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Finding Rest In Family Ties

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00:38 Rod Thompson: Good morning, everyone.
00:40 Welcome to the Granite Bay Hilltop Church Sabbath School
00:43 Study Hour.
00:45 I'm Pastor Rod Thompson.
00:46 I'm going to be leading our study this morning but before we
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01:25 We are continuing our study in
01:28 "Rest in Christ," and today we
01:31 are going to be looking at "Rest in Family Ties."
01:34 But before we get to that, we've got some special music
01:38 with Emma Q.
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01:48 ♪ I feel quite sure if I did my best I can maybe ♪
01:54 ♪ impress you with tender words or harmonies, ♪
02:04 ♪ a clever rhyme or two. ♪
02:08 ♪ But if all I've done in the time we've shared ♪
02:14 ♪ is turn your eyes on me, ♪
02:20 ♪ then I've failed in what I've been called to do. ♪
02:25 ♪ There's someone else I want you to see. ♪
02:32 ♪ Will you love Jesus more when we go ♪
02:41 ♪ our separate ways? ♪
02:44 ♪ When this moment is memory, ♪
02:48 ♪ will you remember His face? ♪
02:54 ♪ Will you look back and realize you felt His love ♪
03:02 ♪ more than you did before? ♪
03:08 ♪ I pray for nothing less than for you ♪
03:12 ♪ to love Jesus more. ♪
03:20 ♪♪♪
03:30 ♪ We like to keep these memories in frames ♪
03:37 ♪ of gold and silver, ♪
03:41 ♪ to reminisce a year from now about ♪
03:47 ♪ this time we shared. ♪
03:51 ♪ But above all else I hope you will come ♪
03:56 ♪ to know the Father's love, ♪
04:02 ♪ and when we see the Lord face to face you'll ♪
04:09 ♪ hear Him say, "Well done." ♪
04:14 ♪ Will you love Jesus more when we go ♪
04:22 ♪ our separate ways? ♪
04:26 ♪ When this moment is memory, ♪
04:31 ♪ will you remember His face? ♪
04:37 ♪ Will you look back and realize you felt His love ♪
04:43 ♪ more than you did before? ♪
04:50 ♪ I pray for nothing less than for you ♪
04:55 ♪ to love Jesus more. ♪
05:02 ♪ Will you love Jesus more when we go ♪
05:11 ♪ our separate ways? ♪
05:14 ♪ When this moment is memory, ♪
05:18 ♪ will you remember His face? ♪
05:24 ♪ Will you look back and realize you felt His love ♪
05:31 ♪ more than you did before? ♪
05:38 ♪ I pray for nothing less than for you ♪
05:44 ♪ to love Jesus more. ♪
05:52 ♪ I pray for nothing less than ♪
05:57 ♪ for you to ♪
06:00 ♪ love Jesus more. ♪♪
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06:24 Rod: I want to invite you to open up your Bibles
06:27 to 1 Corinthians chapter 3.
06:31 1 Corinthians chapter 3, and let's begin with
06:37 a word of prayer.
06:40 O loving Father, Lord, oh, that we would love You more.
06:47 Lord, we've opened up the word of life and we are praying and
06:51 asking that the Holy Spirit would guide us and,
06:55 Lord, help us to enter into that rest that You desire for us.
07:00 And we ask in Jesus's name, amen.
07:03 I want to start off this morning by asking you a question:
07:10 has sin separated us from God?
07:16 Has sin separated us from God?
07:23 We know the answer to that is yes, right?
07:25 We believe that, we know that.
07:27 But sin has also separated us from each other.
07:34 Sin brings with it selfishness, pride,
07:40 envy, jealousy, hatred, anger, and sometimes even murder.
07:49 Sin has done a major number on us and,
07:54 brothers and sisters, I don't know about you,
07:56 but I am sick to death of what sin has done in me.
08:04 What it has done in you.
08:06 You have your Bibles open to 1 Corinthians chapter 3.
08:09 Notice what the Apostle Paul says in verse 1: "And I,
08:14 brethren, could not speak to you as to spiritual people but as to
08:21 carnal, as to babes in Christ.
08:23 I fed you with milk and not with solid food;
08:25 for until now you were not able to receive it,
08:26 and even now you are still not able;
08:29 for you are still carnal.
08:31 For where there are envy, strife,
08:34 and divisions among you, are you not carnal,
08:37 behaving like mere men?"
08:42 Brothers and sisters, the apostle Paul is speaking
08:46 to the church.
08:48 He is writing to us, and he says,
08:53 "You are carnal."
09:02 There's envy, there's strife, there's contentions,
09:08 there's mistrust, among the children of God.
09:15 In Romans chapter 7, verse 14 and 15,
09:19 Paul says, "For we know that the law is spiritual,
09:25 but I am carnal, sold under sin.
09:31 For what I am doing, I do not understand.
09:35 The things that I will to do, that I do not practice;
09:40 but the things I don't want to do,
09:43 that I do."
09:47 Now, please don't misunderstand Paul.
09:52 He is not using that as an excuse to sin,
09:57 but rather he is pointing out a very real reality.
10:03 And that reality is that we are in the very fight of our lives.
10:12 And Paul says to the Ephesians, "We don't fight against flesh
10:18 and blood," amen?
10:20 "We fight against principalities and powers and wickedness
10:23 in high places.
10:25 We are fighting against a carnal nature and evil spirits that are
10:32 trying to lead us to follow that evil nature."
10:37 He goes on in Romans chapter 7, verse 24 and 25 to say,
10:41 "O wretched man that I am.
10:45 Who is going to save me from this body of death?"
10:49 And praise God, he gives us the answer.
10:53 He says, "Oh, I thank God for Jesus Christ our Lord.
10:58 So then, with the mind I myself serve the law of God,
11:03 but with the flesh the law of sin."
11:07 Here we see that Paul is telling us that there's two different
11:11 laws that are at work here.
11:14 There is the law of God which is spiritual,
11:17 and there is the law of sin which is carnal.
11:23 And brothers and sisters, it often appears,
11:27 doesn't it, that the law of sin is winning.
11:31 Satan is doing everything that he can to destroy us and
11:36 to destroy our families.
11:39 And it doesn't take a lot of effort to see what sin has done
11:45 to the family.
11:48 We see the results right from the beginning.
11:52 Adam and Eve sinned against God and when they heard Him in the
11:56 Garden they ran and they hid themselves.
11:59 Sin had separated them from God.
12:02 And sin also separated them from each other.
12:05 They began to blame others.
12:08 Adam says to God, "The woman that You gave me,
12:10 she gave to me and I ate."
12:15 He's blaming God, "It's Your fault.
12:17 You gave her to me."
12:19 He's blaming her.
12:20 Eve blames it on the serpent.
12:22 Sin has separated us from God and it has separated us
12:25 from each other.
12:29 And then they have children.
12:32 And there's contention and strife and envy and hatred
12:40 and Cain murders Abel.
12:45 And just three chapters later, in chapter 6,
12:51 verse 5, it says: "Then the Lord saw that the wickedness of man
12:54 was great on the earth, and that every intent of the thoughts
12:58 of his heart was only evil continual."
13:01 It took a very short time for sin to enter the world and there
13:06 was murder and now there's division among all of the people
13:10 and there's only wickedness in their hearts and in their minds,
13:14 and God destroys the entire world except eight people.
13:23 But, brothers and sisters, those eight people took their carnal
13:28 nature with them through that flood.
13:32 And when they came out the other side and they began multiplying
13:36 on the face of the earth, once again it didn't take very long
13:40 for wickedness to step in, sin, and rebellion.
13:45 Nimrod rebels against God and the carnal nature is
13:54 winning the fight.
13:56 And so, God has to bring further separation and He confuses
14:01 their language.
14:05 You have the story after that of Abraham.
14:09 And we see the difficulties that Abraham faced.
14:14 We see the failures of Abraham.
14:17 He tries to fulfill God's promise to him in his own power,
14:25 in his own way of having the son of promise that God had promised
14:30 with his wife's servant, Hagar.
14:37 And immediately, it brings strife into the family.
14:43 Eventually, Abraham and Sarah, his wife,
14:48 do have the son of promise and immediately that brings strife
14:52 and contention into the family.
14:56 There is feuding between the mothers of the two sons,
15:00 and even the sons themselves.
15:05 And then Isaac has two sons, Jacob and Esau,
15:10 and there is contention.
15:13 There is fighting for the supremacy,
15:16 for both the love of the parents and the blessing of God.
15:20 And Jacob deceives his brother into giving him his birthright.
15:25 He tricks his father into giving him the blessing of the elder
15:30 son, and now Jacob has to flee because his brother is
15:36 contemplating killing him.
15:41 And then Jacob enters into his own strife and contention.
15:46 He falls in love with Rachel.
15:50 But his father-in-law, Laban, tricks him into marrying
15:55 Rachel's older sister, Leah.
15:58 And then the problem is compounded even further where he
16:02 makes a deal with Jacob and he says,
16:06 "I'll give you Rachel also if you'll serve me for seven more
16:08 years," and Jacob agrees to that.
16:15 But the problems-- the envy, the strife,
16:18 the contention, the hatred--continues.
16:28 Leah has a couple of sons, and Rachel becomes jealous.
16:34 And so, Rachel can't have any children.
16:38 She's barren so she gives Jacob her handmaid,
16:42 Bilhah, and she has a couple of children.
16:47 And then Leah becomes jealous.
16:50 She sees that she's no longer having children and so she gives
16:54 Jacob her handmaid, Zilpah, and she has a couple of children.
17:03 And finally, Rachel eventually has Joseph and then eventually,
17:10 another son.
17:13 But, brothers and sisters, what is the result of this
17:17 blended family?
17:20 There is contention, there is strife,
17:24 there is hatred.
17:27 Won't you turn with me in your Bibles to James chapter 4.
17:31 James chapter 4, and I want you to notice what it says starting
17:40 in verse 1.
17:43 He asks a very important question.
17:47 He says, "Where do wars and fights come from among you?
17:52 Do they not come from your desires for pleasure that war
17:56 in your members?
17:59 You lust and you do not have.
18:01 You murder and covet and cannot obtain.
18:03 You fight and war.
18:05 Yet you do not have because you do not ask.
18:07 You ask and do not receive because you ask amiss and that
18:10 you may spend it on your pleasures.
18:12 Adulterers and adulteresses!
18:14 Do you not know that friendship with the world is
18:16 enmity with God?
18:17 Whoever therefore wants to be friends of the world makes
18:19 himself an enemy of God.
18:21 Or do you think that the Scriptures say in vain,
18:25 'The Spirit who dwells in us yearns jealously'?
18:28 But He gives more grace.
18:30 Therefore He says: 'God resists the proud,
18:32 but gives grace to the humble.'"
18:35 Here, we see that James is showing us there's contention,
18:40 there's difficulties, there's wars,
18:42 there's problems among us, even among God's family,
18:46 even among his children, even among our immediate families.
18:51 And that brings us to today because,
18:56 brothers and sisters, we still have the same problem today that
19:00 they had back then, don't we?
19:03 And so here is the question that we need to answer today: this
19:10 quarter, we are doing this study on "Rest in Christ," but if
19:16 there is contention, if there's strife,
19:18 if there is difficulty in the family of God,
19:23 if there's jealousy and envy within our immediate families,
19:29 then how are we going to find rest?
19:32 How can we find rest in family ties?
19:38 We want to answer that question today,
19:40 and the best way to do that is by looking at the greatest
19:43 example in the Bible of a dysfunctional family because,
19:50 brothers and sisters, we can relate to that,
19:53 can't we?
19:56 I'd like to read to you if you have your Quarterly,
20:01 look with me on Sabbath afternoon's lesson and let's
20:05 look at the second paragraph there.
20:09 It says, "We get to choose many things in life but we don't get
20:16 to choose our family.
20:19 No one is perfect and none of us have perfect families and
20:22 perfect family relationships.
20:25 Some of us are blessed by parents,
20:28 siblings, and other family members that reflect God's love,
20:32 but many have to settle for less than the ideal.
20:36 Family relationships often are complicated and painful,
20:39 leaving us restless, hurt, and carrying loads of emotional
20:44 baggage that we, in turn, offload on others.
20:48 How can we find rest in this area of our lives?"
20:54 That's a good question.
20:55 How are we gonna find rest in family ties when there is sin
21:00 that is separating us, causing us to contend with each other,
21:06 strive with each other, cause hurt and pain and struggles
21:11 within the family?
21:15 So as we look at this dysfunctional family of Jacob
21:21 today, we can imagine the rivalry between the mothers.
21:30 You've got Leah and her handmaid, Zilpah.
21:36 You've got Rachel and her handmaid, Bilhah.
21:41 And you can imagine these mothers contending with
21:48 each other for the love of Jacob.
21:51 And you can imagine that that contention spilled over
21:56 into the children.
22:00 Imagine for a moment that Leah and Zilpah's children
22:10 on one side contending with Rachel and Bilhah's children
22:16 on the other side.
22:18 You can imagine there constantly being a strife between them.
22:23 But then imagine that Leah's children start fighting
22:29 with Zilpah's children.
22:33 Or perhaps Rachel's children start fighting with Bilhah's
22:37 children, and then somebody from the other side gets
22:41 in the middle of it.
22:43 You can imagine that those that were fighting,
22:45 now join forces and contend with the other.
22:49 That reminds me of that very famous verse,
22:52 "The enemy of my enemy is my friend."
22:57 You can see and you can even feel the contention
23:03 between the family.
23:05 Now, we already talked about the difficulties in the family
23:08 of Abraham, Isaac, and now Jacob.
23:11 But let me ask you a question.
23:15 If there is contention and all of this strife in the family,
23:20 how can it be that in Hebrews chapter 11,
23:23 what we call the Hall of Faith, how is it that Abraham,
23:27 Isaac, and Jacob are referred to as "Heroes of the Faith"?
23:35 And the simple answer is that God's champions of faith often
23:41 fall short of the glory of God.
23:44 They often make mistakes.
23:47 And the fact is that these three men are in Hebrews chapter 11
23:55 not because of the dysfunction in their family,
24:00 but in spite of it.
24:03 They learned often the hard way about faith and love and trust
24:10 in God, as they wrestled with their family issues.
24:17 Put yourself in Joseph for a moment,
24:20 one of the sons of Jacob.
24:22 Joseph is a type of Christ.
24:26 I want you to notice what it says in the book,
24:31 "Patriarchs and Prophets," page 209: "Jacob unwisely manifested
24:37 his preference for Joseph.
24:41 And this excited the jealousy of his other sons.
24:46 As Joseph witnessed the evil conduct of his brothers,
24:49 he was greatly troubled.
24:53 He ventured gently to remonstrate with them,
24:59 but only aroused still further their hatred and resentment.
25:04 He could not endure to see them sinning against God and he laid
25:09 the matter before his father, hoping that his authority
25:12 might lead them to reform."
25:16 And you can imagine how Joseph pleaded with them
25:22 to get right with God.
25:26 And then in that same book, "Patriarchs and Prophets," page
25:29 210, it says this: "As the lad," that's Joseph.
25:32 "As Joseph stood before his brothers,
25:36 his beautiful countenance lighted up with the spirit of
25:39 inspiration, they could not withhold their admiration,
25:44 but--but they did not choose to renounce their evil ways and
25:52 they hated the purity that reproved their sins.
25:57 The same spirit that actuated Cain was kindled
26:03 in their hearts."
26:05 And you can imagine that if Joseph is a type of Christ,
26:10 and Joseph was hated by his brothers because his purity
26:16 pointed out their sin, you can imagine what it did to Christ,
26:22 as they saw His purity and His love.
26:27 And so Joseph's brothers sold him into slavery.
26:32 But as he was being carried away to Egypt,
26:38 he made a decision right there in that moment,
26:43 in his heart, that he was going to serve the God of his father,
26:48 no matter what happened to him.
26:52 And even in the midst of anguish and hurting,
26:57 Joseph begins to find rest for his soul.
27:05 Why?
27:08 Because he had put his trust in God.
27:11 In Deuteronomy chapter 4, Moses is warning the children of
27:19 Israel not to worship idols, not to get involved in idolatry.
27:27 And he says to them that if they do,
27:33 then God is going to scatter them among the heathen.
27:40 And in Deuteronomy chapter 4, verse 29,
27:43 he says this: "But from there," that is from being scattered
27:49 among the world, "you will seek the Lord your God and you will
27:54 find Him if you seek Him with all of your heart and
27:57 all of your soul."
28:00 Here we see that Moses is telling us that if we seek God
28:06 we will find Him.
28:09 Psalm 14, verse 2 says: "The Lord looks down from heaven upon
28:13 the children of men to see if there are any who understand,
28:16 if there are any who seek God."
28:19 In Isaiah 55, verse 6, it says: "Seek the Lord while He
28:22 may be found.
28:23 Call upon Him while He is near."
28:26 And if you remember last week's lesson,
28:30 we looked at that phrase, "Come to Me."
28:34 It came from that verse in Matthew chapter 11,
28:37 verse 28, where Jesus said, "Come to Me all you who are
28:41 weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest."
28:44 Brothers and sisters, if we come to God,
28:47 we can find rest for our souls.
28:54 We must come to Him.
28:58 That is a prerequisite to us finding rest for our souls.
29:04 Notice what it says again in that book,
29:08 "Patriarchs and Prophets," page 213: "Joseph believed that
29:17 the God of his fathers would be his God.
29:21 He then and there gave himself fully to the Lord and he prayed
29:25 that the keeper of Israel would be with him in
29:28 the land of his exile."
29:30 Joseph was determined that he was going to place
29:34 his trust in God.
29:38 You know, Joseph had a promising future.
29:41 He had relatively a life of ease being the favored son of Jacob.
29:49 But things were about to change.
29:54 But then and there, Joseph realized that his life was in
30:01 God's hands and in the providence of God,
30:06 even that experience in Egypt was going to bring him blessing.
30:14 And he could claim that promise of Romans 8:28 that God can take
30:21 all things and turn it into something good for those who
30:24 love Him and are called according to His purpose.
30:29 "Patriarchs and Prophets," page 214,
30:33 goes on to say: "He would serve the Lord with
30:36 an undivided heart.
30:38 He would meet the trials of his lot with fortitude and perform
30:41 every duty with fidelity.
30:43 One day's experience had been the turning point
30:46 in Joseph's life.
30:49 Its terrible calamity had transformed him from a petted
30:52 child to a man, thoughtful, courageous,
30:57 and self-possessed."
30:59 Brothers and sisters, each and every one of us needs to have
31:02 that kind of an experience.
31:06 I'd like you to turn with me in your Bibles to Hebrews chapter
31:09 12, just back a couple of pages.
31:12 Hebrews chapter 12, and I'd like you to notice what it says
31:19 starting in verse 3.
31:22 The apostle Paul says to us: "For consider Him," that is
31:28 Christ, "who endured such hostility from sinners against
31:33 Himself, lest you become weary and discouraged in your souls.
31:39 You have not yet resisted to bloodshed,
31:42 striving against sin.
31:44 And you have forgotten the exhortation which speaks to you
31:47 as to sons: 'My son, do not despise the chastening of the
31:50 Lord, nor be discouraged when you are rebuked by Him;
31:54 for whom the Lord loves He chastens,
31:57 and scourges every son whom He receives.'
32:01 If you endure chastening,
32:03 God deals with you as with sons;
32:05 for what son is there whom a father does not chasten?
32:09 But if you are without chastening,
32:13 of which all have become partakers,
32:16 then you are illegitimate and not sons.
32:19 For furthermore, we have had human fathers who corrected us,
32:23 and we paid them respect.
32:26 Shall we not much more readily be in subjection to the Father
32:29 of spirits and live?
32:32 For they indeed for a few days chastened us as seemed best
32:35 to them, but He for our profit, that we may be partakers
32:40 of His holiness."
32:45 Here we can see that Paul is telling us that God allows
32:51 difficulties and allows difficult people into
32:56 our lives to transform us.
33:01 He uses those as the tools to mold us more and more into the
33:06 image of Christ, and Joseph is about to enter into
33:13 the schoolhouse of God.
33:18 He would be tempted by a seductress,
33:23 but God would be glorified in the faithfulness of his servant.
33:28 Joseph understood something that we all need to learn,
33:33 and that is simply this: there is nowhere you can go,
33:37 there is nothing that you can do,
33:42 that God isn't there, that God doesn't see it.
33:47 Jonah had to learn that lesson the hard way.
33:49 He tried to run away from God.
33:56 But, of course, there was a price to be paid
34:01 for doing what is right.
34:05 And you know the story.
34:10 Joseph would suffer for his principled decision.
34:19 He would be thrown into prison.
34:22 Turn with me to Luke chapter 6.
34:25 Luke chapter 6.
34:28 I'd like you to notice something that Jesus says to us.
34:35 Luke chapter 6, starting in verse 27.
34:44 Jesus says: "But I say to you: Love your enemies,
34:52 do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you,
34:58 and pray for those who spitefully use you.
35:01 To him who strikes you on the one cheek,
35:03 offer the other also.
35:05 And from him who takes away your cloak,
35:07 do not withhold your tunic either.
35:10 Give to everyone who asks of you.
35:12 And from him who takes away your goods do not ask them back.
35:15 And just as you want men to do to you,
35:17 you also do to them likewise.
35:19 But if you love those who love you,
35:24 what credit is that to you?
35:28 For even sinners love those who love them.
35:32 And if you do good to those who do good to you,
35:35 what credit is that to you?
35:37 For even sinners do the same.
35:41 And if you lend to those with whom you hope to receive back,
35:44 what credit is that to you?
35:46 For even sinners lend to sinners to receive as much back.
35:50 But love your enemies, do good, and lend,
35:54 hoping for nothing in return; and your reward will be great,
35:59 and you will be sons of the Most High.
36:01 For He is kind to the unthankful and the evil.
36:04 Therefore be merciful, just as your Father also is merciful."
36:09 Brothers and sisters, here we see that Jesus is showing us you
36:14 can't control the choices, the decisions,
36:18 of others.
36:21 But you can choose how you will respond,
36:24 even if you live in a dysfunctional family,
36:28 you can still have rest in Christ.
36:34 And so the question is, how are we going to respond when someone
36:41 says something that hurts us?
36:44 When there's strife and contention in the family,
36:48 and the question is how does Joseph who is a type of Christ,
36:52 how does he respond?
36:56 Now, obviously, his conditions were not ideal,
37:02 but they were real.
37:05 And rather than feeling sorry for himself,
37:09 rather than becoming angry and lashing out,
37:13 rather than trying to fix the problem himself,
37:17 he puts himself in the hands of God and he trusts that God is
37:22 going to work things out for him.
37:26 And instead of becoming bitter and angry with his brothers,
37:32 he forgives them.
37:35 And rather than spending his time in despair or in depression
37:40 or committing suicide, Joseph spends his time helping others.
37:47 So much so, that the guards notice that he is helpful to
37:57 them in encouraging the other prisoners and they,
38:01 so to speak, promote him.
38:07 He is given freedoms within the prison that others don't have.
38:13 And Joseph has the opportunity to help others and you know
38:17 the story.
38:18 There were two men that had dreams and God blessed Joseph
38:22 with the ability to interpret dreams and he tells them
38:27 what's going to happen to them.
38:29 And one is going to be restored to service of the king,
38:32 and the other is going to lose his life for the things
38:36 that he has done.
38:39 Now notice what it says in that book,
38:40 "Patriarchs and Prophets," this time on page 219: "Joseph
38:44 gradually gained the confidence of the keeper of the prison and
38:48 was finally entrusted with the charge of all the prisoners.
38:53 It was the part he acted in prison,
38:57 the integrity of his daily life and his sympathy for those who
39:01 were in trouble and distressed that opened the way for his
39:06 future prosperity and honor.
39:10 Every ray of light that we shed upon others is reflected
39:14 back to ourselves.
39:16 Every kind and sympathizing word spoken to the sorrowful,
39:21 every act to relieve the oppressed,
39:24 and every gift to the needy, if prompted by a right motive,
39:29 will result in blessing to the giver."
39:36 And Joseph says to the one who's going to be restored to service
39:43 to the king, he says, "Remember me.
39:46 When you stand before the king, tell him about me,
39:50 that I've been falsely accused, and please help me get
39:53 out of this place."
39:57 But you know, it didn't work that way, did it?
40:01 At first.
40:03 Joseph spent another two years in prison.
40:10 But all that while, he was obedient to his masters.
40:19 He did the will of God from the heart,
40:24 and the Bible says that God was with him.
40:30 You see, brothers and sisters, life on planet Earth isn't fair,
40:36 and God is not always rewarded.
40:40 And evil is not always immediately punished.
40:44 It was that way for Joseph and it is that way for us.
40:50 Turn with me in your Bibles to Ephesians chapter 6.
40:55 Ephesians chapter 6, the apostle Paul is speaking to the
41:00 church in Ephesus.
41:02 He's speaking to us and notice what he says,
41:07 starting in verse 5.
41:10 He says, "Bondservants," that's Joseph.
41:13 That's you and me, slaves to sin and addiction.
41:19 "Bondservants, be obedient to those who are your masters
41:22 according to the flesh, with fear and trembling,
41:25 in sincerity of heart, as to Christ;
41:27 not with eye-service, as men-pleasers,
41:30 but as bondservants of Christ, doing the will of God
41:35 from the heart, with goodwill doing service,
41:39 as to the Lord, and not to men, knowing that whatever good
41:42 anyone does, he will receive the same from the Lord,
41:44 whether he is a slave or free."
41:49 Here we see that Paul is telling us that it doesn't matter what
41:54 someone says to you or does to you.
41:57 Yes, those things are hurtful, yes,
41:59 they cause pain, yes, they cause us to have a lot of baggage that
42:02 we carry around with us.
42:05 But in spite of that, we have a choice.
42:09 We can choose whether or not to love them in spite
42:13 of their failures.
42:15 And he says we do it not to men, but we do it as
42:21 working unto God.
42:23 Jesus said, "Whatever you've done for the least of these,
42:26 you've done to Me."
42:29 I'd like you to look with me if you have your Quarterly study
42:32 with you, let's go to Thursday's lesson
42:36 and I'm running out of time.
42:37 I've got to hurry.
42:39 But I'd like you to notice what the last chapter says
42:42 on Thursday's lesson.
42:44 "Our relationships are miniature reflections of the great
42:49 controversy between Christ and Satan.
42:53 This means, then, that there are no perfect relationships.
42:58 Every relationship must have grown dynamics and Satan has
43:02 a vested interest in using all our relationships,
43:04 especially those closest to us to his advantage in order to
43:09 hurt and frustrate God's will for our lives.
43:12 We can be thankful that we are not left to fight these battles
43:15 on our own.
43:17 God's Word sets out principles for our relationships:
43:20 His promise to give us wisdom is also extended to our
43:24 relationships, and He--as He was with Joseph,
43:27 He promises to be with us, when our relationships prove
43:31 to be complex."
43:40 You see, brothers and sisters, God never claims to take away
43:48 the trouble.
43:51 He doesn't promise you a rose garden,
43:55 but He promises to be with you in the midst
43:58 of it all, amen.
44:00 Hebrews chapter 13, verse 5, says: "Let your conduct be
44:03 without covetousness, be content with such things as you have,
44:07 for He Himself has said, 'I will never leave you
44:10 nor forsake you.'"
44:13 God did not leave Abraham alone when he went to rescue Lot.
44:21 Those three Hebrew boys were not alone in the fiery furnace.
44:26 Daniel was not alone in the lion's den.
44:29 David was not alone fighting Goliath.
44:32 Joseph was not alone setting in the prison,
44:36 and you are not alone in whatever strife and contention
44:40 and difficulties that you are facing.
44:44 God is with you.
44:46 Turn with me in your Bibles to Matthew chapter 7.
44:49 Matthew 7.
44:51 I want you to notice what Jesus says,
44:56 starting in verse 24.
44:59 Matthew 7, verse 24: "Therefore whoever hears these sayings of
45:06 Mine, and does them, I will liken him to a wise man who
45:08 built his house on a rock: and the rain descends,
45:12 the flood came, the winds blew and beat on that house;
45:15 and it did not fall, for it was founded on the rock.
45:18 But everyone who hears these sayings of Mine,
45:20 and does not do them, will be like a foolish man who built his
45:23 house on the sand: the rain descended,
45:25 the floods came, the winds blew and beat on the house;
45:27 and it fell.
45:29 And great was its fall."
45:32 You see, brothers and sisters, you cannot control what anyone
45:36 else says or does, but you can control how you respond.
45:40 And in the power of God, you can live that righteous life.
45:45 Christ wants to live His life through you,
45:48 and if you build your life on the rock of Christ,
45:52 you have a firm foundation to stand.
45:55 And even in the midst of dysfunction in the family,
45:58 even amongst strife and difficulties and challenges,
46:01 you can have rest.
46:04 You can have peace in God if you place your trust in Him.
46:09 Romans chapter 12, verse 18 says: "If it is possible,
46:13 as much as it depends on you, live at peace with all men."
46:20 In Matthew chapter 11, verse 28, Jesus said,
46:23 "Come unto Me all you who are weary and heavy laden
46:28 and I will give you rest."
46:31 So, brothers and sisters, even in the midst of sin,
46:35 even in the midst of the strife and contentions of family life,
46:41 we can still find rest in Christ.
46:45 I'd like to close with a quote from "The Spirit of Prophecy,
46:49 Volume I," chapter 14.
46:51 In talking about the story of Joseph,
46:55 it says this: "Here is an example to all generations who
46:59 shall live upon the earth.
47:01 Although they may be exposed to temptations,
47:03 yet they should ever realize that there is a defense at hand.
47:06 And it will be their own fault if they are preserved.
47:11 God will be a present help, and His Spirit a shield.
47:15 Although surrounded with the severest temptations,
47:18 there is a source of strength to which they can apply
47:20 and resist them.
47:22 How fierce was the assault upon Joseph's morals.
47:25 It came from one of influence, the most likely to lead astray,
47:29 yet how promptly and firmly he resisted.
47:33 He suffered for his virtue and integrity,
47:36 for she who had led him astray, revenged herself upon the virtue
47:40 she could not subvert and by her influence caused him to be cast
47:44 into prison by charging him with a foul wrong.
47:48 Here Joseph suffered because he would not yield his integrity.
47:53 He had placed his reputation and interests in the hands of God.
47:58 And although he was suffered to be afflicted for a time,
48:02 to prepare him to fill for an important position,
48:06 yet God safely guarded that reputation that was blackened by
48:11 a wicked accuser, and afterward, in His own good time,
48:15 caused it to shine."
48:19 And God can do the same for you.
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48:53 Brothers and sisters, you can have rest in Christ,
48:57 in spite of everything going on around you.
49:01 You want that kind of joy?
49:04 You want that kind of peace?
49:08 Let's pray.
49:09 O loving Father, we thank You for this study today.
49:13 Thank You for the reminder, Lord,
49:15 that our joy, our peace, our rest,
49:18 doesn't come from others, but it comes from You.
49:21 And, Lord, in spite of everything that's going on
49:23 around us, we can have rest, even in our families today.
49:29 And it seems, Lord, that we have the greatest contentions with
49:33 those that we love the most.
49:35 Forgive us and help us to exemplify Christ to our families
49:41 and we pray and ask it in Jesus's name, amen.
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51:01 She would go out and sleep with other guys to get drugs and
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51:19 she's a cashier there.
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51:23 seen in my life.
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51:52 that I had by her.
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51:58 I'm done."
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52:19 I gave my life to God now because of these truths that
52:22 I'm learning from Doug Batchelor.
52:24 Just because Doug taught it didn't make me real sure about
52:27 going to this church and I really didn't want anything
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52:54 Don't come to my church."
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53:10 Stuff if I'd have had when I was younger that would have been
53:12 life-changing to me."
53:15 I said, "I've got to share this with the world."
53:17 I said, "I want to preach, I want to teach."
53:19 He gives me the book, says, "Study that."
53:22 Well, now that I'm a Bible worker,
53:23 I'm able to go reach people that most of the normal churches
53:27 wouldn't even bother to even speak to.
53:29 I'm able to go out and reach the people who have lived the life
53:33 that I've lived.
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53:39 I want to show you what my life is like now.
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54:12 female: Well, my conversion story is when I was in the
54:17 Philippines, I just graduated as a nurse and afterwards I did not
54:22 have any religion and one time I found myself inside a small
54:28 church, Catholic church, in Manila,
54:33 and before a big cross.
54:35 And I was kneeling before and I could hear Jesus telling me to
54:41 enter the convent, save myself and also my family.
54:46 And I said, "Lord, I would like to follow You all the way."
54:49 At that point, I seemed to be happy externally,
54:53 but because inside the convent we don't read the Bible,
54:57 we don't study about the Word of God.
54:59 We prayed the rosaries, we also at the same time studied
55:03 the lives of the saints and also our founders,
55:08 and the encyclicals of the Pope and the Virgin Mary.
55:12 And so I do not know the truth and I had this torture of
55:15 conscience, the guilty feelings that cannot be resolved.
55:20 So I would confess to the priest in the confessional box,
55:23 saying, "Father, forgive me.
55:25 Since my last confession was last week.
55:29 Since then I have committed the following sin including the root
55:33 cause: why am I falling and falling in that same sin
55:36 over and over again."
55:39 And still for 21 long years, I struggle and I struggle
55:44 and I struggle.
55:46 I realized that I was totally empty,
55:49 I was totally helpless and hopeless.
55:53 And so depressed and so desperate that I would like
55:57 already to end my life.
55:59 I was working for five years as dean of the University
56:03 of San Agustin College of Nursing in Iloilo City,
56:06 one of the islands in the Philippines.
56:10 After five years I received a commission from my parents to
56:15 help my sister who is being a battered woman.
56:19 This is one of the reasons why I came over to United States.
56:24 It is because my sister needs my help.
56:29 As I was working in the hospital in New York,
56:31 my boss set up--and he was so gracious enough to give me
56:35 an invitation to the Millennium Prophecy.
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56:43 my heart really was beating so fast,
56:46 and my mind, I'm able to grasp the truth,
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56:59 My personal relationship with Jesus,
57:02 I can see Jesus as my personal Savior.
57:06 He is not only the Savior of the whole world but He is
57:10 my personal Savior.
57:12 He was the one who delivered me mightily from the depths of sin,
57:18 from the mighty clay.
57:20 Pastor Doug Batchelor has been used by the
57:23 Lord in my conversion.
57:25 The Amazing Facts, I owe to them.
57:28 The Lord really blessed this ministry and I'm so proud I was
57:34 able to attend this Millennium Prophecy.
57:38 My life has never been the same.
57:40 It has given me the peace, the joy,
57:43 that never--I have never tasted in my life,
57:48 and now I am set free to be able to work for Him
57:53 and to follow Him.
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