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Who Will Cast The First Stone?

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Participants: Dwight Hall

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01:00 You know, this message that I have today
01:04 is kind of
01:07 a hard message for me in some ways.
01:10 I have not given it very often.
01:11 But...
01:15 I like telling stories, not to tell stories
01:18 but, you know, it's hard,
01:20 it's hard for me sometimes to read the Bible without...
01:24 I have got to make a practical in my life.
01:25 That's why Jesus told parables.
01:27 Amen?
01:28 You know, He talked about the soil going forth,
01:30 and He sold those seeds,
01:32 and He mentioned all these things
01:34 so that people would have an indelible picture,
01:36 you know what I mean?
01:37 When I started speaking years ago,
01:39 I told you, I tithe my time
01:40 two and half hours every morning
01:42 and I can quote scripture after scripture, many books,
01:46 I can quote those books, paragraphs,
01:51 and I thought that alone would humble me,
01:55 that that would take care of my temper but it never did.
01:58 You know, it seemed like, the more that I memorized
02:02 and read, sometimes, it seemed like
02:04 it was a bigger curse in my life
02:05 'cause somehow there was something else
02:08 that needed power.
02:09 And so I used to bore people maybe
02:12 with just text after text after text
02:15 and the Word is what changes lives
02:16 but I can take one text today,
02:18 one or two texts...
02:20 Look at in the Parables of the Pearl,
02:21 that's just a couple of texts
02:23 but you know there is a whole story
02:24 behind that pearl of great price.
02:26 There is a great story.
02:28 And you and I, for the Bible to come alive,
02:30 we need to get in this and assimilate it
02:32 into our hearts and in our minds.
02:34 Amen?
02:35 And so anyways, this message, I first gave it probably,
02:40 I don't know, it was probably 12 years ago
02:44 and it was down in Florida
02:48 with a group of,
02:51 you know, you call them supportive ministries,
02:52 self-supporting ministries.
02:54 There are ministries that are not supported
02:57 by finances by any church.
03:00 And that's what Remnant is, that's what 3ABN is
03:03 where we call ourselves self-supporting or supporting,
03:06 however, you know, you get mixed up on words,
03:08 but we're self-supporting to the fact that
03:10 we're not getting paid by any church.
03:12 Okay?
03:13 So there was a big meeting down there
03:15 and we had people from New Zealand,
03:17 Australia, England,
03:18 ministers that had all these self-supporting ministries
03:23 and I had been a big part of putting that on,
03:26 I had a real burden,
03:27 and there's one thing about people when you become in...
03:32 When you get into God's Word, you get, you read a lot
03:35 and you see things that you should be doing
03:39 and you start changing those things.
03:41 And if you're not careful, you start,
03:43 you obviously you'll see sins of others
03:45 and they're there, you know, I mean, those red flags pop up
03:49 and God gives us red flags, doesn't He?
03:51 I mean, wouldn't it be terrible
03:53 if we didn't have any feelings?
03:54 And you could cut yourself and you never feel it?
03:57 Or somebody could come maybe to your daughter
04:01 or your little boy and they could be someone
04:04 that would be was going to come to molest them
04:06 and you...
04:08 I mean, you had no clue, you had no red flags,
04:09 whatever go up.
04:11 God gives us red flags.
04:12 He gives us red flags.
04:13 That's why you also need to read the Word of God
04:16 because that's how we know the truth.
04:17 Amen? Amen.
04:19 Okay.
04:20 Well, after saying that, I want to mention this.
04:23 It's kind of, like, not a disclaimer,
04:25 but a balance.
04:27 Number one, I believe that God
04:30 does not at all condone sin.
04:33 Amen? Amen.
04:35 He does not condone sin.
04:37 We're told there's no excuse for sin.
04:41 But Jesus paid the price
04:45 that when we have sinned,
04:48 it says this in 1 John, that what?
04:50 He is able to forgive us of those sins, right?
04:53 When we ask for forgiveness, and faith,
04:57 and we forsake those sins...
04:59 I had a guy...
05:00 It was Pastor CD Brookes that I heard this
05:01 from years ago.
05:03 He said, "Most of us like sin so much
05:05 that we'll ask forgiveness"
05:06 and he says, "then it's we're on our hands and knees
05:08 crawling away from sin looking back,
05:11 hoping sin would catch up with us."
05:12 Because we don't want
05:14 to get rid of our little pet sins,
05:16 and bottom line is if there is sin in our heart,
05:19 if we have evil in our heart, will we make it to heaven.
05:22 Will we? No.
05:24 And I don't care how, what church you go to,
05:27 I don't care what you eat, I don't care what you wear,
05:31 even though those things make a difference,
05:33 I believe that,
05:34 because we're Christians and people see
05:36 that we're Christians by what?
05:37 By our testimony, not by what we mouth to them.
05:41 And that was my message a little bit last night.
05:43 I could talk to people and tell them,
05:44 you should be doing this, you should be doing,
05:46 you shouldn't be doing that.
05:47 And yet, my own life was messed up,
05:49 even though I knew all the scripture,
05:50 not all but a lot of it.
05:52 And so today,
05:55 I want to share with you this message,
05:59 who will cast the first stone.
06:03 When we went to this...
06:04 When I went to this ministry
06:06 with all these ministers down in Florida,
06:08 my wife and our children,
06:09 it was kind of a fun thing, we got a bunch of flat rocks.
06:12 Now this rock here, cameras will pick that up,
06:15 I'm sure.
06:17 I don't know if they can see it because of mirrors right there,
06:18 but it says Dwight, it's got my name on there.
06:20 Then it says, will you, okay?
06:23 On this mirror.
06:25 And we did this to about a hundred other ministers
06:27 that were there, that had ministries
06:29 and I knew who was going to be there
06:30 and I wrote their name on it,
06:32 and I put will you with this little mirror,
06:33 and then we packaged it up.
06:34 Okay?
06:36 Now I've got felt on the back of this
06:37 'cause I put that right on my desk.
06:39 I don't want to scratch my desk.
06:41 And every time I start thinking of negative thoughts,
06:46 I look at that
06:49 and I say, "Dwight, will you?"
06:51 I look in the mirror.
06:53 Okay, so think about that as we would,
06:55 if you will right now to set the stage,
06:57 open your Bibles to John,
07:00 John Chapter 8,
07:03 starting with verse 3.
07:06 We're at?
07:08 John. Okay, good.
07:10 I love hearing the pages of the Bible turn.
07:14 Because I can read these texts to you,
07:16 but, you know,
07:17 the power is in you reading the Word.
07:21 John Chapter what? Eight.
07:22 Okay, great.
07:24 John Chapter 8, starting with verse 3.
07:33 And we'll read it.
07:34 John Chapter 8, starting with verse 3.
07:36 It says, "Then the scribes and Pharisees brought to him
07:39 a woman caught in adultery."
07:41 Now think, you got to understand,
07:43 she was caught red-handed.
07:45 Now I don't know how it was.
07:47 I'm sure she certainly wasn't having adultery
07:49 in the middle of the street.
07:51 She was behind closed doors.
07:53 By the way, she knew it was not right.
07:55 She understood the law of God.
07:57 She knew it wasn't right.
07:59 So these Pharisees caught her.
08:01 Now maybe one of the Pharisees went in,
08:05 as someone that wants to have adultery,
08:08 commit adultery with her, and he was setting her up.
08:10 But in any event,
08:11 they took this lady
08:14 and they caught her in adultery.
08:18 It's quite a scene if you just put it in your mind.
08:21 It says,
08:22 "And when they had set her in the midst..."
08:25 Okay, think of it, they caught her in adultery,
08:27 they drug her out, maybe by here...
08:29 I don't even know, they drug her out
08:31 where Jesus is speaking in the midst of a crowd.
08:33 Did Jesus always bring crowds?
08:35 Amen, He did.
08:37 And they brought her out there.
08:38 I don't know about you, but if I was her,
08:40 I would want to shrink down to be invisible.
08:46 And then they said to him, "Teacher,"
08:49 you know, it just kills me about this, "Teacher, "
08:52 it's like they didn't know anything,
08:53 "Teacher, "
08:55 did they really believe he was a teacher?
08:57 Did they really love this man?
08:59 No.
09:00 So they brought her out.
09:02 They were using her to trip up who?
09:06 Jesus.
09:07 They said, "Teacher, this woman,
09:10 she was caught in adultery, we caught her in the very act.
09:17 Now Moses in the law commanded us
09:18 that such should be stoned,
09:22 but what do you say?"
09:25 They...
09:26 "This they said, testing him, that they might have something
09:29 to which to accuse Him, but Jesus stooped down
09:31 and wrote on the ground with His finger."
09:35 What was He writing?
09:37 He was starting to write their sins.
09:39 Isn't that amazing?
09:41 I want you to think about that.
09:43 Think about that.
09:45 He started writing their sins.
09:46 So when they continued,
09:48 they wasn't going to give a teacher,
09:50 "You're the teacher,
09:51 you are supposed to be the Messiah.
09:53 If you really are from God, tell us, what does Moses say?"
09:56 Number one, it wasn't Moses law, was it?
09:59 It was God's law.
10:00 Moses just wrote it down.
10:04 Never get that mixed up.
10:05 And so they're saying, "Come on.
10:06 I mean, you're the Messiah.
10:08 Tell us what should we do
10:12 because this is what the law said,
10:13 we need to stone her."
10:16 And so they kept pressing and pressing
10:17 and continued to ask Him.
10:19 It says, "He raised Himself up and said to them,
10:23 'He, " excuse me, "who is without sin among you,
10:27 let him throw a stone at her first." '
10:32 You know what?
10:33 I used to pitch when I was in little league
10:36 and that's a nice size stone.
10:38 I could do some damage with this.
10:44 Can you imagine getting hit with a stone?
10:47 I would hope that the first stone hit me
10:48 right in the head, and knocked me out,
10:49 and I wouldn't feel any more here,
10:51 but that is not normally what happened.
10:53 But Jesus said, "You who are without sin,
10:56 you pick up the...
10:58 You who are without sin, you pick up that stuff
11:00 and you cast them.
11:01 I want to see the first...
11:03 I just want to see
11:04 who is bold enough to pick up that stone.
11:08 Throw it."
11:12 You know, when I...
11:15 When I rededicated my life to the Lord
11:17 back in about 1984,
11:19 I tell you, I was so on fire for the Lord.
11:22 I still am today by the way.
11:24 But when you first come to Jesus,
11:27 I don't think most of us even look at other people
11:31 of how bad or how good they are, whatever.
11:34 But I was so on fire for the Lord,
11:36 I had no time to look at anybody else.
11:38 The only thing I wanted to do is submerse myself,
11:41 be a sponge that would soak up the Word of God.
11:44 That's all I wanted.
11:45 All I wanted to do was be like Jesus.
11:50 And I've shared a few of my testimonies
11:51 about studying,
11:53 but it seemed like the more I study
11:54 and the more I found out,
11:57 sometimes the more bitter I became at other people,
12:00 maybe some of you, why aren't they doing this,
12:04 why can't they do that, do you know so and so.
12:06 So I started thinking of that
12:07 and I want to represent something here
12:10 as we, as we talk,
12:11 this is a pretty nice white shirt right here.
12:15 But, you know, as we...
12:19 as we go along in life,
12:20 when we start taking our eyes off of Jesus,
12:24 what do we do?
12:25 We put them on self and others,
12:28 I've had people tell me, "You know, Dwight,
12:31 I'll never go back to that church again."
12:33 "Why?"
12:35 "The way they treated me, I went to that church
12:36 and they never even said hi."
12:39 Boy, if you can't handle that one,
12:41 then we're in trouble.
12:43 I mean, what did they do to Jesus?
12:44 He had no sin at all.
12:46 And so I started looking at the sins of others.
12:48 And, you know what?
12:49 I want to just want to represent...
12:51 What I did is I said, you know, so and so is,
12:55 they are a pretty good person,
12:56 but sometimes I hate that word,
12:59 but, and so what do I do, I take and...
13:02 I take what people see
13:04 and that's what I want you to be thinking about.
13:06 You see this,
13:08 that big old hole right there in the arm,
13:10 enough to put my hand through it.
13:14 I started picking apart different sins and saying,
13:17 "You know, that person is okay
13:21 but..."
13:23 And I started taking my eyes off Lord
13:24 and, you know, here's some of the sins
13:26 that I did.
13:27 I...
13:30 I talked to him about health.
13:31 You see, when I came back into the faith,
13:33 I believe that there's three things
13:35 that make us a whole being for Jesus.
13:38 You should know what that is. It's what?
13:40 Body, mind, and soul.
13:43 It takes those three things to be a complete Christian.
13:44 Amen?
13:46 Physical, mental, and spiritual.
13:48 You find it all through the scriptures.
13:50 And so as I came back in through eating better
13:53 'cause I want my mind clear, so I used to drink a lot,
13:57 not grape juice,
13:58 drank a lot of alcohol years ago.
14:01 And, you know, when I drank enough of it,
14:03 do you think I got smarter or dumber?
14:07 Dumber. I wasn't aware of things.
14:09 I thought I knew it all.
14:10 I thought I knew more the more I drank.
14:12 "I'll tell you what."
14:15 Isn't that strange, how you can...?
14:17 So what you put in here, does affect this up here.
14:20 Amen? Amen.
14:21 And if this is affected up here by your physical,
14:26 what about the mental and what about the spiritual?
14:27 And so I used to...
14:29 but I used to go in and say, "You know what?
14:31 Look what it says in the Bible.
14:33 Know you know that your bodies are the temple of God,
14:36 and you've been bought with a price,
14:37 and you're not your own."
14:38 And so you know what?
14:40 I would go to them
14:41 and instead of just telling them
14:43 because I was too afraid to tell him personally,
14:44 see, we want to talk about people
14:45 but we always want to go to the one
14:47 that will go along with us
14:49 'cause we don't want someone to go against us.
14:51 So we don't want to share with them
14:53 because we're too embarrassed to tell them,
14:54 "What would they think of me, if I tell them?"
14:57 So now we want to go tell somebody else
14:59 and, you know what?
15:01 I started talking about health, but I talk behind their back.
15:05 And then pretty soon,
15:06 you know, I started talking about,
15:10 you know what?
15:11 People ought to give more time to the scriptures.
15:16 Why aren't they studying more,
15:17 you know, what's wrong with these people,
15:19 they call themselves a Christian.
15:20 Now am I right?
15:21 Should we study more?
15:23 Amen.
15:25 But see, I wouldn't go up to that person.
15:26 I would just...
15:28 I would just start talking behind their back
15:29 and it's strange.
15:31 And then as I, as I'm doing this,
15:32 I'd go here and I'd say,
15:34 "You know, Dwight, you look pretty,
15:35 you remember that some of you Zolder folks
15:38 that like myself, "
15:39 I don't consider myself really old,
15:40 but, you know, I think it was happy days
15:42 and they had the funds, I remember the beginning
15:44 where he looked at himself in the mirror
15:45 and just going to comb his hair
15:47 and "Forget it, I look good enough."
15:48 But see me, I'm not quite that naive.
15:52 I'd say, "Well, you know, those folks, they're okay
15:56 but I'm not perfect either.
15:59 You know, I need to straighten my tie
16:01 just a little bit here.
16:02 But I look pretty good."
16:04 I like being neat.
16:07 And so I even being neat, I would start saying,
16:09 "Well, you know what?
16:11 People ought to go to church,
16:13 the way they dress at churches amaze me."
16:15 Now does Jesus accept us any way that we are?
16:17 Amen.
16:19 But when we go see Jesus, shouldn't we wear our best?
16:21 Amen.
16:22 I don't care what it is, but we should, we're...
16:24 We're meeting God.
16:26 And so then I will look at people and say,
16:28 "I know they can dress better than that."
16:30 Then I will talk to somebody.
16:32 And I would tell him about that and say,
16:34 "Why would they ever come
16:35 into sanctuary looking like that?"
16:37 Okay? Never talked to them.
16:40 You see what's happening here?
16:42 What do you think?
16:43 Well, there's one right in the old back.
16:45 Have you ever talked behind someone's back?
16:49 But, you know what?
16:50 I'd go in the mirror and say, "Well, you know what?
16:53 They're okay, but now, Dwight, make sure you look good.
16:58 I'll put that in.
17:00 Man, that's not bad."
17:06 And then, you know, I started watching television,
17:09 like 3ABN.
17:12 And before I ever knew Danny Shelton...
17:16 Man, I thought, man, what a blessing that guy is.
17:20 But as I got to know Danny,
17:21 I've known him for about 23 years now,
17:23 I said, you know that Danny is a pretty good guy.
17:26 Amen? Amen.
17:28 But you know what? He's got a couple of problems.
17:32 Good thing is, this shirt is large.
17:38 Hope you get this, Danny.
17:40 Danny, just because I know you so well,
17:43 pretty well,
17:45 I'm cutting three big pieces right out of this shirt.
17:50 Wow.
17:52 Look at that shirt, starting to get pretty holy,
17:54 isn't it?
17:55 And I would say, you know,
17:57 "Danny's a nice guy, but look at me,
17:59 I look pretty good, got a nice smile.
18:02 You know, hair's looking all right."
18:04 Try to keep the weight off, and exercise,
18:08 study the Word, look pretty good.
18:12 Then I started watching, I hope Doug doesn't mind this,
18:15 Doug Batchelor.
18:17 And that Doug, he's a pretty nice guy,
18:19 I mean, he's got a following because he loves Jesus
18:23 and he's preaching the truth.
18:25 But, you know what?
18:26 I got to know Doug a little bit.
18:27 Man, and I think
18:29 if he would just change this here,
18:31 you know.
18:34 Well, he needs more than one too,
18:35 I mean, it's not just changes.
18:37 I mean, you know,
18:38 I didn't like his tie the other...
18:40 I mean, why did he wear that color tie,
18:43 didn't look good on camera to me,
18:44 I mean, seems like he'd have better,
18:46 his wife probably didn't pick it out for him.
18:50 Seriously, it's a little funny if you think about it,
18:53 but how often do we nitpick our brothers and sisters?
18:57 Until finally,
18:59 no matter what they're preaching,
19:00 it doesn't matter,
19:01 we will go around behind the backs of others,
19:04 and we will say things about them,
19:06 and we don't even know if they're true
19:09 because somebody told us.
19:11 I've had people say things about our ministry
19:14 that are negative.
19:15 And I'm thinking,
19:17 well, it's almost laughable sometimes on what people say
19:20 but it really doesn't matter.
19:21 I mean, I cannot worry about that,
19:23 I have to keep my eyes focused on Jesus.
19:25 Amen?
19:26 If you think
19:27 that you're going to live in this world in a glass bubble
19:29 and no one's going to say anything about you,
19:30 the more you're like a Christian,
19:31 the more you become like Jesus.
19:33 Do you think you're going to get more persecuted?
19:35 Amen, sure.
19:36 Now, absolutely, now where do you think that...
19:38 Where do you think this all started?
19:43 Started in heaven.
19:46 Lucifer.
19:47 Do you know what the word "Lucifer" means?
19:49 Shining light.
19:51 He was a light-bearer.
19:53 He was the brightest thing.
19:55 He was in charge of all the angelic host.
19:58 One of the most, probably beautiful as angel,
20:00 he was a great singer.
20:02 I mean, this angel had great talents.
20:05 You know what started his problem
20:07 on his downward path?
20:09 Yeah, he...
20:11 I mean, I'm sure they didn't wear,
20:12 but I don't like ties that well to be honest with you.
20:13 So when I get through with here,
20:15 I'll probably have this tore off,
20:17 but so they probably didn't have ties,
20:18 they probably didn't have them in heaven
20:20 but whatever he has out there, had up there,
20:23 "Boy, I'm the greatest angel.
20:25 I'm Lucifer.
20:27 I'm the light bearer.
20:29 But, you know what?
20:30 That Jesus is a pretty good person,
20:33 but I don't know why is He doing this?
20:37 What's his problem?"
20:40 And then he'd go up to some of the other angels
20:43 and they did not, they respect him.
20:45 Absolutely.
20:47 He was in charge of them.
20:48 And he said, "You know what?
20:49 Jesus is a wonderful being.
20:51 Praise the Lord for Jesus.
20:53 But if He could just change this one thing,
20:57 don't you think?
20:58 Wouldn't it be a better heaven?"
21:01 And he started going on and on.
21:04 Because see, he was the accuser of the brethren.
21:08 Amen?
21:10 And so as we go around,
21:12 I come up with many more names.
21:15 And pretty soon,
21:17 this nice white shirt right here,
21:20 you got holes in the back and the arm,
21:22 there's holes all over the place.
21:24 Why?
21:25 Because what started out to be good,
21:30 people maim, they speak.
21:32 I've done it so often and I'm so sorry for it.
21:37 I'll never make it to heaven like that.
21:39 Let's look in your Bibles real quick here to...
21:45 If you'd turn your Bibles to Romans Chapter 8.
21:51 Romans Chapter 8.
21:55 And we've got to realize this is such a serious problem
21:57 and I don't know why, but don't you think
21:59 if the devil was the brightest angel,
22:02 the smartest angel, whatever,
22:04 if he felt a certain way,
22:07 what is his best tool to use on you and I
22:09 as fallen human beings?
22:12 Wouldn't it be the same thing?
22:14 If you ever find yourself talking about people,
22:17 even if it's true, I mean, what if it's true?
22:20 You know, isn't it strange?
22:22 I want to, before I read this,
22:23 I've got a family, a beautiful family,
22:24 my wife Deb, three lovely children,
22:27 you know, they're all grown up now.
22:29 Alisha, Natasha, Seth, I love them very much
22:31 and the son-in-laws,
22:32 David Berthiaume that sings with one voice,
22:34 my son-in-law and Brian, I love them.
22:37 But if they do something wrong, you know what?
22:40 I can't wait to get up here
22:41 'cause I'm going to tell you all about them.
22:43 I love my children,
22:44 but would you do that to your children
22:47 or your spouse?
22:49 Are we not supposed to be a church family?
22:51 If we're real Christians, why in the world
22:54 would we want to go out
22:55 and tell the world about our sins,
22:57 even if they're true?
22:58 Why would you do it?
23:01 Jesus said, "He who is without sin,
23:05 you cast that."
23:06 I want to watch you right here.
23:08 I want you to cast that first stone.
23:12 Romans Chapter 8
23:19 with verse 6.
23:22 It says, "For those who live according to the flesh,
23:24 set their minds on the things of flesh,
23:26 but those who live according to the spirit,
23:28 the things of the spirit for to be fleshly
23:32 or carnally minded is," what?
23:33 Death. "Death."
23:35 Eternal death.
23:38 You know, I had been so right
23:41 but been all wrong.
23:42 Amen?
23:44 You can have the truth a 100% but like Romans 1:18 says,
23:49 "If you hold the truth and unrighteousness,
23:53 you're a castaway."
23:55 I've held the truth.
23:56 I've held that banner up so much,
23:58 but I've held it in unrighteousness
24:00 and I can pick apart all kinds of things.
24:02 My parents thought I'd be a good lawyer.
24:05 Used to love to debate and argue.
24:09 But even when I prove that you're wrong,
24:12 what good did it do?
24:14 What good?
24:15 Now remember what I said before the balance,
24:18 we cannot excuse sin. There is no excuse for sin.
24:20 Amen?
24:22 And that doesn't mean
24:23 you should never talk to somebody,
24:24 but to go out, and throw the dirty,
24:26 and cut their shirts.
24:27 If you want to go there and rebuke someone
24:29 like the Bible says, go do it.
24:30 Give them the Matthew treatment, right?
24:32 But don't go around spreading it to other people
24:34 so you can get people on your side
24:35 'cause you see, you know,
24:38 the only bad thing about me right now
24:40 is that these glasses, shows I'm getting older,
24:43 got a little gray hair.
24:44 Maybe I should color, what do you think?
24:45 Maybe that would make me look better.
24:51 For to be what?
24:52 "For to be fleshly or carnally minded is death,
24:55 but to be spiritually minded is," what?
24:58 "Life and peace."
25:01 And, you know,
25:03 as I kept cutting the holes of people
25:05 saying they're okay, they're okay,
25:10 when Jesus really revealed Himself to me,
25:15 here's what I found out.
25:18 This picture of the Dwight that looks good to you all,
25:21 like I said I'm on equal side, I like things in order,
25:23 I like my hair right on that way,
25:26 but you know something, here's what I look like.
25:33 But look at...
25:35 When I've got my coat on, you can't tell.
25:37 Can you?
25:38 Do you know why?
25:39 Because I look good.
25:42 Look at that.
25:44 Look at what I can do with one piece of clothing.
25:46 I don't even have to button the button.
25:51 Which one of you today will cast the first stone?
25:57 Who is brave enough?
26:00 Who is perfect enough to go out
26:03 and cast the first stone?
26:06 It's sad to me that when I liked casting stones,
26:10 I could never see Dwight Hall.
26:12 This is kind of embarrassing.
26:14 That's why I don't like giving this
26:15 'cause I don't like looking like this.
26:18 But that's me.
26:21 I don't condone it, I do not make excuse for sin,
26:24 but when I keep my eyes on Jesus
26:26 and I say, "Lord,
26:29 put other people out of my mind,
26:33 I want to make it to heaven, I want to be a shining light.
26:40 Lord, I need you."
26:42 You remember that Pharisee and the Publican?
26:45 The Pharisee goes above and asked a question,
26:47 how much percentage of perfection,
26:50 not perfectionism,
26:52 and I want to explain something,
26:54 when you read perfection in the Bible,
26:55 it stands for mature.
26:56 Look it up in the Greek, it says mature.
26:58 How many of us need to be mature Christians
27:00 to go to heaven?
27:02 Let me ask you a question.
27:04 If you're 90% given to Jesus,
27:06 90% surrendered, are you saved?
27:11 I'm gonna ask the question again.
27:13 If you're 90% saved
27:16 and 10% lost, what are you?
27:19 Lost. Lost.
27:21 Now think of this story.
27:26 Jesus was viewing and saying about this Publican firsthand,
27:31 at first he says, you know, Lord,
27:34 I'm so thankful to be here, and I'm so thankful
27:37 that I do this right, and this right, and that right.
27:39 Well, I fast once or twice a week or whatever.
27:42 I'm paraphrasing.
27:43 "I do this, I do that, and boy, I am so glad
27:46 I'm not like that person, over that Publican."
27:52 Was that Pharisee saved?
27:54 No.
27:55 I don't care if he was 99%.
27:58 It doesn't matter.
28:00 And you and I need to start taking the Bible
28:01 and making it serious in our lives
28:03 because we can't go to Jesus when He comes and say,
28:06 "Lord..."
28:07 Really look at...
28:08 I mean, because we're not saved by works,
28:10 faith through Jesus Christ, but if we love Jesus,
28:12 we'll do His works.
28:13 Is that not true?
28:14 It's a pretty simple thing to me.
28:16 If you speak of the plan of salvation...
28:18 Hope you don't mind me to put my shirt back on.
28:22 Just remember what it looks like.
28:24 Do you have a hole in your shirt?
28:25 Your dress?
28:27 Are you good enough to pick up the stone?
28:32 Because the angels are putting it all down.
28:36 They're putting it down and they write it.
28:37 And the reason I have this mirror up here
28:38 is because of this and this,
28:40 when I look at myself and I see Dwight Hall,
28:42 what's the problem?
28:44 Itself, through and through.
28:47 When I look at this mirror itself
28:49 through and through.
28:51 And that's why I keep this on my desk,
28:54 because like the Publican,
28:57 he said, "Lord, "
28:59 he went on his knees,
29:01 "Lord, I don't deserve any of Your love.
29:04 I'm a sinner.
29:06 I'm a Publican.
29:09 I am so sorry
29:11 for my sorry person that I've become.
29:16 I don't deserve anything,
29:18 but will You please come into my heart?
29:22 Will You come into my heart?"
29:27 I'd like to read this statement.
29:29 I've had it my Bible.
29:30 In fact, some of you might be able to see it.
29:32 But this has been in my Bible and I had it glued in there.
29:36 You can see it's frayed.
29:37 I've had...
29:39 In fact, I kind of hate to tell you this,
29:40 but I might as well, that's maybe to humble myself.
29:43 I know that you probably can't see it real good
29:45 but, you know what,
29:46 this was typed through the typewriter.
29:49 You know how many years that might've been ago?
29:51 I didn't think I was old enough to know what a typewriter was.
29:54 Not a computer.
29:56 So you can see, that's not computer stuff.
29:58 But let me read this to you.
30:00 It has meant so much and I read it many times.
30:03 It says,
30:07 "When a crisis comes in the life of any soul
30:09 and you attempt to give counsel or admonition,
30:11 your words
30:12 will only have the weight of influence for good.
30:15 That's your own example and spirit have gained for you.
30:20 You must be good before you can," what?
30:23 "Before you can do good.
30:26 You cannot exert an influence that will transform others, "
30:30 what does it say?
30:31 "Transform," what?
30:32 "You and I, others until your own heart
30:35 has been humbled, and refined,
30:38 and made tender by the grace of Christ.
30:39 When this change has been wrought in you,
30:41 it will be as natural.
30:43 I love that word.
30:44 It will be as natural for you to live to bless others
30:47 as it is for the rosebush to yield its fragrant bloom
30:51 or the vine, it's purple clusters."
30:54 If Christ is in you, the hope of glory,
30:56 you will have no disposition.
30:58 How much disposition?
30:59 No disposition...
31:02 to watch others and to expose your errors.
31:06 You won't.
31:08 If you're in Christ, you will have no disposition.
31:10 Now what that means is
31:13 that you won't go around
31:14 talking bad about other people,
31:16 especially when you haven't talked to the person first,
31:18 and even then you do what Matthew 18 says,
31:21 you will not want to expose,
31:22 no different than you'd want expose your spouse
31:24 or your family members.
31:27 I just want you to know that my children,
31:29 Deb and I raised them,
31:31 and we tried to raise them the best
31:32 that they can be raised
31:33 but we didn't do everything right.
31:35 We made mistakes.
31:37 And I am so glad that our children
31:38 didn't go on and say,
31:40 "You know, mom and dads are mom and dad
31:41 but, boy, I wish I could have been a genie
31:45 and changed their ways of thinking."
31:47 I'm sure they thought that at times
31:50 but they didn't expose it and we didn't go around
31:52 sharing all the bad things that our children did at home.
31:56 We had no disposition to do it.
32:02 It says, "Instead of seeking to accuse and condemn,
32:06 it will be your object to help to bless,
32:09 and to say, and dealing with those who are in error,
32:12 you will need the injunction.
32:15 Consider thyself as to also be tempted.
32:19 You will call to mind the many times you have erred,
32:22 and how hard it was to find the right way
32:24 when you had one...
32:25 Brothers and sisters, is there any besetting sins
32:27 that you've been working on for years?
32:30 Is there?
32:31 I mean, there is my life,
32:32 you know, I'll get on my knees and I say,
32:34 "Lord, when will I ever learn?
32:37 How come my head is so hard and so thick?"
32:41 I can blame my dad and my mom.
32:43 I've done it before.
32:45 I blamed it on the church, blamed it on the pastor.
32:49 But the bottom line is,
32:51 it's because we don't surrender.
32:53 True? Amen.
32:55 You know, I've done this before,
32:56 but I won't have any of you come up, but I've done it.
33:00 I've taken a pen like this and it's got a lid on it.
33:04 Okay?
33:05 Most pens do.
33:06 And I've asked people come up, especially young people
33:09 and I want you to take this pen for me.
33:13 And they go to take it, they are...
33:16 And I won't let it go and I'm just standing there,
33:17 I got a good grip on it.
33:19 And you know what they usually say?
33:20 "Oh, you've asked me to take it but you won't give it to me."
33:24 Is that what we not do to Jesus?
33:25 "Lord, please take my sins,"
33:27 but we get up and never really give them to Him.
33:30 Has that happened in your life?
33:31 It has in mine.
33:33 Are you willing to allow Jesus to come into your life
33:36 and not worry about others?
33:38 When I have found out in my own life
33:39 the things that I need, this shirt right here,
33:41 when I found out the sins that I have,
33:45 I have no time nor disposition to accuse
33:50 and to look for sins of others.
33:54 I want to finish the statement here.
33:57 Without that...
34:00 I will be so glad in heaven
34:02 when you don't have to wear these things, I hate them.
34:05 Amen?
34:07 So I see some of you have them.
34:08 You know what I mean.
34:10 It says, "He who looks often upon the cross of Calvary
34:15 remembering that his sins placed the savior there
34:19 will never try to estimate the degree of his guilt
34:22 in comparison with that of others."
34:25 Did you catch that?
34:27 Amen. I love that.
34:28 That should have been a lot more amen.
34:30 Shouldn't it?
34:31 Maybe I ought to read it again,
34:33 maybe I'm going to read it again,
34:34 you tell me if you believe it.
34:35 "He who looks often upon the cross of Calvary,
34:37 remembering that his sins placed the savior there
34:40 will never," I repeat,
34:42 "will never try to estimate the degree of his guilt
34:45 in comparison with that of others.
34:47 He will not climb upon the judgment
34:49 to bring accusation against another."
34:51 Amen? Amen.
34:53 Thank you.
34:54 I believe that too.
34:57 It says, "Not until you feel
34:59 that you could sacrifice your own self-dignity
35:01 and your life itself."
35:03 Now I have said, "You know, I would die for that person"
35:06 and maybe I could, like Peter.
35:09 Clip that ear off.
35:11 Isn't it strange?
35:12 Peter was certainly willing to tell the sins of others
35:14 and when Jesus was there that night at Gethsemane,
35:17 Peter pulled that sword out and he just whop.
35:20 You know what I would've done?
35:22 I wouldn't have whopped one's ear off,
35:24 forget that stuff.
35:25 I mean, that's just...
35:26 I mean whop, whop,
35:28 I would have shot both of them off
35:29 just in a split second because that guy was wrong.
35:33 What did Jesus do?
35:35 Was that guy right?
35:37 Jesus bent down and said, He looked at Peter,
35:39 He didn't have to say...
35:40 He looked at Peter and, you know,
35:43 "I'm going to talk to Peter and ask what he felt."
35:45 Jesus went down,
35:46 grabbed that ear and put it back on.
35:48 You know why, because you and I need our ears.
35:52 Listen.
35:53 Listen to that still small voice.
35:56 Know what God's asking you to do.
35:59 Remember, after Christ's resurrection,
36:01 you remember what happened there?
36:02 When Peter comes out and says,
36:04 but Lord, what about so and so, what...
36:08 "Are you willing to feed my sheep?
36:10 Why are you worried about all the other disciples?
36:12 You need to worry...
36:13 Peter, do you understand?
36:15 You need to worry about yourself.
36:16 You and I, I believe,
36:19 have more than we can handle without Christ
36:22 to get ourselves ready for Jesus to come.
36:26 Probation will close one day, like it says in Revelation."
36:30 I don't know about you,
36:31 but how many of you believe Jesus is coming soon?
36:33 Can I see your hands? Amen.
36:34 And everyone that's watching out there,
36:35 you can raise your hand.
36:37 Do you believe Jesus is coming soon?
36:38 I do.
36:39 And I believe that you do.
36:41 And if that's the case,
36:42 you can't wait till the last minute.
36:44 Character does not change in a heartbeat.
36:46 Character is revealed in a crisis.
36:49 Understand?
36:51 What crisis brings you closer to Christ?
36:55 Might appear so much for you,
36:56 and I'd like to share just a few stories
36:59 that put this hopefully into perspective.
37:04 With my family,
37:05 I like doing that, like you said.
37:11 Before I do that, I got a note here.
37:12 I didn't look at this note
37:14 but I got to share the story of the two things.
37:15 It says,
37:17 "There can be no more conclusive evidence
37:18 that we possess the spirit of Satan
37:21 than the disposition to hurt and destroy
37:23 those who do not appreciate our work
37:26 or who act contrary to our ideas."
37:28 You know, we all want people to agree with us.
37:32 I've heard this so many times,
37:33 "I might not have all the answers,
37:35 but," boy, there goes that but again,
37:36 I might not have all the answers
37:38 but, you know what,
37:39 I'm open that so many people coming to me,
37:41 "Dwight, what do you think about this?
37:42 You know, I'm open to what you said,
37:44 but I want to show you this and this and this."
37:46 I mean, I could tell right from the get go
37:48 when they start talking to me that they don't want to hear
37:49 what I have to say.
37:51 They've got an agenda.
37:53 I went that way before with an agenda.
37:56 I kind of say this, you know, can you imagine?
37:59 I mean, God has made other planets.
38:03 He's got galaxies out there,
38:04 you know, the Milky Way galaxy that we're in
38:07 is one of the smaller galaxies in the universe.
38:10 And I won't get into that because I don't have time
38:12 but I love...
38:13 I wanted to be an astronaut when I was smaller
38:15 and I love stuff about space.
38:17 It goes on and on forever.
38:18 Can you imagine it? I keep thinking.
38:20 So what happens when you go a billion years,
38:21 light years out there,
38:23 there's got to be some kind of a door,
38:24 or a wall, or...
38:26 it's got in somewhere.
38:28 See mind, us finite beings cannot imagine infinite things,
38:32 but I like dreaming about it.
38:34 But God has other systems, and other planets,
38:37 and other things out there and, you know,
38:39 I've thought about this
38:40 when I've been at my quiet time.
38:41 I thought, you know what?
38:43 When God redeems us
38:45 and the faithful ones are in heaven,
38:46 He's going to put each one of us
38:48 on a separate planet.
38:50 And we're not going to be able to travel.
38:52 And He's going to put us by ourselves.
38:55 And after a million years and we've never seen anybody,
38:59 the one that was our worst enemy on earth,
39:01 if they come,
39:02 then after the million years to visit them,
39:03 I guarantee I'll give him the biggest hug you ever saw.
39:06 Because I love animals and all kinds of nature
39:08 but I mean, it'd be nice to talk to somebody
39:10 'cause I like to talk.
39:12 I mean, do you think that?
39:13 I mean, do you think
39:15 it's going to be that way in heaven?
39:16 No.
39:18 A thousand times no.
39:20 We've got to learn to get along here,
39:21 you and I together right now as Christians.
39:23 We don't condone sin.
39:24 Amen.
39:26 Sometimes we have to rebuke people.
39:27 Amen.
39:28 We need to live the truth, amen, if we love Jesus,
39:30 but we don't go around saying, "I am the greatest.
39:35 I just look so good.
39:37 Oh, I've got a few..."
39:39 You know, no.
39:40 A thousand times no.
39:42 Thousand times no.
39:48 You know, when we lived out in Montana,
39:56 the reason I moved out there from here, from Coldwater
40:00 was because I was so busy,
40:01 had a successful business with my father, and uncle,
40:04 and my three brothers, and we always got along,
40:06 but I was so busy working and then I started studying
40:09 and, you know, I was head elder in our church,
40:12 and I taught a class, a Bible class,
40:14 and I did prayer meetings,
40:18 and I started to run the publications,
40:20 and I did all these things.
40:22 And then I could go give a Bible study in the evening,
40:25 and feel good about it, and get home,
40:27 and see one misplaced thing or something wrong
40:30 and scream or yell, not scream, but yell at my wife.
40:36 See, I was the Pharisee.
40:38 I was at 90%, or 80, or whatever.
40:42 And I said, "Lord, what is my problem?
40:44 Why am I not gaining victories over my temper?
40:46 Why am I not gaining victory over the things
40:49 that You said I can have victory over?"
40:51 Can Jesus give us victory over everything?
40:52 Amen.
40:54 Then why don't we believe
40:55 and why are we not having victory?
40:57 And then what happens is, if we don't have it,
41:00 we'll hold high certain standards
41:03 that seemed fairly easy for us,
41:04 but we'll step and stomp the other standards
41:07 in the dust of the ground.
41:11 And then when we start taking our eyes off Jesus
41:13 and we look at others,
41:15 that is the prime reason why we do it
41:16 because when we can see the faults in others,
41:18 that always makes me look pretty good.
41:22 And then I can forget or try to forget those things
41:26 that I have a problem with and I'm not dealing with.
41:33 And so I then went out to Montana,
41:36 and I learned to give my temper to Jesus,
41:38 and learn to deal with my children
41:41 in a better way and in a spiritual way
41:44 instead of a carnal fashion.
41:47 This was after we had been out there
41:49 for a few years
41:50 and it was the middle of the winter.
41:51 But you know where I lived in Montana there,
41:53 it was beautiful,
41:54 we bordered Glacier National Park,
41:56 a 10, 000 foot rocky mountain peaks out there.
41:59 Beautiful.
42:01 And this one particular morning in the winter,
42:05 it was like 20 below zero, no windshield factor.
42:08 It's cold, let me tell you.
42:10 And so our kids always had their chore list,
42:12 so they got up and started doing the dishes,
42:13 and so we always took a walk.
42:15 So I said, "Deb, let's go take a walk.
42:16 I know it's 20 below, but we'll bundle up."
42:18 So we bundled up and, you know,
42:20 when it's 20 below, once it gets 20 below,
42:21 it could be 40 below,
42:23 it really doesn't make much difference,
42:24 cold, I'll tell you.
42:26 And so we bundled up.
42:27 I had my big old carhartts, and my boots,
42:29 and my gloves and, and Deb's all bundled up,
42:30 and we walk out.
42:32 It was a beautiful sunshiny day
42:33 and it's a drier kind of a climate.
42:35 So it's not as humid.
42:36 It doesn't feel as cold, I guess.
42:37 Whatever, it's still cold, let me tell you.
42:39 But we were walking up our driveway,
42:41 and we were walking down the road,
42:43 and there's just nobody out because where we lived,
42:46 if maybe 10 people passed our driveway,
42:49 we were down off the main road
42:50 but the main road,
42:52 if there was 11 people that went by there in a day,
42:54 that was a lot.
42:56 People didn't go up there.
42:57 We were way up there.
42:58 And so we're walking down the road, hand in hand,
43:01 and talking and all of a sudden my wife said something.
43:07 And she didn't say it, I know that now,
43:10 she didn't say it to upset me, but what she said upset me.
43:15 It just...
43:16 Here we're having a great time and you know
43:17 how words can be so cutting and you don't even know it?
43:20 I've had people come up to me
43:21 that are bold enough to come up to me
43:23 and they said, "Dwight, the way you said that..."
43:25 And I didn't mean it.
43:28 It's just part of me.
43:29 Now that doesn't excuse me, I just didn't mean it.
43:31 And so we're walking there, and she says this,
43:33 and I'm thinking, "Oh, I can't believe,
43:36 it's a beautiful sunny day, I can't believe she said that."
43:39 So we're walking a little bit more
43:41 'cause she's quite a lot shorter than me
43:42 and I got these big long legs,
43:44 so I'm walking a little fast and kind of
43:45 almost trying to drag her behind me,
43:46 and we're just talking, I was thinking, what can I say,
43:49 so it didn't take me long and fairly quick witted
43:51 and I said something back to her.
43:54 And then she said something back to me.
43:57 Then I said something back to her.
44:00 Until finally I let go off her hand.
44:03 I don't want to hang on to her hand anymore.
44:05 What's wrong with her anyway, she might be my wife
44:07 but I don't have to hang onto it all the time.
44:09 And so I let it go and I'm walking,
44:10 I'm like this in this big muddled suit,
44:12 and she's behind me
44:13 'cause she's, you know,
44:14 and I got about probably 100 feet ahead of her
44:17 and the Lord spoke to my heart and said,
44:20 "Dwight, you're evil surmising.
44:22 I mean, don't you love your wife?"
44:23 "Well, yeah, Lord, I do love her,
44:25 but it was her fault and, you know what,
44:27 I've been saying I'm sorry so long,
44:29 she's going to think I'm a wimp.
44:31 I'm supposed to be the man of the house.
44:33 I'm tired of saying, I'm sorry all the time,
44:35 especially when it's her fault and this was her.
44:37 She started it."
44:40 Have you ever tried arguing with God?
44:43 I've never won a battle yet.
44:47 And so as I'm walking in, I start to slow down
44:50 and the Lord spoke, said,
44:51 "Dwight, did you deal right with her
44:53 the way you came back?"
44:55 "What? Well, no, but..."
44:57 "But what, no, I heard you say no.
45:02 You are the leader,
45:03 you are the priest of the household,
45:04 you need to tell her you're sorry."
45:06 "But, Lord,
45:08 I mean, I just want to hear a sorry from her."
45:12 "Dwight, it doesn't matter.
45:15 What are you here for?
45:17 You came out here to this wilderness
45:18 to learn to walk with me?
45:20 Are you going to walk away from Me
45:21 over this small bowl of porridge right now?
45:24 Is it so big in your life
45:25 that you're not willing to do what's right?"
45:28 And so I was arguing with the Lord
45:30 and pretty soon after I was walking,
45:32 I said, "Lord, You're right, I am so sorry."
45:34 You know, when you finally listen
45:38 and you open your heart...
45:42 you can see a lot better.
45:43 Amen?
45:45 And so I said, "Yes, Lord, I am sorry"
45:47 and I had a prayer right there,
45:49 "Lord, give me courage, I'm so sorry.
45:50 Make sure that whatever's in my voice, I don't say,
45:52 well, I'm sorry,
45:54 but you should say you are sorry too."
45:57 And so I turn around, and there she was,
45:59 and she was kind of walking, kicking the snow,
46:01 you know, and had her head down.
46:04 And I said, "Deb."
46:06 And she looked up.
46:08 And I said, "I am so sorry.
46:12 Will you forgive me?
46:14 I love you so much."
46:16 And, you know,
46:18 20 below zero, the tears didn't run down her cheeks,
46:22 they shot out.
46:25 It's like bullets. Boom.
46:29 And she said, in between sobs,
46:32 "I'm sorry too.
46:36 Will you forgive me?"
46:40 And right there at 20 below zero,
46:42 we knelt, we hung on to hands, and my prayer was that
46:45 "Lord, I'm sorry, but please help my wife
46:47 to understand me better."
46:48 No, no, no.
46:52 We got on to our knees and I said,
46:53 "Lord, I am so sorry.
46:55 I'm supposed to be the head of the household,
46:56 I'm supposed to be the priest, I'm supposed to be the leader.
46:59 Lord, please forgive me.
47:01 I love my wife so much and my children.
47:04 I want to walk with You.
47:06 I want to learn what You have for me.
47:09 I want in the end of time, my whole family to be safe.
47:14 And I know that all the preaching in the world
47:15 isn't going to do it, Lord.
47:17 Please Lord, help my wife
47:22 to forgive me."
47:26 And when she prayed, she prayed the same prayer,
47:29 and when we got up, with tears in our eyes,
47:33 we hugged each other and kissed each other.
47:34 Amen? Amen.
47:37 Heaven is going to be cheap enough,
47:39 I mean, these are ridiculous things.
47:42 But at the time, they're important.
47:45 They are important.
47:48 It starts in the home, brothers and sisters.
47:55 It starts in the home.
47:57 If you will do what God is calling you to do
48:02 in your home,
48:05 behind closed doors,
48:08 I tell people that and in one of my messages,
48:10 I say, "You know, wouldn't be something
48:11 if I had a hidden camera,
48:13 and I had it in every one of your homes this last week,
48:18 and I went up to you and said, you know what,
48:20 I was going to have the sermon, but I decided
48:24 since I had these cameras
48:25 and you didn't know they were in there,
48:27 I decided that I was going to have you
48:29 as the sermon today.
48:30 I'm just going to...
48:32 I'm going to show up on these screens
48:33 that you see right now.
48:35 I'm just going to show a few clips of your life
48:39 with your spouse and your children this week."
48:41 What would you say to me?
48:43 "Oh, boy, listen, I've had a hard week.
48:46 I mean, you don't understand.
48:49 I mean, you don't understand
48:50 what I've been through this week.
48:51 I've been stressed. I mean, please, Dwight, here.
48:54 I mean, you know, listen, what do you need?
48:57 I'll write a check.
48:59 Whatever.
49:00 Please not...
49:01 Please, don't do that."
49:03 Wouldn't it be nice that behind closed doors
49:06 that Jesus and our angels see,
49:07 wouldn't it be nice if you could say, okay,
49:11 if it would glorify God.
49:15 That will glorify God,
49:16 and if we cannot learn it in the homes,
49:18 then it will be so easy for us, like it is,
49:20 to talk bad about others.
49:23 And the accuser of the brethren,
49:25 which is Satan,
49:29 he is pretty powerful.
49:30 He's very powerful foe.
49:33 Very powerful.
49:35 And he catches us up in our habits.
49:40 Do you all have habits?
49:42 You know, we lost our power last night at home.
49:47 I hate it when it does that and it's dark,
49:49 you can't see anything, and so we went home,
49:52 and I found the flashlight and some candles,
49:54 and put them up on the dresser,
49:56 and give a kiss to my wife good night,
49:59 and went to sleep, slept beautifully,
50:02 got up in the morning
50:03 and turned a little lantern, little light on,
50:07 and Deb was still in bed
50:09 'cause I wanted to come to Remnant
50:11 and have time with God, where there was a light,
50:13 I could read and prepare,
50:15 my last preparations for this message.
50:18 And so Deb's awake, and she's laying in bed,
50:20 and so I said, "Now listen, honey,"
50:21 I said, "since we can't see, we have no electricity yet,
50:24 as you know, it's not come on,
50:27 we're not supposed to get it till about noon on Sunday, "
50:29 so I said, "since we're not going to have it," I said,
50:31 "can you make sure you get my suit and my things
50:34 'cause I want to run to the shop."
50:36 And she said, "No problem, that's fine."
50:37 I said, "And so don't,"
50:39 I said, "don't fall back asleep,
50:40 it'll be easy 'cause it's very comfortable,
50:41 and the right temperature, and..."
50:44 "No, honey, I won't fall back asleep."
50:46 And so we talked a little bit about that
50:48 and the power being out and everything,
50:51 once you know, I had to run into our bathroom.
50:53 We have a walk in closet, that's...
50:55 I walk in there and what do I do,
50:57 I walk in that bathroom and flip the light on,
51:01 just after I spent five minutes telling her,
51:02 you know, we don't have any power and all that,
51:04 I go into the bathroom
51:05 and I just flipped the light on.
51:07 Why do I do those things?
51:09 Because of habit.
51:11 Because you can't see unless you turn the light on
51:12 to go into a bathroom, so I flipped it on.
51:15 We are born with inherent weaknesses.
51:19 Amen.
51:20 And then as we grow up, there are certain weaknesses
51:22 that we keep doing it and it becomes a habit.
51:24 Until finally,
51:26 we don't even know that we're doing it.
51:30 That's why I don't want you to become discouraged,
51:32 you know, but what I want you to do is
51:34 start learning that it's not worth
51:38 you trying to make yourself look better
51:40 by cutting other people down
51:43 because that's not going to help your bad habits.
51:47 I've got this thing
51:48 and if you have a piece of paper,
51:50 if you can remember this, write this down.
51:53 I learned it from a wise person,
51:55 quite a while ago.
51:57 Never forgot it.
51:58 Now if you can write this down, put it in your Bibles, okay?
52:03 Put in your Bible, this is good.
52:05 When we're talking about fruit,
52:07 you don't have to write this part down,
52:09 but when you're talking about fruit, or vegetables,
52:11 or whatever, if there's...
52:14 Let's say you get a banana and have you ever...
52:17 Any of have you ever seen bananas
52:20 that has little brown spots on them, bruises?
52:23 Anybody that...?
52:25 I don't know about you
52:27 but I really don't like that mushy brown stuff.
52:30 And so what do I do,
52:31 when I peel that banana
52:33 and the rest of it's really good,
52:35 but there's that one bruise that might be,
52:36 you know, a spot this big or whatever.
52:38 It's a spot on there, that's at brown mushy stuff.
52:42 It looks ugly, that brown dark, ugly, right?
52:46 And I just don't want to stick it in my mouth.
52:48 And so what do you do?
52:50 You cut it out.
52:52 Take that knife, you slice,
52:54 and then the rest of the banana is fine.
52:56 Okay?
52:57 But with human beings, it's different.
53:03 Here's what I want you to write down and remember,
53:05 you cannot take people by the slice.
53:10 Okay?
53:12 You can't take people by the slice.
53:19 I can't take my staff, or my wife, or my kids,
53:23 I can't take them and say, you know,
53:24 I don't like this about him, I don't like that about him.
53:27 I mean, wouldn't it be great if I could take Danny Shelton,
53:29 Doug Batchelor, anyone here and say,
53:31 you know what, I don't like this about him,
53:32 so I'm just going to take a big old set of scissors,
53:35 that might work better than a knife,
53:36 I'd hurt a little more maybe to remind them,
53:38 and I just sit there and kind of plucking them away.
53:43 You know, you can't take people by the slice.
53:47 You either accept them or reject them.
53:50 And you know what,
53:51 I've chosen to accept every one of you.
53:53 Amen.
53:54 And I hope you accept me.
53:56 We don't condone sin, but I accept you.
53:59 You know why?
54:00 Because Jesus paid the price for your sins.
54:05 Amen.
54:08 You can't accept people by the slice.
54:10 In closing.
54:15 A couple of years ago,
54:18 our son Seth was...
54:22 Had a part time job, he works at our printing place,
54:25 he runs a press, runs a folder, does things,
54:27 he's been there for...
54:29 He's been there a long time.
54:30 I mean, he was pretty young when we got him
54:32 doing work at the press.
54:35 And so but he wanted to make a little extra money,
54:37 and so he had a part time job,
54:38 and Deb would take him to the place,
54:41 it was a place where he cleaned the stables for horses,
54:43 he loves horses, we've got horses at home,
54:46 and he loves animals.
54:47 He loves the outer doors.
54:48 And so he went there,
54:50 and it was a cold winter day this time,
54:52 very cold, and he...
54:55 He went there, and Deb was there,
54:58 and I think maybe Natasha, one of the daughters was there,
55:01 and they were sitting there talking,
55:02 and they could see Seth,
55:04 you know, cleaning some of the stables
55:05 and getting it done, and, and he was...
55:08 Had a hose,
55:09 and he was watering one of the buckets,
55:12 and all of a sudden he kind of fell forward
55:15 and he hit his head against the thing,
55:17 you know, hard.
55:19 And then he just kind of slid down.
55:21 And so Deb and Natasha got out, and they ran out of the car,
55:26 and they went there, and he had fainted.
55:28 He'd passed out.
55:30 Never had happened before and so they shut the water off,
55:33 and all of a sudden he came to,
55:35 and he was just white as a sheet,
55:36 and Deb called me right away.
55:38 She was frantic, and took him to the emergency room,
55:40 and I was in Detroit picking someone up.
55:43 And so she called me, of course,
55:45 "Hear, you're the dad, you want to be home."
55:47 "What's wrong with my son?"
55:49 So they said, "Well, you know, come to find out
55:53 he could have been dehydrated.
55:54 They really didn't know."
55:55 And so then we went to a specialist and they,
55:58 and they want to put this machine on him
56:00 to check everything.
56:02 And so I had to wait for 24 hours,
56:04 then he was kind of going to go,
56:05 and do a stress test, and certain tests.
56:07 So if there was something wrong,
56:08 and so he had this machine on
56:10 and when he came home that night,
56:14 and I'll never forget,
56:18 I was walking by his bedroom,
56:20 and I said, "Goodnight, Seth, I love you."
56:22 And there was a pause and he said,
56:26 "I love you too, Dad."
56:27 And he I said,
56:28 "Dad, dad, could you come here a minute?"
56:33 So I walked in there and he said,
56:34 "Dad,
56:39 I'm kind of scared."
56:41 I mean, what would you feel, you never had a problem,
56:42 and you got this machine on you,
56:44 and you've got to wear it all night.
56:46 And I said, "Well, Seth, what are you afraid of?
56:48 Are you...
56:50 You love Jesus?"
56:52 He said, "Yes, Dad, I do."
56:53 And I said, "I mean even if we die,
56:55 if something happens, " I said, "if you're faithful,
56:58 you'll be in the heavenly kingdom
57:00 and by faith."
57:01 And he said,
57:03 "Dad, I'm not afraid of dying."
57:08 I said, "Well, then, Seth, what's the problem?"
57:10 By this time we've sat on the bed
57:11 and the tears started coming down his face,
57:14 he said, "Dad, I'm not sure that
57:17 if I die, have I really given
57:19 everything in my heart to Jesus."
57:24 You know, I could sit right there and say,
57:25 Don't worry about that, Son, you need to know about this,
57:28 you need to learn this so and so done this one,
57:30 you need this, you need that, you need that, don't...
57:32 What do you think I said?
57:34 I said, "Seth, let's get underneath.
57:38 Let's make sure
57:40 that everything in your heart is surrendered
57:41 and ask the Holy Spirit to come into your heart
57:44 that there may be nothing there.
57:46 Set it at the altar."
57:48 I didn't try to tell them about the birds, and the bees,
57:50 and all the other stuff about,
57:52 you know, if you're really Christian,
57:53 you'll do this and you know this.
57:55 No, no. It wasn't about that.
57:57 Is Jesus your personal savior,
58:00 has He made a difference in your life.
58:02 Amen. Amen.
58:05 So often we get to cart
58:06 before the horse and we continue...
58:08 We continue want to put ourselves on the stool,
58:12 on the pedestal,
58:16 so that we look pretty good and put people down.
58:19 It's not about that.
58:23 In your life, please, this is not fun and games
58:27 that Jesus is coming very soon.
58:31 It's not time to cut other people down.
58:33 It's time to lift Jesus up.
58:36 Amen? Amen.
58:38 Will you please,
58:41 if you are ready to commit your life to Him,
58:44 would you please kneel with me right now?
58:53 Father in heaven,
58:55 Father, I pray again,
58:56 my burden is that each soul here
58:59 will be touched by Your Word.
59:01 Father, they may give their hearts to You,
59:04 that they may not look at others but themselves.
59:06 Father, please, Father, be with them,
59:10 guide, and direct their life, encourage them at this moment.
59:14 Please, Father, let them know that
59:16 they're never a failure until they quit.
59:18 Oh, Father, I pray that each one of us
59:20 one day would be in that sea of glass,
59:22 hugging one another and saying,
59:24 "Heaven is cheap enough."
59:26 Father, this is my prayer
59:28 and I pray it in the name of Jesus.
59:31 Amen.


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