, indeed, pay it all.
49:43 So you have to give Him your all.
49:45 It's more than just carrying the name,
49:47 it's carrying the weight.
49:48 You know that story, that old story from the
49:51 Army of Alexander?
49:52 There was a soldier in Alexander's Army
49:54 who was a goof off.
49:55 Had the same name; his name was also Alexander.
49:57 And he had made so many mistakes that Alexander called him in
50:00 and he said, What is your name?
50:01 And the soldier said, Alexander.
50:02 He said, The same name as yours.
50:03 And Alexander told him, You can't carry my name.
50:08 So you either have to change your ways,
50:10 or you've got to change your name.
50:11 And it's the same way in the Christian experience.
50:15 If you're going to be with Jesus, you've got to either
50:17 change your ways, or change your name.
50:19 Can't carry the name of Jesus unless you're willing to
50:23 carry the cross before you get the crown.
50:27 Jesus promises that you will be able to make it through.
50:31 Our time is running away.
50:32 Let me just close with something very, very quick.
50:33 I heard a story some time ago that I really, really liked.
50:41 And I'm going to close with this.
50:42 The story of a man who had, interestingly enough,
50:47 a pet goat. And I don't know how you develop such a close
50:53 relationship with a goat, but this fellow did.
50:54 It was a pet. He would put a plate of food by the back door.
50:58 The goat knew how to kick the door open, come into the house,
51:03 and eat food right there in the kitchen.
51:04 And every day at four o'clock the goat would come in,
51:06 kick the door open, and eat from the plate of food.
51:09 And the fellow would sit at the table, and the goat would eat.
51:11 And they would eat together.
51:12 And his wife had gone; children grown up.
51:16 He lived on a farm.
51:17 And he developed this relationship with this goat.
51:19 They just sort of bonded.
51:21 He had on that farm a well that had dried up.
51:28 And you know, sometimes you make promises to do something,
51:31 but time gets away from you, so you just never get
51:33 a chance to do it.
51:34 He kept saying, I need to fill this well in.
51:35 Because this goat, among other things, is rather nosey.
51:39 One day he's going to just nose around this well,
51:42 and maybe he'll fall in.
51:44 But you make promises to yourself,
51:46 and he never got a chance to do it.
51:48 So one day four o'clock came along.
51:49 He put the food there for the goat.
51:51 The goat did not eat, he did not come, he did not show up.
51:53 And so the man began to hunt around;
51:55 looking, looking, looking, wondering why the
51:57 goat did not come.
51:58 And he said, Well, let me just check the well.
52:01 And sure enough, when he's shown his flashlight down
52:03 in the well, there at the bottom of the well was that goat.
52:06 And he was so very, very saddened he said, Well, now I
52:10 guess I'll just fill it in.
52:12 And what was a hole will now become his cemetery.
52:17 So he went and got his backhoe.
52:19 He fired up the engine and sadly begins to throw
52:22 dirt into the hole.
52:23 But you know that goat was not dead.
52:27 He had just been stunned by the depth of the fall.
52:31 And when the first shovel full of dirt hit him he revived.
52:37 And he stood up and he called out.
52:40 But the noise of the engine was drowning out his call.
52:44 And so now this man is burying his friend alive.
52:50 But that goat had watched humans for a long period of time,
52:54 and he was no dummy.
52:55 Because every time a shovel full of dirt fell on him,
53:00 do you know what that goat did?
53:01 He shook it off, and he packed it down,
53:05 and he rose up a little higher.
53:07 He shook it off, packed it down, and rose up a little higher.
53:12 And after awhile of shaking dirt off and packing it down,
53:18 he was high enough to where he could leap out
53:20 of the hole and be safe.
53:22 When I heard that story years ago, I thought about the
53:26 Christian experience.
53:28 Because so many times in our life people,
53:31 and the devil himself, and circumstances will throw dirt
53:36 on our Christian experience.
53:38 They'll tell you you're too old, you're too black,
53:41 you're too white, you're too fat, you're too thin,
53:44 you don't have enough education.
53:45 You know, all of the kinds of excuses that they can give us
53:47 for not being successful.
53:49 And it occurs to me that God has promised us success
53:53 in Him, so why should we go around under the abuse
53:58 of someone else's disappointment?
54:00 When somebody tells you you can't, do you know what
54:04 you should do? Shake it off, and pack it down.
54:09 And do you know what will happen to you?
54:11 You'll rise up a little higher. Amen!
54:13 Why should you labor under someone else's disillusionment?
54:17 Why should you take the devil when the devil says,
54:21 You can't make it, you tell him, I won't take it.
54:24 Shake it, pack it down, rise up a little higher in Jesus,
54:34 and carry the name of Jesus.
54:36 Now I know you are all conservative
54:37 Seventh-day Adventist Christians.
54:38 Stand up with me. Stand up with me, please.
54:42 The devil is going to tell you you can't make it.
54:46 What are you going to do?
54:47 Shake it, and pack it, and rise up.
54:53 One day you'll get so high you'll be looking right into
54:56 the face of Jesus. Amen!
54:57 And He will say to you, Come thou blessed of My Father.
55:02 What's in a name?
55:03 There is a name I love to hear.
55:06 I love to sing its worth.
55:08 It sounds like music in my ear; the sweetest name on earth.
55:16 Oh how I love Jesus!
55:21 There is no other name given among men
55:27 whereby we must be saved.
55:30 At the name of Jesus every knee shall bow, every tongue confess,
55:38 that Jesus is Lord.
55:42 Just give us your name, O yes, but take the world
55:49 and give me Jesus.
55:53 That's the cost of discipleship.
55:56 You've got to give up a lot, but you get so much more.
56:02 And in exchange for now, you get eternity.
56:09 In exchange for three score and ten,
56:12 Jesus will give you forever.
56:17 Pretty good trade, don't you think?
56:19 Take the name of Jesus with you wherever you go.
56:26 And He will be with you until He calls you from labor to reward.
56:33 Shall we pray? Father God, we thank You Jesus.
56:37 We praise You. We love You Lord.
56:40 We know we've had to make sacrifices,
56:43 but Jesus is with worth it all, because Jesus paid it all;
56:50 all to Him we owe.
56:53 Sin left a crimson stain, dear Lord,
56:57 but you washed it white as snow.
57:00 We owe all to You, and now we give all to You.
57:05 Keep that which we now give to You until Jesus comes again.
57:11 We love You, we praise You, and we thank You.
57:16 In Jesus' name, Amen.


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