Spring Camp Meeting

Honor Your Parents--Commandment #5

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00:46 LIBERTY. >> GOD'S LAW WRITTEN WITH HIS
00:49 OWN FINGER REVEALS HIS LOVE AND LIBERTYING POWER.
00:54 HE WANTS TO WRITE THAT LAW IN OUR HEARTS.
01:07 SNOWED SNOWED COME TO IT JESUS♪
01:09 ♪ COME TO JESUS. >> TODAY I WOULD LIKE TO FOCUS
01:12 ON THE THIRD COMAMEDMENT. THOUSAND SHALL NOT TAE THE
01:17 LAID OF THE NAME OF GORD IN VAIN.
01:23 THE GLORY OF THE NAME THE MOST SACRED TRUST AND HE HAS GIVEN
01:28 TO TRUST TO US. WHOO!
01:43 WHEN YOU ARE STUDYING THE FOURTH COMMANDMENT YOU ARE
01:46 CONSIDERING THE IMPORTANCE AND SIGNIFICANCE EVER THE
01:49 ESTABLISHED COMMANDMENT. YOU CANNOT SEPARATE THE
01:54 CREATOR FROM THE SABBATH. >> GOD WILL HELP TO YOU KEEP
01:59 THE SABBATH IF YOU MAKE A STAND.
02:02 HE WANTS TO SPEND TA TIME WITH YOU ON THE SABBATH.
02:09 >> HELLO AND WELCOME TO 3ABN SPRING CAMP MEETING 2019.
02:14 LAW OF LOVE AND LIBERTY. WE HAVE BEEN HAVING AN
02:18 INCREDIBLE TIME, HAVE WE NOT? PRAISE THE LORD.
02:21 WE ARE SO GLAD THAT YOU HAVE JOINED US AT HOME AS WELL.
02:24 THANK YOU FOR YOUR PRAYERS AND SUPPORT OF THE MINISTRY OF
02:28 3ABN. WE ARE ON COMMANDMENT NO. 5.
02:32 HONOR YOUR FATHER AND YOUR MOTHER.
02:34 THE MESSAGE TODAY WILL BE BROUGHT TO US BY MY PASTOR,
02:38 PASTOR JOHN LOMACANG. HE IS A STUDENT OF THE WORD
02:41 AND A MAN WHO LOVES GOD AND PEOPLE.
02:43 AND I KNOW YOU WILL BE BLESSED BY THE MESSAGE.
02:46 BEFORE HE COMES, WE'LL HEAR FROM OUR FRIEND TIM PAR TIN,
02:51 WHO IS THE GENERAL MANAGER OF 3ABN PRAISE AND MUSIC
02:54 NETWORKEN THE SONG HE WILL BE PLAYING IS SOFTLY AND
02:59 TENDERLY. THE NEXT VOICE WILL YOU HEAR
03:01 IS THAT OF OUR PASTOR, JOHN LOMACANG.
03:17 [♪♪] HOW APPROPRIATE IS THAT IT
05:37 SONG? THANK YOU SO MUCH, TIM.
05:38 IT'S ALL ABOUT THE HOME AND WHAT THE LORD WANTS US TO DO
05:42 AS IT RELATES TO THE HOME. BOW YOUR HEADS WITH ME AS I
05:48 ASK THE LORD TO GIVE ME WHAT I DON'T HAVE.
05:55 FATHER IN HEAVEN, THIS IS NOW AN OPPORTUNITY FOR MAN, BUT AN
06:02 ASSIGNMENT FOR GOD. I PRAY THAT WILL YOU TAKE MY
06:07 MIND AND GLORIFY YOUR NAME, SPEAK TO THE CHILDREN AND
06:10 SPEAK TO IT THE PARENTS. MAY THEY FIND THE RESTORATION
06:16 THAT IN THE END WE WILL LISTEN TO THE VOICE OF GOD, AND COME
06:22 HOME. IN JESUS NAME I PRAY.
06:26 AMEN. IT'S BEEN DIFFICULT NOT TO
06:30 SING, BUT TO HAVE THE VOICE IS A GOOD TRADEOFF.
06:39 A GOD'S COMMANDMENT, CHAPTER 20, VERSE 12.
06:45 HONOR THY FATHER AND THAI MOTHER.
06:50 THE DAYS MAY BE LONG UPON THE LAND WHICH THE LORD THY GOD
06:57 GIVEETH THEE. IF YOU THINK THE SABBATH IS
07:02 ONE OF THE MOST OVERLOOKED COMMANDMENTS, CONSIDER THE
07:08 EVIDENCE. ACCORDING TO THE JOURNAL OF
07:12 INTERPERSONAL VIOLENCE, AN ARTICLE FIRST PUBLISHED
07:16 DECEMBER 12, 2017, UNDER THE TITLE "RISK AND PROTECTIVE
07:20 FACTORS OF CHILD TO PARENT VIOLENCE."
07:25 SITES A COMPARISON BETWEEN PHYSICAL AND VERBAL
07:28 AGGRESSION. THE OFFICE IS POINTED OUT
07:32 CHILD TO PARENT VIOLENCE, KNOWN AS CPV, WAS A SOCIAL
07:38 PROBLEM THAT REMAINS VASTLY UNDER-STUDIED COMPARED WITH
07:42 OTHER FORMS OF FAMILY VIOLENCE.
07:46 SO, LADIES AND GENTLEMEN, THE CURTAIN WILL RISE ON THE WORLD
07:51 PREMIER OF THE EPIC BLOCK BOSTER 4K IMAX MOVIE CALLED
07:58 PARENTICIDE. THIS MOVIE WILL FAVOR CHANGE
08:00 YOUR VIEW OF THE AGE OF INNOCENCE AND RESPECT.
08:05 BECAUSE THERE THE NAMES HAVE NOT BEEN CHANGED TO PROTECT
08:09 THE INNOCENT. BECAUSE THEY ARE ARE NO LONGER
08:12 INNOCENT. THE ACT OF KILLING A PARENT OR
08:16 CLOSE RELATIVE IS WHAT PARENTICIDE IS.
08:22 DISHONOR YOUR PARENTS, YOUR FATHER AND YOUR MOTHER S THE
08:24 EDITED VERSION OF THE FIFTH COMMANDMENT.
08:30 PARACI D E IS BECOMING THE PREFERRED CRIME AMONG
08:36 MILLENNIALS. DERIVED FROM LATIN MEANING
08:39 KILLER OF A CLOSE R. OR PARA DEFINES KINZMEN AND CIDE, ONE
08:48 THAT IN ORDER TO FATHER OR MOTHER OR A CLOSE RELATIVE IS
08:56 PARACIDE. THAT WAS THE FIRST CRIME WHEN
08:58 CAIN KILLED ABEL. IT WAS CATAPULTED IN LATE
09:05 1989. THE MODERN PORTRAYAL OF
09:07 SENSELESS VIOLENCE GRIMED THE ATTENTION OF HOUSEHOLDS
09:10 PASTING EVERYONE TO THE EVENING NEWS.
09:13 YOU MAY REMEMBER IT VERY WELL.
09:16 AN AUGUST 29 -- AUGUST 20, 1989, AT AROUND MIDNIGHT, THE
09:21 BEVERLY HILLS POLICE RECEIVED A 9-1-1 CALL FROM LYLE
09:26 MENENDEZ. ERIC AND LYLE SAID THEY HAD
09:29 RETURNED HOME AFTER GOING TO THE MOVIES AND FOUND THEIR
09:31 PARENTS DELD IN THE FAMILY ROOM OF THEIR HOME.
09:34 BOTH PARENTS HAD BEEN BRUTALLY SHOT WITH A 12 GAUGE SHOTGUN.
09:39 THE FATHER'S HEAD WAS DECAP TASTED -- DECAPITATED FROM THE
09:45 BLAST. SEVEN MONTHS INTO THE
09:50 INVESTIGATION, SMITH CONTACTED THE BEVERLY HILLS POLICE
09:52 DEPARTMENT AND INFORMED THEM THAT THERAPIST, DR. JEROME HAD
10:00 AUDIO TAPES OF LYLE AND ERIC MENENDEZ CONFESSING TO THE
10:02 MURDER OF THEIR PARENTS. SHE PROVIDED THEM INFORMATION
10:06 ON WHERE THE SHOTGUN WAS PURCHASED AND THAT MENENDEZ
10:10 BROTHERS HAD THREATENED TO KILL THE DOCTOR IF HE WENT TO
10:14 THE POLICE. ON JULY 2, 1996, ERIC AND LYLE
10:18 MENENDEZ WERE SENTENCED TO LIFE IN PRISON WITHOUT THE
10:22 POSSIBILITY OF PAROLE. THE RECOLLECTION OF THE
10:26 MENENDEZ CRIME GIVES BITH TO THE QUESTION, LISTEN
10:30 CAREFULLY. WAS THAT THE ONLY WAY THAT AN
10:31 18 AND 21-YEAR-OLD COULD RESOLVE FAMILY ISSUES?
10:35 IF YOU WERE THAT ANGRY, WHY NOT MOVE OUT AND GET YOUR OWN
10:40 LIFE? DID YOU HAVE TO DECAPITATE
10:43 YOUR PARENTS TO FIND FREEDOM IN YOUR OWN CHOICES?
10:49 THE AMONG THE FAMILY IN NOAH'S DAYS WAS QUITE DIFFERENT.
10:55 EXODUS, I'M SURE THE YOUNG PEOPLE TODAY ARE GLAD WE DON'T
10:58 LIVE LIKE THEY DID BACK THEN. LISTEN TO THE WORD OF GOD.
11:04 EXODUS, 15 AND 17. HE WHO STRIKES HIS NEAR OR HIS
11:09 MOTHER WILL SURELY BE PUT TO DEATH.
11:11 HOW MANY FAMILIES WOULD BE SHRINKINGBY THE MINUTE?
11:16 SHERIDAN MORAIS 17. HE WHO CURSES HIS FATHER OR
11:20 HIS MOTHER WILL SURELY BE PUT TO DEATH.
11:22 IT WILL BE SETTLING TO SAY THAT THE MENENDEZ CRIME WAS
11:28 THE LAST PARACIDE. BUT SUCH IS NOT THE CASE.
11:33 CHILD TO PARENT VIOLENCE IS GROWING STATISTIC IN THIS AGE.
11:40 PARACIDE IS THE SCRIPTURE OF EVIDENCE WE ARE LIVING?
11:42 THE LAST DAYS. FEATURING AN ARTICLE
11:48 DECEMBER 22, 2015, WRITTEN BY A MAN BY THE NAME OF JIM GOAD
11:54 TOTALED "KILLER KIDS." 14 CASES OF CHILDREN MURING
11:58 THEIR PARENTS. THE YOUNGEST WAS 12 AND 13.
12:01 ONE OF THE STORIES CATALOGS A BOY 14 YEARS OLD.
12:04 HE CAME HOME. TOOK A SHOWER.
12:06 GOT HIS HAIR CUT. GOT A GUN, WENT TO THE KITCHEN
12:11 AND MURDERED HIS ENTIRE FAMILY.
12:14 THESE CRIMES ARE TOO HIDEOUS TO REPEAT IN DETAIL.
12:19 THE DETAILS WOULD NAUSEATE YOU.
12:25 THIS CONDITION IS NO SURPRISE TO GOD.
12:27 THE APOSTLE PAUL, UNFOLDS THE DEGRADATION OF OUR AGE.
12:33 BUT KNOW THIS, HE SAYS, THAT IN THE LAST DAYS PERILOUS
12:40 TIMES WILL COME. LET MY SAY THAT A DIFFERENT
12:43 WAY. PERILOUS TIMES HAVE COME.
12:45 MEN WILL BE LOVERS OF THEMSELVES.
12:48 LOVERS OF MONEY. BOLSTERS PRIDE, BLASPHEMERS.
12:57 DISOBEDIENCE TO PARENTS. UNTHANKFUL, UNHOLY.
13:01 HELP ME HOLY GHOST. UNLOVING, UNFORGIVING,
13:08 SLANDERERS, WITHOUT SELF-CONTROL.
13:10 PAUL WILL SAY SOMETHING RIGHT THERE.
13:11 WHEN I WAS RAISED, I WAS RAISED BY INDIANSEN THE ONLY
13:15 ONE IN DAMAGER OF GETTING KILLED WAS -- IN DANGER OF
13:20 GETTING KILLED WAS ME. WHEN I SAW MUHAMMAD ALI FIGHT,
13:25 I THOUGHT HE WAS FROM TRINIDAD.
13:27 I REMEMBER SEEING THAT LEFT HOOK IN MY HOME ON SEVERAL
13:30 OCCASIONS. THE THOUGHT OF INJURING MY
13:33 PARENTS WOULD NEVER ENTER MY MIND.
13:35 MY MOTHER HAD A LOOK LOUDER THAN HER VOICE.
13:39 I BEGAN TO SCALE THROUGH SOME OF THE CULTURES IN AMERICA.
13:42 I MUST SAY IN 2019 THAT SOME OF YOU NEED TO GO TO THE WEST
13:46 WITH INDIES TO GET PARENTAL TRAINING.
13:51 SOME PEOPLE SAY COUNSEL YOUR CHILDREN.
13:52 I GOT COUNSELED BUT THAT WAS THE PRECURSOR TO PUNISHMENT
13:56 WHICH WAS THE PRECURSE OR TO CORPORAL PUNISHMENTS.
14:05 FOOLISHNESS IS BOUND IN THE HEART OF A CHILD APPEAR LOT OF
14:07 CORRECTION WILL DRIVE IT FAR FROM HIM.
14:09 SOME OF YOU LEARNED IN JOHN 3:16 AS YOUR FIRST TEXT.
14:13 THAT WAS MY FIRST TEXT. FOR WHATEVER REASON BY PARENTS
14:16 SAID "THIS IS GOING TO HURT ME MORE THAN IT WILL HURT YOU."
14:21 WITHOUT SELF CONTROL. WHEN I WAS GOING TO RUN AWAY
14:24 FROM HOME, I ONLY TOLD MY GERMAN SHEPHERD GOD.
14:28 IF I TOLD MY PARENTS, THEY WOULD BEAT ME INTO REALITY.
14:33 WITHOUT SELF-CONTROL, BRUTAL. I COULDN'T EVEN THINK OF
14:39 TALKING BACK TO MY MOTHER. WHAT THIS WORLD HAS DONE HAS
14:45 TAKEN AUTHORITY OUT OF THE HAND OF THE PARENTS AND GIVEN
14:48 CHILDREN THE UNRESTRAINED, UNCONSCIOUS NEGLIGENCE OF
14:53 THINKING THAT SOMEHOW THEY ARE MORE INTELLECTUAL AND
14:56 QUALIFIED THAN THEIR PARENTS. BRUTAL.
15:02 DESPISE THOSE THAT ARE GOOD. TRAITORS, HEADSTRONG.
15:05 TRY TO TELL YOUNG PEOPLE NOWADAYS TO DO SOMETHING.
15:09 HAUGHTY. LOVERS OF PLEASURE RAHER THAN
15:12 LOVERS OF GOD. HAVING A FORM OF GODLINESS,
15:15 BUT DENYING ITS POWER AND FROM SUCH THE APOSTLE SAYS IS, TURN
15:20 AWAY. THE LOVERS OF PLEASURE HAVE
15:23 MERGED WITH TOSE THAT ARE DISOBEDIENT TO PARENTS.
15:27 TO THE EVIDENCE. PUBLISHED MAY 3rd BY THE
15:30 DAILY MAIL. A YOUNG BOY SAID IICALED MY
15:34 MOTHER WITH A .22 CALIBER. A 9-1-1 CALL, THE BOY TRIED TO
15:40 RAPE AND THEN SHOOT HIS MOTHER TO DEATH.
15:43 YOU KNOW WHY, FOR TAKING AWAY HIS VIDEO GAME "CALL TO
15:49 DUTY: ON WAR GAME." MISSISSIPPI NEWS, WATT,
15:55 REPORTED A 14-YEAR-OLD BOY AND 12-YEAR-OLD SISTER ARRESTED,
15:59 AFRICAN-AMERICAN TEENAGER. FOR STABBING AND SHOOTING
16:03 THEIR MOTHER TO DEATH. A BRUTAL PAYBACK AFTER THEY
16:05 WERE PUNISHED -- GET THIS -- FOR TRYING TO RUN HER OVER
16:09 WITH THE FAMILY CAR. NEIGHBORS AND OFFICIALS IN
16:13 MISSISSIPPI SAID THE PIKE COUNTY MISSISSIPPI TEENS'
16:16 MURDERED THEIR 32-YEAR-OLD MOTHER BECAUSE SHE TOOK THEIR
16:19 CELL PHONES AWAY AFTER THEY TRIED TO RUN HER OVER.
16:26 I WOULD HATE TO TELL YOU WHAT WOULD HAPPEN IN MY HOUSE.
16:31 THE DAILY BEAT CONTINUES THIS ATROCITY.
16:36 THE HEADLINES "ALL I WANTED TO BE WAS A MOM."
16:39 PARENTS MURDERED BY AN 11-YEAR-OLD ADOPTED CHILD.
16:44 AFTER DISCOVERING THE BODIES OF THE 50-YEAR-OLD ADOPTIVE
16:47 MOTHER AND FATHER, THE LAW ENFORCEMENT AGENCY RESPONDED.
16:50 THEY SAID, I THINK IT GOES WITHOUT SAYING THAT THIS IS AN
16:57 INCREDIBLE TRAGEDY. AN INCIDENT WITH AN
17:00 11-YEAR-OLD CHILD PREDATOR AND TWO ADULT VICTIMS INVOLVED.
17:04 A YOUNG GIRL BY THE NAME OF MARINA TRIED TO
17:08 PSYCHOLOGICALLY GIVE HER PARENTS REASON WHY THEY SHOULD
17:11 GIVE HER MORE AUTHORITY AND FREEDOM IN THEIR HOME.
17:14 SHE SAID, PARENTS ALSO NEED TO REALIZE THAT ALL TEENAGERS ARE
17:19 REBELS. CAN WE SAY AMEN.
17:22 HER REASONING GOES OFF FROM HERE.
17:24 IF WE DO MAKE MISTAKES THAT'S HOW WE'RE GOING TO LEARN, BUT
17:28 SOME CHILDREN DON'T SURVIVE THE MISTAKES THEY MAKE.
17:32 SHE SAID, MY MOM SEES DANGER WHERE THERE AREN'T ANY.
17:36 YOU KNOW WHY? BECAUSE THE EYES ARE TRAINED.
17:39 COME ON, MOTHERS, SAY AMEN. THE YOUNG LADY SAID, EVEN IF
17:43 YOU THINK A CERTAIN MIGHT NOT BE GOOD FOR US, WE NEED TO
17:48 FIGURE IT OUT FOR OURSELVES SOMETIMES.
17:50 MY MOTHER SAID SMELL A RAT BEFORE THEY WALK IN THE HOUSE.
17:55 SHE WOULD SAY, HE AIN'T NO GOOD.
17:59 DISTANCE YOURSELF. I'M ALIVE TODAY BECAUSE I TOOK
18:02 THAT COUNSEL.-I WANT TO KEEP GOING. WHAT IS YOUR PARENTAL
18:06 RESPONSIBILITY. I TOLD THE STORY OF INDIANS
18:11 GUIDING COWBOYS THROUGH THE-NIGHT. THE COWBOYS, HOW COULD THEY
18:17 FIND THEIR WAY THROUGH THIS JUNGLE AS IT WERE OF
18:21 INVISIBILITY? THE INDIANS SAID WE DON'T HAVE
18:24 BETTER EYES THAN YOU BUT WE DO SOMETHING THAT YOU COWBOYS
18:26 FAIL TO DO. WE PLANT TREES IN THE DESSERT
18:29 AND BEND THEM WHEN THEY ARE BENDABLE AND BEND THEM IN THE
18:33 DIRECTION WE WANT THEM TO POINT AT.
18:36 SO WHEN WE TOUCH THIS IT TREE AND IT SAYS GO THAT WAY AND WE
18:40 FOLLOW IT UNTIL WE SEE THE TREE THAT SAYS GO THIS WAY.
18:43 THEY SAID T THE COWBOYS, IF YOU DON'T DO IT WHEN THE TREE
18:45 IS YOUNG, IT IS UNBENDABLE WHEN IT GETS OLD.
18:50 PARENTAL RESPONSIBILITY OFTEN PUSHED OFF BECAUSE CHILDREN
18:54 DON'T WANT TO BE DISCIPLINED. THE BIBLE SAYS TRAIN UP A
18:58 KILLED IN THE WAY HE SHOULD GO.
19:02 TRAIN UP A CHILD IN THE WAY HE SHOULD GO.
19:05 THEN HE WILL NOT DEPART FROM IT.
19:07 THIS IS ALSO TRUE. SOME PARENTS IRRITATE
19:12 CHILDREN. THAT'S YOUR ONLY CHANCE TO SAY
19:16 AMEN. SOME PARENTS IRRITATE THEIR
19:18 CHILDREN. THEY STAY IN THEIR FACE ALL
19:20 THE TIME. THEY DON'T GIVE THEM ROOM TO
19:23 BREATHE. THE BIBLE SAYS IN COL OTIONS,
19:26 FATHERS, DO NOT PROVOKE YOUR CHILDREN LEST THEY BECOME
19:31 DISCOURAGED. DON'T ALWAYS MAKE THEM FEEL
19:33 THEY ARE FAILURES. SOME CHILDREN HAVE GROWN UP,
19:36 30, 40 YEARS LATER THEY CAN'T THINK STRAIGHT, BECAUSE ALL
19:40 THEY CAN HEAR IS THEIR PARENTS SAYING YOU WILL NOT AMOUNT TO
19:43 ANYTHING. YOU ARE NOT WORTH A HILL OF
19:46 BEANS. HAVING YOU AS A CHILD IS A
19:49 MISTAKE. DO NOT PROVOKE YOUR CHILDREN
19:51 LEFT THEY BECOME DISCOURAGED. MY DAD DID SOMETHING.
19:55 HE TAUGHT ME MY MULTIPLICATION TABLES, THEY SAID I WAS TOO
20:01 SMART FOR KINDERGARTEN. HELP ME.
20:02 THEY PUT ME IN FIRST GREAT. THEY SAID HE KNOWS MATH.
20:08 MATH BECAME ONE OF MY FAVORITE SUBJECTS.
20:11 MY SISTER, I TOLD MY SISTER WATCH.
20:13 SHE IS A RETIRED FIREFIGHTER IN NEW YORK CITY.
20:16 ON THE OTHER HAND, YOU REMEMBER THIS.
20:19 TAKE THE MULTIPLICATION TABLE AND BALL THEM UP AND THROW
20:22 THEM BEHIND THE SET. THEY SENDED UP WORKING AT A
20:26 BANK SO SHE DID GOOD LATER ON AND GOT A GOOD JOB AND RETIRED
20:30 COMFORTABLY. WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND, YOU
20:35 CANNOT DISCONNECT IT FROM THE INFLUENCE OF A MOTHER AND
20:38 FATHER. WHEN ISAAC WENT UP TO THE
20:43 MOUNT, HE WAS YOUNG ENOUGH AND STRONG ENOUGH TO.
20:51 ABRAHAM. HERE IS THE BLESSING.
20:53 WHEN CHILDREN ARE YOUNG, KEEP THEIR FUTURE AND YOUR FUTURE
20:58 IN MIND. PAGE 74, PARAGRAPH 2.
21:03 LOOK AT IT. THE EXAMPLE SET BY ISAAC,
21:07 PARENTS SHOULD NEVER LOSE SIGHT OF THEIR OWN
21:11 RESPONSIBILITY. SO THE FUTURE HAPPINESS OF
21:13 THEIR CHILDREN, ISAAC DEFERRING TO HIS FATHER'S
21:17 JUDGMENT WAS THE RESULT OF THE TRAINING THAT HE HAD TAUGHT
21:21 HIM TO LOVE A LIFE OF OBEDIENCE.
21:24 THAT DID NOT START WHEN HE WAS 15.
21:26 THAT STARTED WHEN HE WAS YOUNG.
21:29 VERY IMPORTANT. DON'T MISS THIS.
21:31 WHEN PARENTS TRAIN A CHILD WHILE THE CHILD IS YOUNG, A
21:34 CHILD WILL NOT DISRESPECT THE PARENT WHEN THEY ARE OLD.
21:41 IT CONTINUES, QUOTE NO. 2. PAGE 74.
21:46 PARAGRAPH 2. ISAAC WAS HIGHLY HONORED BY
21:50 GOD AND BEING MADE HEAD OF THE PROMISES TO WHICH THE WORLD
21:54 WAS TO BE BLESSED. LISTEN TO THIS.
21:57 YET WHEN HE WAS 40 YEARS OF AGE, HE DIDN'T HAVE TO DO IT,
22:02 HE SUBMITTED TO HIS FATHER'S JUDGMENT IN APPOINTING HIS
22:07 EXPERIENCE GOD-FEARING SERVANT TO CHOOSE A LIFE FOR HIM.
22:10 HE SAID DADDY, IS THIS THE WOMAN THAT IS GOOD FOR ME?
22:16 HOW MUCH HEARTACHE WOULD CHILDREN SAVE THEMSELVES THAT
22:20 THEY WOULD SUBMIT TO TO THE AUTHORITY AND WISDOM AND
22:22 EXPERIENCE OF THEIR PARENTS AND SAY, MOM S THIS A GOOD
22:26 HUSBAND FOR ME? DAD, IS THIS A GOOD WIFE FOR
22:30 ME? WHEN I WAS MARRYING MY
22:33 GIRLFRIEND, WE DATED OFF AND ON FOR NINE YEARS.
22:36 GOD IS PATIENT. ONE DAY AN OLDER BROTHER
22:41 PULLED ME SILED AND SAID ARE YOU GOING TO DATE MY SISTER
22:44 FOREVER. I THOUGHT HE WAS HAVING A BAD
22:45 DAY. I NOTICE HIS JAMAICAN SMILE
22:49 WAS MISSING. SHE HAD FIVE JAMAICAN
22:51 BROTHERS. I WANT TO SAY TO YOU TODAY
22:54 JAMAICAN BROTHERS ARE NOT BROTHERS, THEY ARE BROTHERS ON
22:57 STEROIDS. HE SAID, ARE YOU GOING TO DATE
23:00 HER OR MARRY HER? WHICH ONE WILL IT BE?
23:05 I SAID -- [LAUGHTER]
23:07 >> HE SAID WHEN. >> I SAID "NEXT MONTH."
23:13 >> THAT'S 36 YEARS AGO. AMEN TO BROTHERS.
23:16 SO THE JOKE IN OUR FAMILY, HER BROTHER PROPOSED AND I
23:21 ACCEPTED. [LAUGHTER]
23:28 >> NOTHING WRONG WITH A LITTLE BIT OF ENCOURAGEMENT.
23:32 WHILE I'M GETTING ALL THE PROP TO SEE ISAAC AND BE A RA HAM
23:38 AND SARAH AND REBECCA. GOD SHOWS WHEN YOU RESPECT
23:41 YOUR PARENTS THEY MAKE PROVISIONS FOR YOU IN YOUR OLD
23:44 AGE. EYE SUCCESS AND REBECCA, THEY
23:48 WERE BURIED IN THE FAMILY PLOT NEXT TO ABRAHAM AND SASH AW.
23:53 THAT WAS -- SARAH. THAT IS WHEN IT WAS THE STAPLE
23:56 OF THE FAMILY. LET ME NOT TOO QUICKLY UPSET
23:59 YOUR VIEW OF REBECCA. LET ME BALANCE THE PICTURE.
24:03 YOU MAY REMEMBER, IT WAS REBECCA THAT CONJURED UP THE
24:10 PLAN TO STEAL ESOP'S BIRTHRIGHT.
24:13 I WANT TO TELL YOU -- LET ME NOT GO TOO QUICKLY.
24:19 THE BIBLE SAYS REBECCA SAID THIS TO HER SON JACOB.
24:24 NOW, OBEY MY VOICE ACCORDING TO WHAT I COMMAND YOU.
24:27 NOTICE THE PROBLEM. WHAT I COMMAND YOU.
24:29 NOT WHAT GOD COMMANDS YOU. SHE TOOK GOD'S WORD AND PUSHED
24:34 IT ASIDE TEMPORARILY. I WILL TELL YOU TODAY WE ARE
24:36 STILL THOUSANDS OF YEARS LATER VICTIMS IS OF AFTER DECISION
24:42 MADE BY A MOTHER WHO NAIFERRED ONE SON ABOVE THE OTHER.
24:47 ISAAC AND REBEKAH WERE A BEAUTIFUL LOVE STORY, IT WAS
24:52 REBECCA'S IDEA TO STEAL THE BIRTH AYE FROM ESAW.
24:56 FAVORITISM CAN SPLIT A FAMILY. WHEN A CHILD SENSES YOU LOVE
25:00 ONE ABOVE THE OTHER, THEY WILL SENSE THAT AND HOLD THAT.
25:04 THEY WLL CARVE THAT IN STONE. WHEN YOU GET OLD ENOUGH TO
25:07 NEED TEAR HELP, THEY WILL SAY GO CALL SOMEBODY ELSE.
25:11 DON'T ASK ME. YOU WERE NOT THERE FOR ME.
25:14 I'M NOT GOING TO BE THERE FOR YOU.
25:16 NO MATTER WHAT YOUR PARENT DOES, IT'S STILL YOUR
25:18 RESPONSIBILITY TO INVOKE THIS COMMANDMENT IN YOUR LIFE.
25:21 I WAS THE YOUNGEST OF THREE CHILDREN.
25:24 IN THE HOME I WAS RAISED IN, THE LADY AND THE MAN WERE NOT
25:29 MY NATURAL PARENTS. THEY TOOK ME ON BOARD WHEN
25:31 THEY WERE 50 YEARS OLD. I WAS ABANDONED AT 3 MONTHS
25:34 OLD. THEY BROUGHT A SON FROM TRIP
25:36 DID WHO WAS NOT THEIRS. THEY RAISED HIM.
25:39 THEY OFFERED HIM COLLEGE, HE BECAME AN ALCOHOLIC AND DIDN'T
25:43 WANT. IT MY SISTER WAS NEXT IN LINE,
25:46 THEY OFFERED TO PAY HER COLLEGE.
25:47 SHE DIDN'T WANT. IT WHEN I CAME UP, WE AIN'T
25:52 GIVING NOTHING TO YOU, LOOK AT WHAT YOUR SIBLINGS.
25:55 DID I WAS GOING TO IT THE LOCAL COLLEGE PLEADING.
25:58 HE SAID IS I'M NOT SENDING YOU ANYTHING.
26:01 GOD STILL HAD A PLAN. I BECAME A PASTOR WITHOUT
26:05 HAVING TO PAY FOR IT. GOD'S PLAN CAN NEVER BE
26:10 ALTERED OR CANCELED BASED ON LIFE'S CIRCUMSTANCES.
26:16 WHEN THAT MAN GOD OLD, I DIDN'T SAY, YOU DIDN'T PAY FOR
26:20 MY TUITION. I WAS THERE ON HIS CALL.
26:23 WHEN HE WAS HUNGRY, I FED HIM. I DROVE HIM WHATEVER HE WANTED
26:28 TO GO. I WAS THERE FOR HOLIDAYS.
26:29 WHEN HE DIDN'T HAVE SOMEBODY TO ENCOURAGE HIM, I WAS ON THE
26:32 PHONE. EVERY NEW YEAR'S EVE WHEN ITCH
26:34 COULD NOT BE THERE, I WAS ON CALIFORNIA TIME, HE WAS ON
26:38 EAST COAST TIME. I WOULD CALL, HE WOULD PICK UP
26:41 THE PHONE. "JUNIOR CONSTITUTION?
26:45 HE WOULD SAY HAPPY NEW YEAR. WHEN I GOT ORDAINED IN
26:50 DECEMBER OF 1995, THAT CHURCH WAG JAM PACKED AND I WAS
26:55 FILLED WITH TEARS. ID THAT MAN TO SEE WHM HIS
27:02 SELFLESSNESS DID FOR ME. SO YOU INDOLENT MISGUIDED
27:09 YOUTH, WAKE UP BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE.
27:13 THE FOOLISHNESS IN YOUR HARD AND SOMETIMES IT IS
27:19 IRREVERSIBLE WHEN YOU ARE LOCKED BEHIND BARS FACING A
27:21 LIFE SENTENCE. CHILDREN, OBEY YOUR PARENTS IN
27:27 THE LORD FOR THIS IS RIGHT. STOP BEING MOLDED BY THE
27:31 MEDIA. BECAUSE WHEN YOU ARE IN THE
27:33 EMERGENCY ROOM, THEY WILL NOT PAY YOUR BILL.
27:38 AND St. BROOK WOULD BE THERE TO HELP YOU.
27:41 INSTAGRAM WILL BE FON THAT FAST.
27:43 AIN'T NOBODY GOING TO BE TWEETING YOUR BILL.
27:49 ALSO, DON'T OVERLOOK YOUR PARENTS' WISDOM WHEN IT COMES
27:54 TO CHOOSING A COMPANION. LOOK AT THE THIRD QUOTATION.
27:57 I'M TELLING IT LIKE IT IS TODAY.
28:01 PAGE 74. PARAGRAPH 2.
28:02 A LONG PARAGRAPH. SHOULD A SON OR DAUGHTER
28:09 SELECT A COMPANION WITHOUT FIRST CONSULTING THE PARENT?
28:13 WHEN SUGE A STEP MUST MATERIAL EFFECT THE HAPPINESS OF
28:18 PARENTS THAT THEY HAVE ANY AFFECTION FOR THEIR CHILDREN.
28:24 SHOULD THAT CHILD NOT WITH STANDING THE COUNSEL AND
28:27 ENTREATIES OF HIS PARENTS PERSIST IN FOLLOWING HIS ONLY
28:31 COURSE? I ANSWER DECIDEDLY NO.
28:35 NOT IF HE NEVER MARRIES. SHE ENDS WITH THIS AMAZING
28:41 TWIST. WHY PARENTS, HOWEVER, WILL
28:43 NEVER SELECT COMPANIONS FOR THEIR CHILDREN WITHOUT RESPECT
28:47 TO THEIR WISHES. HOW DO YOU BALANCE THAT?
28:49 DON'T PICK A HUSBAND OR WIFE IF I DON'T WANT THAT ONE.
28:52 BUT IF YOU WANT THAT ONE, I WILL LET YOU PICK THEM.
28:56 THERE IS SOMETHING CALLED SEED AND FRUIT.
29:00 WHENEVER YOU SEW YOU GONNA REAP.
29:04 IF YOU WANT A KNUCKLEHEAD, YOU'LL HAVE THAT KNUCKLEHEAD
29:07 ALL YOUR LIFE. SOMETIMES GIRLS WILL MARY A
29:13 GUY BECAUSEE SMELLS GOOD. SHE FALLS INTO ILL REPUTE AND
29:18 THAT'S THE MOMENT SHE WANTS TO GO BACK HOME.
29:21 WHEN A CHILD DETERMINES TO MAKE HER OR HIS OWN CHOICE,
29:26 THE SEED YOU SEW IS THE PLANT YOU WILL PICK.
29:30 SO MANY YOUNG CHILDREN MAKE DECISIONS BASED ON WHAT A
29:35 PERSON LOOKS LIKE ON THE INTERNET.
29:37 THAT'S HOWEVER THE MEN SET UP YOUNG GIRLS.
29:40 FOOL THEM. GET THEM ALL STIRRED UP IN
29:43 THEIR EMOTIONS. WHEN THEY MEET THEM, THEY ARE
29:46 IN A HELL WHICH THEY CANNOT RELEASE THEMSELVES.
29:50 THE CONTEMPORARY SEEDS OF THIS -- LET ME READ PRO VERBALS.
29:58 HERE IS THE POINT. HERE IS WHY YOUNG PEOPLE NEED
30:01 THIS PARENTAL GUIDANCE. FOR BY CHOICE COUNSEL YOU WILL
30:04 WAGE YOUR OWN WAR. THAT MEANS IF YOU TAKE
30:08 COUNSEL, THE BATTLE WILL BE FOUGHT BEFORE YOU GET INTO THE
30:11 MARRIAGE AND YOU WILL WIN. AND IN A MULTITUDE OF COUNSEL
30:15 THERE IS, WHAT, SAFETY. THAT YOUR PASTOR AND YOUR
30:20 TEACHER AND YOUR UNCLE AND YOUR AUNT AND MOTHER AND
30:23 FATHER ARE SAYING THAT'S NOT A GOOD IDEA.
30:24 YOU SAY "THAT'S WHAT I WANT." YOU GONNA GET WHAT YOU WANT.
30:31 BUT THAT HAPPENED BY COINCIDENCE.
30:33 THE CONTEMPORARY SEED OF IGNORING PARENTAL AUTHORITY
30:40 WITH SONGS LIKE "PARENTS JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND" PERFORMED BY
30:45 D.J. JAZZY JEFF AND THE FRESH PRINCE OF BELLAIRE.
30:50 THE PROBLEM WITH SOLOMON. A WISE SON MAKES A GLAD
30:54 FATHER. BUT A FOOLISH SON IS A GRIEF
30:56 TO HIS MOTHER. I HAVE SEEN SONS DISRESPECT
31:01 THEIR MOMS. I HAVE SEEN CHILDREN TOO SMALL
31:05 TO RUN IN WALMART TELLING THEIR PARENTS WHAT TO DO.
31:10 YOU KNOW HOW MANY TIMES I WANTED TO SMACK THAT KID AND
31:12 CHECK HIM OUT. I'D LIKE TO SCAN HIM.
31:16 UNTIL HE IS NOT BIG ENOUGH TO BE PUT IN THE SHOPPING BAG.
31:21 ANYBODY KNOW WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT?
31:22 DID YOU EVER STAND IN LINE, YOU GO LIKE THIS.
31:26 AND YOU WANT TO JUST -- YOU WANT TO DO SOMETHING.
31:28 YOU WANT TO AT LEAST SLAP THE PARENT.
31:31 SAY, WAKE UP. NOW, JOEY.
31:36 THAT WOULDN'T HAPPEN. IF I STEPPED OUT OF LINE WITH
31:39 MY MOTHER, SHE IS WALKING TOWARD ME, I WILL CALL THE
31:48 PORCH RATHER, I'M MAKING FUNERAL ARRANGEMENTS.
31:52 THAT'S RIGHT. BILLBOARD MAGAZINE RECENTLY
31:57 PUBLISH ADD LIST TITLED "20 SONGS YOU SHOULD DEFINITELY
32:01 AVOID PLAYING FOR MOM ON MOTHER'S DAY."
32:03 I HAD A CHANCE TO GO THROUGH THAT LIST.
32:08 THESE SONGS RELEASED IN SOCIAL MEDIA HAVE PLAYED A PART IN
32:11 PORTRAYING PARENTS AS OUT OF TOUCH, UNINFORMED, AND
32:14 IRRELEVANT. SOME OF THOSE SONGS EVEN
32:17 BORDER ON CHILDREN LUSTING AFTER THEIR PARENTS.
32:23 SURPRISING UPTICK OF VIOLENCE IS CHANGING IN DEMOGRAPHICS.
32:29 IT IS BEING FOUND MORE AMONG TEEN-AGED GIRLS.
32:33 EEBS NEWS ABOUT 1 IN 4 FEMALE TEENS IS INVOLVED IN VIOLATE
32:38 BEHAVIOR AT SCHOOL OR AT WORK. ACCORDING TO A GOVERNMENT
32:42 REPORT, A SURVEY OF MORE THAN 30,000 GIRLS AGE 12 TO 17
32:46 FOUND THAT 26.7% HAVE BEEN INVOLVED IN A SERIOUS FIGHT AT
32:51 SCHOOL OR AT WORK. A GROUP AGAINST GROUP FIGHTS
32:56 OR HAD ATTACKED SOMEONE WITH THE INTENT TO HARM THE PERSON
32:59 IN THE PREVIOUS YEAR. IN OTHER WORDS THEY HELD THAT
33:02 GRUDGE FROM THE YEAR BEFORE. THE SUBSTANCE ABUSE AND MELT
33:08 HEALTH SERVICE ADMINISTRATION REPORTED THURSDAY, AND I
33:10 QUOTE, IN THE PUBLIC MIND, ACTS OF TEENAGE VIOLENCE ARE
33:16 MOST COMMONLY ASSOCIATED WITH BOYS.
33:18 BUT IT IS CLEAR THAT THE PROBLEM IS PERVASIVE AMONG
33:22 GIRLS AS WELL. THAT IS BACK IN 2010.
33:25 WHAT DO YOU THINK IT IS NOW, NINE YEARS LATER?
33:27 THE QUESTION IS HOW DID IT GET THAT WAY?
33:31 WHEN DID THE DOWNTURN COME. LISTEN CAREFULLY TO THE
33:36 EVIDENCE. FRIDAY, JUNE 7, 2019, THE
33:40 TELEGRAPH, A U.K. PUBLICATION RELEASED AN ARTICLE INITIALLY
33:44 PRINTED IN 2006. THE ARTICLE WAS TITLED "WHY
33:47 OUR YOUTH OF TODAY SO RUDE." WE DON'T HAVE ANY CHILDREN.
33:55 SOMETIMES I SAY I WISH WE HAD. OTHER TIMES I SAY THANK GOD WE
34:00 DON'T. MY SISTER-IN-LAW CONTINUALLY
34:02 REMINDS ME. SHE SAID GOD DON'T KNOW, GOD
34:06 SAVED YOU GUYS. SOME PEOPLE THINK THEY HIT 18
34:10 THE PROBLEM ENDS. NO, THEY JUST BECOME MORE
34:15 EXPENSIVE. THE OBJECTIVE OF THIS SURVEY
34:18 WAS TO GAUGE THE CHANGES IN YOUTH WITHIN A DECADE, THAT
34:24 U.K. SURVEY. LISTEN TO WHAT THEY SAID.
34:27 TALK ABOUT YOUNG PEOPLE. THEY SAID YOUNG PEOPLE HAVE NO
34:31 CONVERSATION. THEY DON'T LISTEN AND REFUSE
34:33 TO TAKE AN INTEREST IN ANYONE ELSE BUT THEMSELVES.
34:37 A SURVEY REVEALED THIS GENERATION HAS FEW MANNERS.
34:40 THAT'S THE ENGLISH WORD. THEY DON'T KNOW HOW TO BEHAVE.
34:44 HOW DID IT HAPPEN TO THOMAS BLAKEY?
34:47 HE SAID YOUNG PEOPLE HAVE ALWAYS BEEN RUDE.
34:50 RUDER THAN ANYBODY ELSE. BUT THE YOUNG PEOPLE OF TODAY
34:53 ARE WORSE THAN PRECEDING GENERATIONS.
34:57 THIS IS THE DEPRESSING CONCLUSION OF A SURVEY BY THE
35:02 LEFT-WING THINK TANK. PEOPLE SAY, THE CONSERVATIVES
35:04 ARE SAYING THAT. NO THE PEOPLE THAT ARE ALREADY
35:08 REBELLIOUS ARE SAYING YOUNG PEOPLE ARE HORRIBLE.
35:10 THEY GO ON TO SAY, BECAUSE OF THE SOCIAL MEDIA UPSURGE.
35:15 THEY QUOTE BIG BROTHER IS THE SHINING, HORRIFIC EXAMPLE THAT
35:20 THERE IS A MASS OF TELEVISION, MUSIC, EVEN LITERATURE AIMED
35:26 SPECIFICALLY AT UNDER 25 YEARS OLD, THAT THE REST OF US AS
35:29 ADULTS HAVE NEVER HEARD OF. ONE UNNAMED MOTHER SAID WHEN
35:34 MY DAUGHTER WAS 14, SHE-THOUGHT OF BECOMING MORE INDEPENDENT OF SOCIAL MEDIA.
35:39 THE RISK YOUTH COUNSELOR FROM SHERIDAN, OHIO, SAID IT IS MY
35:45 PRIVILEGE TO LOOK AT HER PHONE.
35:49 BUT I HAVE GIVEN HER MORE PRIVACY.
35:51 THAT IS PART MUCH THE IDENTITY NOWADAYS.
35:53 THAT IS HOW THEY EXPRESS THEMSELVES HOWEN HOW THEY
35:56 LEARN. I'M NOT SAYING I TOTALLY WANT
35:59 TO EMBRACE IT, BUT HAVE TO UNDERSTAND AND RESPECT IT.
36:02 THAT IS HER OPINION. THAT IS NOT MY MOM'S OPINION.
36:06 YOU MAY KHAL IT PRIVACY. LISTEN TO WHAT MOTIVATIONAL
36:13 SPEAKER DESCRIBES. HE SAYS GETTING A CELLPHONE TO
36:16 A CHILD UNDER 18 IS LIKE GIVING THEM UNLIMITED ACCESS
36:20 TO THE ALCOHOL CABINET. MAGAZINE RESEARCH TELLS US
36:30 THAT 61% OF ONLINE TEENS SAY PARENTS HAVE CHECKED THEIR
36:34 PROFILES. 39% OF PARENTS HAVE CHILDREN
36:38 ASSOCIATED WITH AN INCREASED LIKELIHOOD OF PARENT-CHILD
36:41 CONFLICT OVER WHAT THEY WATCH ON SOCIAL MEDIA.
36:44 SOME PARENTS SAY, I DON'T LIKE WHAT YOU'RE WATCHING.
36:46 SOME KIDS SAY I DON'T CARE IF YOU LIKE IT.
36:49 THE CONFLICT IS IN THE HOME. LISTEN TO THE YOUNG PEOPLE.
36:52 36% OF TEENS SURVEYED BY COMMONSENSE MEDIA, AN
36:56 ORGANIZATION, SAY THEY WISH THEY COULD GO BACK TO A TIME
36:59 BEFORE Facebook. Facebook TOOK THE FACE OF
37:07 THIS BOOK. YOUTH MAY HAVE ACCESS TO MORE
37:11 INFORMATION THAN ANY PREVIOUS GENERATION.
37:14 BUT INFORMATION AND WISDOM ARE NOT THE SAME.
37:18 INFORMATION AND TRANSFORMATION ARE NOT ALWAYS THE SAME.
37:22 LISTEN TO THE WISE COUNSEL OF PASTOR, WHATEVER HE CALLS THAT
37:31 LIST. THAT'S GOOD ENOUGH.
37:35 COUNSEL FOR THE CHURCH, PAGE 116.
37:39 SHALL CHILDREN CONSULT ONLY THEIR OWN DESIRES AND
37:45 INCLINATIONS IRRESPECTIVE OF THE ADVISE AND JUDGMENT OF
37:47 THEIR PARENTS? IT BEGINS WITH A QUESTION.
37:50 SHE SAID SOME HAVE NEVER BEEN SO OF THOUGHT UPON THEIR
37:55 PARENTS' WISHES OR THEIR PARENTS PREFERENCES, NOR TO
37:59 REGARD THEIR MATURE JUDGMENT. SOME YOUNG PEOPLE COULD SIT
38:04 DOWN DAY IN AND DAY OUT IN FRONT OF THEIR PARENTS AND
38:07 WHAT THEIR PARENTS SAY TO THEM SOUNDS LIKE CHARLIE BROWN.
38:13 WAH-WAH. REMEMBER THAT WHMP TE PARENTS
38:15 TALKED THEY WERE JUST A TRUMPET OR TRAM BONE.
38:20 "WE AIN'T LISTENING." THAT IS WHAT THE ILLUSION WAS.
38:25 WE'RE NOT LISTENING. SHE GOES ON TO SAY SOME SEEM
38:30 NEVER TO BEE STOW ON THOUGHT OF THEIR PARENTS WISHES OR
38:35 PRRCHES NOR REGARD MATURE JUDGMENT.
38:37 SELF ISSUENESS. SELFISHNESS CLOSED DOOR OF
38:44 THEIR HEART TO PARENTAL AFFECTION.
38:46 THE MINDS EVER THE YOUNG NEED TO BE AROUSED IN REGARD TO
38:51 THIS MATTER. WITH THIS COMMANDMENT IS THE
38:55 ONLY COMMANDMENT TO WHICH IS ANNEXED A PROMISE.
38:59 BUT IT IS HELD LIGHTLY AND IS EVEN POSITIVELY IGNORED BY THE
39:06 LOVERS' CLAIM. LOVERS SAY TO KIDS YOU DON'T
39:09 NEED TO LISTEN TO YOUR PARENTS, WE GOT THIS THING
39:12 GOING ON. SLIDING A MOTHER'S LOVE,
39:16 FOLLOWING A FATHER'S CARE ARE SINS THAT STAND REGISTERED
39:20 AGAINST MANY YOUTH. THE WISE MAN SAYS IN PRO
39:26 VERBS, VERSE 23, LISTEN TO YOUR FATHER WHO BEGOT YOU.
39:30 DO NOT DESPISE YOUR MOTHER WHEN SHE IS OLD.
39:35 I WAS RAISED BY A LADY FROM TRINIDAD.
39:40 WHEN I WAS TOO YOUNG TO UNDERSTAND WHICH WAY WAS UP,
39:43 SHE WOULD CRADLE ME, WE LIVED IN NEW YORK CITY.
39:48 WE WOULD SIT IN THE KITCHEN. SHE WOULD SING DAME IS DYING
39:51 IN THE WEST, EVEN THOUGH WE LIVED IN THE EAST.
39:57 SHE SAID THAT PRAYER OPENED THE DOOR FOR MY LOVE FOR
40:00 MUSIC. SHE WOULD TAKE ME TO CHURCH
40:03 WHEN CHURCH STARTED EARLY IN THE MORNING.
40:06 SOMETHING PARENTS FAIL TO DO. WE SAY DO YOU WANT TO GO TO
40:11 CHURCH? IF YOU DIDN'T GET THE CLOTHES
40:14 IRONED AND PRESSED BEFORE THE SABBATH, YOU WERE GOING WITH
40:17 SOME WRINKLES. MOM MADE THE SABBATH
40:24 BEAUTIFUL. WHEN THE SABBATH WAS ON THE
40:27 WAY, THE HOUSE WAS FILLED WITH THE.
40:33 SUBSEQUENT OF SWEET BREAD AND SWEET ROLLS.
40:34 WE NIEWP THE SABBATH WAS SPECIAL.
40:36 SHE WOULD MAKE IT SPECIAL SO THE CHILDREN LOOK FORWARD TO
40:40 IT, SHE MADE THE SABBATH SPECIAL.
40:43 WE HAVE RICE AND PEAS. SOME PEOPLE SAY EPAS AND RICE.
40:51 WE REAL-TIMED HER NO MATTER HOW WEAK SHEM GOT, WE WOULD
40:54 NEVER CONSIDER -- I WOULD NEVER CONSIDER EVER
40:57 DISRESPECTING HER. SHE DIED WHEN I WAS 12 YEARS
41:00 OLD. I HAD A TEMPORARY DOWNTURN.
41:05 I TRIED TO PLAY BASEBALL ON SABBATH BUT MY BODY COULD NOT
41:10 OCCUR ALL THE SEED PLANTED IN ME TO REMEMBER THE SABBATH TO
41:14 KEEP IT HOLY THERE I WAS BY THE HIGH SCHOOL IN NEW YORK
41:19 TRYING TO PLAY BASEBALL WHEN MY MIND WASSING YOU ARE
41:24 VIOLATING THE COMMANDMENT. I COULDN'T CATCH, I DIDN'T
41:29 HIT. I WENT HOME AND SAID I WILL
41:32 NEVER DO THAT AGAIN. I HAD A FOOTBALL DIN OTHER
41:36 FRIDAY NIGHT. I NEVER GOT MY HIGH SCHOOL
41:39 JACKET OR MEDALLAL WAS IT WAS FRIDAY NIGHT.
41:43 THERE WAS NOBODY TO SAY DON'T GO BUT MOMMA.
41:47 REMEMBER THE SABBATH DAY TO KEEP IT HOLY.
41:50 SHE PLAN ADD SEED WHEN IT COULD BE WATERED AN NURTURED.
41:53 I WILL SAY TODAY A LOT OF THE FAILURE OF A CHILD CAN BE
41:58 LINKED DIRECTLY TO THE FAILURE OF THE PARENT.
42:01 NOT ONLY IN TRANSITION BECAUSE THERE IS A SOLUTION.
42:03 AMEN. THERE IS A SOLUTION.
42:07 SOLUTION EVER THE VIOLATIONS EVER THE FIFTH COMMANDMENT IS
42:10 CONTAINED IN THE COMMANDMENT ITSELF.
42:15 PAGE 308, PARAGRAPH 2. PARENTS ARE ENTITLED TO A
42:20 DEGREE OF LOVE AND RESPECT WHICH IS DUE TO NO OTHER
42:26 PERSON. GOD HIMSELF WHO HAVE PLACED
42:29 UPON THEM A RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE SOUL COMMITTED TO THEIR
42:34 CHARGE HAS ORDAINED -- WE TALKED ABOUT ORDINATION.
42:41 PARENTS WERE ORDAINED BEFORE MINISTRIES WERE.
42:44 HAVING ORDAINED DURING THE EARLY YEARS OF LIFE PARENTS
42:48 SHALL STAND IN THE PLACE OF GOD FOR THEIR CHILDREN.
42:52 AND HE WHO REJECTS THE RIGHTFUL AUTHORITY OF A PARENT
42:57 IS REJECTING THE AUTHORITY OF GOD.
43:02 LET ME CONTINUE. QUOTATION NO. 6.
43:09 THE SAME PAGE. 308.
43:14 PARAGRAPH 2. THE FIFTH COMMANDMENT REQUIRES
43:17 CHILDREN NOT ONLY TO YIELD RESPECT, SUB MISSION AND OIBZ
43:22 TO THEIR PARENTS BUT TO GIVE THEM LOVE AND TENDERNESS.
43:27 I HAVE SEEN SOME OF THE BIGGEST LIES TOLD AT FUNERALS
43:30 BY CHILDREN. I LOVE MY MOMMA.
43:33 WE LOOK AND SAY, "LIAR." YOU WERE NOWHERE TO BE FOUND
43:38 WHEN SHE COULD NOT EAT. YOU PASSED OFF YOUR
43:42 RESPONSIBILITY TO A PERSON WHO DIDN'T EVEN KNOW HER.
43:45 DON'T LIE ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR
43:48 PARENTS. TAKE THEM TO DINNER WHILE YOU
43:50 AND THEM CAN SIT DOWN TOGETHER AND EAT.
43:52 MY DAD, WHEN HE WAS GETTING OLDER IN HIS LATE YEARS, I
43:57 REMEMBER TAKING HIM -- I WENT TO BROOKLYN.
44:00 I SAID WHAT DO YOU WANT? YOU GOT TO BE WEST INDIAN TO
44:05 UNDERSTANDS WHAT THAT IS. HE COULD HARDLY SEE, BUT HE
44:09 COULD FIND HIS MOST. WHEREVER THE PIECES FELL, HE
44:13 FOUND IT. I REMEMBER VERY WELL WHEN
44:19 SITTING DOWN -- HE TAUGHT PEE HOW TO DRESS.
44:25 MY DAD TAUGHT ME HOW TO DRESS. HE SAID, YOU WANT TO LOOK LIKE
44:34 A MAN AT ALL TIMES. DON'T GO DOWN TO PEOPLE'S
44:37 LEVEL, BRING THEM UP TO YOURS. ONE DAY WHEN HE COULD HARDLY
44:40 SEE, I BOUGHT HIM A SUIT, DOWNTOWN MANHATTAN, BOUGHT ONE
44:47 EXACTLY LIKE MINE. YOU PUT OUT MONEY FOR ME, I
44:50 PUT OUT MONEY FOR YOU. WE WERE DRESSED ALIKE.
44:53 SAME SUIT, SAME TIE, SAME HANDKERCHIEF.
44:58 I WENT TO HIS HOUSE, I SAID HAPPY BIRTHDAY POPPA.
45:01 HE SAID "WHAT DID YOU BUY ME, JUNIOR?"
45:06 I SAID I BOUGHT AWE SHIRT. HE SAID WHAT COLOR.
45:09 >> I SAID BLUE. HE SAID DID YOU GET ME A TIE?
45:13 YES. HE SAID DESCRIBE IT TO ME.
45:17 I SAID BLUE. HE SAID, "THAT'S NICE."
45:21 BOY, DO I MISS THAT MAN. I WILL CONTINUE.
45:25 ALSO GIVE THEM LOVE AND TENDERNESS TO LICENSE THEIR
45:29 CARES, TO GUARD THEIR REPUTATION, ANDS UCCO R AND
45:38 SUPPORT THEM IN OLD AGE. THE FIFTH COMMANDMENT ENJOINS
45:43 RESPECT FOR MINISTRIES MINISTRY MINISTERS AND RULERS AND TO THOSE GOD
45:49 HAS DELEGATED AUTHORITY. ONE REASON THEY DO NOT
45:54 REAL-TIME THEIR TEACHERS BECAUSE THEY WERE NOT TAUGHT
45:55 TO RESPECT FROM THEIR PARENTSEN A TEACHER CANNOT
45:58 CORRECT WHAT YOU FAILED TO INSTILL IN YOUR CHILD.
46:02 DON'T ASK FOR THE MINISTER TO DO WHAT YOU FAILED TO DO.
46:04 DON'T ASK FOR THE SCHOOLS TO DO WHAT YOU FAILED TO DO.
46:08 HELP ME OUT, SOMEBODIEN IF YOU FAILED TO DO IT, IT'S LIKE
46:13 TRYING TO CUT DOWN A TREE WITH A FINGERNAIL FILE.
46:17 WHY CAN'T THE SCHOOL HELP THEM?
46:19 BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T DO WHAT YOU WERE SUPPOSED TO DO.
46:22 WHY CAN'T THE CHURCH DO SOMETHING FOR MY YOUNG
46:25 CHILDREN. WE COULD DO IT BUT IF YOU
46:29 HAVEN'T GIVEN THEM GUIDANCE, THEY WILL LISTEN TO US LIKE
46:34 WAH-WAH. I'VE BEEN A VICTIM OF THAT.
46:36 YOUNG PEOPLE DISRESPECTING AND SHOOTING PROFANITY AT ADULTS.
46:40 I WISH MY MOTHER WAS AROUND TO TAKE CARE OF SOME OF THESE
46:45 KIDS. HONOR YOUR FATHER AND YOUR
46:50 MOTHER. WHICH IS THE FIRST COMMANDMENT
46:53 WITH A PROMISE. THAT YOU MAY LIVE LONG ON
46:58 EARTH. YOU SEE A LOT OF PEOPLE DON'T
47:01 TREASURE LONG LIFE. I'LL TELL AWE STORY.
47:04 WHEN I WAS YOUNG IN NEW YORK CITY, MOMMA WOULD TAKE US TO
47:12 CHURCH. I WAS TERRIFIED TO GET UP
47:17 FRONT. SHE WOULD TEACH ME ABOUT
47:19 SERVICE. SHE SAID GO UP FRONT AND SING.
47:23 ANOTHER YOUNG BOY AND GIRL SHE WAS RAISING.
47:26 SHE SAID GOOD UP FRONT AND SING.
47:28 THERE WE WERE AT M.V., MISSIONARY VOLUNTEERS.
47:36 IT WAS ENTERTAINMENT RATHER THAN MISSION.
47:38 I'M PLAYING GUITAR. I PLAY IT UNTIL ALL THE EYES
47:41 AT THE 1200 MEMBERS OF THE CHURCH HIT ME AT ONE TIME.
47:45 THE OTHER KIDS WOULD KEEP GOING ON.
47:47 I SAID, MOMMA, I DON'T WANT TO DO ANYMORE.
47:51 SHE KEPT DOING IT UNTIL IT GOT COMFORTABLE.
47:54 SABBATH AFTERNOON, SHE WOULD GOOD OUT WITH US AFTER CHURCH,
47:58 INSTEAD OF SITTING DOWN GORGING OURSELVES WITH FOOD
48:01 AND RESTING. SHE SAID LET'S GO OUT IN THE
48:05 COMMUNITY AND PASS OUT TRACTS. LET'S STAND ON THE CORNER AND
48:08 GIVE OUT PAMPHLETS. THAT IS MY FIRST EVANGELISM
48:16 CAME FROM. NOW I THINK IT'S CALLED
48:23 RAISING MONEY. WE HAD A GATHERING.
48:26 WE WOULD GO UP THE TENMENT STEPS, KNOCK ON DOORS.
48:30 SHE TRAINED US OUR SPIEL. SAY THIS, GET OUT THE
48:33 PAMPHLETS. IF THEY GIVE SOMETHING, FINE,
48:36 IF NOT, THAT'S OKAY. SHE WOULD TEACH US ABOUT
48:38 SERVICE. PARENTS ARE LETTING THE
48:40 CHILDREN BE RAISED BY TELEVISION AND CELL PHONES.
48:43 THERE IS A REASON THEY CALL THEM CELLPHONES.
48:46 WHEN YOU ASK WHAT IS YOUR CELL NUMBER.
48:49 WHAT IS YOUR JAIL CELL NUMBER. BECAUSE THEY ARE LOCKED UP.
48:56 WHAT IS YOUR CELLPHONE NUMBER? WHAT IS YOUR CELL NUMBER.
49:00 CELL PHONES USED TO BE FOUND ON THE WALL IN THE LOCAL JAIL.
49:03 NOW THEY ARE IN THE BACK OF EVERYBODY'S POCKET.
49:05 IF YOU DON'T THINK -- MY WIFE AND I WAS STAND OKAY THE
49:11 PLATFORM IN BANGKOK, THAILAND. LOOK, EVERYBODY IS A ZOMBIE.
49:18 EVERYBODY'S HEADS IN THE SAME DIRECTION.
49:20 IN BANGKOK, THAILAND, THEY PUT MOVABLE DOORS FROM THE
49:24 PLATFORM TO THE RAILWAY BECAUSE I'M SURE SOMEBODY
49:28 WALKED UNCONSCIOUSLY INTO THE TRACK OF ONCOMING TRAIN.
49:34 THIS DIRECTION, THAT DIRECTION, EVERYBODY'S HEAD ON
49:37 A 45-DEGREE ANGLE. IT'S SO BAD THERE WS A STORY
49:39 ABOUT A YOUNG MAN THAT WENT TO HOLD UP PEOPLE ON A TRAIN IN
49:43 OAKLAND, CALIFORNIA. HE GOT ON THE TRAIN.
49:45 AS HE ENTERED THE TRAIN, HE WAVED A GUN AND SAID THIS IS A
49:48 HOLDUP. NOBODY RESPONDED.
49:53 HE WAS IRRITATED. DIDN'T YOU HER WHAT I SAID?
49:57 THIS IS A HOLDUP. PEOPLE LOOKED UP, "I'M ON THE
50:02 PHONE." HE GOT OFF THE NEXT STOP.
50:04 COULDN'T EVEN ROB PEOPLE. BECAUSE THE CELLPHONE GOT IN
50:08 THE WAY. NOWADAYS, WHEN YOU TELL YOUR
50:12 CHILD YOU'RE GROUNDED. THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT THEY
50:14 WANT. IN THEIR ROOM THEY IS
50:18 EVERYTHING WILL VIOLATE THEM AND CORRUPT THEM.
50:20 THEY GOT INTERNET. THEN GOT THEIR PHONE.
50:23 THEY DON'T NEED TO HAVE DINNER WITH YOU.
50:26 YOU THINK THEY WANT TO TALK TO YOU?
50:27 NO. IF YOU DIDN'T TEACH TEM HOW
50:29 TO TLK AT THE DINNER TABLE WHEN THEY ARE YOUNG, AIN'T NO
50:32 DINNER TABLE. SOME FAMILY MEMBERS DON'T HAVE
50:35 TIME TOGETHER. I REMEMBER WATCHING A MOVIE,
50:37 MY WIFE AND I, WE TRIED TO FIND SOMETHING FAMILY
50:41 ORIENTED. THE MOVIE HAD A HORRIBLE TWIST
50:42 AT THE END. I'LL TELL YOU ABOUT THAT.
50:45 THE FAMILY MEMBERS, THE FATHER WAS SO BUSY, HE DECIDED FOR
50:48 HIS FAMILY, LET'S TAKE THEM AWAY.
50:50 LET'S GO AND DO SOMETHING DIDN'T FOR THE HOLIDAY.
50:53 FOR THE CRITICISM. CHRISTMAS.
50:57 HE WENT WHERE THERE WAS FAR FROM INTERNET CONNECTION.
50:59 THE FIRST QUESTION THE SON ASKED WAS DAD WHAT IS THE
51:03 INTERNET CODE. HE SAYS THERE IS NO INTERNET.
51:05 THE SON SAID, WHAT ARE WE GOING TO DO?
51:08 HE SAID, WHY DON'T WE TRY TO TALK TO EACH OTHER.
51:12 THE DAUGHTER COULDN'T TEXT THE BOYFRIEND.
51:15 THE BOY COULDN'T SURF THE INTERNET.
51:16 THEY WERE MS. RADICAL FOR TWO DAYS.
51:19 IN WALKS A BLACK FAMILY. IT THEY GOT TO BE FRIENDS WITH
51:24 THE FAMILY. THEY STARTED HAVING FUN.
51:26 THEY STARTED COMMUNICATING TOGETHER.
51:28 THIS IS NOT A WHITE VERSUS BLACK THING.
51:30 I'M TELLING YOU WHAT THE MOVIE DID.
51:32 AFTER THREE DAYS THEY ALL STARTED COMMUNICATING, HAVING
51:35 A GREAT TIME TOGETHER. THEN THE FAMILY LEFT.
51:39 THE TWIST WAS, GOT TO TELL YOU THE TWIST BECAUSE I TOLD YOU
51:42 THERE WAS A TWIST. MY WIFE AND I WERE SO PLEASED
51:46 UNTIL THE DEVIL INSERTED THE THEME OF UNBIBLICAL DEATH AT
51:51 THE END. HE SUGGESTED THAT THE ANIMAL
51:55 THAT CAME WERE THOSE THAT DIED AND CAME BACK TO LIFE.
51:59 WHY DID THE DEVIL DO THAT. WHAT A WONDERFUL SHOW IF HE
52:03 LEFT TA OUT. THE POINT I'M MAKING PEOPLE
52:07 TODAY ARE DRUGGED. THEY WERE DESENSITIZED.
52:09 THIS IS A GENERATION WHERE PARACIDE IS NOT SOMETHING HARD
52:15 TO CONSIDER. WALK AROUND THE MAJOR CITIES.
52:17 LISTEN TO CONVERSATIONS. LISTEN TO PEOPLE AS THEY
52:19 INTERACT WITH ONE ANOTHER. LISTEN THE DYNAMICS BETWEEN
52:24 PARENTS. OUR CHURCHES ARE SHAPING A
52:26 GENERATION THAT IF WE DON'T PULL THEM BACK NOW, THERE WILL
52:28 BE NO POINT OF REVERSE. I THINK IT'S A GOOD TIME TO
52:33 BEGIN THE PULL THEM BACK BECAUSE THE LORD WILL COME AND
52:37 SOMEBODY, CAN I SAY AMEN. MY LAST QUOTATION, PAGE 308,
52:45 PARAGRAPH 3. TO ISRAEL, EXPECTING SOMEONE
52:53 TO ENTERTAIN THEM, IT WAS A PLEDGE TO THE OBEDIENCE OF
52:59 LONG LIFE IN A A BIG LAND. THIS IS A POWERFUL QUOTE.
53:03 IT HAD WIDER MEANING, INCLUDING ALL THE ISRAEL OF
53:09 GOD. AND PROMISING ETERNAL LIFE
53:12 UPON THE EARTH FROM THE CURSE OF SIN.
53:17 THE HONORING OF THE FIFTH COMMANDMENT NOT ONLY PROVIDED
53:20 LONG LIFE ON THIS EARTH. BUT IT WAS A GUARANTEE THAT IN
53:25 THE EARTH MADE NEW, GOD WAS SAYING YOUR DAYS WILL BE LONG
53:29 UPON THE LANDS. LET ME GO AHEAD AD INSINUATE
53:32 THIS. IF YOU DON'T HONOR YOUR
53:34 PARENTS BECAUSE YOU LOVE AND RESPECT THEM, HONOR THEM
53:38 BECAUSE BY NOT DOING SO, YOU ARE SHORTENING YOUR LIFE AND
53:43 VOLUNTARILY GIVING UP YOUR RIGHT TO ETERNAL LIFE.
53:46 THAT IS THE DEFINITION OF A FOOL.
53:52 IN CONCEPT. I WOULD NOW TELL YOU, MY
53:57 MOTHER GIVE ME UP WHEN I WAS 3 MONTHS OLD.
54:01 LEFT ME AT A BABYSITTER. ABANDONED.
54:04 I WROA A BOOK ABANDONED BUT NOT ALONE.
54:09 IT WILL BE RE-RELEASED. LEFT ME WHEN I WAS 3 MONTHS
54:12 OLD. WHEN I MET HER 26 YEARS LATER,
54:15 YOU GOT TO GET THE DETAILS ANOTHER WAY.
54:17 I BECAME A PASTOR IN 1987. I GOT MY ASSOCIATE'S IN 1988.
54:25 I MET MY MOM FOR THE FIRST TIME IN 1991 THROUGH A SERIES
54:30 OF AMAZING MIRACLES. I WAS A PASTOR IN NRTHERN
54:35 CALIFORNIA, MY MOM, AFTER BEING DELIVERED FROM ALCOHOL
54:37 AND CIGARETTES BY MY RECOMMENDING HER FOR GOD TO
54:41 DELIVER HER, SHE HAD GOD INSTANTLY DELIVERED THIS
54:47 MOTHER FROM ALCOHOL AND CIGARETTES INSTANTLY.
54:49 SHE CAME TO LIVE WITH US AFTER NOT KNOWING WHO SHE WAS.
54:53 SHE LIVED IN OUR HOME, MY WIFE AND ME.
54:56 WE HAD OUR DAYS. BUT GOD IS SO GREAT, THAT THE
55:00 WOMAN THAT ABANDONED ME GAVE ME EVERY REASON TO DISRESPECT
55:04 HER. EVERY REASON NOT TO HONOR HER.
55:07 IT WAS MY FIRST BAPTISM OF THE PAST.
55:09 YOU KNOW WHY? I DIDN'T DISRESPECT HER
55:12 BECAUSE OF WHAT SHE DID, I REAL-TIMED HER BECAUSE SHE
55:15 GAVE ME LIFE.NEVER FORGET, DR. LAURA HAD A YOUNG WOMAN COMPLAIN OKAY THE
55:26 PHONE. DR. LAURA GRABBED HER BY HER
55:29 EARS, YOUNG LADY WHAT DID YOUR PARENTS GIVE YOU?
55:32 SHE SAID NOTHING. WHAT DID YOUR PARENTS GIVE
55:35 YOU. THEY GAVE ME NOTHING.
55:37 SHE SAID SHUT UP, YOUNG LADY, AS ONLY DR. LAURA CAN SAY.
55:42 THEY GAVE YOU LIFE. TAKE IT AND DO SOMETHING WITH
55:45 IT AND SHUT YOUR MOUTH. SHE HUNG UP THE PHONE.
55:50 YOUNG PEOPLE COMPLAIN ABOUT WHAT THE PARENTS DIDN'T DO.
55:53 YOU HAVE TO MAKE CHOICES ABOUT YOUR OWN DESTINE.
55:57 WHEN I WAS 13 YEARS OLD, THE FOUNDATION LAID BY MY MOTHER
56:00 AND FATHER LEFT ME BETWEEN TWO PORTALS.
56:03 WHICH WAY DO I GO. DO I CONTINUE GAMBLING,
56:08 PARING, NOBODY TO TELL ME DO YOUR HOMEWORK.
56:11 NOBODY SAYS IS YOU CAN SUCCEED IS.
56:13 13 IN THE CITY OF NEW YORK, I'LL EITHER FAIL OR SUCCEED.
56:17 I CHOOSE SUCCESS. GOD SENT A 16-YEAR-OLD GIRL,
56:22 MY WIFE OF 36 YEARS, TO BEGIN TO MOLD ME AND BRING ME BACK
56:25 TO THE CHURCH. SHELL HAD A CONNECTION WITH
56:28 HER MOM. HER DAD DIED WHEN SHE WAS 3
56:31 YEARS OLD. ALL EIGHT SIBLINGS, THE PARENT
56:34 RAISED THEM WITHOUT THE AID OF WELFARE.
56:38 THEY RALLIED THEIR MOTHER WITH HIGH -- THEY RESPECTED THEIR
56:41 MOTHER WITH HIGH HONOR. HONOR YOUR FATHER AND YOUR
56:45 MOTHER THAT EURO DAYS MAY BE LONG UPON THE LANDS.
56:48 MY FATHER WASN'T AROUND WHEN I WAS BORN.
56:50 HE WAS A JAZZ MUSICIAN. I KNEW HIM FOR 31 YEARS AND I
56:55 NEVER DISHONORED HIM. I PAID FOR HIS FUNERAL WHEN HE
56:58 DIED. HONOR THY FATHER AND MY
57:01 MOTHER. IF EVER THERE WAS A TIME THAT
57:03 YOU YOUNG FOLK NEED TO BE INVESTING IN YOUR ETERNAL
57:07 LIFE, IT'S NOW. CAN YOU SAY AMEN.
57:10 HONOR THY FATHER AND THY MOTHER THAT THE DAYS TOGETHER
57:14 MAY BE LONG BEFORE THE LANDS WHICH THE LORD THY GOT GIVETH
57:19 ME. ONE DAY WHEN JESUS COMES IN
57:22 THE FIRST RESURRECTION, I'LL SAY MAMA HANES, LET'S GO,
57:30 LET'S INHERIT THE KINGDOM FROM OUR HEAVENLY FATHER.
57:34 GOD BLESS YOU.


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