Participants: Brittany-Hill Morales (Host), Jacques LaGuerre, Myesha Lawson, Timothy Lawson, Xavier Morales
Series Code: PC
Program Code: PC000100A
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00:01 The following program discusses sensitive issues.
00:04 Parents are cautioned that some material 00:06 may be too candid for younger children. 00:42 Hello there. 00:43 Welcome to our program Pure Choices. 00:46 This is actually our 100th episode. 00:49 We have a really great program for you today. 00:52 And we also have a very great panel. 00:55 Over here, we have my husband Xavier Morales. 00:59 On the couch, we have Mrs. Myesha Lawson. 01:01 Right beside, her husband, Mr. Timothy Lawson. 01:05 And also, Brother Jacques LaGuerre. 01:09 So before we jump into our topic for today, 01:11 let us pray. 01:14 Dear kind most heavenly Father, dear God, 01:16 I pray that you will be with us here as the panel, 01:18 and that you'll also be with the viewers at home 01:20 as we figure out what it is women need. 01:23 In Jesus' name. 01:25 Amen. Amen. 01:27 So the title for today's program is Search, 01:30 A Real Woman Is. 01:32 I think we all can agree 01:34 there has been truly a search among women 01:36 trying to figure out what it is that we're supposed to be, 01:39 what's our role, what is it that we need, 01:42 what really defines us as women. 01:44 And I think even men are 01:46 trying to figure out what is a good woman, 01:48 what is a real woman, who should I look for, 01:50 what should I be thinking about. 01:54 Just the other day, I was looking at a program, 01:59 and it was very, very crazy 02:02 as this gentleman was trying to explain the issue 02:06 with Lot's children and his daughters 02:09 and how they got him drunk. 02:12 And I was like, 02:14 "Okay, this might be like a really good sermon," 02:16 until he made an extreme twist and said, 02:19 "Well, daughters are supposed to marry their fathers." 02:23 And I was so in shock and said, "No, no, no. 02:28 What? 02:29 Are people really thinking this?" 02:31 And we think about so many different situations 02:33 of women in Asia 02:36 and how they're dealing with how they're treated 02:39 and trying to understand their self-worth. 02:41 So among you guys, 02:43 what do you think it is that women need? 02:49 Well, to me, women need... Well, what I need... 02:56 I always felt like I needed to be loved, you know. 03:01 In today's society, women are not getting that. 03:04 Or real love, you know, we get this counterfeit, 03:09 you know, in the world 03:10 or thinking that we can be loved by men 03:14 or, you know, other people, 03:17 but the real love comes from God. 03:22 It's interesting. 03:24 You know, in society, women are the nurturers, 03:28 you know, as it were. 03:29 But, you know, in all actuality women themselves need to be, 03:33 you know, strengthened and nurtured. 03:35 You always hear the comparison 03:40 to women or girls being like flowers, 03:42 I guess you could say... 03:44 Delicate flowers. Delicate flowers. 03:45 And, you know, a flower needs to be watered 03:47 and cared for in a certain kind of way. 03:53 Jacques, you want to say something? 03:56 Well, me being single, I'm still learning. 04:01 I'm still learning exactly what women need. 04:05 But from all the reading I've done on the subject 04:08 and just talking with people, women need love 04:11 and women need to feel like they belong 04:14 and that they're loved for who they are, 04:16 not because of who you're trying to make them. 04:18 To be accepted. Also, women need to be... 04:23 They need to feel they're assured and protected. 04:26 Can anybody else speak a little bit about that? 04:28 Well, I think, you know, 04:29 women often want to find that security, 04:32 and nowadays, especially, 04:34 you don't have a lot of fathers in the home. 04:36 You know, you have a lot of fatherless... 04:37 And that's crucial to the development of a girl 04:42 into womanhood, it's crucial to have that, 04:44 you know, that strong male role model. 04:46 And, you know, women like to feel that protection, 04:49 like to feel that, 04:51 you know, even though they're strong, independent, 04:53 you know, they're able to do what they need to do. 04:56 They also want to make sure that, 04:57 you know, they have a good support, 04:58 that protection, that validation 05:00 with them as well. 05:02 Yeah, I think every woman 05:03 wants to be able to walk down the street 05:04 and know that nothing is going to happen to her. 05:06 Exactly. How about women... 05:08 'Cause a woman needs to feel safe. 05:10 She needs to feel safe in herself, 05:13 feel safe in her home, in her family, in her church. 05:17 She has to feel safe in all these different avenues. 05:20 I would also say a woman possibly 05:22 also needs to be humble. 05:24 Oh, yes. Most definitely. Oh, yes. Most definitely. 05:31 I'm growing in grace. Pray for me. 05:33 Lord is great. Pray for me. 05:35 Okay. Yes, most definitely. 05:38 I believe that a woman should be humble, 05:40 especially when she has to be a wife and a mother. 05:46 Not only she may have duties in the church, 05:50 as well as, you know, she might have a business of her own, 05:54 a ministry and, you know, 05:57 she's going to play different parts of her... 05:59 You know, she's going to have, you know... 06:02 She's gonna play different roles in her life. 06:04 And so, yes, most definitely, 06:05 she needs patience and she needs to be humble, 06:09 especially with her husband. 06:12 Amen. 06:14 You know, it's interesting. 06:15 And, you know, 06:16 we might keep bringing up this topic as it goes on. 06:18 But ever since, you know, 06:20 the '50s and '60s with the feminist movement, 06:22 it's almost been like women have been taught 06:24 that humility is a weakness. 06:27 You know, American culture, in general, 06:29 it doesn't place a high value on humility 06:31 on a man or a woman. 06:33 But, you know, the Bible says, a meek and quiet spirit, 06:37 you know, is kind of worth all the treasures in the world. 06:40 And so, you know, having that aspect instilled in women, 06:45 they're mostly taught, 06:46 you know, strength or intelligence 06:48 but not to be humbled and graceful. 06:52 And I think that is a very high commodity. 06:54 Yeah. 06:55 You know, I think too that lack of being taught 06:58 to have that humility has affected their image, 07:01 has affected the way they relate to other women, 07:04 it has affected the way they dress 07:07 because society says, you know, humility would dictate, 07:10 you know, the way you dress, 07:12 you know, versus the society says, 07:14 "The more you expose, 07:15 the stronger of a woman you are, 07:17 the better looking you are. 07:18 The more plastic pieces you have on your body, 07:22 the better, the stronger of a woman you are." 07:26 Humility is a rare commodity. 07:28 It's almost an anomaly in today's society. 07:31 And as you just talked about, 07:33 women are probably changing their bodies. 07:35 They need to know their self-worth. 07:36 Yes, most definitely. 07:38 And also need to know that they're accepted by Christ, 07:41 that they're loved by Christ, they need Jesus Christ. 07:44 That should have been the first statement. 07:45 Yeah. They need Jesus. 07:48 And they need to know their standards 07:50 and not to have them so low 07:53 that it diminishes their self-worth. 07:55 Anybody else has something to say? 07:57 Yeah, I think 07:58 to piggyback a little bit off what you're saying, 08:00 one of the main things is that they need to know 08:03 that they don't have to listen to everybody else 08:07 to find out who they need to be. 08:09 Like you said, they can go to Jesus. 08:11 Magazines tell them they need to wear this, 08:13 dress like this, look like this, 08:15 and then the images on the magazine 08:16 are fake and Photoshopped in the first place. 08:19 And then, you know, television society, 08:21 like he was saying, is more power 08:23 if you be like this and women need to have that, 08:25 you said self-worth and confidence 08:27 in themselves that, 08:29 you know, from their family circle, 08:31 from their church family circle, 08:32 and also from the Bible, they can find out who they are 08:35 and walk in what God has ordained them to do. 08:38 And, Jacques, got something else to say? 08:40 To piggyback on self-worth and what Tim was saying, 08:42 just last week, I preached a sermon entitled, 08:45 "The Cross and Two Marys." 08:47 And I was talking with a lot of young women 08:50 about how they could find their self-worth at the cross 08:53 and how Jesus himself, 08:55 while He was dying on the cross, 08:57 He was worried about two things, 08:58 He was worried about the salvation of the thief 09:01 and He was worried about His mother 09:03 and who would take care of her. 09:05 And then after He rose again, 09:07 the first person to see Him on that Sunday morning 09:09 was Mary Magdalene, 09:11 the woman caught in the act of adultery. 09:13 And so at the cross, on both sides of the cross, 09:16 you see Christ placing a high value on women. 09:19 And so women need to be able to go to the cross 09:22 and not to the magazine covers 09:23 and not to the music videos and not to the TV shows. 09:26 And once they get their self-worth there, 09:28 everything else will fall into place. 09:30 Amen. Amen. 09:32 So when it comes to a woman's calling in life, 09:35 I have heard three very different 09:38 controversial kind of statements. 09:40 All right. 09:41 The first one is "All a woman needs 09:44 is a husband and some kids. 09:48 It's best for the family if she's at home, 09:51 and that is where she belongs." 09:55 Well, well, well. 09:56 I think, with that, 09:57 I think, you know, growing up in the Caribbean, 10:00 you know, you have a lot of patriarchal, 10:03 big patriarchal family and you tend to see that. 10:07 You know, that's predominately 10:08 what I grew up around where the woman 10:10 is to stay at home, cook, and clean. 10:12 However, my immediate family, the nucleus, 10:15 with my mom and dad, it was always shared, 10:18 you know, I was always... 10:20 It wasn't anyone's rule. I remember my mom... 10:22 If my dad ever told my mother just say, 10:24 "Cook me a meal and clean," 10:26 I don't think my dad would be around right now. 10:29 You know, you have to understand that, 10:31 in Jesus, there is no hierarchy. 10:34 It's equality, everybody has to rule. 10:37 But at the same time, 10:39 no rule is greater than another. 10:41 I think it's crazy because even in our churches 10:44 some women do always ask, 10:45 "So when are you getting married? 10:47 When are you getting married? When are you get married? 10:49 When are you gonna have some kids?" 10:50 It's like your life is not complete unless you have... 10:54 unless every single woman in this world 10:56 has a husband and kids. 10:58 Yeah. 11:00 I think that the woman should find out what she wants to do. 11:06 You know, some women don't want kids, 11:09 some women don't want to be married, 11:10 some women just want to focus on the ministry. 11:14 As for me, personally, 11:16 I didn't know how great it would be 11:17 to just be a wife and a mother fulltime. 11:23 I've tried going out working in... 11:25 you know, being in the working field, 11:26 and it just wasn't for me. 11:28 You know, I love being with my children 11:32 and doing my domestic duties at home, 11:36 being able to, you know, cook and clean. 11:38 I mean, that's therapy for me, you know, 11:41 knowing that while my husband is out working 11:45 and bringing home the meat, not literally... 11:49 Veggies. 11:50 He can come home to a loving wife, 11:54 his children are taken care of, 11:56 he's coming home to a cooked meal 11:59 and a clean home. 12:00 He can come home, you know, the home should be pleasant, 12:04 you know, it should be heaven on earth. 12:10 Another, I guess you can say, is a controversial statement 12:14 is when like a lot of people say, 12:16 "All women, what they need is a career. 12:21 They can be the father and the man 12:24 and all what they really need is, 12:26 you know, just to be single and great 12:29 because who needs a man anyway." 12:32 You know, going back again to, 12:37 you know, the old movements 12:38 that have told women these things, 12:40 you know, you just presented the two extremes 12:42 that only thing you're supposed to do 12:44 is stay home and raise kids and you can't do anything else 12:47 and only thing you're supposed to do is get a career 12:50 because staying home and raising kids 12:51 is taboo and whack. 12:53 And I like what somebody 12:56 just said that woman should go to God 12:58 to find out what she needs 13:00 and what she's supposed to do at a particular time in life. 13:04 You know, there have been women that have raised families 13:07 and then they went to school, they've been women 13:09 that have went to school and then raised families. 13:11 And I love the example of, you know, the writer 13:15 of the Spirit of Prophecy, Ellen White, 13:16 who had a husband and had a kid and had a home 13:20 and still did her prophetic ministry 13:23 that God had called her to do. 13:25 And the emphasis on the one that God had called her to do 13:28 and the Lord is going to make a way 13:31 for you to do the work He's called you to do. 13:34 And when the children are being raised, 13:38 there needs to be somebody there 13:40 to raise them and nurture them, 13:41 and it's a very important part of society 13:44 which is not around right now, 13:47 and it's the reason why children are so delinquent 13:50 and different things are happening in society 13:53 because Satan has tried to destroy that home structure. 13:56 But I think Christ wants to renew it 13:57 and present it in beauty without imbalance. 14:03 And I think this whole... 14:04 the two extremes, like you were saying, 14:06 exists because of abuses from the past. 14:10 You know, there are many people, 14:11 like let's say a young girl, 14:14 she watches her mother cooking like a full meal 14:18 and then the father comes home and he doesn't eat the food 14:21 because he felt like going out 14:23 to get pizza or something like that. 14:25 That little girl, looking at that, 14:27 will now think in her mind, 14:28 well, if I do domestic duties, then I won't be appreciated, 14:33 I won't be loved, and I won't be cherished. 14:35 And so a lot of women, 14:37 they've gone to this extreme of, 14:39 "It is beneath me to raise children, 14:42 it is beneath me to cook 14:43 because they've seen it taken advantage of." 14:48 Wow. Xavier? 14:50 I mean, that is just, like, they said it better than... 14:54 You know, Tim and everybody said it best, you know. 14:56 You don't see that nowadays, 14:57 you don't see women raising children. 15:00 I mean, yeah, given that in the society we live in, 15:02 a lot of times, it's almost a requirement 15:05 for a man and a woman to be in the working field, 15:09 but at the same time though, 15:11 you know, I can't avoid but saying Jesus in this 15:16 because He provides a perfect balance, you know. 15:20 There's nothing wrong with a woman 15:21 being in the working field, there's nothing wrong with, 15:24 you know, we see a lot of times the rules are reversed now 15:26 where the man stays home and takes care of the kids. 15:29 But I think there needs to be an equal playing field, 15:32 you know, for example, females in ministry, 15:35 you know, you have a lot of that now 15:37 where women want to be pastors, they're called to be pastors. 15:41 And you have a lot of men intimidated by that, you know. 15:44 And it's not, you know... 15:46 You have to be supportive, like, 15:48 you know, my wife in ministry, 15:50 I'm very supportive of who she is 15:51 and what she wants to do, what she is called to do. 15:54 And I think we need to really, really hone down 15:56 and really latch onto Jesus now more than ever 16:00 when it comes to understanding the role 16:03 that a woman plays in a man's life. 16:08 So across the board, for all women, 16:10 whether they are a wife, whether they are a mother, 16:13 whether they're just a single woman, 16:15 what is their calling? 16:19 Well, as for a mother, their calling is to, 16:26 you know, worry about their children 16:28 and preparing them for, you know, the kingdom. 16:34 You know, they say that... 16:35 Well, Ellen White says that 16:37 we're supposed to teach our children obedience. 16:40 That is the first teaching. 16:42 And when we do that, we're teaching... 16:45 If they can obey the parents, they can obey God. 16:49 So I believe that, as a woman, a mother, 16:53 even if she's a single mother, 16:56 her job is to fit her kids for the kingdom. 17:01 I think, as you gain more responsibilities, 17:05 your role will change. 17:07 A wife with no kids 17:09 is probably different than a wife with kids. 17:10 A single woman with no family, 17:12 I'm sure, her life is different 17:14 than a woman who is married and vice versa. 17:17 But I think the ultimate goal of a woman, a Christian woman, 17:21 regardless of any stage in her life 17:23 is to reflect the image of Jesus. 17:25 You know, if you go back to the Bible, 17:27 that's the original goal and the original tenet of man. 17:29 And if that is her goal to reflect the image of Jesus, 17:33 then when she goes to him, all her other "roles" 17:37 are going to fall into place and fall into line 17:40 and no matter what she thinks she has 17:42 or hasn't been called to do, she's going to submit to, 17:45 you know, the one who is altogether lovely 17:47 and follow His way instead of her plans. 17:50 I think, the Bible says, you know, 17:53 God created woman to be a helpmeet, 17:56 but a lot of times, 17:58 we confuse that with the scripture that says, 18:00 you know, I'll make your enemies my footstool. 18:02 And a lot of times, 18:03 we treat women as though they're footstools. 18:05 And they're not, they're helpmeets. 18:07 You know, they're supposed to be... 18:09 We're supposed to be a team mate, you know. 18:10 We're a team, we're not, you know, 18:13 at odds against each other, we're a team. 18:15 And I think, you know, in any field, 18:18 in any career, any calling, 18:20 whether you're single or you're married, 18:23 you know, you're called to be a helper. 18:26 You know, you should be proud of yourself for being born, 18:31 for being created by God 18:33 because He created you with a special purpose to be a help, 18:36 not a hindrance, not an oppression, 18:38 not an anchor, but a help. 18:40 And I think too, you know, that plays a role in 18:44 who you become as well, understanding that, 18:46 you know, you're a helpmeet 18:48 and that is one of the primary callings 18:51 for a woman to be a helper, 18:52 to help, to be part of something greater 18:54 beyond herself. 18:56 And I would also add to what Tim was saying, 19:00 a woman, across the board, her calling is to love 19:03 and to serve God with her whole heart, 19:06 to reflect His image, 19:07 to move forward into whatever it is 19:10 He has created her to do. 19:12 And each woman is different, and that's why each woman 19:15 has to have their own relationship with Christ. 19:18 It cannot be based on... 19:20 I cannot base my journey on Myesha. 19:25 She has her own relationship with Christ. 19:27 I have my own relationship with Christ. 19:29 And He is the one that lets me know how should I move forward. 19:33 So another question is, 19:35 "What do married women need?" 19:43 A meek and quiet spirit. 19:47 You know, married women, 19:49 they need a husband 19:55 who is not oppressive, 19:57 who is not overbearing but, like the Bible says, 20:01 loves his wife like his own body 20:02 and cherishes her, and brings her... 20:06 and nurtures her and brings her up. 20:09 I think they also need a man 20:12 that's going to be there to love them, you know. 20:16 In marriage, a lot of times, love is taken for granted 20:19 because you are married, 20:20 because you guys have committed your life, 20:22 there is no intention on showing that love. 20:26 And you have to be very intentional 20:28 about showing that love 20:30 and understanding the love language of your wife 20:31 because you might be showing love in your own way 20:34 but you need to show it in the way 20:35 she receives it the best. 20:39 Very good. 20:40 I'd also add, married women desperately, 20:42 desperately need their husbands to be the priest of the home. 20:46 He has to be the priest of the home, 20:49 not he just comes in and says, "I'm the man" 20:52 but he really calls her and says, "Honey, let's pray. 20:55 Looks like you're stressed right now." 20:57 He opens up the Word and he says, 20:59 "Let's read the scripture." 21:00 Says, "Let's do a little Bible study together." 21:02 He draws her closer and closer to Christ 21:04 because of who he is. 21:07 I think too, you know, 21:09 reminded me of the Book of Proverbs, 21:10 that infamous proverbial woman, but with all that, 21:14 I think one verse is towards the end where, 21:17 you know, she needs a husband 21:20 that will praise her at the city gates, 21:22 you know, that would be proud of who she is. 21:25 Ephesians, you know, she needs a husband 21:28 that's going to be able to present her before Christ, 21:31 blameless, spotless, without blemish, 21:35 you know, or just purified by the blood of Christ. 21:38 And that's where you say, 21:39 you know, the priest of the home, 21:41 it's very critical, you know, that a woman 21:43 has that spiritual support system in the home 21:47 because spiritual support system 21:49 equates to emotional, psychological, 21:52 you know, it's a holistic... 21:53 When you have a spiritual support system, 21:54 it provides a holistic support 21:56 that the woman desperately needs. 21:58 And I think, you know, a lot of us men, 22:02 we try our best and we continue to try, 22:04 you know, and that's a struggle. 22:08 I think that's like, you know, it's just key and crucial 22:11 for the man to understand what a woman needs, 22:14 a man to understand his role in the home as the priest, 22:18 as the one that... 22:20 A woman's supposed to be spiritual 22:22 and have her own relationship with Christ. 22:23 But as that union's come together, 22:25 it's his primary role to lead that family 22:28 to the most holy place into the presence of Jesus. 22:31 And it's extra, 22:33 you know, a woman who knows she has a man like that, 22:35 she knows that if there's anything wrong, 22:37 she can go on her knees and pray to the Lord, 22:39 "Lord, you need to help your son 22:41 or I help him with something else." 22:42 Fix it. 22:44 And she knows that either later on that night 22:47 or at least that morning, he's going to go talk to Jesus, 22:51 you know, and Jesus is going to tell him 22:53 the things that need to happen to keep the home safe, 22:56 and he's the spiritual leader in the home 22:59 and the same in the church. 23:01 And men need to stand up 23:02 and start being spiritual leaders 23:04 and guide the church into the haven 23:08 that God is called to lead them in. 23:10 So, so true. 23:11 And as we move forward a little bit more, 23:13 what women need spiritually, 23:15 they need to be able to go to God honestly 23:18 with whatever is on their heart. 23:21 Realize that you can go to God with whatever is on your heart. 23:25 And if your husband is acting crazy, 23:28 you can say, "Lord, fix your child. 23:30 I've done it before." 23:32 And the next morning, he's like, I just spoke to God 23:35 and he told me this, 23:36 and you're like, "Thank you, Jesus. 23:37 Thank you for fixing your child." 23:39 But honestly, on a serious note, 23:41 you can go to God with whatever is bothering you. 23:45 And women need to understand that spiritually, 23:48 and they also need renewal 23:50 because we go through so much crazy things 23:52 throughout the course of the day, 23:53 even as a single woman, 23:55 as a married woman, as a mother, 23:56 you go through so many different things. 23:59 And spiritually, you want that renewal, 24:01 you want to be able to read the Bible 24:04 and feel refreshed that you can be 24:06 able to just push forward just a little bit more. 24:08 Amen. Little bit more. 24:10 If I can say one thing about women going to God 24:13 and baring all, a lot of times 24:15 and especially in a lot of movies in society, 24:18 I think women are taught 24:19 that they're supposed to unburden all their problems to, 24:22 you know, maybe another woman or vent 24:25 or, you know, get it out, speaking to somebody that way, 24:28 but their problem really doesn't get solved. 24:30 But when they go to Jesus, it's always a transaction. 24:33 You give him the burdens, 24:35 He gives you the peace, you know. 24:36 You give Him your sin, 24:37 He gives you your righteousness. 24:39 And that renewal you were talking about, 24:41 that they can find 24:42 and know that they have a best friend in Jesus as well. 24:45 Good, good, good. 24:47 So to focus in a little bit on the different types of women, 24:51 in my mind, there's three main types. 24:52 You have a mother, you have a married woman, 24:57 and you have a single woman. 24:59 And for each one, let's go... Let's start first with mother. 25:02 What is a mother's role? Most important role. 25:08 Go ahead, go ahead. I know you got something. 25:11 The most important role as a mother, 25:15 like I said before, is to train up a child, 25:20 you know, train up her child for a higher being like, 25:23 you know, to, like I said, get fit for the kingdom. 25:26 That is the mother's role, to teach and love her children. 25:32 And, you know, to... You know, to... 25:37 Basically, she has precious moments, 25:41 you know, she needs to know 25:43 and know that it's a privilege to even be a mother, 25:47 you know, that it's a gift from God, 25:49 that God gave her something that is so important 25:52 and treasured to Him, that He gave it to us 25:55 to do what we're supposed to do, 25:58 what He called mothers to do. 26:02 And I think another role of mothers is to raise warriors. 26:07 You know, behind every great man in the Bible 26:09 and behind every great man currently, 26:11 there was a mother that was there to raise him. 26:13 Moses did not raise himself. Elijah did not raise himself. 26:18 Jesus did not raise Himself. 26:20 You had a woman there who was willing to sacrifice 26:25 and to give her time and to give her love 26:27 and to give her energy to invest in a warrior. 26:29 And I think that's such a high calling that women have. 26:33 And also, as mothers, they need to feel validated. 26:36 And as I go into a wife, 26:39 her role is to be her husband's equal, 26:41 to respect him, and in return, 26:44 her husband needs to show her appreciation, 26:47 to care for her, 26:49 and to let her know that everything 26:50 that she does throughout the day is not in vain. 26:53 And as a single woman, 26:57 she needs to be focused on her relationship with God 27:01 in that in being able to do 27:03 whatever it is that God has placed on her heart, 27:05 she has that more freedom 27:07 to be able to probably go down the street 27:10 and help with the homeless. 27:12 She has that freedom because she doesn't have a child 27:14 holding on her leg or anything like that. 27:18 And there are so many things that women do need, 27:21 but we're running out of time. 27:25 And in a nutshell, I would say, 1 Peter 3:3-4. 27:31 "Do not let your adorning be external, 27:33 the braiding of hair 27:34 and the putting on of gold jewelry 27:36 or the clothing you wear, 27:37 but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart, 27:41 with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit 27:45 which in God's sight is very precious." 27:48 What women need isn't external, it's internal. 27:52 And what they need 27:53 is not based on what they're doing but their being. 27:57 Please remember to make pure choices. |
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