Perfecting Me

Character Doing Our Best

Three Angels Broadcasting Network

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Participants: Wintley Phipps (Host), Adly Campos, Dr E T Stoddart, Ruthie Jacobson

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00:27 Hi, I'm Wintley Phipps,
00:28 and welcome to our program Perfecting Me,
00:31 Becoming More Like Jesus.
00:34 I'm so glad you joined us.
00:36 My guests today on our program are Ruthie Jacobsen,
00:39 Head of Prayer Ministry of the North American division
00:41 of Seventh-day Adventist,
00:43 Pastor Errol Stoddart,
00:44 Senior Pastor of the Church of the Oranges
00:46 of Seventh-day Adventist in Orange, New Jersey,
00:49 and Mrs. Adly Campos,
00:51 Speaker and President of Family Well-Being International.
00:54 You'll hear from them a little later.
00:57 Throughout the 17th and 18th centuries,
01:00 Antonio Stradivari, built the most extraordinary violins.
01:05 The beauty and clarity of the sound are legendary.
01:10 In 2010, centuries later,
01:13 one of his violins sold for $16 million.
01:18 As he labored in his studio, Stradivari had one rule.
01:23 No violin was to leave the shop
01:26 until it was as close to perfection
01:30 as humanly possible.
01:32 He's known to have said,
01:34 "God needs violins to send His music into the world,
01:39 and if my violins are defective,
01:42 God's music will be spoiled."
01:45 I believe the lives we live are God's music to the world.
01:51 And in order for the music to be as beautiful as possible,
01:55 our lives must be emptied of all
01:58 that is unlike the character of God.
02:01 Our lives must be in tune with the beauty of holiness.
02:07 If you are like me, you probably view
02:08 becoming more like God and developing His character
02:12 as both exciting and daunting, noble and intimidating,
02:18 a great dream and some think impossible.
02:22 It has taken me many years to understand
02:24 that to become a follower of Jesus,
02:27 means to live as He lived.
02:29 And no matter how overwhelming the thought,
02:32 to accomplish that goal,
02:34 I had to embrace the pursuit of divine perfection
02:40 and the character of God as my life's primary goal.
02:44 I began to see the pursuit of divine perfection
02:47 as fundamental to my character development
02:51 and spiritual progress.
02:53 This is what our program is all about today,
02:56 Perfecting Me.
03:03 Because of sin for the last 6,000 years,
03:08 true perfection, inherent, innate,
03:12 natural born perfection has not been available to us.
03:17 The Bible says we were born in sin and shapen in iniquity.
03:23 In sin, did my mother conceive me?
03:27 On this side of the fall of Adam and Eve,
03:29 there has never been true inborn,
03:32 inbred perfection.
03:35 Sin and iniquity has been a visitor to our fathers
03:38 and children unto the third and fourth generation.
03:42 When the forbidden fruit was eaten in disobedience,
03:45 perfection for man died, and sin began its reign.
03:50 And since that day,
03:52 no man has been able to claim true perfection.
03:58 Romans 3:10 says, "As it is written,
04:01 'There is none righteous, no not one.'"
04:06 Today, mankind lives in a swamp of imperfection.
04:11 Romans 3:23 says, "For all have sinned
04:15 and come short of the glory of God."
04:19 If that be true,
04:20 how is it then that the Word of God call
04:24 some imperfect men of God perfect?
04:29 Genesis 6:9, the Bible says,
04:32 "These are the generations of Noah.
04:35 Noah was a just man and perfect in his generations,
04:41 and Noah walked with God."
04:43 The Book of Job 1:1 says,
04:46 "There was a man in the land of Uz,
04:48 whose name was Job,
04:51 and that man was perfect and upright,
04:55 and one that feared God, and eschewed evil."
05:00 How could this be?
05:02 I believe, it is because God has a very different view
05:05 of perfection than we do.
05:10 You see, there are other definitions of perfection
05:12 than the one we subscribe to usually.
05:16 They are definitions of perfection like,
05:19 "I believe God embraces.
05:21 I believe He applies to the human condition."
05:25 These are definitions of perfection
05:28 that are full of grace, full of mercy.
05:32 The first definition of perfection
05:34 we need to understand
05:35 is the definition that sees something perfect,
05:40 that is as free of flaws and defects
05:45 as much as possible.
05:48 I'm a singer, and I can tell you every singer
05:52 in every song makes mistakes.
05:56 But the great ones make a stumble
05:59 look like a pirouette.
06:02 I want you to know the very best we can
06:06 and the very best we know how
06:10 God sees us doing that
06:13 and says perfect.
06:17 Yes,
06:18 God sees our trying sincerely to be perfect,
06:24 and He gives us a perfect grade
06:28 for trying to be perfect.
06:32 Have you ever had a teacher
06:33 give you a poor grade but an A for effort?
06:38 Well, God sees us doing the best we know how,
06:42 and God says perfect, A for effort.
06:49 The servant of Lord says,
06:50 "We are to bring glory to God by doing our best
06:56 to be perfect men and perfect women."
07:01 Christ looks at the spirit,
07:03 and when He sees us carrying our burden with faith,
07:07 His perfect holiness atones for our shortcomings.
07:13 And when we do our best, He becomes our righteousness,
07:20 He becomes our perfection.
07:24 Wow.
07:26 What a God!
07:27 As we do our best,
07:29 the blessing of God will rest upon us.
07:32 Shall we not arise as servant of God and build?
07:37 Many believe, "Because Jesus paid it all,
07:40 we are not required to do anything at all.
07:45 And because our mistakes are covered,
07:47 we don't have to stress ourselves
07:50 about repeating those mistakes occasionally,
07:54 or maybe regularly, or even frequently."
07:57 And we console ourselves with that mantra,
08:00 "Nobody is perfect."
08:02 The truest perfection man will ever know
08:06 is not determined by his personal achievements
08:11 but rather by his possession of the virtues of Christ,
08:16 like simplicity, humility,
08:18 and joyful obedience to the will of God.
08:22 So God sees that as being perfect as He is perfect.
08:29 God reckons our sincere efforts
08:32 to be like the Father and the Son,
08:35 and He says, "Perfect."
08:38 God is pleased with men who do not think that
08:41 they have attained perfection
08:44 but who are constantly trying to improve.
08:49 And He would have us come into connection with Himself
08:54 and increase in understanding.
08:57 He wants us to reform our habits
09:00 always rising higher
09:02 and approaching nearer the standard of perfection.
09:08 And so if we do our best,
09:12 it is all the Lord requires.
09:15 He will give us the strength to do our best,
09:20 and we can resist temptation
09:23 not in our own strength but in His strength.
09:29 Let every one of us ask ourselves,
09:32 "Am I a genuine Christian?
09:34 Am I doing my very best to perfect a character
09:40 after the divine model?"
09:43 I want you to see a video of a man
09:45 doing the best he can for the Lord,
09:47 courtesy of our friends from CBN News.
10:00 Playing music comes as naturally as breathing
10:03 for 58-year-old Blues musician Daryl Davis.
10:06 Well, I've been playing music professionally full-time
10:09 since 1980
10:11 when I graduated college at the age of 22.
10:14 Through music, Davis has formed some unique friendships.
10:17 That's Sam Philips, the man who discovered Elvis Presley,
10:21 Chuck Berry, the boxer, Joe Frager,
10:24 Dolly Parton.
10:25 And also unlikely ones.
10:27 And that was the head of the Maryland Ku Klux Klan.
10:31 How did you get to be friends with members of the KKK?
10:34 I just happened to be, in 1983,
10:38 a country music had made a resurgence in this country.
10:41 So I was the only black guy in this country band
10:45 and consequently the only black guy
10:48 in the many other places where we played.
10:49 One place was the Silver Dollar Lounge in Frederick, Maryland.
10:53 After a performance, a white man stopped Davis
10:56 as he walked off the stage.
10:58 And he says,
10:59 "You know, I really like your all's music."
11:01 And I said, "Thank you." I shook his hand.
11:03 And I don't drink but I went back to his table,
11:05 and I had a cranberry juice with him.
11:07 And then he makes the remark
11:08 when the waitresses brings my cranberry juice,
11:10 he clings my glass and cheers me.
11:12 He says, "You know, this is the first time
11:14 I ever sat down and have a drink with the black man."
11:17 Well, I'm thinking, "Well, it was one night,
11:18 this guy was really having a night of first,
11:21 and I said why?
11:22 And again I was naive.
11:25 And I wasn't trying to be facetious.
11:27 I said, "Well, why is that?"
11:29 He stared at the table top and didn't answer me,
11:32 and then hit a friend sitting next to me,
11:34 he goes, "Tell him, tell him, tell him."
11:36 I said, "Tell me."
11:37 And finally he says, "I'm a member of Ku Klux Klan."
11:40 Since age 10,
11:42 when first confronted with the realities of racism,
11:44 Davis pondered one question,
11:46 "How can you hate me when you don't know me?"
11:49 His unlikely KKK connection
11:51 inspired him to start getting answers.
11:53 Some years later,
11:55 well, I decided I was going to write a book on the Klan.
11:59 His research often put him in some dangerous situations,
12:03 but it also led to an unexpected change
12:05 in the relationship he shared with certain Klan members.
12:08 I would ask them questions
12:10 and they would answer the questions.
12:13 But they wouldn't ask for my opinion.
12:14 And then overtime, you know, I would say,
12:18 "So what do you think about blah, blah, blah?"
12:21 And they would say, "Well, I think dadadadada."
12:24 And then they would say,
12:25 "Well, what do you think about it, Daryl?"
12:28 "Oh, wait a minute. All of a sudden I have value."
12:30 Davis says he's convinced 25 members of the Ku Klux Klan
12:34 to leave the organization
12:35 simply through friendly conversation.
12:37 And when they did so,
12:39 they gave me their robes and hoods,
12:40 that's just not done.
12:41 Yeah.
12:43 Yeah, this uniform represents white supremacy.
12:46 And you're taking it off and giving it to a black man.
12:48 As a new generation of African-Americans
12:51 enter adulthood,
12:52 they're fighting racism their own way
12:54 rather than trying to change one mind at a time
12:57 as Davis has done,
12:58 this activists generation is using social media
13:01 to reach the masses.
13:03 Some in the Black Lives Matter movement
13:05 have been critical of Davis,
13:06 saying he is defeating their purpose
13:08 with his relational approach.
13:10 The fact that I would sit down
13:12 and spend so much time with the enemy
13:14 when I should be devoting my time
13:16 to changing the system of one supremacy.
13:18 Davis believes this younger generation
13:20 has the right intent,
13:22 although their methods can taint the mission.
13:24 You need a multi pronged attack from the front, from the side,
13:28 from the back, through the rear window, whatever.
13:30 You don't change the system,
13:33 without changing the people behind the system.
13:36 Okay?
13:37 That's why I'm sitting down with them and I've had success.
13:40 Caitlin Burke, CBN News. Baltimore, Maryland.
13:48 Joining us again are my guests, Ruthie Jacobsen, Adly Campos,
13:52 and Pastor Errol Stoddart.
13:54 I want to tell you all about one of the most amazing moments
13:58 I've ever had in my life.
14:00 I spent two hours riding in a car
14:03 from London, England to Oxford
14:06 with a gentleman by the name of Dr. John Stott.
14:10 And if you've never heard that name,
14:11 he's one of the great preachers and theologians of our time.
14:14 As a matter of fact, he used to be the chaplain
14:18 to the Queen of England
14:20 from 1959 to 1992,
14:26 that's quite a long run
14:28 to be the chaplain of the Queen of England.
14:30 Well, before he died, he preached his last sermon.
14:36 And he said, "After all my teaching,
14:39 after all my writing, all the books I've published,
14:42 I leave you with one recommendation,
14:44 one thing I must recommend to you," he said,
14:47 "It's Christ-likeness."
14:50 And then he said these words,
14:52 "Christ-likeness is the will of God
14:56 for the people of God."
14:58 And so I want to start off by asking you, Pastor Stoddart,
15:03 when we pursue Christ-likeness, we're pursuing perfection.
15:07 But let me ask you,
15:09 how important do you think it is for the church of God
15:14 to begin to focus on Christ-likeness
15:19 as the will of God for the people of God?
15:24 I think, it's very, very important.
15:26 I think it's absolutely important.
15:28 One of the popular terms
15:31 we hear today is the term secular Christianity
15:34 which is an oxymoron.
15:36 Is Christianity that's trying to be as...
15:41 Have as least of Christ as possible,
15:43 or the act as on Christ-like as possible
15:47 while still being called a Christian.
15:49 It's the minimalist mindset of Christianity,
15:53 Christianity at the bare minimum.
15:56 And what God is calling us to do,
15:58 is Christianity that's absolute surrender.
16:01 The song says all to Jesus I surrender.
16:05 My fear is that there are so many Christians
16:07 who are singing some to Jesus, I surrender, I surrender some.
16:13 And there's no such thing as some, it's all or nothing.
16:16 Yes.
16:17 Ruthie, how important is Christ-likeness
16:19 to the people of God.
16:22 And we have not always had that as our primary focus.
16:28 Do you think it's important to reclaim Christ-likeness
16:32 as the focus for God's people?
16:35 Well, absolutely.
16:37 And I think it was important to Christ
16:39 because He taught His followers to abide in Him.
16:44 He said, "If you want to be like me,
16:47 abide in the vine,
16:49 because you have no life without that."
16:52 So He drew from nature, He showed in different ways,
16:57 stories and parables,
16:59 that the whole thing boils down to being like Christ,
17:02 and abiding in the vine,
17:04 taking that life from the vine out to the branches,
17:08 and then being useful and bearing fruit.
17:10 Yes.
17:11 I don't think the church can bear fruit
17:13 without the Christ-likeness.
17:14 Yes, go ahead, Adly.
17:17 Yes, I'm thinking the moment
17:20 before Jesus' ascension to heaven,
17:23 as He gave us the mission, and in His mission,
17:27 He said that we were to preach by testimony...
17:31 Yeah.
17:33 In order to take His gospel to all the earth.
17:37 So it is absolutely important
17:42 that we take that seriously,
17:45 and talk about it, and begin to live
17:49 exactly like He wants us to live
17:51 in order to be that testimony
17:53 and preach not only by His word but most of all,
17:56 by the way we live,
17:58 the way we represent Christ on this earth.
18:01 I'm wondering, what are some of the things you think
18:06 the church has often placed ahead of Christ-likeness.
18:12 What are some of the priorities that our organizations,
18:16 and what are some of the efforts
18:19 you think we have put?
18:20 I'm trying to be diplomatic and nice
18:22 but maybe you don't have to be,
18:24 but what are some of the things,
18:26 Pastor Stoddart, do you think the churches...
18:29 And you notice, I went to you first which is great,
18:31 which is great.
18:33 What are some of the things
18:34 that we often put ahead of Christ-likeness?
18:40 Well, you know, the unique thing
18:42 about being a Seventh-day Adventist
18:44 is that we are doctrinally heavy.
18:47 We are heavy on doctrine
18:49 because our doctrines are the unique features
18:53 that separate us,
18:55 that set us apart from everybody else.
18:57 Yes.
18:59 And the challenge is that
19:02 while it is important to emphasize doctrine,
19:05 many times, we emphasize doctrine
19:08 at the expense of transformation
19:12 into the character of Christ.
19:14 Yes.
19:15 And that is something that is important for us
19:19 to ensure that we're making that shift back
19:22 to keeping the main thing the main thing.
19:25 It is the character of Christ first,
19:27 it is godliness first,
19:30 it is receiving Him and reflecting Him first,
19:34 and then the rest of it coming at the secondary level.
19:37 Beautiful.
19:39 Ruthie, you know, go ahead, you're going to say something.
19:43 What were you going to ask me?
19:44 Yeah, I was just going to say that,
19:46 I was just introducing and following on what he said.
19:51 The idea that the servant of God says
19:54 that the last message that will be given to the world
19:59 is the message about Christ character
20:04 and the loving character of God.
20:05 Now we don't often teach that.
20:09 We think it's another message, maybe it's a prophetic message.
20:13 And sometimes, I tell people,
20:17 "What does it matter
20:18 if you know the details of prophecy
20:21 but in your character, you're not prepared
20:24 for the fulfillment of prophecy?
20:26 So as important as prophecy is,
20:31 it has to take a backseat to us resembling,
20:36 reflecting, and revealing the character of Christ.
20:39 Because sadly, there are going to be a lot of people
20:43 when the Lord comes who know a lot about prophecy
20:46 who don't look like him in character.
20:49 But, Ruthie, what were you going to share?
20:52 Well, I was just going to say, He has already told us
20:56 what His response is going to be.
20:58 He'll say, "I don't know you." Yes.
21:01 And I think, in our churches today,
21:04 the temptation is, we need more programs,
21:08 we need more sophisticated technology,
21:12 we need more funds, we need our resources,
21:16 when really what we need is Christ.
21:19 Yeah.
21:20 We need prayer,
21:22 we need to be on our faces before Him
21:24 realizing that we have power only in one place.
21:27 We cannot do this.
21:30 Who are we trying to kid, we need God.
21:31 Absolutely, you know, I was going to say, Ruthie,
21:33 that we always say and you hear it all over,
21:39 we need Jesus, we need Christ.
21:43 And I hear that a lot in our churches,
21:45 but we don't break that down to really interpret
21:49 what that means and what it really means
21:51 is we need people
21:53 who reflect Christ as Pastor Stoddart said,
21:56 we need people who resemble Him.
21:59 Yes, we need Christ, but Christ has to be seen in us.
22:05 Sister Campos?
22:07 In controlling...
22:08 Go ahead, Ruthie.
22:11 I was just going to say,
22:12 I've heard you say more than once,
22:14 I bury a lot of mean people.
22:17 Yes.
22:18 And I don't think you would have to do that
22:22 if these people knew the Lord, were walking in the light,
22:26 and were sharing His love.
22:29 I think people would be really missing them
22:33 and realizing that here we lost someone
22:36 who loved Christ, and Christ was in control.
22:40 Sister Campos, you had a thought on that
22:43 you can share?
22:45 Yes, I agree with Ruthie
22:47 that we are concentrating too much on entertainment.
22:53 Wow.
22:54 The type of worship service that everybody wants
22:57 and trying to please every one else
22:59 rather than to think
23:01 what pleases our God in our worship service.
23:05 In my person, as I worship Him,
23:08 as I try to imitate Him instead of imitating the world
23:13 and bringing the world into our church.
23:17 You know, one of the things that Lord showed me
23:19 was that the most fiery, red hot,
23:24 blistering sermon Jesus ever preached
23:27 was not to confirmed sinners
23:30 but to the most devout religious people of His day,
23:35 the Pharisees.
23:36 He called them, you know,
23:38 graves full of dead men's bones.
23:40 And I was wondering why was Jesus so hard on them
23:44 because they were actually the evangelist of their day.
23:47 A lot of people don't know that,
23:48 that was the role of the Pharisees.
23:51 The role of the Pharisees
23:52 was to study scriptures with people,
23:55 baptize them by immersion, the Pharisees,
23:58 and when you came up out of the water,
23:59 you are a new Jew.
24:01 And Jesus said of them,
24:03 "You go to the ends of the earth
24:05 to make these new members to these new proselytes,
24:09 but when you're through with them,
24:11 they're twice the child of hell that you are."
24:14 Those were the words of Jesus. Yeah.
24:16 But what Lord showed me, what Jesus was saying is,
24:20 "When you're through with them,
24:22 they look more like you than they look like me."
24:27 Wow, yeah.
24:28 And that is what God is looking for.
24:32 When He looks at us, He's looking for people
24:35 who look like His son.
24:36 And that's what Jesus is looking for.
24:38 Amen.
24:39 And what else...
24:41 Go ahead, go ahead.
24:42 Here is a challenge, Wintley,
24:43 I think as a pastor and I'm on ground zero.
24:48 Yes.
24:49 I have about a 1,000 members in my church,
24:52 and you get the spectrum of people,
24:55 the good, the bad, and the ugly.
24:56 Yes.
24:58 The challenge is that, a lot of times,
25:02 because of our doctrinal emphasis,
25:04 because of our theological emphasis
25:07 as opposed to a transformational emphasis,
25:10 people believe that conversion is about knowledge,
25:14 how much information I have,
25:15 because I have a certain amount of information.
25:17 It automatically suggest that I'm converted
25:20 when really conversion, and following Jesus,
25:25 and being the disciple of Christ,
25:27 and reflecting His character is going to involve number one,
25:31 speaking His word.
25:33 Yes. We have just 10 seconds, yes.
25:35 Number two, acting like Him.
25:36 Speaking, acting.
25:37 And number three,
25:39 treating people the way He would treat them.
25:41 Absolutely, absolutely. Thank you so much.
25:43 You've been such a blessing today.
25:46 Thank you for being with us.
25:52 God the Father is our true standard of perfection.
25:57 God alone is our standard of perfection.
26:02 He is our pattern, our model,
26:06 the yardstick by which we measure true perfection.
26:12 All perfection is found only in Him.
26:17 Our Father is perfect,
26:20 and there is no real perfection apart from Him.
26:26 The only true perfection we have
26:28 comes from the Father and through His son, Jesus.
26:35 Too many see this word perfection
26:37 as incompatible with God's grace and mercy,
26:40 and we fail to see that that word perfection
26:45 is precisely why God gave us grace and mercy.
26:50 So that the perfection heaven demands
26:54 and the perfection we do not now possess
26:58 may be miraculously aligned and reconciled.
27:04 Today, the pendulum has swung to the other extreme.
27:06 Many believe, "Because Jesus paid it all,
27:10 we are not required to do anything at all.
27:16 And because our mistakes are covered,
27:17 we don't have to stress ourselves
27:20 about repeating the same mistakes
27:25 regularly or even frequently."
27:27 But I believe as we surrender to Christ,
27:31 He gives us His perfection.
27:35 I'm Wintley Phipps.
27:37 I hope you've enjoyed this program today,
27:40 and remember, to be a Christian
27:44 means to be Christ-like all day,
27:50 every day, no excuses.


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