The Incredible Journey

Devoted: A Father's Love

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00:28 I'm standing at the starting line of the Boston Marathon.
00:31 Each year over 30,000 people set off from here on a grueling
00:37 42 km run. The marathon along with Iron Man are two of the
00:45 toughest athletic endeavors on the planet, the ultimate test of
00:49 strength and endurance. They're considered by most as barely
00:55 possible but not for the team Hoyt father/son duo.
00:59 What makes this duo so special is that Rick, the son, was born
01:04 with cerebral palsy and is quadriplegic. And so his father
01:09 Dick pushes and pulls him in specialized wheelchairs, bikes
01:13 and boats. They've completed over 1000 races and are as
01:18 devoted to each other as ever continuing to inspire millions
01:23 of people around the world with their trademark motto, Yes you
01:29 can. This is one of the greatest love stories of all time.
01:34 A father who climbs mountains, runs marathons, travels to the
01:40 ends of the earth to give his son a better life. A life that
01:45 transcends the limitations of his body. This story shows the
01:50 true perseverance and determination, love conquers all
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02:11 A 3.8 km swim, a 180 km bike ride, 42.2 km run, the Ironman
02:21 is arguably one of the world's most challenging one day
02:24 sporting events. It initially began as a contest in 1978 to
02:29 see which athletes between runners, swimmers or cyclists
02:34 were the most fit. The Iron Man triathlon has developed into a
02:37 worldwide competition of determination and awe inspiring
02:41 human fetes. To say an iron man takes a lot of energy is an
02:47 understatement. The average iron man athlete burns around
02:51 7000 to 10,000 calories during those grueling 226 km., four to
02:58 five times the average daily intake. To us, it would seem
03:03 barely possible to do one by ourselves. But imagine how
03:08 difficult it would be to push and carry someone else. Well
03:13 that is exactly what Dick Hoyt does. For 226 km he pulls,
03:20 pushes and carries his son Rick who was born with cerebral palsy
03:24 unable to walk or talk. Richard "Rick" Eugene Hoyt, Jr. was born
03:33 January 10, 1962 in Holland, Massachusetts, the first son of
03:38 Dick and Judy Hoyt. Due to an umbilical cord being wrapped
03:43 around his neck, Rick was oxygen deprived at birth and was
03:47 consequently born with cerebral palsy.
03:50 The first time that I saw
03:52 Rick he was in an incubator and he was doing pushups and I said
03:57 wow. Man my son, he's going to be an athlete. He's doing
04:00 pushups already and he's only two days old. Come to find out
04:05 he was having spasm and he ended up having severe brain
04:09 damage.
04:10 Doctors told the devastated parents that their son
04:13 would have minimal quality of life and recommended that he
04:17 should be institutionalized. His parents were told to forget him.
04:22 He's going to be nothing but a vegetable.
04:24 My wife and I, we
04:26 cried and we talked about it and we said No, we're not going to
04:29 put Rick away like the doctor suggested, put him in an
04:34 institution. He's going to be nothing but a vegetable for the
04:35 rest of his life.
04:37 We said we're going to bring him up just like any other child and
04:39 this is what we have done.
04:41 Determined to give him the best life possible regardless of his
04:45 medical diagnosis, Judy and Dick Hoyt, took Rick home.
04:50 Family life at first when we brought Rick home from the
04:53 hospital was very tough because we had all these problems and we
04:57 didn't know exactly what was going to happen with Rick and
05:00 actually my wife, she didn't want to go outside when she
05:03 first came home with Rick because of she thought what was
05:07 going to happen.
05:08 Rick's mother Judy spent hours each day teaching Rick the
05:11 alphabet with letters and posting signs on different
05:15 objects around the house and soon Rick had learned the
05:18 alphabet. We could tell by looking in Rick's eyes that he's
05:23 paying attention and he understood everything that we
05:26 were talking about. So we tried teaching his the alphabet, you
05:30 know, and we tried teaching him the numbers, and we did a lot of
05:35 reading with Rick and we could tell that he understood
05:37 everything we were saying because of the look in his eyes.
05:41 And what we used to do is have him shake his head yes or no
05:44 to all the question that we were asking him. And he was able to
05:48 do that and we were able to communicate. But we have such a
05:51 bond with Rick now that we know what each other is thinking.
05:55 It's unbelievable.
05:57 Growing up with two brothers Rick wasn't offered any special
06:03 treatment. He was included with his brothers and did everything
06:06 they did from building tree houses to sledding in the winter
06:10 and swimming in the summer. When playing baseball Rick was the
06:15 umpire. During hockey, Rick was a goalie. To his brothers he was
06:19 just one of them.
06:21 Rick's two brothers are just unbelievable the way they treat
06:27 Rick and handle Rick. They all loved Rick and they did things
06:30 for him. They built tree house outside and they'd carry him
06:33 up there. You know, they'd bury him in sand when we went to the
06:37 beaches. I mean we used to go do a lot of camping and we'd go
06:41 to camp grounds and they have these big swimming pools there
06:43 and they'd take Rick and they'd throw him in the pool and
06:46 everybody else that's looking and they're freaking out and
06:49 Rick's sinking down. He's looking up at us and he's
06:52 laughing and then they'd jump in and get him up, I would jump in
06:54 and get him. I mean, we were able to, we did everything as a
06:58 family and everything that we could do, we found a way to do
07:01 it with Rick. The boys were just unbelievable
07:05 However, life wasn't easy for Rick or his family. They faced
07:09 constant challenges at every turn with one constant battle
07:13 being the fact that Rick was unable to communicate verbally.
07:17 He'd wave his arms and try to do anything just to get our
07:22 attention, so he could communicate with us.
07:24 Although his family did their best to interpret what Rick was
07:29 communicating they could never be 100 percent sure. However all
07:34 this changed in 1974 when engineering students at Tufts
07:39 University in Medford, Massachusetts developed a
07:42 communication device for Rick that the family would eventually
07:45 dub the Hope Machine. The Hope Machine's probably one of the
07:50 most important devices that Rick ever had because we wanted to
07:53 get him in a public school and Rick couldn't talk. So we went
07:57 and met some engineers from Tufts University, Boston, and we
08:00 talked to them and they built what was called the TIC, Tufts
08:04 Interactive Communicator and Rick's mother named it the Hope
08:08 Machine. And so the engineers were coming to our house and
08:12 everybody's betting what were the first words Rick was ever
08:14 going to say. Well his mom's saying it's going to be Hi mom
08:17 and me the dad, no it's going to be Hi Dad. Well the Boston
08:20 Bruins were going for the Stanley cup and the very first
08:22 words he ever said was Go Bruins So we knew right then and there
08:27 that he understood everything that was going on and he loved
08:30 sports.
08:32 For 12 very long years all that I could do was cry, laugh and
08:36 move my head to answer questions the people asked. When I got my
08:43 first communication device the feeling was joyous. For the first
08:48 time I could tell Dad, Mom and the rest of the world exactly
08:53 how I felt.
08:55 Unable to talk and classified as disabled meant that up until now
09:01 Rick had not been entitled to the same schooling as other
09:04 students. However, Rick's parents, mostly his mother Judy
09:09 fought tirelessly for the passage of a Massachusetts
09:13 education reform law that forced public school districts to
09:18 accommodate individuals with disabilities and educate them
09:22 as they would any other student.
09:24 Mom fought for the rights of me and thousands of others to enter
09:29 public school. She pushed ahead even if it meant calling
09:33 senators from different states to make sure her point was heard
09:38 It was important to Mom that I be fully included.
09:43 The addition of this communication device proved that
09:48 Rick was capable of learning and with this Rick was able to
09:52 attend public schools for the first time.
09:54 I wanted to be treated like any other student as far as school
10:00 work and responsibilities. I also wanted to be treated like
10:05 any other student outside the classroom. You might be
10:09 wondering whether or not people stared at me or made fun of me.
10:14 The answer to that question is yes but in hoping they were
10:21 staring at me because of my stunning good looks.
10:24 Rick not only attended middle school but went on to graduate
10:29 from Westfield High School in 1984.
10:32 _ just unbelievable because that was our main goal
10:36 for Rick to be able to live a life like everybody else and one
10:40 of the most important things was for Rick to be able to go to
10:43 school and we were able to get Rick into school and then see
10:47 him to go to high school was unbelievable.
10:49 However someone who always pushed the limits, Rick didn't
10:54 stop there. He applied and was accepted to Boston University
10:58 where he studied special education. In 1993 at the age of
11:03 31 Rick became the first non speaking quadriplegic to ever
11:08 graduate from the School of Education at Boston University.
11:11 Rick later worked at Boston College in a computer lab
11:15 helping to develop systems to aid in communication and other
11:19 tasks for people with disabilities. Rick not only
11:23 broke down academic barriers but smashed athletic barriers as
11:29 well. In 1977 at age 15 Rick used his Hope Machine to ask his
11:35 father if they could run together in a five-mile road
11:38 race to support a La Crosse player from his school who had
11:42 recently been paralyzed.
11:43 I wanted to show this person that life goes on and he could
11:48 still live a productive life. That is why I turned to my dad
11:54 and said, Dad, we have to run in this race.
11:57 Well at the time I was 40 years old. I was not a runner. I used
12:02 to run maybe three times a week a mile each time to keep my
12:05 weight down. And all we had was a Mulhowel wheelchair which was
12:09 form fitted, prescription made for Rick's body. And we had a
12:13 hard time pushing him in it, never mind running with it. But
12:16 we went down to the race. It was a five-mile race. They gave Rick
12:19 and I the number double zero and the gun went off and Rick and I
12:22 took off with all the other runners. Well we thought that we
12:25 would go to the corner and turn around and come back. Well we
12:29 didn't. We finished the whole five miles coming in next to
12:32 last but not last. We have a picture of Rick coming across
12:36 the finish line and he's got the biggest smile you ever saw in
12:39 your life. When we got home that night, Rick wrote on his
12:43 computer, Dad when I'm running feels like my disability
12:47 disappears which was a very powerful message for me. You
12:50 think about it. Somebody's in a wheelchair, can't talk, use
12:53 their arms, their legs and now they're out there running, their
12:57 disability disappears. He called himself Free Bird because now
13:00 he was free and able to be out there competing and running with
13:03 everybody else.
13:05 Team Hoyt knew they just had to keep running. So they had a
13:10 special racing wheelchair made for Rick, a streamlined
13:13 three wheeler that
13:15 wouldn't keep veering off course Team Hoyt steadily began doing
13:19 longer and bigger races and eventually set their sights on
13:24 the Boston Marathon. Race organizers turned them down at
13:28 first, but finally relented although the Hoyts got no
13:32 special treatment. They would only be allowed to compete if
13:38 they qualified in Rick's age group. This was quite a
13:41 challenge as Rick was in his 20s while Dick, the one who was
13:45 doing the running, was in his 40s. Yet with determination and
13:50 perseverance they qualified and so began a father/son legacy.
13:56 The Boston Marathon became an annual event for them. Their
14:00 personal record for the Boston Marathon is 30 minutes shy of
14:05 the world record, a record set by a person running alone.
14:09 The message I am trying to tell everyone is that disabled people
14:15 are people too, and just love the opportunity to be included
14:21 in everyday life.
14:22 We've had more people that come up to us and they say we want to
14:27 thank you because we saw you out there competing and we were on
14:30 the sidelines and they said, If you can do it, we can do it.
14:34 Just as all people, people with disabilities and people that are
14:38 that don't have any disabilities
14:42 A few tears after their first Boston Marathon, someone
14:45 suggested why
14:46 not compete in triathlons and Iron Man. Now a triathlon
14:52 contains three elements, swim, ride, and run. For Dick who
14:56 who hadn't ridden a bike since he was six and who couldn't swim
14:59 one would think he was up against an insurmountable
15:04 challenge. But Dick attacked the idea with a fury that could only
15:09 be fueled by love, love for his son who couldn't be happier
15:13 competing.
15:14 Let me put it into perspective for you. The average triathlete
15:20 probably weighs about 150 pounds and their bike weighs about 17
15:27 pounds. This is a total of 167 pounds. Dad weighs about 180
15:36 pounds and our bike weighs about 70 pounds because it needs to be
15:42 heavier and stronger to hold both me and my seat. Dad isn't
15:46 very pleased about this but I now weight about 100 pounds
15:50 thanks in part to a regular diet of ice cream and chocolate cake.
15:56 This totals 350 pounds or almost 200 pounds more than the average
16:03 triathlete with his bike. The same math could be used to
16:08 figure out who heavy a load dad has to pull in the swim portion
16:13 as well.
16:15 From there it was on to the most challenging of all
16:17 sporting events. The Iron Man Triathlon in Kona, Hawaii.
16:25 This grueling event is comprised of a 3.8 km swim, a 180 km ride
16:33 and a 42.2 km marathon run. In January 1988 after a year of
16:41 racing that included one Iron Man, a half Iron Man, three
16:45 Olympic distance triathlons, five marathons, three half
16:50 marathons and 15 short road races, Dick wrote to the Hawaii
16:55 Iron Man officials to ask permission to compete in the
17:00 1988 event. However, concerned that the swim portion would be
17:02 too dangerous to compete in their application was rejected.
17:07 However, Dick was undeterred and he'd been rejected before. Dick
17:11 took it in his stride to make it happen. He immediately replied
17:17 detailing exactly how they would be able to complete the swim and
17:21 emphasizing that they had swum triathlon distances before in
17:25 all kinds of waters. But the answer was the same. The
17:30 Hawaiian Iron Man officials regretted but they couldn't
17:33 allow Team Hoyt to compete for safety reasons. However through
17:40 incredible perseverance Team Hoyt was invited to officially
17:42 invited to participate in the Iron Man World Championship, an
17:47 event which is really the ultimate test of strength and
17:52 endurance. In 1989, Rick became the first disabled person in the
17:58 world to ever compete in and complete the Iron Man in Hawaii
18:04 due in part to Team Hoyt's dedication and efforts Iron Man
18:08 now has a visiting challenge division. Nearly 24 years later
18:13 Rick became the first disabled person to be inducted into the
18:18 Iron Man Hall of Fame.
18:20 I was inducted as the 26th member and Dad, just behind me
18:27 the 27th, because as you know I always finish just ahead of Dad
18:33 first. This made me feel very happy being a part of such an
18:40 iconic accomplishment with my father. I was able to show the
18:46 world that my body does not define my spirit. Through this
18:52 experience of this athletic achievement my father and I have
18:56 a greater love for one another because we shared the same
19:01 dedication at this event.
19:02 Team Hoyt has competed in more than 1100 athletic events in the
19:09 last 35 years. They've run the Boston Marathon 32 times plus
19:15 39 other marathons and 252 triathlons including six Iron
19:19 Man distance events. They've run across the United States of
19:23 America, through 18 states, from Santa Monica Pier in Los Angeles
19:28 to Marriot Long Warf in Boston Harbor, Massachusetts. The whole
19:34 thing distancing 6011 km and lasting 47 consecutive days
19:41 averaging 127 km a day. In 2005, the Hoyts used their popularity
19:49 and fame to create a foundation, the Hoyt Foundation, to help
19:54 others with disability take part in athletic pursuits, promote
19:58 and foster inclusion in everyday life and raise
20:03 disability awareness. Their motto is "Yes You Can" to
20:07 promote the message that you can do anything you set your mine to
20:11 for individuals with or without disability. For the Hoyts, after
20:16 decades of being told, No you can't, they proclaim a
20:20 different message for others to hear.
20:23 To me finishing is so important. It is a representation of my
20:29 life. Mom and Dad could have quite when I was born, but they
20:35 did not. They could have given up trying to help me learn to
20:38 communicate or trying to get me into public school. They chose
20:43 to continue and because of that I have had one heck of a ride.
20:48 So many people race now because of me and my Dad. I love to
20:56 inspire everyone to be able to run or have someone push them
21:01 if they are unable to run themselves.
21:04 Today Rick is 53 years old. You know what they say, he's going
21:08 be nothing but a vegetable and we still can't figure out how a
21:12 vegetable is, but he's graduated from high school, graduated from
21:15 Boston University. He lives all by himself in his own apartment
21:18 and Rick and I competed around the world over 1100 athletic
21:23 events. And he's making himself well known throughout the world
21:28 and now we got a team Hoyt _. We got a team Hoyt
21:31 New England. We got a team Hoyt San Diego. We got team Hoyt
21:35 Arizona. We got a team Hoyt Canada and they actually want us
21:38 to start one over in Japan. So you can see that this person
21:41 they wanted to put away and see what he's doing to everybody all
21:46 over the world.
21:48 This father/son team have proved to everyone that anything
21:52 can be achieved with enough persistence, dedication and
21:56 ultimately the bottomless depths of love that can only be found
22:01 in the unique bond between the father and his son.
22:04 I have said this so many times, Dad is my hands and my feet.
22:10 He is the wind beneath my wings. There are many things I'd like
22:15 to do for my dad. I wish I could sit him down in a wheelchair and
22:20 I would push him, but obviously because of my ability, I
22:27 cannot. I have quite a list of things I would do with Dad.
22:33 Pull, pedal and push him in a triathlon. I would carry him on
22:39 my shoulders up a mountain. I would do anything for my Dad.
22:47 Dick, at age 75, still pushes his son in a wheelchair in races
22:53 across the country. Why? Because his son, who was diagnosed with
22:59 cerebral palsy at birth forgets his disability and never feels
23:05 better than he does during those races. And so Dick keeps going
23:09 despite warning from his doctors despite stents in his arteries,
23:14 despite surviving a heart attack This is what unconditional love
23:21 looks like.
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24:07 Fully devoted, 100 percent committed, unconditional love.
24:13 Wouldn't you like that kind of love and devotion to help you
24:18 through life's tough times. Well you can. Just ask for it and
24:24 begin to experience it right now as we pray.
24:28 Dear Heavenly Father, thank you for your unconditional love and
24:33 commitment to us. Thank you for being here in our time of need.
24:37 Thank you for your willingness to help us and carry us when we
24:41 feel unable to continue alone. We thank you that you are a God
24:46 of love who is completely devoted to us.
24:49 In Jesus' name, Amen.
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25:09 Stories don't come much more inspirational than this one
25:12 about Dick and Rick Hoyt. It's the story of a father, Dick Hoyt
25:17 who pushes his son Rick in a wheelchair in marathons and
25:22 triathlons across the country. In fact, in over 1100 grueling
25:28 events. Why because his son born with cerebral palsy and unable
25:34 to walk or talk forgets his disability and never feels
25:39 better than he does during those races. In fact, I've been so
25:45 inspired by Team Hoyt that I want to share their story and
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27:27 journey be sure to join us again next week when we will share
27:31 another of life's journey together and experience another
27:34 new and thought provoking perspective on the peace,
27:39 insight, understanding and hope that only the Bible can give us.
27:43 The Incredible Journey truly is television that changes lives.
27:49 Until next week remember the ultimate destination of life's
27:53 journey. Now I saw a new heaven and a new earth. And God will
27:59 wipe away every tear from their eyes. There shall be no more
28:02 death nor sorrow nor crying. There shall be no more pain for
28:06 the former things have passed away.
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